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 Romance › Re: My Best Friend Is My Worst Enemy, He Got My Girlfriend Pregnant. by TMTR: 3:59pm On Oct 31, 2021 |
That's no friend, he is a fúcking snake, cut all ties with him. As for your girlfriend, dump her ass getting dizzy from alcohol is not excuse for sleeping with your friend, it's like she and your friend has been doing it for some time and she is hiding under the pretence of being drunk, that's why she did it. Don't be sad, be thankful that you discovered their true colors before you went further with them |
| Christianity Etc › Re: Finally I'm Free from religion by TMTR: 3:34pm On Oct 31, 2021 |
There is this sense of freedom that comes when you free yourself from the shackles of organized religion, you live your life the way you want and not according to the dictates of some hypocritical fellows , you get to see the world differently and see how you have wasted precious time practicing religion. Truth is there are principle that governs this our world, learn them and put them into practice and you will live a happy and successful life. And as they say successful is relative, what is success for me may not be your own success, know your own success and work to achieve it. I wish you the best Ever wondered that the same people that brought this religion to us are the same people that enslaved our forefathers  Well thinking about the whole thing was how I broke free from religion and I am glad I did 2 Likes |
| Romance › Re: DATING: I'm On Three Months Trial by TMTR: 2:54pm On Oct 31, 2021 |
MrLobe:what is good for the goose is good for the gander   Just wait till her own probation finishes , hit it a couple of times, then start your probation, watch her reaction, then decide if you want to continue with her or not |
| Romance › Re: DATING: I'm On Three Months Trial by TMTR: 2:49pm On Oct 31, 2021 |
MrLobe:Why didn't you also give her your own probation of not spending and see if she will stay |
| Romance › Re: Why Is 18 The Age Of Consent? by TMTR: 12:08pm On Oct 31, 2021 |
juggernaut35:what age do you think would be more appropriate nigga |
| Romance › Re: DATING: I'm On Three Months Trial by TMTR: 12:01pm On Oct 31, 2021 |
One question before I comment further, have you been spending on her during this so called "3 months probation" 2 Likes |
| Romance › Karma Doesn't Exist by TMTR(op): 11:54am On Oct 31, 2021 |
The earlier y'all realize this fact , the better for you, look there's nothing like karma , it's just a bullshit theory created to keep y'all in check just like organized religion... 3 Likes |
| Romance › Re: Was I Wrong In Giving Her This Condition Before Dating Her by TMTR(op): 11:14am On Oct 31, 2021 |
Iyaebe:Na today I don dey hear this one Dey there make pant dey wear you, don't get yourself enlightened, be there 2 Likes |
| Romance › Re: Was I Wrong In Giving Her This Condition Before Dating Her by TMTR(op): 10:52am On Oct 31, 2021*. Modified: 11:17am On Oct 31, 2021 |
WickedPisa:Yeah maybe you have no reputation to protect that's why you call me fool for trying to deal with someone tarnishing my reputation Law 5 of 48 laws of power states: So much depends on reputation—guard it with your life 7 Likes |
| Romance › Re: Was I Wrong In Giving Her This Condition Before Dating Her by TMTR(op): 10:41am On Oct 31, 2021 |
June15:If you can't read it , swerve No dey send me message  |
| Romance › Re: Was I Wrong In Giving Her This Condition Before Dating Her by TMTR(op): 10:40am On Oct 31, 2021 |
Bigredmachine:No be lie, e really long oo  ,I no even know say e long reach like that until I post am |
| Romance › Was I Wrong In Giving Her This Condition Before Dating Her by TMTR(op): 10:34am On Oct 31, 2021*. Modified: 3:50pm On Oct 31, 2021 |
One of my new year resolutions this year was never to touch any girl until she go through a thorough STDS test, I came to this drastic decision after I read a story about a guy who got Infected with HIV even after using a condom How you may ask, Well he may have used a condom but according to the story , the pussy juice while he was banging her splash on him and he had just recently shaved with some razor cut here and there. Oh mehn reading that story sent shivers down my spine, you mean that nigga got HIV even after using a condom , oh damn. This lead to my drastic action of thoroughly testing any girl I intend to have sexual relations with before diving in. The first girl I made this preposition to was cool with it, note that I will also be thoroughly tested for STDS so it's not a one sided thing, we have known eachother for quite some time so convincing her wasn't that difficult. We booked an appointment to get tested at the hospital, our blood samples was collected and in a couple of days the results were out ,we both went together to collect the results , after checking it out ourselves ,we both exchange our results and was relieved that she was clean . We had a great relationship after but she travelled abroad to further her studies, begged her not to go Damn no girl should be giving a nigga an ultimatum, I called her bluff and I didn't bulge to her request ,two days to her departure she called me and started crying and said all manner of things, that after she gave me her all ,I still don't consider her good enough for marriage , well I told that the problem is not with her but me, I don't just fancy marriage I told her , after a long back and forth with her, she said that I should at least accompany her to the airport , I promised but got tied up with something that day , checked my phone ,saw so many missed calls from her , rushed to her house and was told by the gate man that she already left for the airport, oh shit , I don't want me and this girl to separate on bad terms as her father is a former L.G.A chairman and a current house of reps in the state I reside in, never can tell maybe I might need a political favour in the future and me and her not being on talking terms will spoil everything, mehn I speed off like I was one of those characters in fast and furious , rushed to the airport, luckily for me I met her waiting for her flight to start boarding, she rushed towards me and hugged me, gave me a kiss in the full glare of everyone, mehn this girl really loves me if not for my phobia of marriage,I would have married her but that's a story for another, greeted her family who were waiting for her to board her flight and wave her goodbye, made her understand the problem about me not marrying her is not her, told her she is free to start a new relationship in her new environment, she has no obligation to wait for me ,Omo come see another round of cry ooo, tried to calm her down ,say babe your family dey here ,no come dey make me feel like say I be bad person ooo, her family noticed and asked what happened, I said she is missing me already, and they were like awwww, how romantic, they start consoling her and said don't worry , it's just for a while. I now asked her why are you crying, she said why will I say that she is free to start another relationship, which means I don't love her, I just weak, mehn she almost ended up not traveling that day, how I managed to convince her to still travel that day sef nawa , started another relationship, told her my terms before we get intimate which is getting tested ,she didn't object and was even happy that it will also give peace of mind as she wouldn't want to catch all those STDS flying around these days, our relationship was great until she too travelled out to further her studies ,I was like , why are all these ladies I have a relationship with always travel abroad na, na only me Waka come Told my niggas , they advised maybe I should change the type of ladies I go out with , cause I am too attracted to brains , is it my fault that I like girls that are book smart and I am a sucker for girls with brain, how can I be discussing the economic and political situation of Nigeria or about the current climate change or about crypto and the global financial markets and her only her only contribution to the conversation would be , yeah, nawaooo , nothing turns me off more than that shit, I just trashed their advice but I went home and thought about it and said maybe they are right after all, maybe my standards are too high that's why I always meet ladies that are too busy, always traveling for one reason or the other, told one of my trusted niggas to link me up with one , since he is the one that gave me the advice and others agreed with him, but I told him,she better not be a girl that he has bleeped before because I know that my nigga, na baba for the girls, I dey learn for where him dey when it comes to girls matter, he just laughed and said my guy relax now,na my girl close friend , na my girl tell me say she dey single , I said oya now .But I thought to myself and said guy na u wan dey do all this link matter , I thought you don't roll like that, well said well there is a first time for everything, me and her got introduced and I took it up from there, few weeks later she came to my crib but nothing happened, she came again, nothing still happened the third time , the girl provoke ( later dem go say na men like sex pass whereas the reverse is the case) and said what's going on ,why haven't I even kissed her not to talk of touching her, I explained my stand to her that before we get intimate,we will both must conduct a series of STDS test ,she frowned and said what's the meaning of that , don't I trust her and all that shit , and I said it's not a matter of trust, that even me will also undergo the test, then she agreed but two days to our hospital appointment for the test ,she stopped picking my calls, a week later after the appointment, I tried calling her again,she said she is not comfortable with everything and even called off the relationship, I said to myself well it's her loss , came back yesterday after a long day out ,met my cousin watching the trending squid game but I don't do stuffs that are trending I don't know maybe after the stufffs most have trended that's when I will start taking interest in it Asked her about my daughter, she said she is already sleeping in her room cause she waited for me but she sleeped off on the couch because I really arrived home late before she took her to her bedroom, went to her bedroom,saw her sleeping like a baby sat on bedside, then a message entered my phone from one of my guys which reads, "guy u don turn gay" As I was trying to process why this my nigga would send me such a message another one came in from on of my gees, which reads guy since when you turn impotent as I was trying to reply that one another came in; tell me it's not true that you are a ritualist, all from my three trusted niggas,I quickly created a WhatsApp group chat with the three of them and asked them where they heard all those nonsense from they said it's the new girl I was going out with, I quickly made a group call with them and explained myself to them and was pissed that they could even give listening ears to such nonsense, well they said that it's not their fault because my lifestyle is kinda weird First,I don't go to church, secondly I adopted a daughter instead of just having a baby mama and why will I be giving a girl such a condition before dating her, the nigga that said all these, I have been suspecting him of being a snake , this whole situation just confirmed my suspicion well I will just change how I will be relating with him from now on and to think this is the same guy that introduced me to that bitch that's spreading the rumors about me . I cut the call and called a friend of my dad, this man has a strong police connection and I don't know how, will learn from him one day though, it was really late yesterday when I called , first of all I apologized for calling that late and told him to give me a contact in the state CID to call, that I want to arrest someone, he asked me what happened, I was reluctant to tell and he said he will not give me any police contact until I tell him what happened, I had no choice but to tell him, he laughed really hard and I was like By this time, I was already sleepy, didn't know the time I slept off in my daughter's room Woke up this morning and I was like hmmm , I deserve a vacation ,I have been working too hard this days ,a one week vacation won't be a bad idea , would have made it two if my daughter was on school holidays,. But I really deserve to rest my head before e catch fire because so many things on my mind ,On a second thought was I really wrong in my condition of getting tested for STDS before getting intimate 4 Likes |
| Romance › Re: The Craze Around White Weddings by TMTR(op): 3:19pm On Sep 16, 2021 |
JimmyDarmody:That's the problem of nowadays Christians BTW, the so called church wedding is not even biblical, that is to say that the christianity Africans practice is the adulterated version because most Africans don't read their bibles to begin with. |
| Romance › Re: I Spent 3millionaira In A Night Club (my Yahoo Story) by TMTR: 2:29pm On Sep 16, 2021 |
Enigma1510:The email on your signature, do you still have access to it |
| Romance › Re: The Craze Around White Weddings by TMTR(op): 2:19pm On Sep 16, 2021*. Modified: 3:09pm On Sep 16, 2021 |
NaijirianKing:Which nonsense formality, do you see the whites doing our own African traditional wedding as formality , then why then do we now do their own traditional wedding as a formality or don't you know that white wedding is the west's traditional wedding |
| Romance › Re: The Craze Around White Weddings by TMTR(op): 1:38pm On Sep 16, 2021 |
Sonnobax15:we were not the only ones colonized ooo, the Indians and Chinese (to some extent) was also colonized but that did not make them to look down on their culture the way Africans do Mehn it's so pathetic |
| Romance › Re: Why Do Men Don't Fancy Celebrating Birthday Like Women?? by TMTR: 1:11pm On Sep 16, 2021 |
Vinnie2000:Lol , go through my profile and tell me if I am a JW.. FYI, I don't do religion |
| Romance › The Craze Around White Weddings by TMTR(op): 1:09pm On Sep 16, 2021*. Modified: 5:43am On Sep 17, 2021 |
When I say that the black people, I mean Africans were thoroughly and absolutely colonised by the west , people tend to downlplay the whole thing..... Now tell me how can you explain that people do their wedding according to the traditions and customs of our land and forefathers but they don't feel married or live as husband and wife till they do the white wedding, mehn it's ridiculous and absurd.. I read a story about a girl who got married traditionally but the white wedding was in few weeks time and the girl refused her husband from touching her till the white wedding is done which I see as foolishness on the part of the girl, the poor man tried all he could to touch the woman he paid her bride prize and married traditionally but he met a brick wall in all his attempts till one early morning that he tried again and he almost succeeded , he was about penetrating her when she kicked his balls so hard that he screamed very loud which attracted his family members around and neighbors. Well that was the end of the marriage and what was her reason for not allowing her husband to touch her her foolish reason was " we have not done white wedding" can you imagineNow let me ask you all a question, have you ever seen the whites doing our own African traditional wedding after doing their white wedding ,then why is that Africans don't feel married till they do white weddings which is also the traditional wedding of the whites, oh damn.Africans were not the only ones colonized but it seems that we were not only colonized, we were also brainwashed into thinking that our customs, culture and traditions were evil while theirs was good. For goodness sake , the Chinese(not formally though), Indians were also colonized but that did not make them abadon their culture in anyway, they still practice and take pride in their culture.They don't do white weddings after their traditional weddings is done. Then what is now wrong with Africans , is it the centuries that the blacks were subjected to slavery that is the reason, Mehn blacks were thoroughly colonized mentally, psychologically, physically (as evident in the way we dress and want to look like the whites) ,in fact the blacks were totally colonized 100% and it will take a long time for that to change. Africans, take pride in your culture, in your hair (stop using all those chemicals to distroy it to make it curl like the whites) in your dresses and everything. Go to the British museum and some part of West , you will see African artifacts that was looted during the colonial era making millions for them, what does that tell you?? Finally, once you are traditionally married according to our customs and traditions , you are officially married, please don't wait or feel till white wedding, you can't leave as husband and wife. And for those that want to travel abroad or for other official purpose , you can add court weddings to it only for official purpose but once you are traditionally married, you are married... And to also add , my elder sister only did a traditional wedding, no white weddings and all those bullshit , now she is now happily married with no issues whatsoever so I don't know the fuss about white weddings... Africans please take pride in your customs and traditions, it's your only identity, how I wish you all know how important that is ....... 1 Like |
| Romance › Re: Why Do Men Don't Fancy Celebrating Birthday Like Women?? by TMTR: 12:18pm On Sep 16, 2021 |
Because there is nothing really special about birthdays , even the Bible says that the end of a thing is better than the beginning that's why the death of Jesus was well detailed than when he was born Go figure 4 Likes 1 Share |
| Car Talk › Re: Delta Man's New Car Involved In Ghastly Accident Before It was Delivered To Him by TMTR: 2:30pm On Sep 13, 2021 |
Y'all need to listen to silence by pop caan, it will do y'all alot of good |
| Romance › Re: My Girlfriend Cheated And She Told Me, How Do I React? by TMTR: 8:04am On Sep 13, 2021 |
Illumined9933:You should be worried that she out there sharing her cookies, ain't you scared of STDs my man BTW, I don't share my toys 21 Likes |
| Romance › Re: My Girlfriend Cheated And She Told Me, How Do I React? by TMTR: 7:58am On Sep 13, 2021 |
No1 rule to all my niggas out there, never accept a cheating woman back, once she cheats , show her out the door 40 Likes 4 Shares |
| Sports › Re: Mourinho Takes Charge Of His 1,000th Game As Coach As Roman Faces Sassuolo by TMTR: 5:50am On Sep 12, 2021 |
englishmart:of course we know why, Based on alabi parole 9 Likes 1 Share |
| Sports › Re: Mourinho Takes Charge Of His 1,000th Game As Coach As Roman Faces Sassuolo by TMTR: 5:44am On Sep 12, 2021 |
1000 games as a manager is not an easy feat. Next is 2000 games as a manager but he should change that his pack the box tactics, e no dey work again 1 Like |
| Health › Re: Jubilee Syringe To Start Exportation To Germany by TMTR: 5:37am On Sep 12, 2021 |
Ub8956:A butterfly that thinks itself a bird, that's what you are...... Where your knowledge end na there my own start |
| Foreign Affairs › Re: Pakistan Airlines To Restart Commercial Flights To Kabul On September 13 by TMTR: 5:33am On Sep 12, 2021 |
One terrorist country in solidarity with another terrorist country.. Nothing new here. 56 Likes 4 Shares |
| Travel › Re: If You Could Live Anywhere, Where Would It Be? by TMTR: 11:05am On Sep 11, 2021 |
New York, I love everything about that city 13 Likes |
| Education › Re: You’re Insincere, Deceptive, ASUU Tells FG by TMTR: 7:35am On Sep 11, 2021 |
Lol, you expect people that all their kids school abroad to give a fúck about y'all, you must be joking, until a law is made that every public officials kids must school in Nigeria and also all elected officials must use Nigerian hospital, I don't see those sectors getting any better. 3 Likes |
| Crime › Re: Three Kidnapped Obasanjo Workers Regain Freedom In Ogun by TMTR: 7:31am On Sep 11, 2021 |
The way kidnapping is becoming rampant this days ,I don't just understand. |
| Health › Re: Jubilee Syringe To Start Exportation To Germany by TMTR: 7:26am On Sep 11, 2021 |
The bar is so low for Nigeria that they are now celebrating exportation of syringe , the other day it was pencils, mehn Nigeria don suffer. Sometimes I think we gained independence too early 68 Likes 3 Shares |
| Family › Re: My Experience Adopting A Child In Nigeria As A Young Guy by TMTR(op): 7:11am On Sep 11, 2021 |
AutoChick4U:I wouldn't call her a maid but she is distant relative that I am helping with her schooling, she is in the university, she does all the grooming apart from her hair, I take her to the saloon for that 1 Like |
| Family › Re: My Experience Adopting A Child In Nigeria As A Young Guy by TMTR(op): 7:06am On Sep 11, 2021 |
greenie77:okay,let me just outline the process involved to the best of my knowledge because my lawyer practically handled everything and I was just being updated on the progress of everything because of my busy schedule. First you write to the state ministry, ministry of women affairs and social development to be pricise accompanied with relevant documents like ID, A medical Certificate of fitness from a government hospital, Evidence of means you will use to take of the child be it business or gainful employment, passport photographs, if the ministry deems your application fit , they will then forward to the courts for processing , the courts will no now decide if to do an open Court hearing or in the chambers. After that, the court will assign an Officer to inspect the applicants which includes home visits and even visits to your workplace and business to ascertain if all your documents are true and if you are capable of taking care of the child. The officer then reports then back to the court about his findings, if his report is positive, the child will now be given to you on probation for three months or more but mine was three months to see how well you will do with the child, only if you pass the probation will your adoption application be granted. Mind you , the court still reserves the rights to revoke your adoption until the child turns 18 if they one day pay you an unexpected visit and found out that you maltreat the child or something like that. So always make you are treating the child right. And to your question , yes she did appear in court 3 Likes |
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