₦airaland Forum

greenie77:
For those asking him how they too can go about it, I was expecting him to give details on how to identify a registered orphanage, choosing a child, making an application, how he was interviewed, how social workers visited his home both expected and unexpectedly, how many times the toddler was presented before the magistrate to push the case for adoption etc.......If going through the legal route of adopting a child in Nigeria is a smooth ride, couples will not be patronizing baby factories.

Alldew:
I'm sorry but this your baby girl adoption thing didn't go down well with me.

AutoChick4U:
I just hope its not baby factory cos Nigeria that I know would hardly give out a single male in his 20s a female toddler to raise.

Baby factory will deliver a child , feed and take of the child till she is three years plus Come on no baby factory will do that cause they sell the child almost immediately the child is delivered

Make Una dey reason things before Una dey talk am

PacAmaru:
abi bro
How's ur baby girl doing?

she is doing great my nigga
Thanks for asking

WUdec:
Good to hear. Daddies like us love stories like these.

Keep us posted. Never mind the childish morons in here that make the majority

Limassol:
Chilax lady! Did you notice in another thread where this guy is boasting he earns in $$? His ways are dubius. Let him come clean else no one will take him seriously. Not even in the US young people adopt kids(op was 25 when he made the move), it's odd and questionable. Do you even know the cost of succesfully raising a child and giving that child a memorable childhood? Even people in rich people countries think twice about this before making the move. Think about this. Being gullibe leads to regrets!

I wish y'all can see how I am laughing real hard over here because of this comment.

So because I earn in dollars ,then I must be dubious. Mehn come on and I don't what you are yapping about me coming clean , come clean about what exactly

And don't worry about my financial capabilities of raising her cause that's the least of my worries

Nikkganc08:
Assuming u get 1$ and was paid 540naira instead of 185 that was obtainable in 2011,


You'll still spend it on those things that u spent the on in 2011.



For instance in 2011, let's say that with 185 naira ( 1$ ), u bought:

1 litre of Kerosene @ 65naira, and 12 cups of rice @120naira



In 2021 , ur 540 naira will still buy :

1litre of kerosene @260 .

But sadly, the remaining 280 can't get u up to 12 cups of garri agian.



So...

Stop rejoicing cos u earn in dollars.

I also earn in dollars .



Once dollar goes up, prices of everything goes up.

Kobojunkie:
1. Marriage is not for everyone, even God said this.

2. What is so special about having your own kids?

3. There are children out here already in need of the same exact love and attention you intend to give your own kids. Why not give to these one's already here instead? Are they nor worth it?

SaintUlot:
That's one of the serious problems facing this country, self-centeredness. You earn in dollars, good, what about having empathy for a lot of other poor Nigerians who doesn't have the privilege to earn in USD to cushion the effect of inflation.Self-centeredness is what brought Nigeria to its current situation.

Doctors are on strike, the privileged ones/politicians ll say:i can travel out with my families to get treated abroad. ASUU is on strike, they will say: i don't give a damn, all my children are studying abroad. Insecurity is on the rise, they will say: I will jakpa, others can die, i don't care.

Am not attacking you, i am just saying this generally, so that Nigerians can embrace empathy and selflessness. We should do away with that mentality of so far i and my family are okay, others can go to hell.

FarmTech:
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This isn't a good idea oo. Sinners can't differentiate many rights from wrong. It takes maturity in Christ to do that. Eg many sinners sees nothing wrong with immodesty, seductive behaviors, dirty songs, jokes and movies etc. Argue with them all u like, they don't see these as wrong.
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That girl will soon grow and controlling her will become difficult or impossible. No matter how much she loves u, she won't listen to ur advice and warnings. And she will dabble into sex.
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Look around and see all the bad influence in the society today. U need Christ to train her the right way.
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Hebrews 5:14: But solid food is for the mature, who by constant use have trained themselves to distinguish good from evil.

Immorttal:
kudos to you, we adopt dogs and give them the best life too. Maybe time to adopt a puppy for your little girl.

WUdec:
Sweetest post i've seen this week. Do keep us informed.

Has she started school yet? And how is she in class?

hustla:
Smh

Typical black man, knows about himself only even when the enjoyment he thinks is enjoying will come back to bite him

The rise in dollar will make life harder for the common man, crime will rise as a result of spike in prices of food

Abeg explain give thief wey come your house because hunger don kill am say u dey earn in dollar

GeneralPula:
Somebody told the OP to post some pictures even if it involves blurring the face, OP ignored..

Believe this fake abduction at your own peril..

Lol, you go wait for pictures tire.I ain't uploading shit

I might change my mind later but for now , nah
Respect her privacy

anastasius:
Kudos but
why not a guy? I am not comfortable with you adopting a female. Make thunder strike you to death if you ever molest her

Limassol:
Spare me those lines bro...... You can live and wallow in self-deceit all you want. Your life,your cross! If your narrative is true which i doubt, then rest assured you will learn your lesson the hard way. They no dey tell man! However, To my fellow young buddies out there. DO NOT TREAD THIS PATH!

If you are pained, you can go hit your head on the wall for all I care. Like you said it's my life and I will live it however I so please, and I don't see it as a cross not when there is money.

And I have noticed something, most people with negative opinions and mindset like you are usually the broke ones, talk about poverty and negativity

The only lesson I will learn is more blessings and the capacity to adopt more so you can cry more

And I am not forcing anyone to follow my path, everyone got their to live so don't fúcking tell me how to live mine

So fûck off

Feggie3:
What is the disadvantage of teaching her to be a Christian?

Drwinz:
I related psychologically with your write up and replies to critics and I adore your ability to imbibe fundamental principles of simplicity of life. God bless you man.

Limassol:
it is not all rosy as you are trying hard to portray here. You story is very odd to say the least - a 25yr old adopting a female child promts lots of questions. Or is this some cock and bull crap?

Feggie3:
Op I want to know. How did your parents swallow this? and your relatives as well?

At first, they weren't so cool with it, they were of the opinion that if I wanted a child, I should get a girl pregnant and all that.

But I told them nah, don't want no baby mama and all their baggages they come along with for now, infact my daughter has already spent few months with me before any of my family members got to know about it so it was too late for them to do anything about it.

And besides they know me say I stubborn and I no dey hear word so they just let me be and accepted her as part of the family , not that they really had a choice anyways

StPete:
You're not mature. Your responses aren't mature. You aren't seeing a clearer picture now until you get to at least 30. This was how Michael Jackson started off till he was first made to cough out some sums and he gave himself brain. It's a cute thing to want a child but I'm not sure you're emotionally ready for the weight that comes with having one

When I get to thirty,I would adopt another one maybe two this time, so save your sermon for those that needs it cause I don't

MufasaLion:
Wow! That was a bold move, man.

Anyways, Lil Baby is always my fave.

folake4u:
@ The last sentence.
Why do you people like focusing on the negative all the time?

StPete:
I am being a realist. Many of the men who slept with their kids (most are usually not their biological kids) didn't find them sexually appealing as toddlers. That a young boy like yourself opted for adoption at a young age doesn't seem the least natural. I presuppose there is more to this case than meets the eye. I however congratulate you on your selfless endeavour

StPete:
It is not only by fvcking, that's why he has the capability to take care of the child. Why not do it to his own blood. I must say that I fear for that child while growing up cos the OP knows she's not his own blood so what if he starts getting sexually attracted to her

Not everyone has a dirty mind like you, I am not a paedophile, she is just a kid and how I will get sexually attracted to someone I see as my daughter and calls me dad.

Being blood related has not stopped stopped some men from being sexually attracted to their relations, so I don't know what you are on about, it's all about mindset and mentality so I can never be sexually attracted to her in any way

And you know what I have noticed in these life, people that are quick to throw accusations like you are usually guilty of what they accuse people of, you need to take a look at the man you see when you look into the mirror not me

Don27tiky:
Not everything you play or joke with. If no be your your dog no let anyone deceive you say e no go do you anything oo. Na so my friend been say make I enter gate do no go bite as I enter dey near door na So dog jump on me. Na punches and kicks make the dog free me and run away. Guess what my friend was angry that I wanted to kill their dog