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Chepy1:
Where do you reside

we gotta talk

I think love is for everyone born of a woman,so except you came from somewhere else then love is for you my bro,your heart probably must have been shattered by some girl in your past and you need an angelic girl to pick your heart up and join the pieces together.
And pls don't force it,the heart is not like our hands or legs that we can voluntarily move around,we can't control its movement and so we can't tell it who to fall in love with or not,you just haven't met that girl yet cos when you meet her your heart will fall like a pack of cards

How are you so sure he/she is a youth?there are agbàlagbá scammers too ooh don't dull

That's why they got swag,especially mr quilox

rosieluv:
u took a stroll to er watsap? really?

habba why have u been ignoring me?

Bro you're not alone on this.dem ladies are not all that way,but truth be told 86.2% of them are that way.always looking for where to put straw and suck.

sashishalom:
i am not married...what gave you the notion that I am??

i saw your post one time about giving married people like u a platform for contesting mrs nairaland

sashishalom:
7ad0514f....I just want to have good friends...

are u really married?

The thing about this is that the ones they sprayed the insecticide for may still be alive and kicking

prettyjo:
benue@tobe4real

ok

prettyjo:
thanks people,didn't do anything again but God took control.

av graduated and will be going for service

where are you serving?

newsphase:
some of them know... Some of them have chosen to forget about that and enjoy life (you only live once they will say)

bros its like you're an olosho activist I've been seeing your posts

newsphase:
There are two things girls will listen to physical or psychological reason.... and someone who is willing to assist....

Girls turn to runs girls so that they can get money to survive... some go into it because they are lazy and looking for free money, so when you are trying to convince this girl to leave her free money and go about every morning killing herself with work, do you think it will just take a 15 minute gist.... if you give her 100k she will still go back because of that laziness (only the ones that do it because of the current economical situation that would withdraw) if you are really interested in promoting girls you go about getting information about employment opportunities and how to empower women...

But am not sure you can do that since you got your own problems and that is why runs girls will never listen to you

Stay Healthy, Stay Wise

oga what are you saying

newsphase:
Why didn't you give her a job or hope about getting a job... why didn't you try to teach her the right process to acquire things ..... Instead you sent into the streets, into the arms of other men...

Aren't you the same with those patronizing them?

they will never listen i have talked to about 2 before,and mind you I'm not ngige i'm tobe i got nothing to do with employment,best way to go about it is when people like you stop patronizing them

some people just do it for the fun of it..i like to flirt online and i'm also very galant offline,got no self esttem issues

ronald4lif:
The bold is very true and apt but it cut across sexes as any lady searching for love online also has immoderate self issues and lack appropriate male attention in the real life. But as for her gender, she's a female, we have spoken on phone before. Unless the phone was passed to a female.

what i want to say is just plain simple....please stop patronizing runs girls and prostitutes because in so doing you are only indulging them,if you can't get kitty kat without paying for it can't you just self-service and use that time and money to do something else that would put a smile on someone's face maybe give a beggar and get blessings,because the more you patronize these people the more they see it as being lucrative and will not stop,the amount of runs girls these days is just shocking.

i had an experience with one bukky yesterday....i met this girl on sunday night when i was having wine with a friend in front of my house she seemed lost cos she was walking and looking around and seemingly talking to somebody on phone so i walked up to her and she said she was looking for a particular number,i told her i didn't know that number but then we talked a little(she was eloquent and spoke very well) and i got her number...i called her to come over yesterday cos i was free and when i saw her i didn't know if it was being tipsy or the dark night that made me not notice her rugged face,but well i couldn't chase her away so i let her in,i asked this girl......."whats your parole?"and i wanted to know if she was in school,learning a trade,working or doing business,she sat up and put a on a serious face like it was a business meeting,and her response was....IS IT SHORT TIME OR...?i just shook my head and asked her what the hell does she mean...she kept quiet,then i asked her how much is this short time you talk of.she immediately said 4k..i said ok oooo that she should go to her house and when i have 4k to throw away i will call her,she said i must give her money for transport.she asked for 1k but i said no no no i will give you 200,she agreed..oya how much do you have in your hand cos the least change i had was 500.she said she came with no money..now this is the part that burst my head...i said to her so you intended to come here to straff and collect money and use out of it for transport home..she said i am rude and she knows that is how ibo guys are they don't have respect and don't know how to talk.i said abeg come out from my house let me lock my door cos i don't know you and can't leave you in my house while i go to look for change and she continued her rants about ibo people

Now the thing is if she has not been patronized in the past she will get herself a job or do something productive,there are companies out there needing cleaners or security,in market people help carry your load or wash your legs and other kinds of menial jobs out there,but these empty barrels will prefer to hop from guy's thingy to thingy for a living.

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Abi you be king?why you dey find work?

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this is a very gruesome scenery

Why are you guys not telling?i want to see if there's any as bad as mine

oodua1stson:
If I tell you mine you'll think I'm shitting you

pls tell

joceey:
Lwkm Guy na you want fat and chubby girl now..you never knw say them get Wahala ni and them use style stubborn oooo I will share my experience next time lol

share now joor

doctorkush:
at an eatery, chic said she feels cold due to the air conditioner.....bla bla bla...... we had to quit the place and started looking for a place without ac... she doesnt want my place and we both left for our various home... very boring date thoo...

lol

Surfboard:
Ah! This one is strong.

I've not had any weird experience sha, largely cause I'm not very adventurous when looking to chase women.

bro no be small thing o,i learnt some lessons from it

Wear a good boxers that holds your thingy firmly

I don't think any guy really gets tired of kitty cat,what they get tired of is the girl herself,she could have a repugnant character

sometime mid last year or there about,i posted on the dating and meet up section that i was needing a fat or chubby girl for friendship,trust nairaland peeps i got a couple of bashings from all corners and it all ended there and later forgot that i even ever posted anything like that.......,surprise surprise i got a call early june this year from a female and she started explaining how she was going through nairaland and saw my post about wanting a fat or chubby girl,i was just surprised and confused cos i was not expecting that and i actually thought i had taken my contact details off.
We hit it off quickly on whatsapp,she said she finished from maddonna in 2012 and now works at etisalat blah blah sent her pics and asked for mine i sent her my pics and she said that couldn't be me that she suspects i could be a 419,i sha cleared her doubts and then we planned to meet in about a week time...,all the while we were chatting before we met i noticed that she was saucy and used the F word alot and somewhat bipolar but i just felt maybe i didn't clear all her doubts completely so i just ignored that...fast forward to the day we finally met she insisted that i be the one to come and track her in her area at a public place i wanted an eatery but she insisted on sunfit(festac area)i said no quams but i was kinda reluctant cos i've not tracked any girl in about a decade i sha left my abode in lere and went to track this girl at sunfit in festac...i got there and chilled for her at the bar,then in about 30 minutes she called me that she was outside and wanted me to come outside and bring her in,,,brethren when i went outside what i saw sent shockwaves down my spine..one mind told me to flee but another mind told me to act like a gentleman and just flex her and be done with her,i obeyed the other voice.
We got in and after about 10 minutes of talking this chic opened her big bag and brought out a big extension with torch lights and about 3 phones to charge,she said they have not had light in months and have been living on generator.., she went to charge her things at the table in front of us cos there was no socket where we were,i noticed that the lady there who was sitting alone on the table there was talking to her and then collected her number,when this girl came back she started complaining that the chic must be a lesbian and that she was toasting her,i just laughed about it and didn't take any of it seriously,i told her that the lady was probably just needing her company.
The way this girl was disturbing me to buy her 1k5 credit and behaving and talking made me look around often to see if there were any cameras around cos i thought i was in some kind of HELL DATE tv show....one man walked in after some time and went to sit with the lady that was sitting alone and soon after they both got up and were leaving then the lady told the girl with me she wanted to see her for a few minutes then they both left,she came back few minutes later and said they wanted a 3 some with her,i asked her if she was going with them she started cussing and she said she can never do anything like that ever again that she did it in her days in maddonna but never again.in a matter of seconds a call came in her phone,shortly she picked her bag and all her things and told me to give her 10mins,i said no quams,brethren i waited there for about an hour watching soccer and it was about 9:30pm at that time,i called her about 3 times she didn't pick i got up paid for the food and drinks and waited outside for another 20minutes and called her again,she picked this time and said "i'll call you back now"and then cut the phone i waited for 10mins and left...
she did not call or anything until about noon the next day,i had not even recovered from the shock of all that happened, she called me almost all day but i ignored her calls and then she sent me this crap......look i was wrong,i offended you but my only interest was in d free room & d benefits,gym,spa,sauna& steam,wen i came downstairs to call you,u weren't dere anymore,am sorry ,i really like you as a friend,u ar intelligent smart and can hold a conversation,i don't want to ruin our frienships,i promise i would make it up to u.Apologies
the calls continued but i'm glad it has stopped now and i blocked her from whatsapp....now share yours

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