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LetMeSpeak:
I met this girl at the orientation camp up north,she's a year older than me but i didn't care.... despite being talkmates,we didn't start a relationship until after camp...


Few weeks into the relationship,this sister started talking about marriage... Saying she wants to settle down before 2021...
Aah!! I told her my stand and how i vowed to not get Married until I'm financially and emotionally ready and that will take a minimum of 5 years... My Sister no gree oh...


we kept dragging the issue until i got fed up,that's after few months.. I told her I'm not interested and can't b pressured so i took a bow and left... Amaka went ballistic ( not like i cared though)

This girl kept coming to my place with the excuse she's here to c my brother(Same CDS with my brother and he is older than me with atleast 10 yrs). I got annoyed and ask her not to come to my house again... She agreed,only for her to come in on Monday with the tale that she was robbed and she's scared of staying at her place.. She has been at my place for days now and don't look like she want to leave...


I want her to leave

she don spoil all my runs for street

How can i send her away without hurting her feelings??

PS: we've not had sex... Nobody used nobody

chenzen:
if he asks you why... tell him you re going through a bad midlife crisis and u re doing some reality check... tell him u get the feeling that u re flirting with him and u cant continue to be with him in that regard... tell him to clearly define it, what does he really want and what are his plans... look him in the face and ask him... I said ask him. he thinks he can actually eat his cake and have it.

listen carefully when he starts talking and if u re not satisfied. JUMP SHIP.... u heard me... I said JUMP SHIP!!!

etcsines:
... a money printing machine, i guess.

TeeGrace77:
Thanks... Any book to read.

TeeGrace77:
I'm having thoughts of suicide every time. This Country screw me up, how can I help myself. I don't want to do it.