₦airaland Forum

Solsix:
For me NO, my mom is a great woman, but there some traits I want in my woman which she don't have.

God bless u bro

MasterofNL:
She will say sex is not food. In the night she will say she is very tired, early in the morning she will say she has prayers or have things to attend to in the house.

Are u guys having financial issues

JOBgame:
Pls i want some answer to my question my mother is against my wish of marrying an igbo woman she is always insisting me marrying from my tribe yorubaPls i want some answer to my question my mother is against my wish of marrying an igbo woman she is always insisting me marrying from my tribe yorubaPls i want some answer to my question my mother is against my wish of marrying an igbo woman she is always insisting me marrying from my tribe yoruba

because Igbo women have high taste. They will cheat on u or even divorce you when u face little challenges. Igbo ladies don't like to suffer. Listen to your mom, she is speaking from experience.

DIE

Hey nairalanders, what do you think? Is this normal? Marriage doesn't appeal to me at all same as having kids, I prefer having dogs even now i have 2 of them and as soon as I get a job and make enough money I plan on getting 3 more making them 5 in number. I know most people, the first thing they want to do as soon as they get a job is to get married and have kids but not me, I'm also not interested in having a girlfriend, though I used to have one back then when I was in the university but we were forced to leave each other being that she had to go back to her country and I had to come back to Nigeria.
After that I got another girl here in Nigeria, but I had to leave her because she was too expensive and she was draining me financially. After that, I just lost interest in relationships and I decided to be single, I decided that even if I feel the need to lay with a woman I can just go to an ashawo hotel or get a steady woman who I can be calling any time I need company. I think this is the lifestyle that suits me especially in this harsh economy, its easier for me. If I get married and have kids imagine all the money I'm going to have to be spending, excess groceries, all kinds of bills, school fees and the list goes on.
At least having a steady woman to call like maybe once a week can't be as expensive as getting married and supporting a wife.
Also having dogs can't be as expensive as raising kids, with dogs all I need to do is to buy their feed, their grooming products and pay for their medical bills and probably training fees too but with kids and a wife imagine all the bills, the lists keep compiling and they never end.
What is your take on this? What do you think?

How old are u? I need to know your age before I reply u

thorpido:
Well your husband does not have a responsibility to send money monthly to your parents.He could but he is not obligated to.
Your husband also does not have an obligation to contribute to your brother's wedding.It is your own obligation as the sister.He could do that however as an inlaw.
I guess the problem with your husband is that your family did not treat him well when he wanted to marry you because of the list he was given.
You both need counsel from wise elders.

your brother wants to get married and u are asking me to contribute? is your family mad? wetin wan cause that one?

who contributed for me when I wanted to marry you

e be like say craze dey worry all of una

newace:
My son has so many brand new clothes but he wears old rag looking clothes,i told her about this too but she argued.This happened some weeks ago.

Involve her parents bro

This thread is dedicated to our beautiful Igbo women.
Please don't bring comparison here, this is an appreciation thread. Appreciate the women and move on. Thanks!
Cc: Twaci Laveda

Marry an Igbo girl at ur own risk

Macro231101:
I have this girl have been dating for more than a year now, she has actually not contributed anything to me or to my life, even kiss she no gree allow me kiss oooo but she loves demanding and me being a generous fool I keep on giving into her demands, it was last month I asked her if she was a virgin she said she doesn't know, can u imagine a girl of more than 20yrs doesn't know if she is a V or not... Please I really need help, I don't know if I should break up with her or continue... Cos I'm tired... I nor even like the girl again self but don't want to hurt her feelings

Guy, give urself brain o. Leave that babe alone

DaddyRochie1642:
Oga It's Like You Don't Like Your Peace Of Mind abi?

Never Depend On Another Human Being As your Source Of Happiness.

Best advice ever

she's cheating on u bros, there are not 2 ways about it. This was the same attitude my ex was putting up until I caught her

Can u imagine these idiots? Who even wants to go to their corona virus infested country? Nonsense

Hello house, what are your opinions or advice for someone who wants to start a money lending business in Nigeria?

Done

HenryThegreat1:
I sent u a mail pls reply me back.

Lol, it's not me bro. I am married with 2 kids. My second child came in 2 weeks ago

Hi guys, there's this friend of mine called Johnson, he is 32 but not married yet. His mom has been Presurizing him to get married and settle down just like his younger siblings, but Johnson feels it's not right for him to settle down in Nigeria now because nothing is working for him here at the moment.

His business has collapsed, and he doesn't want to get married with the little change he has left in his account, because he doesn't want his wife to suffer after they get married, so instead he wants to use the money to travel abroad (Canada Precisely), and see if he can begin a new life there.

P.S : He already has an agent that wants to do the visa for him, and he is not paying the agent a dime until his visa comes out and he confirms it at the airport to be legit.

Pls guys, he needs your advice, because his mom is threatening to do something crazy if he doesn't settle down this year.

Good day guys, I want to further my education abroad, but the Date Of Birth on my WAEC certificate is different from the D.O.B on my international passport. What do I do?