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I'm posting this to say a big Thank You to everyone who took their time to comment on this.

That includes those who advised me to keep it and those who advised me to remove it.

Believe it or not, I wouldn't have believed it if anyone had told me I would ever find myself in this situation. Or that I would have a child before marriage. Or that I would have a child this year.

But it has happened anyway, or rather, is already happening.

I actually planned to keep the child at the time I posted this but I needed some more reasons on why I should keep it and I saw many here.

On Wednesday evening (the same day I posted this), I spoke with my woman and told her I was going to keep it. I reaffirmed my stand on Thursday and again, today, when I visited her and took her for some tests.

So, we will be keeping it.

Lastly, I wanted to delete this profile after posting this but I will let it be so I can post pictures of the baby after birth.

Thanks a lot to you all once again.

joliefille:
This is very interesting, some things aren't adding up.

joliefille:
My conclusion is: If you didn't sleep with her after Jan 3rd the scan is either wrong or baby isn't yours.

I visited a hospital today and spoke with a doctor.

The doctor confirmed she cannot be pregnant since she was not ovulating at the time. And even if she was, it should be 10 and not 6 weeks.

Many things are not adding up: from her menstrual cycle to the so-called pregnancy symptoms that started on January 7, coming to my place on Jan 1 with menstrual pads because she was expecting her menses (on/before Jan 11), the pregnancy and ultrasound scan results she sent to me, etc. Some of the results probably belong to someone else while the rest was probably forged.

And yesterday, she fiercely insisted on an abortion after I made up my mind and told her I did not want one anymore (I had been considering it for some time and she agreed to go with whatever decision I took).

I just got off the phone with her and told her I would take her for a test on Saturday and she fought with me. I was calm with her all through and insisted on the test, so we can get to the root of this once and for all.

I doubt if she's pregnant at all. She probably wants to extort some money from me but we'll find out on Saturday.

Thanks a lot.

zaynie:
Less than 6 weeks

Thank you very much.

DrFunmisticGlow:
it's a possibility, but it is also unlikely.

The reason why i say it's a possibility is the uterine fibroids, it might impede scan results. It's also possible that she got her period wrong. It is usually calculated from when it starts, not when it ends.

Also likely she might have been taking postinor which can mess with the timing of the period. If you slept with her on jan 3, she might have ovulated again which would make the pregnancy yours.

Let her do another scan and come clean about who else she slept with, if she did at all.

Thanks a lot for this.

DrFunmisticGlow:
yes it does. Except for abstinence, every contraceptive has a failure rate, even postinor.

Since you're a doctor, I have a question:

Her period ended on December 18 and I had sex with her on January 3 (I suppose she was ovulating/had jus ovulated few days earlier) but this is the result of the pregnancy test she did on Feb 27 (7 weeks and six days) later:

Early cyesis < 6 weeks co-exist with uterine fibroids

Could I be the father considering the results says the pregnancy is less than six weeks even though I was with her almost eight weeks ago.

Ejaisky:
When was her last period?

She told me December 18.

Parpasawa:
EARLY PREGNANCY WITH A MASS OR FIBROID

And could I be the owner?

We did it on January 3 and she did this test on Feb 27. That is 7 weeks and 6 days apart and yet, the result states less than six weeks.

waistbead:
Oga she's not playing games with you.The very month (Jan) she missed her period is calculated 4weeks which is 1month so go carry your load and happy bumping to you guys..

You do not understand. She did the test on February 27 and we did the do on Jan 3. That is 7 weeks and 6 days. And yet, the test states less than six weeks.

harmargedon:
I ain't no doctor but I guess it means she's 6 weeks pregnant and also has fibroid

I'm thinking so too but I want to be really sure. Any doctor in the house?

Hello people of this thread, I have a problem.

My gf is pregnant and this was what the result says:

Eary cyesis < 6 weeks co-exist with uterine fibroids

What does this mean?

Does it mean the pregnancy is greater or lesser than six weeks?

oke22:
Lmaooo please do a DNA test after baby comes

I want to find out now before I die of high blood pressure.

mommafertile:
It means she's 6 weeks pregnant and has uterine fibroids,
Take the result to her doctor, they will know how to manage her.
Post her result on the pregnant or high risk pregnancy thread. They will be able to answer well.
Good luck.

Thanks I will do just that. It appears that the girl is playing games with me. We did it on Jan 3 and yet, she's showing up six weeks pregnant on Feb 27.

Ibk555:
I think it's 6 weeks, the scan usually states the exact calculation. It also states she has fibroids, please let her go to the hospital to monitor the fibroids well, I have the same issue and the doctors said I have to be monitored closely because fibroids and pregnancy na real work.

Please are you sure about this?

Could I be responsible for the pregnancy? I had sex with her on January 3 and this result is from the 27th of February. That is eight weeks apart.

And from what I know, pregnancy is usually conception date + two weeks. So she should be 10 weeks pregnant if it is mine.

Hello everyone.

My woman went for a pregnancy scan and this was the result: Eary cyesis < 6 weeks co-exist with uterine fibroids

What does this mean?

Does it mean the pregnancy is greater or lesser than six weeks?

Hello everyone.

My woman went for a pregnancy scan and this was the result: Eary cyesis < 6 weeks co-exist with uterine fibroids

What does this mean?

Does it mean the pregnancy is greater than or less than six weeks?

Hello everyone.

I have an issue I need the health experts in the house to help me solve.

My woman went for a pregnancy scan and this was the result: Eary cyesis < 6 weeks co-exist with uterine fibroids

What does this mean?

Does it mean the pregnancy is greater than or less than six weeks?

incogni2o:
Yes please .

That Baby maybe more than a blessing.

May be the one to turn your sorrow to Joy.

Please save your Child.

I can help with Baby things

Thanks for this, particularly the boldened.

I believe I can find my way around this. I'm just concerned if things do not goo my way.

I have an issue bugging me and I need some serious advise because I have been very indecisive so far.

There is a lady I'm seeing. She came to my place a few weeks ago and we had sex, first with condoms and later without condoms.

However, I gave her some money to get postinor when she left for her place the next morning.

That morning, I asked if she got the drug when she called to say she had arrived home and she said "yes".

I called her again that evening to ask if she had taken it and she said "yes".

A few weeks later, she called to say she is pregnant.

As I later found out, at least according to what she said, she took the drug the next day after arriving at her home and not on that day she told me she took it. She gave some flimsy excuse as to why she did it but it does not matter anymore at this point.

At this moment, we are considering removing the baby.

While I have been very indecisive, she has agreed to go with whatever decision I take and has spoken to a doctor who will do it this Friday.

However, I am unsure as of this moment if I want to go on with this because even though I am done with uni, I do not think I have gotten to that point where I can shoulder more responsibilities.

I am self employed and somewhat financially okay but not in a way that I can take care of three people, particularly a baby. I was okay as of 2019 until COVID came and turned my life upside down last year.

And believe me, I was really glad I was not married as of last year because I went through hell. Serious hell. The lockdown finished me.

I am slowly recovering (very slowly) and still trying to figure my way out through life and rebuilding what I lost but I am afraid that having the burden of a woman and baby at this point may derail me.

And I really do not know who to turn to when I am unable to provide for the both of them.

What do you guys think? Do I go on with this or just let the baby be?

Bisshop123:
Abeg no kill dat baby abeg....
As to y she no take d drug wen u told her, I no knw wetin 2 talk...
U just have 2 double ur effort and strive harder to take care of dem
And concerning wat dat guy said above me torr u gas confirm say na ur pikin ooo
And lastly no allow any body drag u enter wetin u no want because of d baby e.g marriage.

Anything I remember I go add
Abeg take heart e no easy oo

Of course, I will confirm if the baby is mine because I really do not understand why she did what she did.

For now, I assume the baby is mine and I want to keep it that way.

Lalasticlala please I need more advise on this. Could you help me move it to the front page?

aaaaabbbbbccccc:
The baby might not be yours. 1 week, lol. Don’t fall for that trap bro

It was not one week. It was a few weeks later. Over a month.

I have an issue bugging me and I need some serious advise because I have been very indecisive so far.

There is a lady I'm seeing. She came to my place a few weeks ago and we had sex, first with condoms and later without condoms.

However, I gave her some money to get postinor when she left for her place the next morning.

That morning, I asked if she got the drug when she called to say she had arrived home and she said "yes".

I called her again that evening to ask if she had taken it and she said "yes".

A few weeks later, she called to say she is pregnant.

As I later found out, at least according to what she said, she took the drug the next day after arriving at her home and not on that day she told me she took it. She gave some flimsy excuse as to why she did it but it does not matter anymore at this point.

At this moment, we are considering removing the baby.

While I have been very indecisive, she has agreed to go with whatever decision I take and has spoken to a doctor who will do it this Friday.

However, I am unsure as of this moment if I want to go on with this because even though I am done with uni, I do not think I have gotten to that point where I can shoulder more responsibilities.

I am self employed and somewhat financially okay but not in a way that I can take care of three people, particularly a baby. I was okay as of 2019 until COVID came and turned my life upside down last year.

And believe me, I was really glad I was not married as of last year because I went through hell. Serious hell. The lockdown finished me.

I am slowly recovering (very slowly) and still trying to figure my way out through life and rebuilding what I lost but I am afraid that having the burden of a woman and baby at this point may derail me.

And I really do not know who to turn to when I am unable to provide for the both of them.

What do you guys think? Do I go on with this or just let the baby be?