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[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=204276.msg3187875#msg3187875 date=1228527165]How do u combine the two?

Female bankers in Naija do 5am till 11pm.
How are these women going to satisfy their husbands or tend to their children's needs??[/quote]Well luckily i dont work in a naija bank
I for one have always said if i shud get married, i will still continue with my career as normal but immediately i become preggo am going part-time [say like 10-3pm]then if i give birth i am taking a break until my child is old enuff to be in full time primary school then i can resume back to to work but still as a part time worker.

I think with that i will have time for my kids and husband but say if my husband is stinkingly rich then i dont have any qualms in staying at home, there are still some businesses I can do by at home cuz i dont want to be bored or unhappy either.

This is no slavery. . . . . .Behind every great man there's a woman in the background.
You've heard the expression a thousand times, and I'm the first to agree with it.

The expression i heard didnt say the woman was in the background, it was behind

Every man reaches greater heights when he has the right woman by his side.
Sure, you can do a lot on your own, but a good support system takes you that much further.
And that support comes first and foremost from your home life.

I agree but that doesnt mean the woman should have a life of her own
This is why u see many women of today living their life through their children by forcing them to become something they had dreamt of becoming but dropped their careers or dreams for marriage.

Every man who seeks power and fortune increases his chances of getting those things by having a great woman by his side.
If you want to be rich and powerful, you have to understand that a great woman is just as important as an MBA.
It's an important business lesson some men never learn

I agree my argument is, u can be a supportive and great wife and still have ur own life or career

Lupe fiasco - superstar

chika98:
I can see people are getting it TWISTED now. Just because we agree that it is a man's world doesn't mean y'all gotta push it

Excatly

Pataki:


You know every na. I for talk more than this, but too many gbegboruns plenty for this particular thread. That said, I still stamp am LIVE!

Heheheheheehe, i agree jare
What are u stamping??
E ma koba mi oo
Since when is it a crime for man and woman to become friends

[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=204276.msg3187805#msg3187805 date=1228525597]@ tope2000,

Don't u think a woman working in an environment where her boobs/phat ass is the  main centre of attraction AND NOT her skills is a virtual LovePeddler??

The company/organisation needs her not because of what she has to offer intellect-wise. . . .They just want her around because men see her and they are attracted to what they see. How is that different to a stripper?
Women are needed in charity organisations, hospitals, schools and even in the religious centres. . . .
She should work there and stop swaying her hips around the office like a $16 tart.[/quote]So wait lemme get this straight . . . . . . . . . .
Would u rather have a wife that doesnt work at all
but stays at home to cook, clean and look after ur kids?
That screams slavery to me, Sorry

Pataki:
@ Topic,

It is not hard since a woman will always want to have her way at all times.

@ Tope2000,

If it is Sauron, I fully stamp am LIVE!

Bro Tosin, don't add petrol to fire abeg
No talk that thing

Your demands are too high, abeg.

No they are not

Women have taken this independent thang the wrong way. . . . .
They go: I am independent, i can do whatever i want. . . . . .I don't have problems with single women saying this. . . .Kudos to em.

However, as soon as a woman utter "I DO", that mentality must change.

I guess when u r married, it isnt just abt u anymore

A wife shouldn't work as a secretary unless her boss is a woman.

Why?

A good wife won't work as a waitress, or anywhere she has to look pretty because men are around.

If u dont trust her around other men why marry her

She'll work in a factory, in a hair salon, in a church, as a teacher or a caterer, etc.

Are u not serious

Life is so simple, a woman shouldn't be a hassle, she shouldn't try to change you her partner's life.

True

She doesn't have to be ma best friend either, her loyalty and her faithfulness is the KEY.

She has to be ur best friend abeg

A man should never doubt her support too; if he does. . . .he should DUMP her.

roll eyes

LadyT:
Tope many married women have bits on the side. Its quite clear Hannibal is your chunk on the side.  don't try and lie the loff is so clear.  You are just weak for his replies.  You take his side while you can pretend you are trying to broker peace but really its the deep burning passion for Sauron that burns you.

Shior we know all the tricks!

Lady Busy Body long time.

LMAO
Are u MAD because he doesnt give triple jack about u anymore
Well . . . . . .please don't take ur anger out on me
Talk to Hannibal about it

[quote author=Busy_body link=topic=204276.msg3187763#msg3187763 date=1228524324]It's his meat and two veg she is after, she loves her food that one


Hi VB Tope2000 https://emoticons4u.com/fingers/fing31.gif see I gat your back today [/quote]Lol . . . . . u know i loff my food

CodeRED:
Jesus son of Mary, did Patience use a broom to apply that eyeshaddow? lol. Keep it up Rita. I can see you have some exposure. It shows in your attire.

Dead . . . . . .

If there is MONEY involved then i will

[quote author=~smurf link=topic=204276.msg3187743#msg3187743 date=1228523714]Don please u going to have to come up wit sumffin better than that, [b] I can feel the chemistry between y'all so hard its making me maself feel all warm and toasty inside, [/b]

Big Sis, abeg hold him tight o, especially now that the weather is sooooooooo cold and harsh [/quote]
Pls dont let m husband see that o
Dont mind sauron n i, we r just messing abt abeg.
pls i am happily hitched


[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=204276.msg3187740#msg3187740 date=1228523501]@ Tope2000,

Your requirements are
I think u might need to go do a sex change to get a man that wuss-ish. [/quote]U think my requirements are High or what

[quote author=~smurf link=topic=204276.msg3187713#msg3187713 date=1228523013] , I'm officially confused!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! and trust me i don't drink so its not me,

Tope u go gurlie, [/quote]Thankz jare baby sis

chika98:
Is anyone king kong'n on this thread??

Lol . . .


For starters, a great woman doesn't have to be Mother Teresa.
I said a great woman, not a saintly woman.
True

A great woman is someone who loves you, supports you, cooks, cleans, loves to have children, and is willing to put up with your character flaws.

U don't have to be a great woman is that in bold abeg

She is intelligent, savvy, warm-hearted, and completely unselfish. She should empower you and make you stronger.
Looks are a bonus. You find a woman like this, get on your knees and propose.

I thought u said you were allergic to ugly chics


I am wary of women who only care about themselves, constantly voice their opinions, or put you down.

I hate men like that too

Jeeez, i have enough enemies in ma life, i don't need one at home. I also don't need a competitive woman interested in whoever has the fattest paycheck or biggest corner office, i have enough of these people in ma professional life.

I don't dig that either

A woman should, above all else, support her man.
She should raise the kids because she will be better at it than her man. She should also know how to cook.

A man should also be there for his woman
Cause a man, just ain't a man if he aint' man enough to :
Take you higher, When the world got me feelin low.
He's giving me his last, because he's thinking of me first

LadyT:
Tope your so in love with Sauron if he said the moon was blue you would agree!

Negative
I do disagree with some stuffs he says

[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=204276.msg3187629#msg3187629 date=1228521534]Keep ya head up, Tope. . . . .

Trust me, every great man has a woman in the background supporting him.
It's good to be independent but a woman's independence should also help her partner feel more like a man, not less than one!!!
Unfortunately, today's women don't even know what independent woman entails. . . . . . .[/quote]Hate to agree with that but sadly its true
Lot females now have stupid and silly definition of what an independent woman is all about
I do believe behind every successful man there is a woman but do not necessarily have to be in the background

@Topic
Yes it is and its so frigging annoying

This topic is more than 1 yr old

MrCrackles:
Tope you sef gather go the wedding?

Aunty gbegele!!

lol, wetin come concern u na

Pastor u shudnt be swearing

Because they blv they are in love

PollMaster
Abeg behave urself oo
Brash isnt GAY and BACK OFF

MrCrackles:
I swear if this was real life, i would have fucking murdered u!
Leave me alone naw for fuc.k sake
I don't want to start cussing or swearing so go away!!!

DEAD!!!!!!!!!!!

Whats odd abt jada and will
They are my fav couple

Didnt see that coming

Cool interview spikey
Lmao@ten ten

Ogboraph:
Quote from tope2000 "It has been a long time since you had some isnt it? Did ur girlfriend dumped you because u were shit in bed I actually feel sorry for u, pele [sorry]
Sicko"
haa ha ga haa u make me laugh you are lucky am married and i love my angel if not i will ask ur husband to lend you to me 4 one week then you will confess and speak with unknown tongue. And u may wish 4 a divoce. Ha haa

I can now see that u r disturbed child, u need help.
U think i will leave my husband for 2inches and 1 min man like u, dont ask me how i know. i can just tell
U are crazy

Kweenisha:
see lust in action.
abeg Tope keep away from this man that doesn't want you to make it into the kingdom.

The boy is sick in the head

Ogboraph:
@Tope2000 sorry oh please am sorry o i will edith my post @Saurol please oh 4give me this my quot is refering to unmarried once and not 4 married pepl so an talking to unmarried

Apology accepted