₦airaland Forum

Giving of alms to the needing.
Charity way of helping the less privileged.

Chinlov:
can you also teach us what Zakat is used for please?

dustydee:
What is DiP?

(DIP) Decision in Principle

lavida001:
When are Africans going to break free from religion contraption? white man that brought Christianity to you has moved on to other things.

I wonder ooh.
That is why Africa we always be what it is ... A nation where religious houses are more than industries. What a shame!

tunddy1:
Pls has anyone been to this country before Hungary, pls how friendly is the country, I got a conference invitation there, is it a country where one can Japa to and how easily can one get a job there, I want to use conference as a means to travel to get a job and stay there pamanently from Nigeria, is it advisable ?
The second question is can one easily navigate to other countries from there,
Thanks expecting your response

Bro I will advise you sincerely because I have first hand experience in Hungary. Years ago I lived in Budapest Hungary for 4 years, it's a very difficult country to survive as a foreigner due to language barrier, weather, economic is not buoyant compare to other western Europe countries, few blacks reside in the country managing themselves.

The citizens are struggling themselves to survive, some of the citizens go to neighbouring countries to work like Austria that they share borders with.

If you are not careful you might be forced to engage in illegal activities for survival.

If you are bend on embarking in this journey I will advise you to look into student visa route atleast you can work part time for sure especially from there you can figure out what next to do. I can connect you to a friend of mine that is redeemed a pastor that is if you eventually get to Hungary on a student visa.

Have a thorough thought about this and make the decision that best suits you. I Wish you the very best in whatever decision you make.

gmacnoms:
If you Dey Uk and need your song produced.

I’ll produce, mix and master one song for each person free.

10 Slots.

Help me tell your friends and family

Location is Bristol.

Also, if you have anyone who needs a job to get going

My two places of work is currently employing. ( one is British petroleum as customer service assistance)
Bristol

The other one is receptionist(day or night) in a hotel…..Soft work 😁
Bristol

If you need something to start off with, while you pursue what works for you

You can search this company around you, if you need one close to your location too

You are the real deal man 👍

[5quote author=babajeje123 post=125743517]
Guess you wanted to reply me. I haven't found any. I don't even know where to start or where to focus on. Zero knowledge about London and all it entails. So I need someone to advise on affordable locations not too far from work however E1 out totally of consider as accommodation is too pricey there.[/quote]Everywhere in London & the surrounding is quite expensive , well it also depends on your budget . You can stretch your search towards Tilbury, Grays, Purfleet they are close proximity to E1.

Schoolhike:
Thanks so much,

Tried one before, but most require the property to be England based.

ok I see are you based outside England ? I don't know your circumstances you might as well expand your options to England so that you can get on the property ladder .

Schoolhike:
How I wish I could get hold of non interest mortgage as my religion doesn’t permit taking up interest based loan.

Why not check out Islamic Mortgages in the UK you might find one just keep searching, try as much as possible to seek opinion from various brokers across UK.

DOK987:
Hey people, if anyone is interested in getting some items from Nigeria delivered in 2 weeks time, feel free to let me know. My friend is coming and has two 23kg free luggage boxes (not bringing much because she wants to do bulk shopping). If you need anything (must be bought by her in supermarket, stores etc.. , she will not be accepting pre-packed items from your family or friends) just send the list and you will only need to make payment when your goods are delivered to you in UK ( serious and genuine people only should reply, no time wasters or fraud thanks).

Thank you. Can your friend help me get Mayonnaise in the supermarket?
I will need four (4) of the big size if that's possible & please let me know the total cost of it . The picture is attached below . Thank you very much 🙏

tensazangetsu20:
Yeah it's always funny to me when I see people killing themselves over the popular destinations when a lot of unknown places still gives you everything and are a solid stepping s
tone to your final destination.

I'm happy for you though however people choose popular destinations due to so many reasons like no language barriers, diversity, sense of belonging , long term goal. I wish you a successful journey all throughout your stay in Chile!

Plaitex:
my plight too. I have searched everywhere for this .

I gave up searching for it, it's obvious is not sold in the Uk..

Hello guys does anyone know where I can get this Mayonnaise in the Uk ?
I have searched everywhere for it but I can't get it all . It seems no African stores in the Uk sell this type of Mayonnaise.

Goke7:
We can’t expect everyone to always flow along with our own views, Let’s allow them to express themselves and see the points they are trying to makes, does it harm us in any way?

I'm not & can't stop anyone from expressing their views it's a free world, I'm just stating my observation so far.

kwakudtraveller:
Wasn’t it revealed in 2020 that one of these "Nigerian Prince” was a Caucasian man based in the US? Begs the question of how many of these scammers are actually pretending to be Nigerians.

https://www.nbcnews.com/news/amp/ncna833801

I’ve never actually seen you share anything good about Nigerians as you must find a way to interweave a negative to buttress your point. Nairaland is a very public forum and when people google things about a country, this is part of what they see.

Exactly bro, you took the word from my mouth, I don't know where he/she stand . Always speaking out for their master whether it's right or wrong .

Truth be told the guy is stating the fact we don't have to shy away from it.
It sad though , I hope one-day there is going to be a change to us..

dustydee:
How can you become citizen of a race? You forget that civilisation is incremental. What you see today was mostly built on concepts from the past. But enjoy your new "race". I am surpriced you are stil fratenising with us - "the uncivilised black race"

Quintopia:
Artistic rendition of an ancient African traditional religious temple in Egypt (KEMET) which was a black African civilization in antiquity.

This was how our ancestors worshipped during the golden eras of African civilization.

https://smarthistory.org/wp-content/uploads/2021/10/AmunReMap.jpeg


Queen Tiye, Egypt 1420 BC
https://pbs.twimg.com/media/FAGk5QZXMAAGjhF.jpg

Big man I am interested in this topic because I don't follow religion anymore I believe more in humanity but my question is this :

If our forefathers were so powerful and highly spiritual as you said why were the colonists able to conquer them and enslave people.
Why did our forefathers decided to embrace the way of the west.
We have a long way to go because we are totally lost as a people.

koonbey:
@The man being oppressed by his wife, I'm sorry to be that guy but it's key someone cuts through this Hakuna matata nonsense some seem to be peddling here.

You must not allow anyone gaslight you into thinking there's anything normal about what your wife is doing. It's not your fault in any way even if you were the sole breadwinner back home. You did your role as best you could in those circumstances and now that circumstances have changed only someone diabolical will demand that you kill yourself with overwork and high blood pressure because you want to continue a trend.

It's also irrelevant if some people run things that way in their own homes. They chose to do so as a couple. You on the other hand are being conscripted into being a perpetually poor labourer.

The crucial factor here is not about the money. It's about the fact that your wife is blackmailing you financially, immigration-wise and emotionally. In fact the repeated emphasis on how she 'brought you here’ is an extreme red flag that shows she’s an abuser, before we begin to consider the refusal to tell you how much the debt is so you can contribute all while insisting you suffer financial hardship for an indeterminate period of time, presumably until such a time as she deigns to unshackle you at her leisure.

I don’t know the solution to your marital dispute as a whole, but I know that the solution to your being oppressed is to free yourself from her control, which in this case is being tied to her visa. She has all the leverage and no incentive to meet you halfway as things stand. Get your own visa and then have a discussion to try to fix your marriage overall. You’ll share she’s more reasonable then.

Do whatever you can. Speak to your work people and even apply to other roles with sponsorship if you must. In the meantime ensure you’re l constantly trying to make her see reason, but don’t slack on your plan B.

Best of luck.

PS. All the above is based on the assumption that you have told the whole truth here sha. If not and there’s something you have done or are doing that’s made your wife this way, please put all efforts into mending fences.

Well done 👏 . @ Op I'm begging you to listen to the above advice.

Lexusgs430:
A huge difference lays between sarcasm vs mockery/jokes......

I still humbly await threads .......😜

Whatever names you called it all belong to the same category. You can call it sarcasm because it suits your desire. For the thread I will show you if I come across it. , there's a guy there that insulted you after you drop your usual humorous comments Lol , I was not happy the way the guy insulted you. I can't dig the thread it's not necessary .

Lexusgs430:
I love the way you banter..... I think you're of a matured mindset........

If it was an immature person, insults would have been flying........

I am not buttering your parsnips........😁😂

I still humbly await the thread(s)........

Why should I insult you , I'm not fighting with you.
All I'm saying is that the way you do your jokes sometimes it's out of line, people may not tell you and some people may feel you're making mockery of them.

Lexusgs430:
The love is three much....... Ti aja ba leni leyin, dondo yí o kpa obo...........😂😜

If dog🐕 get person for back, é go kill monkey 🐒.....

A fe mu Erin joba ..
Ewe du ewele

humblemoi:
Same way people advice to read and move on. In the humor is the message, we should not be tightening everything to chest. We are all not same people.
Remember a human facing you, backs another human.

I understand your point everyone can't pass message same way, he always over stretched it and turn it around because he's a super hero I know him very well.

Lexusgs430:
You really get me for belle ....... You see me for your dreams or nightmares ..........😁😂

You go around making fun of people even in other thread all in the name of humour when it's not necessary .
As you & others may think I'm not related to the person in question, I don't know him from Adam , others gave their advice and suggestions.
But you check out what you're always spitting out as an elderly person you claim to be . Haba it's not necessary

DoDirtsLikeWorm:
Make dem dey talk, until grey hairs with inside details retire and they get issues and brings it up here...
Well it would then end with; "Nobody wants to answer me" with lots of re-shares involve.

Lexusgs430 is a jolly good fellow that attach smileys, him & his LIKES are somehow untouchable here. Abeg oOo (troubles no dey finish)

Untouchable, so he can just spit anything when it's not necessary.

Zahra29:
I hereby "speculate" that he is the man in the story🧐

* Runs and hides * 😂

I know that will be your next comments ..

iyatrustee:
Lexus na agbaman o, this your advice go make our egbon enter retirement age quicker be dat

Jokes apart, in his supposed jokes, you see the message he is passing across

Agbaman ! Should behave.
Ti omode ban se bi omode , ki Agbalagba ma sebi Agba.

Lexusgs430:
I don't seem to understand, why that grumpy so-and-so fails to comprehend this very simple narrative ....... 😳😉

I fail to comprehend because you catch unnecessary cruise on other people sensitive stories, You are fond of doing that.

Lexusgs430:
Which is the beauty of an annoymous platform...... Make the best of it and stop been grumpy...... 😝😂

So after all your so called imaginary fun on an anonymous forum what do you stand to gain at the end, I guess to be laughing and feeling fulfilled for the day. You need to grow up .

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I see the flow of joy from your heart.

Yes bro it's flowing freely. I appreciate the way you conduct yourself on this forum, it's just the guy that make unnecessary joke when it's not necessary.

DoDirtsLikeWorm:
Define "Joy in the heart"?
With disagree and agree we comes to conclusion & learning.

S/he who seeks advise must be ready to receive the good/bad/castigations in the process, it will be left for em to choose
what's best for em.

Fine agreed..

Lexusgs430:
Do you want us to be uptight, 100% of the time.......

Life itself, is not uptight 100% of the time..... 😂

So long as in responses received, proper advice and councel is delivered, and OP gets value....... Life is a comedy, let's have fun whilst we can........ 🤣

Life is not uptight when you can make fun of what hurt other people feelings.
I blame the person that bring their private matter to places like this so people like you can feast on it and make unnecessary joke out of it..

koonbey:
Honestly! The one surprising me is the ‘friend’ that came here to be laughing and sharing emojis about the possibility of her friend abusing his wife and/or being incarcerated.

And this is the same thread people want everyone to indirectly make their identities known. So that next time their ‘friends’ will be using their matters and real life identities to catch cruise in front of the whole world until the wrong eyes put two and two together.

I wonder ooh brother, some people just enjoy catching cruise with other people stories just in the name of "spicing upthe thread", that's very unfair.

I pity the person that brings such here to seek advise from some that don't have joy in their heart.

igbsam:
Shey i fit switch my revolute account ni, make i go use the switch money chop gigantic lobster

Are you aware there are conditions to be met , you don't just switch account and get the free £200 . Afterwards your new account will be charged monthly.