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LadyGoddiva:
Really? I have a thing for left handed guys

lefulefu:
the ones i have seen dont look pretty.there are some feminist ladies who even take pleasure embarrassing their husband in public .u hear them calling their husband useless man or weak man or some even slap their husband over any little argument in the public view of others.some even have sex with their boyfriend in the bedroom while their husband would be in the kitchen cooking.mehn dats fuked up.i believe women should be treated equally but i resent being treated like a slave by a woman all in the name of feminism.like i said b4 its mostly effeminate men who have a thing for feminazis.just like some men having a thing for dominatrix.though dominatrix is an offshoot of feminism.bro i prefer a normal lady.

My brother, I gave up when I spoke about humility, loyalty and faithfulness and a lady attacked me for demanding that from a woman, and that a woman does not to measure their value by their function to the opposite sex.

Does that mean the whole idea of feminism is that ladies also want to proudly sleep around just as some men do without being castigated ?

supersystemsnig:
Wife's that will give hubby money to execute a project, when he returns, they stretch hand say where change...You never hear of them ?

My brother, let's be frank with ourselves, a woman will never have a peaceful home if she uses these romanceland ladies' attitudes in dealing with her husband.

For God's sake, most of the ladies are not even in relationships let alone thinking of settling down anytime soon. Can't you see how these girls express their disgusts for men due to failed relationships to the extent that they even try to discourage other young ladies from being committed, faithful and submissive to their men.

Or are these not the same ladies who claim they can't wash a man's clothes or learn how to cook delicacies for him because they don't consider themselves as maids ?


Abeg, them never ready for marriage, so arguing with them will profit you nothing

I'm out of this thread

ZandhaZaraZ:
Hater? You're one emotional dude. You had to view it through that prism. The fück is that? You asked who be this one in an irritating manner, and I chose to tell you who it was in the way I DEEM FIT, without any regards for you. Aren't cool with that? No one fücking cares. Get with the program mate.

pocohantas:
If being controlling is so much fun, the fight for control won't be one sided. You, Tosyne, would be very open to being controlled by your wife.

You can keep generating words to soothe yourself, I made no mention of the coloured.

ZandhaZaraZ:
What's funny? What makes you believe being male makes you inherently superior to females? Because of your penisss? Rubbish! I like playing with chauvinists---kicking their pile of nonsense around like a ball.

Who is this one? Do you remember this thread:
www.nairaland.com/3809392/ladies-10-ways-keep-peaceful ? Yeah, that's who he is.

Just tell me that you're an hater because it's funny how someone will come from nowhere making reference to an erroneous article I published.

Of course, I once wrote an article titled "10 Ways To Keep A Peaceful Relationship With Broke Guys", so what has that got to do with this thread for christ's sake? What correlation does that thread have to do with being a chauvinist if not that you're just trying to score a cheap point

Abeg no I get time to dey reply you jawe

supersystemsnig:
Them full around...That's the norm thesedays, what's left with their kinds is to grow beards and detach uncle's d*cks each time he's going out of the home....

Hahahahaha Lmao.. Abeg no use take kill me ooo

pocohantas:
I have never mentioned kneeling to serve food, I don't know where you got that from. It's not my business how they serve food...so far they are both happy with the arrangement.

Control means, rule, command, restrain. There are women who are okay with you reminding them you will control them, marry them.
I respect a husband and his position as the head of the home, but I won't tolerate him telling me he will control me. We will control and respect each other. This is the kind of man I seek.

Every organised set has a leader, be it office, religious or family. The day a leader comes out and starts telling his subordinates "I will control you", rather than saying "we are a team, but since we need a spokesperson...I am that person", there would be chaos. Dassall

lefulefu:
bro when i see a feminazi(feminist) i always run .u can have dem as a friend but say na relationship mba ooo

Egbon Lefulefu, na the men wey go carry them put for house I pity ooo

Me sef dey always grab race the moment I don see any woman wey get "I don't take nonsense" attitude

These are ladies that are always right in their own path, they want to be in control of relationships/ marriage whereby the man will oblige to anything they do

ZandhaZaraZ:
Can you kneel down to serve food to your wife?

Who be this one again? Hahahahaha

Nothing wey person no go see for this thread

lefulefu:
op all these feminism stuff i dey always dey avoid their discussion oo

Can you see the reason why most men don't ever want to wife such ladies? . They will always look for a way to twist things and turn them upside down

Very arrogant set of people!

pocohantas:
Thanks for your understanding, that's why I like you...sometimes.
Nah, except I want to annoy some people intentionally, there are things I don't support...infidelity is one of them.



Not every man wants to control a woman in the name of marriage. I've met a few who don't give a fuk, just respect them. Marry the woman you can control, everyone should find his or her spec.

2buffagain:
If you don't trust him to LEAD you then why did you accept his proposal?
You don't accept a job as vice president if you don't trust the president to be an effective leader in his own capacity.
Because your job would be to support his rule.
If not, You only did so if your whole goal from the start was to usurp the president.

That is what marriage is.
You are agreeing to be LED by the man.
You are agreeing to yield to him.

This comes with respect.

If you have no respect for the man, you cannot love him the way he is meant to be loved.

If you want marriage to be any other way, then YOU WOMEN need to nut up and start buying rings; kneeling and proposing; paying for weddings/groom prices & lists and all that (the equivalent of you starting your own company). You really can't eat your cake and have it by everything being done for you.

Blackhawk01:
Me? Hate men? You've gat the wrong pesin biko, I love men but I hate chauvinist, especially senseless ones. And you would agree with me that we've got them in large number, even here on nairaland.

Submission - I'm giving yield, ready to accept your opinions.

Subjection - you're controlling me, with or without my approval. Whether it's good enough for me or not, I'm under your control.

pocohantas:
That's what you all always say, I ask for evidence and they start semantics. There is never an evidence of me supporting or downplaying female infidelity . I'm used to the no evidence... there would never be one.

Stick to words you know. You're fond of using unnecessary big words.

I will quote you each time I stumble on some of your old posts

Okay, I will be careful with choice of words

pocohantas:
aggrandizement of anger and disagreement? that's a new one!!! Shall we check up the meaning of that word?

You're mistaking me for someone else obviously. Any proof of the coloured?

Lemme ease you the stress of checking up the meaning of that word

Aggrandizement: to make great or greater, to increase or elevate

Back to the issue, I know you more than you think dear. I usually stumble on your comments very well even though I'm not following you

DeadRat:
hahahaha. Them Use Style De Advertise Themselves Make You Notice Them. You Know Say You Be Commissioner Of Women Affairs. .

pocohantas:
I don't think there is any post I have been against submissiveness.

The narrow mindedness of my way or no other way is what's limiting the reasoning of the average man.

How does aggrandisement fit into this discourse?

Your aggrandizement of anger and disagreement perfectly fit into this discourage. Each time a woman is caught in the act of cheating and castigated, you're always looking for way to embellish such an act by saying men are not in any way different

DeadRat:
hahahaha. Thats Why I Have To Run Soon Before They Pour their acidic Furstration on Me

pocohantas:
I am used to the narrow mindedness of most Nigerians. Yours isn't surprising either...

And your aggrandizement when submissiveness and faithfulness are being discussed doesn't surprise me too

DeadRat:
hahahaha. Thats Why I Have To Run Soon Before They Pour their acidic Furstration on Me

I stopped taking them serious the day a thread titled "Are You In A Relationship" was opened sometime this year and I realized that most of these romance land ladies that form Arnold Schwarzenegger are actually not in relationships.. Roflwkmd

pocohantas:
The problem with some of you, you can't even hold logical arguments without getting sentimental. So, only heartbroken ladies are averse to being lorded by a man?

Take it to family section na and see if you can stand the women there. Na for here una get mouth

Blackhawk01:
Before nkor.

Lol. And check out homes where the husbands rule their wives and come tell me the end result. And what curse are you talking about?

I've got no issue with submission because like I said earlier, it's outta respect for him. Subjection is what I'm not cool with.

You this girl, wetin men do you wey you come hate them like this ?

BTW, what's the different between submission and subjection oooo

DeadRat:
the Thing Taya me sef... Thats Why Many Of Our Female Nigerian Celebrities Are Divorced

Kindly take this thread to the family section and you will be astonished with the responses you will get from matured and happily married women

You can only get responses like this from heart broken ladies. In fact, most of them have been mayweathered by fcck boys .. LMAO

DeadRat:
that Is Impossible. A Man And A Woman Can Never Have Equal Rights... If You Are A Reasonable Woman, you Ought Not To Argue With Your Husband When He Makes decisions. That Sparks Outrage... Listen, if You Want To Bring Down Powerful Men,use A Woman... This Is Not Done With Stupid Feminism. Remove Your Feminism Mentality And You Will Know How To make your Husband Fall At Your Feet... Physically Challengin Men Is Dangerous... You See Some Men Acting Tough In Public and Givin Out Instructions to Those Who tremble At His Voice But u Do Nt know That a Woman Is Actually the Main Power behind the Man.How Did She Do It? Nt feminism

We are in a battle with feminists

They will always give you reasons why men are worthless

shaybebaby:
See how you have defined your manliness and self esteem based on your requirements from women. If you don't get any of these, does it make you less of man?

Any male who thinks like you do is not fit to lick a real woman's stilettos. In essence, you have no value without a woman.

No wonder you want women to measure their value by their function to the opposite sex. No thanks, we will pass. You may need all of that to feel like an empowered man, we certainly don't need your proscription to feel like empowered individuals( I used individuals because our value is irrespective of our gender).

On your are fabulous, it doesn't matter what lies between your thighs. Same goes for being useless as well.

DeadRat:
when Topics Like This Come Up,then You Can Define Their Age By Their Words

DeadRat:
True! I Know They Want A Man In Their Life But they Will Still Come Online To Tell You That They dont Have Time For Love or Some Will Say They Have Given Up On Men... Let Them Continue To Fool Around. Their Mates are Busy Living Happily with Husbands, they Are Busy Followin Madam Linda... Wrong Convinction and Mentality Is A Disease. I Swear

MhisTahrah:
They say respect is reciprocal. Subjecting myself to my husband would be akin to stripping me of my fundamental human rights Let me reiterate that marriage should not be a subordinate-superior relationship.The husband doesn't call the shots likewise the wife.It's all about teamwork.The both of them should be jointly involved in making decisions pertaining to the home.The wife must be seen and heard.I'm not arguing blindly,some men still live in the dark ages.

Are you kidding me @ the emboldened?

Back to the matter, only an insecure husband demands for absolute predominance of control over a woman. A man should not always call the shots but must seek the wife's opinions before taking a decision and vice versa. In fact, there are lots of women out there who have good decision making skills and can take sound decisions to matters even in the absence of their husbands.

Let me remind you that a peaceful home is usually the work of the woman, and I will like to correct the notion that being submissive to your husband is akin to stripping yourself of your fundamental rights

BTW, you don't know what "submissiveness" means in the context of marriage. Your own definition of submissiveness is wife battering