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supersystemsnig:
Guy, how will marriage be in our generation oh...Bros, tell me... We have so many hurdles to scale even before entering it

You can't escape the hurdle bro.. The only disastrous thing is to escape the hurdle and still end up with a frustrating woman

DarkRebel69:
This is a very irrelevant and idiotic question. It's all I can say.

superNOVA1995:
what respect is there to be earned probably this is a guy who doesn't maltreat his lady and who adores is lady so I don't get what form of respect are u talking about or should he start lying on the floor to his lady I really don't get kind of respect ur talking about

babylove2015:
Take the bull by its horns.... lets call black, black and blue, what it is. Situations like this should not be handled with a *converter* attitude. Many are biting their fingers for it. . Well, the op will do what he thinks is best for himself n i sincerely wish him the very best

I knw of few peeps who married tough partners n they r managing the situation well. The question is can the op manage all of these including those that are still yet to be discovered for a long time?.

Karidqueen:

Queensekxy and Tosyne2much
Lalasticlal and Snak,
Mynd.44 and Ban
,
Khutie and Bibidear

This one wey una dey pair me and Queenseksy sha.. Be like say una want make we marry

LadyGoddiva:
lol I guess because they deviate from the norm- badass!

babylove2015:
Lol... can you actually force a grown woman to change out of her will. Whatever happens to pretence.. lol. Any one can pretend to get whatever they want.... punishment or no punishment. If it is marrigae the gal wants she will comply and then revert back to what she has always been and then Mr op will continue to employ punishment tactics to call madam to order ... but for how long?. Anyway thatz even if it changes anything sef.

Benita27:
What makes you think that a lady who disrespects you while you're dating/engaged would change when you make her your mrs?. These are red flags but you don't want to take cognizance of any. She yells at you, never says sorry while you're made to apologise even when she's wrong, keeps malice for too long. My dear, she's a time bomb waiting to explode in marriage.

I think you've made her feel she's indispensable, so the attitude. You know what you want best.

You this girl ehn, your head correct wella ooo

tolufase:
If actually she is exhibiting all what u enumerated above, then she is even a girlfriend material not to talk being a wife. All what she is doing now is just a preamble of what to expect in ur marriage. You get to see her really characters when u marry her. By the way, hav u let her spend time with ur family and see how she relate to them particularly ur mum. Although their views may not neccessarily be a determinant but trust me it also help. Good luck!

supersystemsnig:
Tosyne, plz i'm kneeling down, brov, is humility or submissiveness too much to ask ? Is it?

supersystemsnig:
Tosyne2much, chai what do we do to our sisters to trust and marry us oh Brov...All these feminist are snatching the minds of our ladies

It's not really their fault bro.

I really feel their pains because most of them have passed through many difficulties that make relationship nauseate them.

A lady in a happy relationship with her man will never have problem submitting or humbling herself to her man

supersystemsnig:
And they give all sort of devilish counsel to ladies with potentials so they'll keep them in their demonic caucuses... May heaven deliver us, and give us grace to meet our partners and appreciate them when in love, and not count the losses after losing them.

In addition, they are quick to advise their fellow women to file for divorce for any little thing talking about how Tonto Dike is enjoying her life as a single mother.. Soro niyen?

I say Amen to your prayer bro

QueenSekxy:
glad you like it Blackhawk01 come and do the needful

QueenSekxy:
lolz..Tahr and sunshine

Blackhawk01 and Tosyne2much


lalas24 and Jaksmillionair

markydebb and teehamze
Shinalaur and Deadra

supersystemsnig:
Guy you go wound person oh...Lol...These feminist gat each other's back die...

I dey tell you.. They are usually envious of gold diggers, divorced women and women with questionable characters. They are never envious of women that are happily married

I know what I'm saying bro

supersystemsnig:
Yes, some are on Nairaland though....I met one like that, shiiit,she's muslim...


Some are on nairaland or should i say many, but they simply read comments and don't comment... Trust me, i've come across a few off the forum...I know a lady works top managerial level earns over amil monthly, i swear it, feminist will be ashamed at her calmness, makes sense die..but her own too much abeg... Phd in Maths, can you beat that

Na wa oh...Na where we go come find babes we get all ten qualities na?

I repeat, you will never find such ladies on a thread like this arguing on whether a woman should submit herself to her husband or not.

They mostly read comments and move on. Only the ones that are tantamount to nothing spew venom and claim they are feminists

Yeye people

lefulefu:
in most cases YES

supersystemsnig:
You know the " Viola " moment, when your eyes clear, and say, what did i just do.... Too bad abi.. I wonder why people aren't good looking thesedays...Is it bad nutrition or sumfin? I've met FIVE of such ladies inmy life time brov.

The funniest thing is that such ladies are usually reserved and socially restrained too. You would barely find them jumping from Facebook to Instagram, from Badoo to Nairaland or Twitter. In fact, you will never see such ladies arguing on a thread like this

Have you noticed that too?

Papiikush:
@Tosyne2much our Ado sisters have done it again

LadyGoddiva:
I do

supersystemsnig:
I met one with all ten traits o...It's after i lost her i started counting the loss...


And true, many of them aren't beautiful, pretty is important oh.. Let's pray not to lose good materials before counting the loss,goes to both gender

I can assure you that when you lose such a lady, you will never recover from the loss. Even if you will, it will take years

supersystemsnig:
1. Humility

2. Gentleness

3. Faithfullness

4.Loyalty

5. Good Natured

6. Polite

7. Calm

8. Smart

9. Intelligent

10. Not prOne to anger


A wise woman, chai..she's more difficult to find than crude oil upstairs....

My brother, if a woman possesses these 10 traits, men will spend their last kobo to get such a lady. The only clause there is that ladies like that are usually not beautiful

You won't believe I have only been privileged to come across just ONE lady that possesses these 10 traits

LadyGoddiva:
Really? I have a thing for left handed guys

lefulefu:
the ones i have seen dont look pretty.there are some feminist ladies who even take pleasure embarrassing their husband in public .u hear them calling their husband useless man or weak man or some even slap their husband over any little argument in the public view of others.some even have sex with their boyfriend in the bedroom while their husband would be in the kitchen cooking.mehn dats fuked up.i believe women should be treated equally but i resent being treated like a slave by a woman all in the name of feminism.like i said b4 its mostly effeminate men who have a thing for feminazis.just like some men having a thing for dominatrix.though dominatrix is an offshoot of feminism.bro i prefer a normal lady.

My brother, I gave up when I spoke about humility, loyalty and faithfulness and a lady attacked me for demanding that from a woman, and that a woman does not to measure their value by their function to the opposite sex.

Does that mean the whole idea of feminism is that ladies also want to proudly sleep around just as some men do without being castigated ?

supersystemsnig:
Wife's that will give hubby money to execute a project, when he returns, they stretch hand say where change...You never hear of them ?

My brother, let's be frank with ourselves, a woman will never have a peaceful home if she uses these romanceland ladies' attitudes in dealing with her husband.

For God's sake, most of the ladies are not even in relationships let alone thinking of settling down anytime soon. Can't you see how these girls express their disgusts for men due to failed relationships to the extent that they even try to discourage other young ladies from being committed, faithful and submissive to their men.

Or are these not the same ladies who claim they can't wash a man's clothes or learn how to cook delicacies for him because they don't consider themselves as maids ?


Abeg, them never ready for marriage, so arguing with them will profit you nothing

I'm out of this thread

ZandhaZaraZ:
Hater? You're one emotional dude. You had to view it through that prism. The fück is that? You asked who be this one in an irritating manner, and I chose to tell you who it was in the way I DEEM FIT, without any regards for you. Aren't cool with that? No one fücking cares. Get with the program mate.

pocohantas:
If being controlling is so much fun, the fight for control won't be one sided. You, Tosyne, would be very open to being controlled by your wife.

You can keep generating words to soothe yourself, I made no mention of the coloured.

ZandhaZaraZ:
What's funny? What makes you believe being male makes you inherently superior to females? Because of your penisss? Rubbish! I like playing with chauvinists---kicking their pile of nonsense around like a ball.

Who is this one? Do you remember this thread:
www.nairaland.com/3809392/ladies-10-ways-keep-peaceful ? Yeah, that's who he is.

Just tell me that you're an hater because it's funny how someone will come from nowhere making reference to an erroneous article I published.

Of course, I once wrote an article titled "10 Ways To Keep A Peaceful Relationship With Broke Guys", so what has that got to do with this thread for christ's sake? What correlation does that thread have to do with being a chauvinist if not that you're just trying to score a cheap point

Abeg no I get time to dey reply you jawe

supersystemsnig:
Them full around...That's the norm thesedays, what's left with their kinds is to grow beards and detach uncle's d*cks each time he's going out of the home....

Hahahahaha Lmao.. Abeg no use take kill me ooo

pocohantas:
I have never mentioned kneeling to serve food, I don't know where you got that from. It's not my business how they serve food...so far they are both happy with the arrangement.

Control means, rule, command, restrain. There are women who are okay with you reminding them you will control them, marry them.
I respect a husband and his position as the head of the home, but I won't tolerate him telling me he will control me. We will control and respect each other. This is the kind of man I seek.

Every organised set has a leader, be it office, religious or family. The day a leader comes out and starts telling his subordinates "I will control you", rather than saying "we are a team, but since we need a spokesperson...I am that person", there would be chaos. Dassall