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This isn't 60 inches

Amotolongbo:
Yinmu

So it's preek you've been eating the most. Orishirishi. And you are not married.

obi58:
Lots of hypocrisy on display here.

It's ok for the girl to receive gifts from the guy but not vice versa?

Is the girl that stupid not to understand the poisoned chalice she was drinking from going to spend time alone with a guy in his house and accepting his gifts? Did she imagine the boy was father Christmas?

Don't mind these fools, Op should kill that guilt, she deserves what the got.

Broke bitches don't deserve any respect.

AyobamiOluwole:
So this girl has been coming to my place, eat the best food and all that. I've asked her if she has a boyfriend and she said no. I do give her money without asking her for anything on return because I could see she is not the lazy type and she is really hardworking. I am very much ok with finances and I see no issues with some of her demands.


Yesterday I called her and told her that I'm not happy and that I need cuddle only and not sex(I lost so much Dollars from futures trading that night). She later called and said she will come to my place for that reason. In my mind I was thinking this will go down as sex and all, but I don't really want sex.

All I just needed is someone to cuddle and get distracted with that's all. This is the only time I am demanding something from her.

So she came during the evening time, and later that night we went to supermarket and I got her something's to eat at home for the night. We got back home and everything was going well. We were both on the bed when I reminded her why she came. This is someone I've been doing quite a lot for without even thinking twice out of pity. She wouldn't give in and wouldn't let me know why she can't just allow me to cuddle her.

Mehn, from the loss I had earlier and all that, I got infuriated and called another girl telling to pls come over for the night. Then I told this girl to leave my house since she can be that selfish. I sent her out of my house around 10pm. She was telling me she doesn't have money to go home, I didn't care and I shut my door against her. Though I was scared letting her out on that road and that time of the night but my anger got the better part of me. It was later after getting over the whole thing I confirmed nothing happened to her from someone else.

Pls is there anything wrong with what I did?

Modified: Anger is a bad thing. I am wrong sending her away at that time of the night. This is probably the judgement I'll get 😔

Bro you did a bad thing by throwing her out by such time.

But trust me, kill that guilt. She should learn to have her own money, broke bitches don't deserve respect.

So she can eat and drink for free, but can't even cuddle, she must be mad.

Kill that guilt, she got what she deserve. But in a harsh way.

Rokiat:
She deserve it for dealing with a low bum
Dustie like you.

Hopefully she is young and she will learn because some of them have no self worth and self love left in them.

Just imagine this fucker…y.

Was she a high bum dustie, to begin with. 😆

You will cry tyre. Broke bitch.

Like you haven't experienced worst.

Dejarae:
Aren’t you guys tired of this gender war?? From twitter to Instagram to naira land Omo na wa o

Like you are not one of them, continue eating awoof, then later try to run, your case will soon be like the picture below.

Just continue.

Your gender should continue this, feeling it's a smart move, you eat from a guys pocket, and tell him to give you time while you think about it.

Even while thinking about it, you are still billing him. Then you finally tell him you are interested. When you notice, he has reduced how he gives you money.

Keep it up

Lol 😆🤣 so the military can go there,to clear the village. Bunch of delusional zombies.

23? Not 7 or 14. But 23. Nonsense.

There is nothing to rehabilitate, they should remain in jail

tochez24:
Where is the lie You have articulated nothing but the truth💯

The problem with most rich niggas is that they usually forget how they started life and how those broke bitches avoided them when they were still struggling⚠️

I still remember mine, and how girls refused to date me while i was broke, nah why we no dey dull🙄

if you dull, it's your loss, check how these broke girls, broke shame guys who even earn better than them. But they feel entitled to broke shame someone better than them. Because the guy can't afford a car where she could seat at the front, the guy also doesn't have an apartment where she can do weekends at.

Now the said broke guy, can afford these things, he should settle for same broke girl?

It's only a mumu that would do that.

Kobojunkie:
1. Now you are telling more fables, abi?

2. Dude, you are still not making any sense! I can tell from that stewpid statement in bold that you are mentally a boy ranting for the sake of it. If you want a cause then discourage your fellow Nigerian boys out there to abandon in its entirety the traditional marriage route and then you will start to make sense.

I know people like you, i have met them. People who think they are smart and know better than others. While their lives is in a great mess.

In a total mess, in tears, and easily depressed.

Keep up the energy, Life at 40. Will have a ruthless conversation with you. Keep up, the standards, rude behaviour and arrogance. Life always leave those who are not willing to learn. In the dark. While they cry to God for solutions, whereas their attitude stinks of bitterness and anger.

pansophist:
I always draw a line between being poor and being broke. Being broke is simply an unavailability of cash, it doesn't affect the behavior of a person at all.

A broke person for example can be friends with Dangote, and Dangote would never know his friend is broke unless he asked, or maybe saw a clue that this guy doesn't have cash. Even rich people can be broke sometimes too, which means they might have to skip some weekend flexing or forego a holiday trip.

But poverty is a mindset. Poverty affects the character and has a well-defined attitude associated with it. a poverty mindset for example is unproductive. They can't help themselves but hope for a helper to save them from themselves. Poverty has a high taste, but expect you to afford their taste for them.

You can even buy an iPhone 13 for a girl with a poverty mentality, and she would be angry, asking if she is too small to use an iPhone 15. They only take, collect, consume, never give, and are a loose loose to be with.

If being broke is a seed, then poverty is like a stone. With time, a seed will grow, especially if you bury it in rich soil, pour it into water, and expose it to sunlight. That's the situation of broke people. But a poor person will still be sterile, like a stone, it won't grow.

I see nothing wrong with being with a broke woman, especially in Nigeria, where the system has made it almost impossible to enjoy generational wealth for most. If a broke woman has a very good character, then she is better than a karashika who is wealthy.

A broke person can later rise to be wealthy, many Nigerian celebrities are broke from the beginning. But a poor person, hmmm, forget it. That future impossible tense.

I agree with you, when she rises she can tag along with her so called rich men.

Yes, dangote can be broke, but never broke that he can't afford basic things of life.

These broke girls, beg for as low as low, food money, money for clothes. Basic things she can't even afford, she would make it mandatory for a man in a relationship with her to provide these little things for her self care all the time.

There are levels to being broke. Some requests for monthly allowance. And some guys do pay. Obviously a thief would who defraud other people off their hard earned money.

Because i don't understand how a man who worked for money and understands the value of self
independence.

Even if, the guy does these things there should be a convincing and congent reason for it.

Not some flimsy reason like she is my baby, or she is a soft girl, she can never be in a relationship and still buy basic things for her self care.

So her money should be saved that's if she works, while the guy works his ass off for two. Just because his in a relationship. It's crazy.

almarthins:
Your advice is an emblem of wickedness in the heart. Did nt the holy book say the poor shall always be in the land?

Some thing is wrong with the way you perceive reality.

The same, poor setting standards to gain wealth through marriage. Keep dreaming.

Look at the work place, it's already playing out. Because business men understands the reality of life. As a cleaner, you earn less, as a driver you earn less,as a professional chef you earn a little bit higher, then as a graduate with experience and certification you earn averagely then as a director you earn big.

Why don't the company pay, degree holders or Diploma holder the same. This is real life every one has a level, work with your level to attain a bigger level.

Same with relationship, marry based on your level and work as a team, to achieve the pay of a director.

You can't be an OnD level, instead of developing your skills or education, you want to associate with the degree and start feeling you a degree holder, atleast develop yourself to HND. At all at all

Most women feel entitled to getting married to rich men, this is someone who can't even afford to buy herself hair, common nails she can't afford for herself. And she wants to manipulatively get a man who can do all this for her, with his money in the name of marriage.

I understand it's her choice, but if she gets dumped after being ran trains on, by different bigboys she should come online to say all men are scum, who are the all men, when there is a category of men she was after. How many legit hustling men could afford these splashing money you see in the internet.

Most of these boys, who are genuinely wealthy are spending their father money. And one broke girl wants to have him all herself in the name of marriage, aunty you will have heart attack o! Because his cheating skills will be on a premium level.

There are decent men out there, who can be peace to a woman heart, they are striving now. Tag along and strive with them. Or better still. Endure whatever you see in your already wealthy man.

Kobojunkie:
What the heck?🤣 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

So what else does she want, when she has kids, and has a farmland given to her, women back then weren't as greedy as women of this generation. They weren't as entitled as the women right.

Bro look around, too many single women. Everywhere, way too many single women are out there, some are side chicks to married men, some other, are doing friends with benefits while in their 30's.

And this isn't that, there are no men, there are men, but selfish there are people women consider as men. Someone who has money and is rich. So you expect me, as a rich man. To settle for a broke lady. Or a lady, who can't provide for her self.

I will knack the lady tyre, common sense will tell her this relationship isn't heading anywhere


And if she tries, to monitor me, instant breakup.

CandidAdmin:
But when you a woman who is richer than you, you'll also avoid her for another reason.

why men, are so against Marrying a richer woman is that. She could leave you at anytime. She could be rude to you, she could abuse you. Not because you are not providing, you could be providing and performing your manly duty. But just because she has that money you have, and she has gotten the kids she has always wanted.

Naturally women are very selfish. Just very few, would respect a man. Even with their money or influence.

Kobojunkie:
So back in the days, the men did indeed marry broke women to produce slaves children to work their lands with. You don't wish for us to consider the men of Old cowards by your formula. You would rather we consider the men of this age cowards for continuing what has been the tradition since the time of their fathers before them because they don't own land to be farmed? Sounds more like you are shifting goalposts all over the place. E no dey work at all!

A better approach to what you are trying to sell would be to tell men of today that traditional marriage was not intended for their benefit. You can add your opinion of how only cowards would adopt the same traditional marriage laws that were designed to benefit only their ancestors before them. Tell them that they need to abandon traditional marriage entirely instead.

How is that slavery, when she owns the produce of the cultivation.

Guy, rest.

Kobojunkie:
Our ancestors were almost all them cowards! We get it! Next!

Have sense Mr man, try and have sense don't be silly.

Back in the days, there were farm lands. And men needed to Marry enough women who could cultivate these lands.

So women of then had a purpose to fulfil. And were financially responsible for their growth, from the cashcrops of their produce, you can be as productive as you can. Among other wives.

But this days, it's a different ball game, most women want a rich man, and to their whole responsibility.

A man who graduated from same school as you, should handle your expensesand that of the kids, completely while she keeps her own money. For her family.

If you are a guy, who struggled and made money, and now planning on settling down with a broke lady, worst is she is from a poor home as well and you plan on elevating her family, you are daft, foolish and a coward.

If you were broke, would she have taken you serious, Now that you have made it. She misses you, and loves you. And cries for a attention.

Broke girls are for sex. If you are a big boy, bang these broke bitches, and tip them for the sex. Or rather decieve them with relationship, she will definitely fall for it, because you are a big fish.

She her self, isn't genuine, so never feel guilty about it. it's because you are financially capable to handle her finances. Not really like she genuinely loves you.

Stop giving her money, and watch how the relationship dies a natural death.

Be wise and have sense. Go for comfortable or rich babes within your status, even if the babe is in her early thirties, it's better than dating a broke girl in her early or mid twenties.

It's fine if every lady, wants a rich man, it's their choice, but ask yourself, now that you have made it in life from being broke, why settle for a broke bitch. Have sense this man.

And settle down with a financially stable women. Even if she is in her thirties. Guy marry her, and long as she has a good character, and willing to listen. Never take a broke girl serious.

I used to Wonder why our fathers were harsh on the boys, this generation of daft and weak men made me realize so.

Jennyclay:
Honestly, I’m deeply in love with this man for no reason!

Fool, i thought love don't exist. . Delusional coward.

Splashme:
The greedy LASG wants to start taxing poor Uber drivers per trip.
.

They already pay tax per trip, it's on you receipt. Including VAT.

mejetov422:
She dun start,

It was already in place for acquisition, herbert wigwe bought alot of companies.

etrange:
A little Googling would've let you know she's got hirsutism. While it could be a symptom of something else, in most cases, it's not and no treatment is required. It's sad that people aren't very tolerant of individual differences/uniqueness despite the education level in the country.

And you think, nigerians are educated? .

Can't you see, how these illiterates on this forum feed on bush meats from forests.

Most Nigerians are uneducated.

The sellers here are all agents.

Beverlyjean:
And u think u are doing the man if u are unfaithful to him cos he's unfaithful to u... any woman that ever uses that as an excuse is nothing but a hoe ... if u steal from me and i decide to also steal from u, then I'm a thief ... every woman should have dignity for their bodies ... it brings innocence into the world thru giving birth.... a man cheating is not the same as a woman cheating.... just like a broke woman is different from a broke man

You are a smart woman.

Nigerians or his northern brothers.

CoronaVirusPro:
Ask the Americans and Russians what befell them in Afghanistan. They always fvcked up in the end.

It’s a matter of time!

Tell the fvckin Israel to go fight Hezebollah in Northern Israel. Those are their peers, not harmless woman and children.

U.s and europe are here to support isreal when the war start. It's time to end this islamist terrorists once and for all.

CoronaVirusPro:



Fvck Israel!

Mumu, Isreal would clear off Palestine

isreal 🇮🇱🇮🇱🇮🇱.

These Muslims would learn the hard way.

victorclean:
What's the difference between what happened and killing of above 50soldiers in Nigeria state

Are you minding these fools.

paxx:
seyi tinubu lagos gov 2031 - 2039

programmed lifetime fool.

I won't be surprised if you are one of those, who go into the bush, to kill rat 🐀🐁 for protein

Elzazzi:
They even brought the child to the wedding and the idiot was busy laughing.

the guy is a big fool, and am crying on his behalf.

Low self-esteem is an evil trait.