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StOla:
Many make millions from MMM every month.

The higher the risks, the bigger the reward.

There's a whole new world out there, even beyond the positive Ponzi schemes. Bitcoins and other crypto-currencies might just be the new dot.com boom before the dot.com bubble bursts.

Don't limit yourself to the unsuccessful life of those who are too scared to risk anything.

Good advice bro.. Good.

emynike2001:
if u still have problems with d Npower portal etc
TUNE IN now to radio continental 102.3FM
Lagos and listen and ask questions from 7:24am
till 8am as d senior special assistant to d office of d vice president Mr loaolu Akande
is on live to address d issues..

Please I missed the program does it air daily?.

herzern1:
AFCON winninq entitlement is around 1-2 million dollars.

I thouqht CAF rewards all competitions winners.


Oh oh!.The ladies want entitlement and bonuses.
The economic condition isn't on the proqressive side younq ladies.Exercise a little patience.



ASUU is threateninq strike already.We have priorities!

You are not being reasonable. Like the so called priorities are being handled well

Please is any kosofe lg applicant on board.

omoikea:
Why everybody just dey tell me this same shit... i never see my name for portal oooo

UNIBEN never loved us

i feel your pain bro. Lasu got me in the same status

Well analyzed, now I understand but morality is diverse.

johnydon22:
Tell me - do you need Yahweh or Allah to tell you to love your children and care for them before you?

If "No" then you have arrived at exactly how morality independent of religious coercions are derived.

they are based on empathy, compassion, love, sympathy, concern for others, need for societal well being and continuation, family, community, pity and many other beautiful humane reasons to be good to others and not be an asss hole..

If you cannot evolve pass the shallow form of morality based on some greedy religious theme - Don't ask how others do better than you without it.

You only need to be human in a human society and live like it, it doesn't take anything not to be a total idiot toward others - that's all

What justifies being human, no human value is learnt in isolation. We all pick from somewhere

raphieMontella:
whats moral in ripping babies out of pregnant women?
Murders of millions?
Slavery?
Racism?
Misognyism?
Eternal damnation?

How about lesser acts like sexual immorality or cheating. Cqpitalism etc.

I just read an article here that informed me about mark zukerberg of facebook being an atheist. Athiest as I believe means someone who doesn't believe the existence of God(or any supreme spiritual being).

So my question is why are some atheist still jeered towards making the world a better place, it is understandable that christains try hard to be good because of God commandment and muslim because of Allah and mohammed.

But who are atheist modelling their morality principles after? I'd like ample opinions of people on this...

Purpletee:
and am still here eating beans, trying to grow tall.

I feel your pain dear

Incase sha

I am not sure of my answers
..

mhisbliss:
what if he's good at everything but kissing? The thought of exchanging saliva ewww

Break up

fame


https://www.nairaland.com/3306737/how-does-it-feel-see How does it feel to see someone you love marry someone else.

READERS OPINIONS FROM A FORUM:

1) It’s like having a huge part of your hopes for the future die a swift death.

I wasn’t just in love with him—it would have made things so much easier had it only been a matter of scorched pride. I loved him, deeply and truly; the kind of love that has the potential to endure a lifetime (at least it felt that way on my end). Perhaps I was a little too confident. I thought that both of us would eventually find each other again when the timing was better, still free and available, and he would take me seriously. But, people move on, and while I was waiting around for him to discover how perfect I would be for him, he met someone else and got serious.,, Jane


2) They say, " Everything happens for our own good." So what good came out of this? Well this failed relationship taught me many lessons for life.

It made me mature. I no longer needed someone to complete me.
The girl who cared for every other thing, no longer cared at all.
I learnt that nothing in this life is permanent, neither happiness nor pain.
No matter how much you're in love, there comes a time when the other one decides to leave.
Love isn't always beautiful. It doesn't always result in the joining of two people.
Love is never enough because it isn't rational.
All those fairy tales, all those love-stories and movies we’ve heard and watched growing up, lied to us. Love doesn't always end happily.
I learnt not to depend on people because people leave all the time and at the end all you have is yourself and that has to be enough. Rose.

so recently, i attended the wedding of a close female friend of mine and even though i was happy for her, i couldn't ignore the feeling of nostalgia i had. imagining being friends with a married lady. No more rough play or little flirts.

now imagine she was an ex or someone i loved in a romantic way, i wonder how i would have coped with the news. so my overactive imagination is throwing it out to you all:

How does it feel to see the person you love get married to someone else?

CosmeticChemist:
never trust a woman, not even your mother.

. Thats quite deep, what happened?

5. You don’t need to recreate your parent’s standard of living at 22. I need to constantly remind myself of this. 22 with a ton of ambition but without a defined plan of action or pathway. I have to remind myself that this is normal.


6. The importance of saving for emergency, always believed that I could die anytime so I should always take care of myself to the fullest. Well I'm not dead yet and my savings would have been useful in case of emergency.

viickerz:
that

The only the only person that got your back is YOU.. you are your best friend,

We all run individual race..

There are somethings we don't catch up with quicky, we only get to understand after a while. A little late behind others.

As for me, I didn't quickly realize That other people don’t care what you think. They’re more worried about themselves, and you aren’t the first thing on their priority list. This could’ve saved so many headaches if I knew this years ago.

Contributions from other readers on forum :

1).Relationships aren’t built on love alone. You have to put the effort in as far as the little things are concerned. Also, arguing too often about the little things can be a sign that something bigger is wrong.

2) Being smart isn’t good enough. Hard work is way more importan

3) How to set boundaries. It took my best friend of 8 years to reveal himself to be a total assh*le (rather, he was always an assh*le but I kept making excuses for him). I realized that I let him do all of these things and trample all over me before I decided that it was enough. I genuinely think this is something that I always understood but never had the confidence to stand up to. It really came down to the realization that its okay to put myself first and that I don’t owe anything to anyone.

4) you let people take advantage of you they will. As a compulsive pleaser who believed power games shouldn’t creep into close relationships, I am realizing that all my ‘principles’ are basically either a cover for my lack of courage or ideas that will let people walk all over me.

These are people experiences, share yours ...

motivating

lalasticlala

mynd44

explorers

The country with the highest estimated number of maternal death was India (136,000) followed by Nigeria (37,000) (World Health Organization,2004). Obstetric causes of maternal death are often documented in Nigeria but little attention is paid to the major contributing factors.
leaving statistics and analyzing from personal experience few people in Nigeria bother to investigate why the victims (pregnant women) die through autopsy. the deaths are all classified under complications.

Recent surveys revealed that one third of child births is attended to by qualified doctors, one fifth is attended by traditional or religious mid wives while one in every four delivery is handled by untrained personals. also what is considered a safe delivery is when the mother and the child is alive, only few bother to continue checks on the mother to see if there were no internal disorders or hemorrhages. this has led to the increase in post delivery deaths. this article investigates the causes and circumstances around maternal deaths.
Maternal mortality means female deaths associated with pregnancy, labor and the period immediately following child-birth.

Maternal death is divided into two group namely direct and indirect obstetric death:
1. Direct obstetric death are those resulting from obstetric complications of the pregnant state (pregnancy, labour and the pueperium) from interventions,omissions, incorrect treatment, or from a chain of events resulting from any of the above.

2. Indirect obstetric death are those resulting from previous existing disease or disease that developed during pregnancy and which was not due to directobstetric causes, but was aggravated by the physiological effects of pregnancy.

The high maternal mortality rate in Nigeria can be attributed to several causes which range from direct medical causes to indirect causes like taboos, inefficient infrastructure and other social and cultural factors. Commonly use approaches for obtaining data on levels of maternal mortality vary considerably in terms of methodology, source of data and precision of results. The main approaches are vital2
registration of deaths by causes, direct house hold survey methods, indirect sisterhood method (a survey-based measurement technique) direct sisterhood method,reproductive age mortality studies (which involves identifying and investigating the causes of all deaths of women of reproductive age) verbal autopsy and census.
POVERTY:The effect of poverty is multi-dimensional, several studies have shown thatthere were drastic decline in hospital births apparently as a result of the country’s deepening economic crises. only 31 percent of women in Nigeria deliver witha skilled attendants assistance this is why the life time risk of a woman dying as aresult of pregnancy or childbirth is high.

AGE AT PREGNANCY: It is believed that early marriage lowers the risk of pre-marital sexuality, as such, it is widely practiced, but at the same time ‘very early’ marriage can put the young particularly the girl at high health risks of morbidity and mortality.

Food taboos are prevalent in several Nigerian communities, during pregnancyand child birth; women’s eating habits are guided by these local taboos, which denythe consumption of certain food that can fall within the range of protein, carbohydrateor fruits. For instance, some communities among the Yorubas prohibit the ingestion of meat, egg, beans or other protein-containing foods during pregnancy. Other forbidden foods are Okro soup and snail, for fear of excessive salivation of the infant; garden egg for fear of impaired speech in infant; fish for fear of extra digits and plantain for fear of delayed ossification of the anterior fortanelle; palm oil for fear of jaundice and certain fruits for fear of baldness.

RECOMNEDATIONS: Nigeria should be engaged in the effort to reduce maternal mortality in Nigeria.Teachers in higher institution should be encourage to engage in discussing the issues of maternal death, there should an introduction of a course to cover this aspect, it should aim at revealing the multi-dimensional causes and consequences of maternal death, in addition to proffering adequate and varying solutions to students.
A well co-ordinated policy that provide skilled medical assistance during child-birth, whether at home or in a medical facility, irrespective of geographical location can save women’s live. The training of more primary health workers and traditional birth attendants into modern hygienic ways of child delivery, within the context of community needs will help reduce maternal health problems. Traditional births attendants can not be neglected ina country like Nigeria because a large proportion of deliveries are attended by the TBAs and quality maternal care is not accessible to the majority of the population.Poverty eradication policies that sincerely focus on the general populace will help alleviate the plight of reproductive mothers. Government’s intervention onhighlighting the negative consequences of some unfavorable cultural practices wil lgo along way in saving the life of women.

BABIES ARE BEAUTIFUL, MOTHERS ARE IMPORTANT

SOURCE: http://toybreezyinfo..com.ng/2016/08/is-pregnancy-death-sentence-martenal.html

Useful info.. I think the website neees to scrutinize theor ad policies.

I'm viewing this topic with an itel phone... How weird..

Yuneehk:

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histemple:
That is it! The first usual reaction of African Christians in this kind of situation is "The dead has gone to heaven so let the killers repent".

Other times, we accuse God of permitting such acts. It's particularly annoying because it is difficult to believe that the same loving God who rescued Shadrack, Meshack and Abednego from a burning furnance would permit His evangelists to be killed in such a slow and painful fashion.

I still wonder what the bible was telling Christians in Matthew 11:12 when it said-------From the days of John the Baptist, the kingdom of God has been suffering violence and only the violent can take it by FORCE.

What the late woman told the told is just normal and it doesn't suggest that she had any premonition of death.

reply if you want to know what Christianity is all about,,, God has told us that we are not of this world. our stay here is limited

check out my thread https://www.nairaland.com/3215082/exciting-things-might-possible-future