₦airaland Forum

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sillyboy:
1. . . . . .my husband slapped me twice when i was lying on bed because i asked him why he is sleeping without taking his bath,

I find that difficult to believe. He couldnt have slapped you because of that. Twice for that matter.

2. . . . . . .[/b] i got so angry and insulted him,  
You must have really struck a bad chord. What exactly did you say to him, what are the unpleasant stuffs you said?. . . .Am curious. . .lol. Women and their "tolotolo" mouth sha!

3. . . . . .what annoys me most is that  im pregnant
Eyahh. . . .kpele sogbo.  

4. . . . . . .Now he will not give me food money,


Dont you work? It's really stupid and archaic for a woman to depend on a man even if he's the hubby to eat in this century. If i were him, I wouldnt give you for 3 months, maybe that will make u look for a job.

@ the last bolded part:

I'm sure you know some naija men require their wives to submit their paychecks to them (the husbands) as soon as it comes in.

From the supposedly combined paychecks, the man now "graciously" gives the wife money to feed the ousehold.

That's some guys' idea of a happy marriage!!! Some women's ideal marriage too, who knows!!

Different strokes for different folks.

In any case, what kind of nasty miserly Scroogelike babyish character refuses to let his pregnant wife eat? Was this man tortured while growing up and now he's taking it out on his wife?

ITS TERRIBLY UNMANLY TO HIT A WOMAN.

A real man works on his temper if he knows he has a problem with it.  If he cant control his temper, then he should take a walk!!

Let him try hitting a western woman- either AA or white- the same way and see how fast they'll deal with him. The one wey never hit sef them dey deal with am how much more  an unrepentant batterer.

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DaPhoenix:
It is rumored that he was cheating on her, she found out and confronted him and then he hit her showing his cowardice like all women beaters do.

He was cheating on her? And followed it up by some dirty slaps?

not surprising!!!

Let me not talk and disturb some fragile egos here!!!!! Them go talk say I dey generalize!!!

spoilt:
provoked by being told to 'baff'? I go die oh!

 Na wa for us oh!!!!!!

See how we Nigerians just dey embarrass ourselves for here.

Soon now a foreign lady being wowed by some naija dude will start a thread asking if its a taboo to bath, in Nigerian culture, since she read Naija men slap their wives if they dare suggest it.

@ Cristalz:

I read your last few posts oh!!

Hope you're a lawyer so you can defend such people when they're explaining it to the judge!!!

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tiffcisco:
. My best friend had a horrible father who beat her mother and her sisters all the time. She has told me the sadest stories. Being 13 years old and holding her mother in her arms as she was bleeding from her ears and worse.

OMG!!!!!!!!!

lord have mercy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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yeah, why remove the modify button? that's weird. I dont know any forum without one.