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SAMBARRY: too much nollywood dey worry you. Stop watching home videos of stoopeed ghost in cele gown and dusting powder all over his body chasing the Widows new husband with cane.

picture to go with the post?

pickabeau1: LMAO...

Traditionally..the female ghost has no issues as long as d new woman does not maltreat the kids left behind

so the male ghost is the one who will have issues with his wife humping someone?

kid matter no dey even concern am.

Best response so far.

Who do south african men marry?

Only white ladies?

jabanz: reply them with same

Then what happens?

Op

If it seems all the good men have been taken, that means the ones you are seeing, are the ones you're supposed to be with.

Lord have mercy.

Well, if the person is not faking it ( as in yahoo yahoo), it does take a lot for them to express their feelings that way ( if they are not womanizers that is).

And they could be very hurt if its not reciprocated.

However, if it isn't, then its better to let them know I suppose. That will bring closure and allow the person to move on.

All this is hypothetically speaking of course.

What do I know,

Sunkyphil: u shld av laid it straight from day one.y wait till now b4 letting her know

True that.

Godmystrength: what ever gender the person falls into, if communicating with your ex is causing/going to cause problem in your marriage then don't just start it. Just put yourself in your spouse's shoes and see how it feels then take a decision.

Great advice.

beeevan: If I talk to my husband ,he no hear, i will talk to the woman 's husband. You can't put fire on mine and be sitting pretty in yours. You have every reason to be concerned, " you reason myopically"? Most men will say that till they are caught pants down, then poor old devil takes the blame .

True talk, you are very wise.

kristonium: Hand washing to prevent Ebola spread in front
of a bank in Lagos.
!

These things are common practice overseas.

I wonder why, with so many nigerians abroad, something like hand sanitizer and hand washing took ebola to catch on in nigeria?

hatux: Lol .. Prevention is better than cure! But what bout person wey get am already and washes his/her hands also in that same water?

Are you referring to water in a bowl?


Washing hands in a bowl of water is not a good practice anyway.

I don't see any water though.

shouldnt someone open a thread for light skinned guys as well, since some people prefer light skin.

Quite risky, true.

Chatting with strangers on social media seems somehow.

Besides, who even knows if its a fake moniker.

charijee: Reverse case of marriage proposal

True that.

That profile picture has been around for a while though, under another id.

Seun: Someone dared you to do this, right? Congrats on winning the dare.

Didn't know seun can joke?

Nlers do have a huge fear of engaged or married women having contact with other males besides their partners, however that's not to say the fear ( phobia) is not rooted in reality.

The nature of the chats is what you should be concerned about.

If she's a responsible person then there's nothing to fear.

However, the question does arise of why does she need to chat with many guys?

Fake story right?

Do you mean chat as in greet them or chatting on social media?

There's obviously more to the story.

Sehindemi: Same as meh...It was a gud impression though!

True.

It has its advantages.

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Agybabe: Never had any.

To me it was a sin to touch a guy back then.

True.

In reality though, lecherous men do not go after widows alone.

For them, its a lifestyle and every woman they see, is fair game.

The widow just happens to be in a vulnerable position relatively speaking.

Nigerians and superstition, yes that's a possibility.

However, why is a widow's husband looking down on someone humping his wife but a widower's wife wouldn't be considered as doing the same when her husband is humping somebody?

Just curious.

temigracie: ...sometyms if we human beings dont chop chop around,we dont appreciate d homecooking....aldo,bad experience s nt gud...but how can we learn??

true, sometimes bad experiences are needed in order to learn, but other times bad experiences are best avoided.