₦airaland Forum

donpeey22: @op, i think you are right in the sense that some ladies think that a man being 'God fearing' is a guarantee that he wouldn't cheat, but that's a very wrong assumption as many of the so called 'God fearing' men and even the so called 'men of God' have been caught in the act of marital infidelity. The truth is that many good men are even atheists who are naturally good and don't have have to live in perpetual fear of any 'god'. It takes a PRINCIPLED man whether atheist or theist, to stay faithful in marriage.

is it even about principles?

ah nor do is ah nor do, is it by force?


not everyone is tripped by whatever is called titillating, for some, even if they are, they consider it a negative emotion.


personally, i'm glad i'm not a man because i get so irritated by some things which others consider irresistible.

cant imagine being constantly harassed in the name of na by force.

lord have mercy.

xyoung: Like the topic suggest, jus wanna sample opinions if this is anything wrong with this morally. I mean for a matured guy searching for a wife and assuming you see a girl that matches all your expectation on the physical beauty side (mind you, her character can only be known when you talk to her)
The problem is that you are jus a visitor in that city and might not go there again..
Is it a sin to toast a girl in the house of God in that circumstance

you only saw her physical appearance and know nothing of her character.

and vice versa.

you could be boko haram for all anyone knows, and vice versa too.

lord have mercy.

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carefreewannabe: What would it look like?

i also wonder what he knows it will look like.

ayomidej: You knew him before you got married so stop complaining

true that.

Ben13: I'm confused.

by?

triad: the heart of 'Man' is deceitful and desperately wicked who can know it only God .

true that.

the word bastard is used as an insult.

however, it is wrong to call someone a bastard if the circumstances of their birth are none of your business.

i'd say face your front and let the people concerned sort themselves out, ewo ni olugbeja on'ja.

Salvation through Jesus Christ.

That is indeed a gift of inestimable value.

so you've never met a non-religious man who isnt a womanizer?

seriously, i dont know where many of you nlers get your views from ,but you have to admit a lot of times, some of your views are just wack.

Dopefiend:

Right. Bunch of lazy doctors misbehaving at this point of need. F,.uck em. Serves them right. Go and carry arms and start bombing hospitals because they sacked you.

nigerian schools (including the medical ones) need to be vetted to check what kind of graduates they're producing.

seems your choices and mindset are questionable, people like you should be subjected to close observation, in an ideal world.

^ different families, different dynamics.

what works for you may not necessarily work for another.

hence, the op's point in opening the thread, makes no sense.

@ topic

game actually wouldnt include monkey. Or generally doesnt include monkey except in africa?

will these animals ever be certified safe to eat again?

they're generally an important part of the local cuisine.

although of course if they're endangered then people have to eat regular meat or fish, or go vegetarian.

marylandcakes: Rum in its self is alcohol so any cake with rum in the name cannot be free from alcohol.

true, probably rum extract (alcohol free) or a substitute (artificial flavor) is used.

http://www.thenewhomemaker.com/node/70785


http://www.justapinch.com/recipes/dessert/cake/rum-using-rum-or-rum-extracts-in.html

looks good.

i dont get involved in people's lives to that extent, ie to the extent i should be passing judgement on choices that concern only them, and which do not directly call for my involvement.


everyone has their own challenges to face.

looks interesting.

especially the submit a movie feature.

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benromeo39: I personally do not care if my parents approve of the girl I want to marry, if convincing them proves futile, I'll simply run off with her and get married in the Caribbeans. what about you? Share your views.

why do you need other views?

wetin you wan take views do?

eleojo23: There is an erroneous thinking that the university is the best place to find a husband. It may have worked in the past but these days we have kids gaining admission into university. The guys are too young and may not even think about marriage for a very long time after graduation. So hooking up with these young boys with the hope that something will come out of the relationship is unrealistic unless the lady wants to have a long wait. I think it is a waste of precious time and energy unless both are mature and have high prospects of getting married. .

i think you mean getting a job after university may take time.

i doubt the average male in university these days is younger, because secondary school education is 6 years, add to that the long wait time which many experience before they get admission.

the reason why going steady in university might not be as feasible now is due to globalization in addition to the points i outlined.


besides, there are a lot of women who have graduated, are working and single.

They'll also be searching for husbands, so all these things will make university relationships more challenging.

yes.

quite literally true.