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Kokobebi: 30,1 partner-my husband..
He's 38, claims he can count em on both hands.. (ofcourse I know he's lying)

Was very resentful of this when we just got married as sometimes I still feel that I should have lived..instead of spending my whole life reading,not attending parties,going to church OR at least married someone with the same history as me..
He's a great guy but sometimes when he annoys me,I just wonder

hmm, well, nobody or marriage is perfect though.

instead of just listing the numbers, why not give descriptions of the partners/lovers, what you miss about them, compare their different styles and sizes, which one/s did you enjoy most, etc.

dont forget you broke up however- not to get carried away and stuff.

good for her!

later some people will say they dont want to be born in nigeria.

i wonder which other country enjoys better dividends from politics.

Ansell: how ds one con take concern guys wey dey suffer in d bottomless pit of friend-zone?

your definition of suffering is lack of sex from one girl, boko haram's definition of suffering is starvation and sleeping in the jungle on bare ground.

do the maths.

Chaleeee: Reserve your sympathies for manipulative ladies who want all the girlfriend privileges from a guy but don't want to date the guy.

so, are you being forced to give out "girlfriend privileges"?


if you want sex and are not getting it from a girl, then waka pass nah? Surely you dont mean no single girl will give you what you're looking for.


guys even tend to supply themselves with booty calls, are you saying even that option is not available to you?

Stillfire: Without adding ethics/morals to the topic, I absolutely agree. If a man doesn't want the child and she does, she should solely take care of the child. There certainly are outliers and all cases may not carry equal weight like a married couple or teenagers, but a grown woman must be held accountable for her actions. I believe stricter measures should be employed in issues like this, so that women would be more selective in their choice of bed mates.

makes sense.

to address this particular comment:

Abi the size of the ikebes of our women will rip the heavenly denim? Does he think they are all fat?? That's racist (and fatist)

since most african women are big in the nether regions (ie they have big butt), it behoves the serious christians among them to dress modestly and not with the intention of encouraging lust and f.ornication in the church.

just thought i should mention that.

striktlymi: I don't think we should judge the success of a marriage or not based on the occupation of either spouses. The success is dependent on the people involved and their approach to it.

not always true in this case- more relevant for non ministerial couples.

its a highly dangerous position.

lets act civilized plz.

majority of us are even overseas, this is rather embarrassing.

people are starting to sound like armed robbers, opening threads to ask for omorogun, time of day or night, etc.

here is the nl dictionary:

https://www.nairaland.com/261964/nairaland-official-igbo-hausa-yoruba

swagloverss: If a man tells woman to get an abortion and she refuses, why should he be forced to pay child support?

For instance, a man impregnated a woman and decides that he is not mentally, physically or financially able to support a child and tells the mother to go get an abortion and the woman refuses, why should the man have to pay child support?.

I mean if a woman decides to keep the baby, that's her decision, not the man's. The man made it clear that he didn't want the child then why should he have to take care of the child since it was the woman who wanted to keep it and not him?

how do you force someone to pay child support?

Are you referring to court ordered payments or something else?

Chaleeee: Friendzone is the worst thing to happen to a man.

well, i am sorry for you and your ilk.

lord have mercy.

Olami099: No,but too much of it can lead to early grave in dis world.It is not all what d eyes see or d ear hears dat he disclose.

quite right.


you have to understand, if you're among people with a certain viewpoint, being different will be considered a crime.


Its all a question of perspective.

when you dont have God, you become aimless.

True, there's nothing really wrong per se with expressing how you feel, within reason.

Mekazz10: Wel, that's a good question. We mostly have to wear clothes in common

You mean aso ebi or anko things.

Or just the fact that you're not nudists.

NickiRoman: Lotta Liars on this thread ...I know most of y'all are lying but continue

Makes interesting reading and draws traffic, we are told.

skyface00: The only thing we have in common is NOTHING and i still love her

Nice.

The question needs to be asked because . . . . . .

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Price is different from value.

As they say in america, what does it profit you to know the price of everything and the value of nothing?


Let's stop all these valueless threads plz. How have such topics disturbed boko haram?

AniLee: Dude, seriously, get a life

He or she says s/he's female though.

Have you married the person yet?

But on another thread you said you're from umuohia, abia state.


Even without that information, you still don't look yoruba nah, despite wearing yoruba attire.

Are those your real names?

acidtalk: Please break it down.
Don't understand you.

Past is past and present is present.

I don't believe so.

@topic.

Eg rsvp, entertainment, etc.


In advance.

Just wondering.

They usually tend to be in this format, with minor tweaks here and there to make it look like the subject matter is not the same:


Why does the sun shine ?

Why is rain wet?

Why is river niger in nigeria?

Why can't I be white/ non black/etc?

Why did God make me and why am I always typing s.tupid questions on nl?

Why am I abnormal?


And so on ad infinitum.

Come on, some questions are really s.tupid nah, and what exactly dictates you must expect an answer to d.aft questions about why you did or saw jack.