₦airaland Forum

peggykorol: Nor be today Yansh dey Back
I would go close to them and check if he had a condom on

You would?

The man will run away o, maybe you always use condom when he's not home, just asking.

coogar: oil/gas is not competitive, nigerians just head into it with a flawed résumé.

any other career options depend on which discipline, the qualifications or certifications, etc.

In nigeria, it is difficult to get anything without connections, regardless if a resume is flawed or perfect.

The suggestions I'm looking for are people who do not have such assistance, what are the other options for a career.

Tbaba should explain better, what's the correlation.

You're quite aware if a thread is about Islamic matters it is featured in Islamic section.

What's wrong with that?

Same thing goes for threads on other religions- they are moved to religion section unless we all want confusion here.

[quote author=Sisi_Kill]Errr... I don't know which post you are referencing oh but this is the one I am talking about.



Her husband wants to buy another car, they can afford the car so why not?

The Children's school is far, husband wants to change schools because he is tired of doing Israelite's journey everyday....she refuses. Why on earth would anyone want to make life difficult for someone they claim they love if they don't have a personality problem?!!

I'll always applaud anyone....Man or woman who preaches mutual respect. It doesn't take a million others applauding for me see who makes sense and who doesn't.[/quote]It is wrong to judge others based on subjective info presented by mischievious nlers.

If an alfa or spiritualist told the couple the exact same thing that poster is complaining about ( like its his business), there'd be no argument at all.

Dem say and I heard na beer parlour gist.

There is nothing wrong with buying another car if they have the money, at the same time it seems like the man is not keeping his ears to the ground.

coogar: oil/gas, madam tpia.
you can't go wrong in this industry & it's beneficial even in nigeria as you have a higher likelihood of working with decent & honest people than say the banking industry.

Thanks, any other career options? ( open question).

Oil and gas is highly competitive and not everyone has the connections needed to get in.

kuntele: Seriously this thread is not for girls/ladies/women/Madam etc.

You are only allowed to read but not to comment. This thread is to help family men handle some challenges based on the experiences shared in this thread. Some men have more years of experience in their marriage and its cool to know what they have been doing differently to keep the marriage.

I'm yet to see any such men on the thread yet, maybe I didn't read all the posts.

Obviously, there are issues on ground hence the current silence before the storm on nl.

Just go to a hospital if you pick up anything from somewhere.

Belle, std, whatever.

Its not a big deal if you don't consider it one.

Nothing new after all.


You can also try all these herbal supplements commonly advertised on nl.

Em, I've commented, pardon me.

[quote author=Sisi_Kill]@ Nashville
Great Posts!!!!


You and Debosky ought to get together and write a "How to be a THINKING (not thoughtful oh even though y'all are ) Man! Manual[/quote]Are you sure you read his posts well or you're being carried away because he was applauded ( nicest explanation)?

Just asking, since this is how people get scammed.

Just gotta point out one teeny tiny itty bitty thing. . .being a nasty selfish, self-centered unyielding woman has nothing to do with equality. Your friend's wife has a personality problem and I am sure she will act the same way no matter what kinda relationship she is in.

Explain how the friend's wife has a personality problem but the friends who want to run his life don't.

When "friends" are vying with a man's wife and kids for his attention (ie his money), what would a reasonable man do?

Oh boy, this is pandora's box.


Talk about a can of worms, where are the damage control specialists, you need to get busy.

People keep underestimating this guy.

solomon111: As if the ones in power have not done enough harm,washington is now trying to create the next generation of western puppets to ensure the continuous subjugation of the next generation of africa to the will of the west.
Oh,foolish africa!
Who has bewitched you?
We should be learning from china,india and brazil.
Unlike the west,we share a similar background to those three nations.

We actually don't have a choice, it has to be one foreign power or another.

Key word here is foreign.

But, if freebies are being thrown out, might as well take them and relieve some of the suffering.

Is that olympic sized swimming pool in his house?

Questions arising for the down to earth folks ( not the fantasy oriented ones plz)

What other professions or areas of study yield good pay and a reasonable wage outside of the health fields?

Ideas needed.

No jokers , thanks.

lord have mercy, ritual things.

someone had been monitoring her cycle.

lord have mercy.

Alikaxon: I'm not married yet, I'm only 15years old, what should I say...?

is there any forum for 15 year olds?

i've come across a few, what do you find interesting here?

besides, i think most youths your age, are building their own websites for things that interest them.

if indeed you're 15 and not some old timer trying to pretend.

then too, much of european culture in medieval times was derived from what they observed in arab lands.

i used to have a book about this, would have scanned the page.

according to wiki,

The modern jury evolved out of the ancient custom of many ancient Germanic tribes whereby a group of men of good character was used to investigate crimes and/or judge the accused. The same custom evolved into the vehmic court system in medieval Germany. In Anglo-Saxon England, juries investigated crimes. After the Norman Conquest, some parts of the country preserved juries as the means of investigating crimes. The use of ordinary members of the community to consider crimes was unusual in ancient cultures, but was nonetheless also found in ancient Greece.

however, some schools of thought hold:

John A. Makdisi argues that many concepts of English common law, including juries at least partly, derive from Islamic law. In the same period as William the Conquerer conquered England, Norman adventurers led by Robert Guiscard had taken Sicily, previously under the Arab Fatimid Caliphate. Thus, Makdisi claims, English law became influenced by the Islamic law used in Sicily under the Fatimids, including the use of the twelve man jury. Makdisi suggests that Henry II's laws would have been influenced through people such as Thomas Brown, a member of Henry's government who had previously served in the Sicilian government

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jury#Historical_roots

gives a very unflattering view of the state of the nigerian educational system, or is it the state of the nairalanders education system.

Your lips are sealed forever and not your pen or keyboard.

lol, lord have mercy.


chief ffk and his escapades.

him exes no go forget am at all.

im no dey say goodbye o, na only "so long".

Skii: Brosis, una dey ves o!

Sir Ken Robinson says we should stop blaming people born in the information age (20s now) for their attitudes. The internet provides a platform for people of all age groups to express themselves.

not all the half bakeds are 20 year olds or semi illiterate.

although admittedly more are.

for those who are not, good for them.

they're in all sections now.

According to the statement the new Director General of NYSC who hails from Iyin Ekiti, in Ekiti State, attended the Nigerian Defence Academy, Kaduna, and was commissioned into the Nigerian Army on Sept. 23, 1989.

He has a Bachelor of Science’s degree in Mathematics from the Nigerian Defence Academy, a Bachelor of Engineering degree in Mechanical Engineering from the University of Florin.

He holds a Master’s degree in Defence Studies from the Kings College, London.

http://www.nigerianeye.com/2013/12/brig-johnson-olawunmi-appointed-as-new.html

kuntele: Hey peeps, I believe there are mature men here to discuss how they have been coping with the challenges that come with their marriages. Lately for me, I have not been socially active due to a particular project that I have been working on that made me to glue my eyes to my computer even when my wife gist at the rate of 2500 words per second . She knows the project required much of my time and she understand but you know 'na' wife can be selfish at times seeking 100% of your attention even when shes aware that you have much to do.Free free to share your experience on how you manage your busy schedule with giving attention to your wife's gist.

stop the project and attend to your wife's gist nah, abi how you wan do am?

before she meets some guy who gists her back!

nobody should quote me btw.

ISpiksDaTroof: Why is everything you ever post always lacking in common sense? U always sound like u were above the age of 50 before u ever boarded a plane.

oh, sorry, i didnt know the world is your oyster.

in the olden days, oga ffk would have published a few books sha.

standard ones o, not papapaa.

scipher: you people have brought ghanians into this again..didnt you read the thread title

must you shiver everytime you hear the name ghanaian?

maybe your conscience is judging you, regardless, thats your own wahala.

I did not abuse ghanaians and neither did i invite anybody to jump in and start abusing them.

so you half bakeds should spare me your usual whining and moaning and kindly stop derailing the thread. Nobody cares, get it?



in the US, the most accomplished group of africans still remain ghanaians.

Besides, ghanaians are doing much better than nigerians, imo.