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maclatunji: God has blessed you with vision.

To be honest, I cannot say this is what my exact reaction would be because it would depend on a whole lot of things but let me analyse the situation:

1. I would be really upset and troubled- I intend to marry someone that loves me and I would not expect her to act in such a manner.

2. At the point of smashing my phone, I would become what I call "rightfully indignant", at this point I am acting on pure rage and it is usually a sight to behold- it has happened about 2 times in the past although not related to romance, I get that way when people are literally taking me for granted and expecting me to accept the wrong thing they are doing to me. Note: I did not hit anybody both times.

3. I suspect that the unnatural rage that will radiate from my eyes, voice and body language should be enough to convince her that keeping me locked-up is a bad idea.

4. If 3 does not work, my pragmatic sense would probably take over. The notion would be to get her out of the way without doing much harm to her. This might involve having to physically overpower her and getting her away from the door. I can't afford to lose my job. I might not ask for the key if it is a door. I would simply attempt to break it down with kicks- I have done it before. I am sure she should have come to her senses when neighbours dash to the door.

I pray I never have to experience such.

P.S: How would I attempt to overpower her? Lifr her in one swift movement and probably carry her to the room, drop her as gently as possible on the bed and lock her in before she can make her way out.

Give the key to someone I trust to let her out, probably an elderly female neighbour.

No one prays to experience such but stuff does happen.

I assume, in your example, the wife felt the husband was on his way to hook up with a lady of easy virtue or some such, that's one of the main things that could lead to that behaviour.


Btw, what are your opined methods for calming your wife down when she is angry at you?

He man ( carrying etc) might not always be possible, just saying. If she's really furious, it wouldn't necessarily work.

Also, courtship should be the time to observe how you both display anger?

He's a typical ijaw man.

[quote author=@simple]This is a good and reasonable question, but some of u answered it any how or make an unguided statement. SIBLINS go apart while growing up owing to many factors.1. strive: As they grow up compitation for who to be honoured by parebts and people around. and this common when the boys are following one another closely in age.
2. Parents: some parents give preferancial treatment to their children and this brought envy.
3. wivies. 90% of problem in
families are caused by women.
my brother just pray that will restor the first love. It is better heard than to experience.[/quote]Hmmm

so nigeria doesnt have rebels?

why are so many lies flying around.

there was no such thing as a protectorate of lagos, @ op.

eyin half bakeds tun tide o.

why cant you just type with sense?

there was a colony of lagos which was later included in the southern protectorate.

hmm.

hmmm, lord have mercy.

^how would you handle the situation you mentioned?

i wonder why our celebrities refuse to meet [ie acknowledge] their fans on nairaland.

apart from a few like tiwa savage, etc.

is it shameful for them to be associated with the site?

actually, i saw somewhere people were abusing each other's tribe [as usual], and one commenter said "this is not nairaland".

wow, disgraceful sha, lord have mercy.

but, i've asked before, why cant they have a section or thread where they can openly interact with their fans like they do on other social media.

i think most (or a significant number of) nigerian youths smoke weed.

what would be their reason not to?

of course i could be wrong.

not so unusual, lord have mercy.

you want to stop smoking just when it got legalized?

weird.

more scam @ topic.

development is supposed to be spread across a state, at a relative pace.

not limited to one or two places alone.

however, perhaps i see your point.

hmm,

this option should be added for those who want to switch off the pm function.

most times it doesnt even work, whats the point really.

must one receive pm just because one is on nl?

is this a picture of Oba Akitoye I?



https://scontent-b-iad.xx.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ash3/35336_144444592232955_3761490_n.jpg



https://www.facebook.com/media/set/?set=a.127510660593015.22597.126727597337988&type=3


He looks distinctly mixed, is there any info on his parentage?

[img]https://www.nairaland.com/attachments/1495623_awpid-tiwa-savage_pounding_yam_jpge10d282ce7bdc1155b02b08032ed2f69[/img]

african lady

https://styljunki.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/12/Tiwa-Savage-Styljunki-620x348.jpg

ezeagu: Wasn't it more like the wars were after the abolition, and then Niger Coast Company, and then amalgamation.

the wars were before and during the abolition.

some were after.

^are you looking for a gay lover?

i dont think he asked for your opinion, why are you jumping in his face.

[img]http://myhairmybeauty.files./2012/07/screen-shot-2012-07-20-at-07_28_39.png[/img]

ezeagu: What do you mean?

the amalgamations were after the abolition of the slave trade.

or are the onlookers in the picture mostly freed slaves?

just curious.

The governor, who is a medical doctor, said the government team would later meet with the NMA on the new development

seems its only two states which have doctors as governors, rather a small number out of 36 or so states imo.

and given the fact that the nigerian healthcare system is in serious need of improvement.

[quote author=Circle-Of-Wilis]i see it as a duplication of office[/quote]maybe when they spell out the duties of the surgeon general. . . . . . . .

anyway, who are the shortlisted candidates?