₦airaland Forum

Beesluv:
why not

will it lead to something unsavoury?

i understand it might not be advisable for married women (maybe) due to the risk of affairs, sugar mummy, etc appearances, but for single women, assuming all things being equal, does it mean they must start dating?

If, for example, you see a guy standing in the hot Nigerian sun waiting for molue or okada, should you just bone your face and ignore?

Does giving a guy a ride mean the woman has other underhand plans?

just curious, and what are the risks, especially in a country like Nigeria.

how far with the trade deal Obama is working on?


and how is Nigeria going to be involved in all these?

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do you have a picture of when you were 16 that you wouldn't mind posting here?

kogi state(his state of origin)

how so?

why you start with deja vu nah. . . . . .

if na alphabetical order then ceteris paribus suppose begin the list.

danbrowndmf:
Those things those not happen regularly,jus because it happens to ur friend's mum that does not guarrante u he's gonna happen to her... Am not discuraging her but at 35, u hardly see a man around 38 to 40 who his still single and has no child, secondly even if u see they might not meet up ur criteria.e.g they might an illiterate,they might be handicap or stuffs like that....OP said she left one guy becus he was biosexual or stuffs like that...he was biosexual was he not caring enough? Answer this question OP,lets start from here....

she's probably waiting for a widower.

Phantomstranger:
If you really are shantelle, I'll marry you.......

more like sheniqua alt id. . . . . . .

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Well, the mind reading attempts are on schedule?

Golovic:
Please house, can anyone advice, based on experience / information on how to RENEW American passport for child (minor <16yrs old) in Nigeria?
Is it easy (wrt the process) to do it here in 9ja.
I have 'googled it' and know the requirements, but just want to know if it can be done easily in 9ja.

US embassy website, not google.

The info should be on the US embassy website.

Na human being una dey call whale?

Infrastructure outside the west is not, and should not be expected to be, the same as infrastructure in the west. West in this case includes any first world country or economy.

You have to work with what's available in the country of destination and while some of your points are valid, I wouldn't say so for all of them.

Yes you are weird.



Not another accent thread.

Articul8:
The hall where everything starts! Name it.

Frat things. I think.

Its a frat hall.

when its chilly?

Shantelle80:
Believe me or not, i have so much on my plate right now that i would not waste my time writing a script on nairaland for what purpose ?
I went out with 4 maybe 5 guys before i met my first boyfriend (the bi sexual one). we went on several dates because we clicked at some level. Then i would end up pretty quickly in the friend zone mainly because i didn't want to have sex right away. I became friend with most of them and after a while asked them why it didn't work out. This is how i got my answers. They said they thought from day 1 that it would not be it for the reason i told you guys.
I'm not immodest enough to think that i have no responsability in my relationship failures. I made poor choices for sure and may be i'm not affectionate or passionate or sexually driven enough. May be i have several other flaws but i'm not a bad person. All in all, i'm not a bad person and i didn't deserve to be deceived and betrayed twice.

You are over analyzing your issues.

You should focus on the pregnancy and baby first, then worry about husband or your past history with men, later.

Btw, you and I both know you are simply channeling other people's stories, not sure you're even female.

For anyone in this situation, you should be grateful to God for what you have, not what you don't have. You have a well paid job, you are not worrying about where your next meal is coming from, you are in reasonable health, there are others who do not have these things.

So stop trying to create drama over your past boyfriends and do not let anybody incite you to what will be counter productive for you. Remember, they get paid to see you destabilized.

Nigerian canoe:

https://news.bbcimg.co.uk/media/images/48244000/jpg/_48244351_akinmade_lagoon_03.jpg

what response are you looking for that you couldn't dream up yourself, and why must the whole world be involved in the matter?

OAU Ife, view

https://farm1.staticflickr.com/107/274705733_9126b948c4.jpg

Shantelle80:
Please guys, portraying me as the kind of woman whom only purpose in life is to find a man to take care of her is just not fair.
Actually i think making marriage the last box to check on my list is part of the reason why i'm where i am today.
You see when i was 15, i made myself a promise: i would date no boy/man, no matter what, before i graduated from college and find a job. So i entered the dating game at only 25/26. Then i had an hard time finding a man because so many of them told me that i was a "good/fine girl" but that they "couldn't handle a woman like me" without even giving me a chance. The less educated ones told me they would feel unsecured or challenged by me. The equally or more educated ones told me they needed to focus on making great carreers so they wanted a stay at home mom or at least a woman with a less time consuming job to handle their household. So i was stucked in the middle. I never thought that being married is the ultimate goal in a woman's life nor that it is the thing that would define me. I just wanted to find love and share it. Is that unreasonable ?

how many men are you referring to here?

btw, i'm sure this is a script, but you can prove me wrong if need be.

Now, let's assume the "so many" at your 25/26, were say four men. Then the "less educated ones", perhaps more than two or three. Lastly, the "equally educated ones" should be maybe two to five?

That's a number of between eight and twelve men, in about three years. If they all made excuses for not wanting to go further in the relationship (I assume this is fiction), then you should probably look beyond them for reasons.

redsconsult:
Production of biafra army in making

hm