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Romance / Re: I’m Not Controversial I Am Just Too Pretty by tpiander: 4:18pm On Feb 26, 2020
proclinician:


Hmmm I think I am foolish and proofs about this keeps coming up everyday. I pray I get the help I need boy.

Keep pretending.

Why are you so bothered about being called foolish btw.
Religion / I Think It's Ok To Be Doctrinally And Denominationally Different by tpiander: 4:15pm On Feb 26, 2020
Reinventing the wheel is not as easy as people might think.


When you try to remove the divisions, it can cause chaos thus it's better to be careful.

Re: Anglican and Catholic in Nigeria.

Let each be persuaded in his own mind.
Politics / Nobody In Nigeria Seems To Have A Clean Ancestor, Do You? by tpiander: 11:34am On Feb 26, 2020
We are always told the reason why anybody is suffering is because their Nigerian ancestor did something bad.

If you have spotless ancestors let's know .
Religion / How Do You Feel Seeing Your Pastor's Wife With A Pregnancy? by tpiander: 11:26am On Feb 26, 2020
Does it make you uncomfortable?

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Family / What Are Some Characteristics Of Growing Up In A Nigerian Home? by tpiander: 10:52am On Feb 26, 2020
Number 1 is fighting oh.

If you grew up with no fighting at all between your siblings then your family must be amazing.
Culture / Which Nigerian State Would You Like For Your Baby? by tpiander: 2:44pm On Feb 25, 2020
Assuming you want to choose.
Family / Nl Men Share Your Breakup Story by tpiander: 1:44pm On Feb 25, 2020
A lot of males here emphasize the fact they dont want to be obliged to any woman and prefer to opt out of relationships as quickly as possible.

Share your story of how you're doing, and what you might have done differently.
Romance / Are You Responsible For The Sexual Habits Of Your Relatives? by tpiander: 11:11am On Feb 23, 2020
Do you feel it's your responsibility?
Celebrities / Yes, In Nigeria You Can Make Tons Of Money From The Not So Rich Areas by tpiander: 8:15pm On Feb 11, 2020
If you have a good business plan and security.
Romance / What's The Proper Way To Urinate? Loud Flow Or Soft Brief Stream? by tpiander: 9:06pm On Feb 09, 2020
Share.

Which method of urination do you like best?
Politics / Re: Which Town Do You Feel Would Sound Good As A State Name? by tpiander: 8:47pm On Feb 09, 2020
Info on the town ( I'm not too familiar with it):

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ogoja
Politics / Re: Which Town Do You Feel Would Sound Good As A State Name? by tpiander: 8:46pm On Feb 09, 2020
So far we've had suggested examples of

Benin state

https://www.nairaland.com/5650804/man-sent-supervise-project-dont#86096461




Owerri state

UH:
Hello,

Am located in Owerri State.

Politics / Which Town Do You Feel Would Sound Good As A State Name? by tpiander: 8:45pm On Feb 09, 2020
Politics / Re: What Is The Generational Quarrel Of Your Nigerian Town Or Region? by tpiander: 5:05pm On Feb 08, 2020
What's that cause you are passionate about?
Politics / What Is The Generational Quarrel Of Your Nigerian Town Or Region? by tpiander: 5:05pm On Feb 08, 2020
Share.
Family / Truth: For Some Pple, Marriage Isn't What They Want, They Prefer Being Divorced by tpiander: 4:38pm On Feb 08, 2020
You can't ignore the fact they seem much better when they are not in a marriage. Many women in particular can attest to this fact. It doesnt mean a lot of folks (Nigerians) wouldn't be very unhappy and sad if they're divorced though.

But for others, they feel the benefits of freedom and independence in making decisions that help them, after a divorce.

A quick glance through most of the topics and posts in family section of nl, for example, would clearly show just how much a woman is expected to put up with in the name of marriage. The men would faint or run away if asked to experience similar situations. So, how many women can keep on enduring all types of inhumane treatment just for the sake of marriage? Not everyone, just saying. Likewise the men when it applies. But for Nigerians, the woman is the one at a disadvantage 9 times out of 10. Unless she's a fire breathing witch or just very wicked, she would be the underdog.

Some people simply aren't into marriage, and that's ok. We are all at different levels of evolving emotionally, some of us are still working out and coming to terms with our old experiences, our backgrounds, what we had to endure as Nigerians growing up, the poverty, etc. Marriage might intensify these emotions, instead of easing them. Sometimes people need time to mature, and come to terms with who they are now, never having left who they used to be.

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Politics / Re: . by tpiander: 3:10am On Feb 08, 2020
horsepower102:


You totally missed my point. Permanently silenced by Anioma people coming out and proclaiming that they are Igbos.

Once that is done the deniers will be silenced by the voice of the majority.

The problem is that the majority who are mostly pro-igbo are silent while the deniers who are in the minority are very loud.

Please if you misunderstood me, ask for clarification.

And what part of them proclaiming their Igbo identity have you missed so far?

I guess you didn't get the memo despite it being loud and clear. Do you need the central Nigerian government to make the announcement from Abuja?
Politics / Re: Who Do You Pay Attention To Compared To Others In Nigeria? by tpiander: 3:08am On Feb 08, 2020
I'm following a particular thread where a lot of issues are being raised (not that it's unusual).
Politics / Who Do You Pay Attention To Compared To Others In Nigeria? by tpiander: 3:07am On Feb 08, 2020
and why?
Politics / Which Places Are Considered The Most Treacherous In Nigeria? by tpiander: 1:56am On Feb 08, 2020
Give your opinion.
Politics / Which Voice Do You Want Muted In Nigeria? Mention It Here by tpiander: 1:22am On Feb 08, 2020
What is that representative persona of everything you dislike in a place and which you prefer to be silent?
Romance / Re: Trimming The Apron Strings, Nlers As A Case Study Of Emotional Dependency by tpiander: 3:36pm On Feb 07, 2020
Wait, why were both of these threads transferred to romance instead of family section?
Romance / Trimming The Apron Strings, Nlers As A Case Study Of Emotional Dependency by tpiander: 3:35pm On Feb 07, 2020
In adulthood.
Religion / How Do You Know When Someone Is Just Playing Tricks On You? by tpiander: 12:39am On Feb 07, 2020
If you're too gullible, you encourage that.
Romance / Re: Why Do You Visit Romance Section? by tpiander: 6:43pm On Feb 05, 2020
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Romance / Re: Why Do You Visit Romance Section? by tpiander: 6:39pm On Feb 05, 2020
AshiraWealthy:
Jamb question.
How many people want to ask this same question today? Only that the first questionnaire was more specific about the visitors (females) while yours is a general question "paper". tongue

Romance section should actually be for females only, since females are heavily over represented in romance.


My thread is more general because it specifies why do you visit, as opposed to the implication females are visitors while males are the owners of the section.

https://www.quora.com/Will-women-read-a-romance-novel-written-by-a-man

https://psmag.com/social-justice/dont-men-read-romance-novels-misogyny-femininity-publishing-books-92921

https://www.writersdigest.com/editor-blogs/questions-and-quandaries/publishing/are-men-writing-romance
Culture / Re: When Did Nigerians Start Travelling Overseas After The Founding Of Nigeria? by tpiander: 6:34pm On Feb 05, 2020
Founding of Nigeria give or take a few decades.
Culture / When Did Nigerians Start Travelling Overseas After The Founding Of Nigeria? by tpiander: 6:34pm On Feb 05, 2020
specifically, to North America.

Any earliest authentic records?
Romance / Which Section Is The Most Populated On Nairaland? by tpiander: 5:02pm On Feb 05, 2020
Certainly not romance section.

I think phones would be among the top ten.
Romance / Re: If You Dislike MrMike96 Let's Know by tpiander: 12:24am On Feb 05, 2020
Politics / Nigerian History Month For Nigerians Overseas? by tpiander: 12:23am On Feb 05, 2020
What's your opinion.

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