Martinez19:
I am emotionally woowoo and unrelated to the topic.

Okay. Obviously.

On no condition must a mum deny her children fatherly love because of personal dispute with her husband.

What are you on about?


I responded to the topic and the poster, why exactly are you quoting me?

This is not if a mum is or isn't denying fatherly love to the kids, I said in the situation where you have a quandary, the father should do what he can to be there for his kids. Within the limits of what he's allowed to do.

I am not interested in assigning blame nor castigating the mother and neither am I indulging in emotional jargon and woman bashing like you are.

Please do not address me again with "I know you are a female", why are you people so unrepentantly and shamelessly rude?

Grow up.

Alexaonfleek:
Um......u ever heard of reverened sisters

Explain why you included Rev sisters in the topic.


It should go without saying, I'm referring to women not in the demographic?

And is Christ not a man?

FCBboy:
you're fvcking lowlife.

Remove your picture please, it's in bad taste.

You can make your point without it.

Ever since there was a discussion on nairaland YEARS AGO about popular male Yoruba names, and Femi topped the list, the obsession with the name by certain quarters, has given a new meaning to the term obsession.

Didn't know some areas are so unfamiliar with other parts of Nigeria, na wa.

And then, some people, when they hear anything male, they don't rest again.

GrossPrice:


I disagree.

Reality speaks.

They need a man and it's painful seeing couples.

Money doesn't substitute for a male companion.

You saw it on Facebook and Instagram but brought it here, why?

And did you see the romance section topics?

How do I control my sexual urge, nigerian women have multiple boyfriends, bro hustle o because of women, etc

Why are you people spoiling for war?

Try to work something out, not every male sets out to be a deadbeat father, you have to see how proactively you are allowed to be a father to your kids and involved with them even if you have relatively limited finances, generally speaking.

It also doesn't mean there are no males who don't intentionally set out to be deadbeat fathers.

Some of the bitterness of Nigerian ladies about their SO comes from the womanizing, most women don't like that even if they're not innocent.

I think it's important to keep your relationship status updated on facebook, instagram, twitter, whatsapp, etc no matter how awkward it might seem.

Sometimes there is a "need to know".

I feel bad whenever I see fellow Nigerians who quit a relationship, later get lonely and wishing they had a man.


I know that feeling.

However, fortunately, there are single, never married Nigerian men (if you don't want to date other countries) available who are very eligible and who would love to be in a relationship with you.

Just make sure you're talking to the right person for networking.

You can also apologize to any of your former boyfriends who you broke it off with in the hopes your new relationship would be better, if it didn't work out.

She'll always need a man.

Nigerian women especially.

This looks like damage control, am I right?

E maa se parapo iranu.

na so una go lead Nigeria into war oh!

In my opinion, if "he whom you told us of" has moved on, then you do the same, there are many SINGLE NEVER MARRIED males who want to love you.

Forget all this single mother talk by jobless nairalanders.

Or else, don't allow meddlers to make you feel bad about yourself or your situation. Enjoy the circumstances you have, many are even wishing to be you.

Some women daydream 24/7 about seducing men.

I find that boring, just as bad as their male counterparts stuck on vagina.


Someone skipped at least 4 responses just to jump on an emoticon (not even a post) simply because the user id was succubus which I think means some demonic entity who sleeps with men without their consent.

Nigerians are so predictable and one track minds.


Anything outside of sex, money, juju, power, doesn't interest them and you'd be hard pressed to hold a conversation with them if sex especially is not mentioned. It might be a nairaland thing but it's probably a Nigerian thing.


I noticed the trait in some Nigerian people- it's like the men are fixated on the vagina while the women are fixated on the p.enis.(Noticeable because it's to the exclusion of any other thing).

I don't know why this is so, perhaps it's genetic and we don't realize that.

It would explain why Nigeria has such high levels of prostitution business and why entire groups willingly brave harsh deserts, etc just to offer their bodies for prostitution. Just saying why I think it might be genetic (poverty helps but this seems more complicated). Many enter the business of their own accord, there are some who do not, it is unknown if they are a minority.

Your value system is what defines you.

You can pray, fast and read the bible, none of these will keep you from marching to brothels regularly if you don't understand your spirit man.

How you value something is what you prioritize.

With Nigerians, it's always one complaint or another.

It seems there is a fight to establish their cultural identity at all means without regards for others who are there .

Did the girls hire you to be their pr or you just took it on yourself?

Nigerians and their problems.

When you all start your real time tribal war, be sure to make it clear which side you pick.

As per the buffoon saying I've offended the idiots I insult under any of my ids, you are mad.

File this insult too.

Saurab:
What is disturbing about it?

Good question.

sandraokosun:
so oshomole, udom emmanuel, ben anyade wives are igbo

I wasn't referring to Edo but the actual south south states which are Rivers, Cross River, Akwa Ibom with the exception of Bayelsa because I haven't checked yet who the governor is.

And my post was referring to the former governors of those states, not sure if Cross River has a new governor also or if its still Liyel Imoke there.

What should I take away from the story?

Op are you the lady?