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I think in any relationship there is always a leader and a follower, in nigeria and most of africa it is the men. I think for most women we arent dominant in nature so we cant stand weak men. We need to be dominated but with a touch of care as well and we love the men that can dominate us with our crazy behaviours. When i mean dominate i mean of the mind not strength mind strength

Ha i think it doesnt matter whether if a guy is handsome or not, well for me i will say sexy if a guy is charming it doesnt matter if he look like the joker in THE DARK KNIGHT he can get as much ladies as he want. Why do you think we ladies call it Prince CHARMING.

Man and woman cant be friends well there are two sides to that story for this to work (Man and a woman just be friends) this has to be in place.
I) The guy has to have his own babe
II) The guy isnt sexually attracted to the woman
III) The guy has decided not to date the woman
IV) The guy should have a life that doesnt include the woman
I dont have a guy friend because men are for f**king while i have some female friends

Girl you want him so sleep with him, he may change his mind because he loves you but he is a guy and he need assurance which you havent given him yet so when you do everything will fall into place

kizito902 FOR THE SCHOOL WAN YOU GO DEY NO TEACH YOU ENGLISH

YES IT IS VERY IMPORTANT, SAME AS COMMUNICATION. THAT IS WHY I BELIEVE Courtship WITHOUT SEX IS A WASTE OF TIME because WHAT IF YOU TWO DONT LIKE THE SAME SEXUAL PREFERENCE, IT IS BETTER TO KNOW BEFORE THE MARRIAGE STARTS

well a socially guy knows the hidden rules of flirting but most guys dont, so they take want you say on face value including girls, i love to flirt because i love the attention

Ujujoan THANKS I DIDNT EXPECT THAT FROM YOU BUT ANYWAY STOP GIVE THE DAY BAD ADVICE IT ANY OF THE GUYS IN THE FORUM OR THE GIRLS UNDERSTAND THE LIFE OF A BEAUTIFUL GIRL THE WILL MORE UNDERSTANDING

HR.hotness THANKYOU FOR YOU CLEARING THAT UP, I DO IT TO AND ALSO HAVE GOTTEN INTO A LOT OF TROUBLE BUT I STILL LOVE DOING IT BECOS IT IS BORING BEING A GOOD GIRL

confidence + voice tone = love (catalyst money)

i have told a guy that and i still eat his money over 200k

Chetachuku, IF YOUR GIRLFRIEND IS BEAUTIFUL THEN SHE WILL HAVE A LOT OF MALE FRIENDS IT IS NOW AND I THINK YOU SHOW HAVE A LOT OF FEMALE FRIENDS AS WELL, IT IS UNATTRACTIVE FOR A GUY TO BE JEALOUS. WE ALL WANT A MAN IN CONTROL OF HIMSELF NOT CONTROLLING US

iice dont you have something else to do

check out this sites askthehotchick.com, pickuppodcast.com, sosuave.com etc and look for a seduction book and buy.

why is everybody in this forum worrying the guy there is nothing wrong with what he is doing guy keep on doing it because one day she will leave whether you treat her nice or not. Although do spell check first before posting

Well you have fall in love with a guy that beats you, i think you like it maybe the part that it always end up in great sex will everybody has a different way of acting and behaving

Dont you find it funny that guys arent answering this question, well personal i think too much of everything is bad and every experience person will tell you that same thing. Why do you think guys love bad girls and girls love bad girls

Guys beware if your socalled girl never takes you out or pay for some for you or spends her hard earn money on you then you dont mean much to her. If a girl loves you she will be ready to sleep with a dog if that will get you out of trouble.

michelin89 you are dating the wrong guy, but i think you asked for too much. The relationship should not have gone that far. When i was in secondary school all the guys i dated i went to their house and they made sure their mother's arent at home and if only when a guy wants to marry me that is when his mother comes into the equation. Anyway you said he was talking about marriage well he wants you to be comfortable in this world. I think you approach was wrong. Next time ask the right question

frijos I THINK YOUR ADVICE IS THE BEST SO FAR GUYS LISTEN TO HER because SHE HIT THE NAIL RIGHT AT THE HEAD SO STOP CRYING OVER POURED MILK. MAKE YOUR LIFE INTEREST SO PEOPLE WILL want to BE AROUND THAT INCLUDES MEN AND WOMEN

ibraahim i am sorry to tell u this but she knows you want her so badly and you arent doing anything about it for 8yrs wow. the only way to get her is to show her that other girls want you so badly because she thinks of you as a friend and next time if you want a girl make your move don't wait for 8yrs wow. I mean if you dont understand me get a friend that you will be have sex with ok so two things can happen
1) she gets jealous and wants you
2) You stay with the new girl and fantasize about the girl you lost

women on nairaland are not listening and sometimes
you fall into that group sistawoman no offence. They
just want to abuse men as usual they dont care about
how their men/men feel, all they is how their men make
them feel that is all. So men dont say anything you are
just talking to a wall like most women.

Finally, those brainiacs in the scientific world have hit on something really earth-shattering (and we don't mean global warming). We're talking about personality typing. "Almost every man falls into one of four categories," says Paul Dobransky, MD, author of "The Secret Psychology of How We Fall in Love." Reasons for the differences range from hormones to psychology, and knowing the types gives insight into a guy's dating MO.
We had Dr. Dobransky, founder of kwml.com, and anthropologist Helen Fisher, PhD, chief scientific adviser for a new online dating site, break down each type. Use this info to analyze guys, have more fun with yours, and even reach soul-mate status.
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THE ROCK
SPOT HIM
Typical interests: Organized groups (like a running club), gadgets, nonfiction books
When he's stressed, he analyzes the situation and makes lists and plans.
He lights up if you say: "I could really use your advice on something.
HE'S RIGHT FOR YOU IF,
You want your boyfriend to be a supportive, steadfast partner who shares your sensible approach to life and is smart enough to get your sometimes quirky side without judging.
You're turned on by witty, intelligent conversation and gifts that show the affection he's not so great at verbalizing.
You deal with problems by talking about them rationally. This guy's always game for reasoned debates, but drama queens will lose big -- emotional outbursts freak him out.
SYNCING UP
His favorite dates: He feels most energized when he's engaging his mind, so try watching a documentary, seeing an interesting exhibit, or taking a class, such as sushi making.
Relationship requirements: This dedicated dude gets totally absorbed in his interests. If you don't even ask about them ("How was Shark Week?", he'll feel like you don't get him. He's also tuned in to etiquette, so gaffes (like bailing on plans) turn him off.
What he seeks in a soul mate: To really trust you, he has to know that you respect his cerebral nature. Help coax out his playful side with plans he'd never make on his own and he'll see you as the total package.
THE DOER
SPOT HIM
Typical interests: Sports (playing and watching), barbecuing, building things
When he's stressed, he dives in and deals with the cause, whether it means extra hours at work or a showdown.
He lights up if you say: "Is there anything you can't make happen?"
HE'S RIGHT FOR YOU IF,
You want your boyfriend to be the classic male archetype -- a protective, take-charge dude who doesn't yap about his feelings but lets his guard down when alone with you.
You're turned on by grand gestures, like spontaneous PDAs, and manly deeds, like changing your car's oil.
You deal with problems directly without any passive-aggressive BS. He's quick to confront conflict. If you are too, your issues will disappear once you hash them out.
SYNCING UP
His favorite dates: His heart beats faster (figuratively and literally) when he's active, so suggest a hike in the woods or a boxing class followed by drinks.
Relationship requirements: This on-the-go guy needs solo time to recharge and will feel smothered if you are clingy. You'll need a thick skin, because he doesn't sugarcoat things, ever.
What he seeks in a soul mate: His he-man side needs you to appreciate his efforts to lead. But under his strong, silent exterior, he's a superloyal softie. He feels complete when you can talk about the feelings that he internalizes.
THE THRILL CHASER
SPOT HIM[/b]Typical interests: Outdoor activities (like camping and skiing), foreign travel, parties and crowds
When he's stressed, he distracts himself with something amusing, like watching the game or organizing a social outing.
He lights up if you say: "Oh, you have a fascinating story about that -- c'mon, tell everyone."
[b]HE'S RIGHT FOR YOU IF,
You want your boyfriend to be a whirlwind of personality who can liven things up, make you laugh, get you out of your head, and keep you guessing, in a good way.
You're turned on by unpredictable, exciting plans.
You deal with problems in a casual, nonconfrontational way. Mr. Conflict Avoidance hates when you're unhappy with him and will deflect attention unless you tackle the issue.
SYNCING UP
His favorite dates: This class clown loves being around new people -- think karaoke night or a charity casino event. He's also thrilled by new accomplishments, like scaling a rock wall at the gym.
Relationship requirements: He needs a laissez-faire chick who won't try to rein in his inner wild child. He is willing to share the spotlight, just not all of it.
What he seeks in a soul mate: The ultimate people person bonds best with an ever-evolving woman who can match his lust for new experiences. He craves independence yet still needs to know he's important to you, so being secure enough to show you care is a must.
THE SWEETHEART
SPOT HIM
Typical interests: Music, cooking dinner for friends, reading literature
When he's stressed, he talks about it with confidants until he finds a solution.
He lights up if you say: "I never would have noticed that. You're so observant!"
HE'S RIGHT FOR YOU IF,
You want your boyfriend to be a guy who truly listens, understands your girlie side, and can talk about feelings.
You're turned on by sweet, movie-worthy romance, like slow kisses and crazy-great compliments.
You deal with problems by honestly addressing them and taking emotions into consideration. He's a philosopher at heart, and even if you two don't agree in the end, you'll learn tons about each other during your in-depth discussions.
SYNCING UP
His favorite dates: Atmosphere matters to this sensualist, so find a spot with a romantic vibe (try a botanical garden or outdoor jazz concert) for the real highlight: your ever-intensifying one-on-one bond.
Relationship requirements: This nurturer tries to know everyone he meets on a deeper level, which can be rough if you're the jealous type. Also, he's so into connecting that he'll feel dissed if you don't share your problems.
What he seeks in a soul mate: This idealist falls when he knows you value communication too. Because he tends to ruminate, you'll enhance his life by being decisive yourself.

What do you think true or bullshit?

CSI Cape town will come out first before CSI Lagos comes out

In the animal kindom the female choices the strongest
male not the handsomest or sexiest male. We women
want a man that will make us like loved, protected, sexy,
important, etc. A guy once asked his girl friend what will
you prefer a guy that makes you feel loved but does not
give you good sex or a guy that gives you good sex but
does not make you feel loved. All the ladies in the house
knows the answer to that but for the guys in the house
she said the guy that makes her feel loved but does not
give her good sex

I am a fan of both shows. They are similar because it is about
a man's man, a confident man, arrogant, crazy etc. I will like to
sleep with Dr House and Alan shore.

Mr Petrelli is awake now and he has collected
peter's powers now, Hiro has found the painter
of the future in africa, claire is now confident of
her power now, i cant wait until the next episode.