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TV/MoviesRe: Independent Or Main Stream Movie by Tranngirls(op): 11:29pm On Oct 24, 2008
Saw is an independent movie because the budget for the film
is small, no big name actors, and not the traditional film ending.
Some independent movies have big stars like From dusk til dun,
two ninas, etc
RomanceRe: Why Men Cheat 3 by Tranngirls(op): 10:03pm On Oct 20, 2008
I am not attacking anybody if yahoo wrote it so
what? Anyway i have no female friends because
i guess all their boyfriends slept with me haahhaaha
It least i dont manipulate them to do things they
dont want to do like call me everyday at least
three times, saying i love you all the time, call me
baby/honey/sweetheart. You girls make me sick
now that was an attack
RomanceRe: Why Men Cheat 3 by Tranngirls(op): 9:44pm On Oct 20, 2008
Look at my page i am a lady that loves men. And wanita1
you can do better than that call someone names isnt the
way to go. Agaba123 you feel me, that is why i dont have
lady friends because of your self righteous rubblish. A little
girl will be tell a full grown man what to do because he has
feelings for her and you dont call that manipulation
TV/MoviesRe: Do You Love Or Hate Nigerian Movies? by Tranngirls(f): 9:43pm On Oct 20, 2008
Bad acting, bad storyline, bad directing, bad editing,
stupid soundtracks, bad lighting etc well i think i have
made my point
TV/MoviesRe: Denzel Washington Vs. Will Smith (Poll) by Tranngirls(f): 9:29pm On Oct 20, 2008
I love them both but Will Smith films has made more money
than ever Tom Cruise's films so it is not even close.
RomanceRe: Why You Need Not Marry A Poor Guy by Tranngirls(f): 9:26pm On Oct 20, 2008
Well it poster made it to be a little spicy but in the end
she explained herself well and i think she made a good
point. But i know girls will use this as an excuse to be
call a gold digger. the truth is the average girls is a
gold digger so guys beware
TV/MoviesRe: Independent Or Main Stream Movie by Tranngirls(op): 9:03pm On Oct 20, 2008
That was after it was a hit already and i mean
major movie studios. Another name is low
budget movies.
RomanceRe: Why Men Cheat 3 by Tranngirls(op): 8:51pm On Oct 20, 2008
I thought women will like to know this about their man but
as most women are they dont care about anyone but them
selves and their way. We women always want to manipulate
the men in our lives so i advice all guys out their whether you
love your girl/wife/lover she will use it against you so be careful
with the woman you fall in love with because she will use you
to get what she wants.
TV/MoviesRe: Independent Or Main Stream Movie by Tranngirls(op): 7:49am On Oct 20, 2008
Independent movies are movies that are not marketed
by the major studios in Hollywood, a good example is
the Blair Witch
RomanceWhy Men Cheat 3 by Tranngirls(op): 7:47am On Oct 20, 2008
What makes men cheat? Marriage counselor M. Gary Neuman dug through past research on male infidelity and found that most answers came from the wife's point of view. "Wouldn't it make more sense to ask the guys?" he thought. So for his new book, "The Truth About Cheating," Neuman surveyed 200 cheating and noncheating husbands to get at the real reasons behind men's infidelity -- including what cheating men say could have prevented them from straying. Here, some of his findings
48% of men rated emotional dissatisfaction as the primary reason they cheated.
So much for the myth that for men, cheating is all about physical intimacy: Only 8 percent of men said that physical dissatisfaction was the main factor in their infidelity. "Our culture tells us that all men need to be happy is to have physical intimacy with someone," Neuman says. "But men are emotionally driven beings too. They want their wives to show them that they're appreciated, and they want women to understand how hard they're trying to get things right." The problem is that men are less likely than women to express these feelings, so you won't always know when your guy is in need of a little affirmation. "Most men consider it unmanly to ask for a pat on the back, which is why their emotional needs are often overlooked," Neuman says. "But you can create a marital culture of appreciation and thoughtfulness -- and once you set the tone, he's likely to match it."
66% of cheating men report feeling guilt during the affair.
The implications are a little scary: It isn't just uncaring jerks who cheat. In fact, 68 percent of cheaters never dreamed they'd be unfaithful, and almost all of them wished they hadn't done it, Neuman says. Clearly, guilt isn't enough to stop a man from cheating. "Men are good at compartmentalizing feelings," Neuman explains. "They can hold on to their emotions and deal with them later." So even if your partner swears he would never cheat, don't assume it can't happen. It's important for both of you to take steps toward creating the relationship you want.
77% of cheating men have a good friend who cheated.
Hanging around friends who stray makes cheating seem normal and legitimizes it as a possibility.
Hanging around friends who stray makes cheating seem normal and legitimizes it as a possibility. The message he's subconsciously telling himself: "My friend is a good guy who happens to be cheating on his wife. I guess even the best of us do it." You can't simply ban your husband from hanging out with Mr. Wandering Eyes, Neuman says, but you can request that they spend their time together in an environment that offers less temptation, like at a sporting event or a restaurant for lunch rather than at a bar or club. Another strategy: Build your social circle around happily married couples that share your values -- it'll create an environment that supports marriage.
40% of cheating men met the other woman at work.
"Oftentimes the woman he cheats with at the office is someone who praises him, looks up to him, and compliments his efforts," Neuman says. "That's another reason why it's so critical that he feel valued at home." Luckily, there's a clear warning sign that your husband is getting a little too cozy with a colleague: If he praises or mentions the name of a female coworker more than he would a male counterpart, your antennae should go up -- and it's time for the two of you to set boundaries about what is and isn't okay at work, Neuman says. Is it acceptable for him to work late if it's only him and her? Can they travel together to conferences? Have dinners out to discuss a project? Ask him what he'd feel comfortable with you doing with a male colleague.
Only 12% of cheating men said their mistress was more physically attractive than their wife.
In other words, a man doesn't stray because he thinks he'll get lucky with a better-looking body. "
In most cases, he's cheating to fill an emotional void
In most cases, he's cheating to fill an emotional void," Neuman says. "He feels a connection with the other woman, and physical intimacy comes along for the ride." If you're worried about infidelity, focus on making your relationship more loving and connected, not on getting your body just right or mastering how to please him physically. (But know that physical intimacy does matter -- it's one of the key ways your guy expresses his love and feels close to you, so be sure to keep it a priority.)
Only 6% of cheating men had physical intimacy with a woman after meeting her that same day or night.
Actually, 73 percent of men got to know the other woman for more than a month before they cheated. This means that you may have time to see the warning signs before infidelity occurs -- you might even see it coming before he does. Keep an eye out for these common signals: He spends more time away from home, stops asking for physical intimacy, picks fights more frequently, or avoids your calls. Your gut reaction may be to confront him, but most men will deny even thinking about cheating, especially if nothing physical has occurred yet. Instead, Neuman suggests, take charge of what you can control -- your own behavior -- and take the lead in bringing your relationship to a better place. Don't hesitate to show your appreciation for him, prioritize time together, and initiate affection more. Give him a reason to keep you at the front of his mind, Neuman says. And be open about how you feel about what's going on between the two of you (again, without mentioning any third parties). Try "I think we've started to lose something important in our relationship, and I don't want it to disappear." In the meantime, commit to keeping tabs on your relationship and doing what it takes to keep it working for you
TV/MoviesRe: Independent Or Main Stream Movie by Tranngirls(op): 3:36pm On Oct 19, 2008
My number one independent movie of all times
is Saw, it was one hell of a film that is why it is
an independent movie it does not follow the normal
rules of feel good movie
TV/MoviesIndependent Or Main Stream Movie by Tranngirls(op): 12:29am On Oct 19, 2008
Independent or main Stream movie, which do you prefer?
I like a lot of independent movies they are the best because
you cant say or predict what will happen next. I dont like main
stream movie because it is like an Advert. What is your take?
Your favorite independent movie and main stream movie?
TV/MoviesRe: Hollywood: Favourite Movies, Actors and Awards. Tinseltown reviews & Gossip by Tranngirls(f): 12:18am On Oct 19, 2008
Actors
Brad Pitt
Johnny Depp
Colin Farrell
Will Smith
Denzel Washington
George Clooney
Al Pacino
Andy Garcia
Tom Cruise
Jim Carrey

Actress
Eva Mendes
sofia vergara
Jessica Alba
Keira Knightley
Britney Spears
Scarlett Johansson
Jennifer Lopez
Penelope Cruz
Salma Hayek
Rosario Dawson
RomanceRe: Two Virgins Getting Married by Tranngirls(op): 8:15am On Oct 18, 2008
I will prefer to marry a man with experience if he is a
chronic womanizer that mean he know how to treat
women so i will tell me that it is time for us to remove
the characters that we have that indicates that we
were single (including my fucking around)
RomanceRe: Was She Ever A Virgin To Begin With? by Tranngirls(f): 12:02am On Oct 18, 2008
Played like a drum. I will like to ask you
dont you watch porn movies or watch
discover channel like normal guys?
RomanceRe: Gals, What Do U Think Of Guys Who Flash? by Tranngirls(f): 11:57pm On Oct 17, 2008
What are you complaining for if you dont like
him dont call him simple and easy but for you
that think you will get something from this
guy i sorry for you
RomanceRe: Was She Ever A Virgin To Begin With? by Tranngirls(f): 11:41pm On Oct 17, 2008
Guy you have been played
RomanceRe: What Do U Think by Tranngirls(f): 11:37pm On Oct 17, 2008
Really so Misst B you cant talk for yourself
you have to wait for Sistawoman Ha
RomanceRe: What Do U Think by Tranngirls(f): 11:08pm On Oct 16, 2008
Well guys play with ladies minds all the time
it is nothing new, i guess you dont want to
get hurt again so it is kill or be killed law of
the jungle
RomanceRe: What Do U Think by Tranngirls(f): 11:03pm On Oct 16, 2008
Well guys play with ladies minds all the time
it is nothing new, i guess you dont want to
get hurt again so it is kill or be killed law of
the jungle
RomanceRe: What Do U Think by Tranngirls(f): 10:57pm On Oct 16, 2008
Orchlady it seems like you like this Dominant lady stuff, that has
been all you posted anyway i like a lady that speaks her mind
and not follow popular belief. I really like you alot.
RomanceRe: Female Led Life Style by Tranngirls(op): 7:03am On Oct 13, 2008
So what do u like to do in the D&S? Sharon stone
did that in Basic Instinct well it was on the light sideand
mandonna did it in Body of Evidence her was the right
mix as they called her a dominatrix so what are you
RomanceRe: Female Led Life Style by Tranngirls(op): 6:51am On Oct 13, 2008
Really orchlady you sound like you want to
try this out why? The idea of dominating a
man mind but it is too the nasty here or you
are a nasty girl in nigeria.

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