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Dimby1:
Closing date is today. Dunno if site has been closed.

xtoden007:
yeah, i did my follow up interview on march 27th, i had my pictures taken too, i was even called to identify wat i was putting on, i m still waiting for the next stage

honorr:
Another TBoss..this time its making 45m in a week..all these lady and doing super stuffs in a week.God himself is gotta be feeling like a learner now

Pidginwhisper:
Me: Mummy e sun re Ooooooo!
Mum: Omo Ale!! awon ebi baba e ni wan ma sun re!
Me:E ma binu Ma. Ok, e ma sun re Oooo!
Mum:

TayeJiboluwa:
You have the grace and anointing; You're called to ministry.

izzou:
Study well?

My job takes all my time. Infact, I am typing this from a stuffy danfo bus on my way home

I hope to practice more tonight and discuss with my God too

God go see is through

Votukpa:
bro,

Welcome to the red pill.
Your life will never be the same again, for the better.

Now stop whining like a lil biitch and listen.

All the guys out here consoling you over your so called loss are really not helping you. This is because no one told you the truth: your parents lied to you, society lied to you; Hollywood, Nollywood and Bollywood lied to you; and worst of all, bitchees lied to you. There's no happy ending, women don't care about love and romance at the end, they only want u to be that way so that relinquishing your resources and freedom for their comfort and security will be easier for you to accept and bear. Your so called girl knows that she's hit the wall already and u would not like her old ass when u hit your fortunes.

Meditate on this shiit.

By all means, marriage is a good thing and should benefit both parties at the end. However, this is 2017 and ladies are not willing to put in the work, that's why they tend to rush niggas into marriage, which is their goal. Can't you see you and the girl have different visions. You want to be happy and she wants marriage. Two different things.

Let me ask you...

What does she have to offer?? You actually don't NEED her. Think about this.

She's already hit the wall
She has no skills, no job, nothing to contribute to your life as a helper, (seeing that her freshmess is fading) yet she wants you to be financially ready to bear with her. Why didn't she say this when she was much younger?? You know why? she wanted to eat her cake and have it. She wanted a young man with prospects and not some older dude with money who wouldn't be able to thrill her sexually. She banked on u bro, and seeing that things didn't turn out the way she wanted, she wants out.

Bleep family pressure, that biitch knows what she wants. Believe me nicca. She wants security, and the social proof that she's a married woman...with a man who can care for her.

There are many thing people don't tell men in our Nigerian society. If men knew these things, they would NEVER marry the way they currently do.

They don't want men to know that men have all the bargaining chips in the marriage deal. Yes, marriage is a deal and not a love thing. Love comes years AFTER marriage, not before. Selah.

Let me explain.

Men increase in value (in the eyes of women) over time while women decrease in value (in the eyes of men) over time. Women know this and don't want u to be aware of it. If you become self aware, you will avoid women until you realize your value. Note that it takes time and investment to be valuable. Women want marriage with a valuable man but they don't care that marriage to a man who isn't realized yet, makes the realization for him HARDER. This is what happens generally and there are exceptions.

Men don't age as badly as women. We actually become more good looking as we mature. We will attract younger and hotter women at out prime. Which married woman wants this?? None. They don't want you to know earlier in life that if u take ur time and build yourself, you can have your pick of ladies. Check out our Igbo bros, they understand this game. Some ugly ass nigga who can't construct a comprehensible sentence to save his life with a hot ass, slim waisted, round ass ass, young ass wife who worships him.

Meditate on this shiit.

Men are being socialized to pedestalise pusssy. You were made to believe that without pusssy, you are not a man. Women generally overestimate their sexual value, Lol. Something that depreciates like a falling stock price. Women THROW pusssy men!! At valuable attractive men who DON'T need pussy.

Meditate.

Family and children they say. Lineage continuation they cry.

Listen nigga!

When you die, none of this matters. God will not ask u if u got married or how many kids u had. He will ask you to give account of all your Bleep ups. He will ask you if u did his will. He will ask u if u obeyed him. Jesus, your example didn't marry nor have kids, but he is the FIRST of the FIRSTS. My point is, use your super computer of a brain and think critically. If you must have a family and kids, start early. But u don't have that luxury as we speak. Our folks didn't tell us. You now have some 35 year old starting off. Wtf. In 2017, if you are 30 and above and u don't have your shit together yet and u want to marry, YOU WILL SUFFER needlessly.

Meditate on this shiit.

There's more but I will spare you because I know you get the picture. Bottom line, become VALUABLE, be self aware son, have some knowledge of your self worth and BUILD it. Stop being a romantic in love, destroy your delusions about heterosexual dynamics. Romance and love fade away at the end, only your works will speak for you. God will judge you according to your works and love is work not a feeling.

You life is NOT useless without her. You need to build and invest in yourself. Get some skills, learn stuff, read a lot and travel.

And...

Meditate on this shiit.

project8:
u kno how gals like putting their frnd's pix as their dp,while chatting wit particular lady i noticed her dp and i enquire to kno more abt her frnd,bfr u kno it she has informed her frnd dat someone is admiring her blablabla all those girly talks,bfr u kno she has sent me d number and dat was it.1year and 6month with a son.stil a loving woman as if we jus met.

project8:
tru her frnd on whatsapp and i enquire to kno more about her,bfr u kno it my neighbor gave me her number and we strted chatting on watsapp. guess wat? our marriage is blessed wit a boy.

antidisestablis:
Updates coming soon

specimen23:
sorry to hear how you feel @op. However, I m a son of the most high God, there is no other connection higher than that!!!
And I bring you good news too, if you want to on the winning side of life, and be more than those people who you think are sons of "somebody", my father is ready to adopt you, and more sons, and trust me, your story would change after that. You can pm me so that I can introduce you to my father!

12go:
Yes

antidisestablis:
Yeah, is a very painful thing for someone you love to betray your love, anyway as we speak now I have taken a break from the courtship, if God's willing we may get back soon. Thanks madam.

Dlordsamurai:
Bro forget about the price, I'm posting from experience, some ladies are priceless..

antidisestablis:
@ Transcends I have done that

antidisestablis:
This is not always true, you can still have a good relationship without sex, it depends on the people involved, sex is not love. So not having sex with her is not the major problem, I think she actually cheated because of her quest for materialism.
Sincerely we are very closed she calls several times a day and also we chat for hours, Seriously she is emotional attached to me . As we speak now we have taken a break from the courtship which I see is Seriously affecting her, also not having sex with her is a mutual agreement she want it done at the appropriate time. Thanks for your contribution.

Nina4u:
LOVE DONT COST A THING AND LOVE SURE AS HELL DONT HURT..

antidisestablis:
Thanks very much, with all i went through i should have broken up with her immediately because it took me a lot of energies, time and so many other things before I could get evidence just to confront her. She was so subtle about the whole thing even if not for God I wouldn't know she is actually cheating on me.
Everybody deserves a second chance that's what I have done bro, just like Christ did for us. So I keep my eyes on her to see how things eventually turn out, though she is doing everything thing possible to make things return to normal. Just like what you said even if I will not marry her eventually I will try and help not to return to it.

TayeJiboluwa:
The first dream means you have a calling and the second dream means sexual pollution, you are close to people who are into fornication and adultery and you are polluted by that. You can relate with such people but not so close to them, even the Bible says when such offer you food, you should not eat because it will pollute you.

antidisestablis:
Yeah, is a very painful thing for someone you love to betray your love, anyway as we speak now I have taken a break from the courtship, if God's willing we may get back soon. Thanks madam.

antidisestablis:
Yes u can contact me. Though I hat ni
doing such things brother, I mean hacking or spying but when you have a good motive of doing it there is no problem. I did it that time when I have no other option.

antidisestablis:
Updates coming soon

TayeJiboluwa:
@Transcends
The second part is better than the first part and it is exact opposite of the first part. The Lord will perfect all that concerns you, The Lord will touch your life in a beautiful way.