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unyted:
Excessive chatting will only lead to one thing! Being friendzoned!

Why should you be shy to see in person??

true!,.. Especially when you are funny... She will only love you for being funny.. And a pill to her sadness if her bf mess up with her

unyted:
You dont need to declare your love to the girl you wanna date. Just flow with her and flirt with her. Ask her out for a date: a walk, a drink,...
Then progress to more touches, then go for the kiss. It doesn't make much sense to choose phone communication, when you can actually see and talk to her.
Be bold and go for her!

correct!

pansophist:
The truth of the matter is that when a girl is into you, the mode of communication (chat, call, email, video call etc) doesn't matter. Unless she explicitly stated her preferred mode of communication. Girls are humans, there is no formula for the type of communicational methods to their heart, keeping in mind that social media communication became mainstream within the decade.

Abi you all have quickly forgotten the time when feelings were communicated via letters with lines such as ''I pick the pen from the golden place of my heart"?

If she digs you, even whistle or catcalling will do

Loll.... Mai guy

Hector09:
na who handsome don feed, am a living witness

loll... True

aaronson:
To get into the mind of a girl, Chat!

To know where you stand, chat!

To know how the meaning of the relationship you have with her, Chat!

It's easy to talk and not mean what you say because you just have to say whatever to let the other person leave. But trust me, people bare it all out during chat and whatever is being typed comes straight from the heart and how you feel without being shy or given awkward stare.

chatting between two people is a way of evaluating the relationship you have with eachother because you get to pick cues like how quick she replies your messages, how interested she is in the conversation by how best she expresses herself etc. And it's more easier and comfortable to flirt with a woman during chat than in person because in person, she finds it creepy because you together probably in public.

So chat is best.

interesting

Hector09:
My dear even thou face to face or back to back, or online to online if u are broke d answer we be no, when a man ve money u can the best girl on earth

Lol.. Abii... But I defer abit...girls will love u when broke once u r handsome... Just that it might not last

Lalas247:
Doesn’t really matter face to face or chat
It’s the content that’s important nd the message he or she is trying to pass ..


For me prefer face to face let me see the guys face .. as I read emotions and body language

Then it matters.... Niice one

highqueen:
lool,chyking me face to face?..its a no no for me cos I'm a very shy person.

Lol.. The kind of girls.. I love most

Shugarlord213:
I don’t know what you people are saying. I have taken women as h.oes and treated all Nigerian girls as the same.

I stopped dealing with women for 5 months to enable me save money to buy a car, because with a car you have unlimited access to their kitty even your friends wives and girls will follow you just so you know how cheap they are.

Once I fvck a naija gal, I just drop her at the busstop and leave #500 for her hand. Sometimes as soon as she steps off my car, I zoom off

If the girl like male she call me again if she doesn’t call me I get over 40 number ladies women way day disturb me for WhatsApp

Why spend for a leech when you got a car and bills to pay. I even bought a dog so to tell you I can’t afford to spend money on another being with complete legs and hands

Guys get sense pls and pls. Get a car if you don’t have. If you are on leggedis benz we way get car go fvck your babe and we don’t care how you feel atall

Loll.. Eazi man

MissRaine69:
Does it matter if your end goal is just to do a drive by?
If you have no intention of getting to know the person mode of communication is irrelevant.

If the intent is on building a foundation finding out essential detail via chat is necessary for instance if you have anything of substance to actully talk about if and when you do meet face to face. Nothing depresses me more like small talk.

noted!

Prechbills:
what angers me most on this forum is when broke people try to form shít, your words alone shows you're cheap.... BTW I don't roll with kids ,don't paste any insults /vulgar words on my mention

not necessary

funmisticqueen:
Face to face, chatting is for cheap people. I dont do chat

Lol... Niice

stubbornman:
NIGERIAN GIRLS ARE JUST TERRIBLE.....DONT BOTHER

don't Generalize

chinedubrazil:
me na worst

you hardly see me outside.

To speak english face to face with u is like nigeria biafra war

Looll........ *faints*
Me de try sha.. might talk other issues with the girl... But to chick her? That one is a big mountain to climb

chinedubrazil:
It depends on the kind of lady you are admiring..

Alot of ladies who we describe as extroverts want it face to face, the shy ones prefer online..

I think the op is an introvert, when ever male introvert is crushing on a lady and want to approach her, this kind of question is what bothers him most..

thanks...

Partially introvert.. Loll

I have been thinking about this for a while

Do a girl prefer d guy to meet her 1 on 1 before taking him serious or do chat work??


Please answer

Thanks

yoged:
5 soldiers per school against up to 50 terrorists with Rpg, ak47, grenades and all sort of weapons. Are you kidding me?

Not all school in borno is at the risk of invasion... Using the map can make this things easy... By now they should have mapped out the troubled areas and station soldiers on those places

JuicyStar:
Funny how people are just shouting that the couples should sue. First, it is wrong for CCTV recording to be posted online because it is for the personal consumption of the establishment and can only be released to the police or relevant authority when needed. But must importantly, do u know that the couples can also be sued for constituting public nuisance. A cinema is a public place where people come to watch movies and the company owes it as a duty to keep the place clean and conducive to people to have value for their money. If so, why would two clowns make love there as though it's their personal place of residence? It is irrelevant that whether or not they were the only ones in there at the time.

How would u feel sitting down on that chair only to discover say na discharge u sit down put? Wouldn't u abuse the owners of the cinema? Abeg we should stop condoning rubbish. No body holy pass but sanity shouldn't be thrown into the bin. One major difference between human and animals is self control.

Shut up!!!... Am sure they rented that hall and has the right to their privacy... They should sue the hell out of that management

Chai.... Nigeria Army no get sense... How can you be sending men to the frontline without proper information. There is no clear map of safe and liberated areas....and areas under bokoharam... How can you calculate yr success then? You keep sending yr army there only to be ambushed and killed for no reason...


Silly people

thug:
I have had bumps for 15yrs and I noticed that the more you touch it the more it grows, I have used all sort of traerment till I discover this cheap cure that gave my bumps a dead blow and cleared it
I was so excited that I have to make the video on YouTube to remind me of how embarrassing this bumps are
Here is the video for whosoever that care to know the solutions
https://youtu.be/GhlG2V_8nnA

I hope it is helpful

chukxie:
You're welcome. Let's hope this thread is given some attention.

I hope so too... It is necessary

Please help spread this awareness.. This skin disease is getting rampant in men

Seun OAM4J Afam4eva maclatunji Ngwakwe Ikenna351 Mynd44 Lalasticlala

teekay213:
Thanks op.
I have it but it first came out tiny then but it was embarrassing becoc I was still in sch so I fetch for a fast cure by going to Ab bumps instead of them to use razor to clear and give me cream to apply the man use gas use in treating keloid and stuff on the tiny bumps and thing escalated leaving scar till now.
The best thing to do when you have bump is to use razor to clear the back of your neck not clipper and apply this cream"oxy benzoyl peroxide lotion"

Thank yu!! For sharing

chukxie:
Thanks for sharing....

Welcome ! I wish the Op on this forum can help spread this message.. The skin disease is getting too much in men

You may have been seeing people especially men who have some lashes or pores at the back or nape of their head. Also you may see men who's own looks like a healed surgical wound.This seems as the latest men skin disease and to the worse of it. You hardly find the cure or any particular medical products meant for this skin disease. This is disease is called carbuncle or bumps.

Many things can cause this dangerous skin disease such as wearing wet clothes,poor immune system and most of all, using infected clipper. This bumps spread around the affected parts through blood and vein causing stiff of neck, it can also cause other health complications.. The patients of this disease should never ignore this bumps at its little stage or else it can grow and form a larger bumps making it hard to treat or sometimes it maybe drugs resisting.

As a former patient of this bumps skin disease without delay, I suffered it for almost 2 years. .. I will give some clue on how to handle it, if you eventually got affected.

1. This is very important... First thing to do is to go for a test.. Do not start treating bumps without knowing the culture. When i went for my first test.. Staphylococcus was dectated which i treated and it disappeared but after some weeks it came back again. I did the second test and nothing was dectated then i stopped using antibiotics. So it is very important you do a series of test on it through scraping.

2. Press it with warm water with disinfectant in an effort to drain it: Yes, another first thing to do is to use warm water added with disinfectant on it 2 times a day after a clear cut of the area. Whitish liquid may show up on the tip of the pores which u can pierce and drain.

3. Do not scratch it or touch it anyhow to avoid spreading it around the other parts of your skin.

4. Buy good antibiotics.. This is good but you should be careful.. Too much antibiotics is bad for the body. I drank many antibiotics but to no avail.. It is better to use the specified by your physician after the test.

5. Start eating fruits to boast your immune system that's the natural way to increase your body defence.

6. You can buy a personal clipper for yourself.

7. Lastly buy and use an "After Shave Spray" on it after barbing..Me, personally am using "Safe Cut" and i can say it really worked and clear many of the bump with some dark now.

Sources(for more tips) : http://jonaztales..com.ng/2017/07/how-to-treat-bumpspores-at-back-of-head.html?m=1

Thank You! Please if you have suffered bumps before, add how you treated yours

marshalcarter:
didn't read all these stuff buh nigerians don't lack creativity...the shii there is that we don't value anytin...its not lyk foreigners dat if a seven year old kid construct an airplane...the govt would keep an eye on the kid...buh here for naija.....if you lyk construct another earth with movin bodies....my guy...if you finish,you goan fyn work niii

Looll.. we are still talking same thing bro.. thats what i explained up there

I have for once wondered what is wrong with Africans and their inability to match the other world counterparts in technology, is it that the barber cannot barb or the razor blade is blunt, but I want to focus on Nigeria precisely the so called giant of Africa that cannot produce even a pencil and Our over dependent on foreign products.... What is wrong with Nigeria?? What is wrong with our youths?

Here are reason why I think Nigeria and Africa at large are lacking Behind in Technology and Invention.

1. Poor Education Sector

It is not about teaching everything already written in books, what is the practical aspects of it?.. If you teach a student that pen is made of ink... How? I think that Nigeria Education sector needs an upgrade to match the world trend in technologies, cause for now it is just like an ant in an elephant fight.

2. Government Ignorance On Technology

This is even worrisome that at this point of century, Nigeria Govt can not fund any specific School of Technology, why the ignorance that technology is like mathematics? Only solving without real adequate practical work. Do you know how many millions US Government spend to build just one warship?? Meanwhile Nigeria Govt depends on Innoson for little spare parts for our warplanes when we should be building one by now.

3. Lack of Interest

This is the most pathetic aspect of it, a promising young boy will build a magnificent invention in hope to be an Engineer in future, only to find out he is learning trade in Alaba.

4. Lack Of Investment

Everything is not about Government, our elites is the most narrow minded individuals in this country, is not about gifting chump change to our young inventors... Will it take them anywhere? Or can it help him match other young mates around the globe in future? Only you can answer that

5. White Collar Job Mentality

Everybody wants a paying jobs, everyone wants to be a graduate and make his/her CV the closest friend meanwhile in the mist of this graduates they are real scientists and inventors in making but all wasted at that moment.

I will drop my pen here, you can add your points at the comment box.

Thank you

Sources: http://jonaztales..com.ng/2016/12/reasons-nigerians-lack-creativity.html?m=1

lalasticlala

Luizkid:
that's the sad reality, we spent years in school reading so many outdated and irrelevant books that adds nothing to the society and nobody is doing anything bout it

You perfectly right.... i believe more pratical we do than cramming books which are just for passing exams.

I have for once wondered what is wrong with Africans and their inability to match the other world counterparts in technology, is it that the barber cannot barb or the razor blade is blunt, but I want to focus on Nigeria precisely the so called giant of Africa that cannot produce even a pencil and Our over dependent on foreign products.... What is wrong with Nigeria?? What is wrong with our youths?

Here are reason why I think Nigeria and Africa at large are lacking Behind in Technology and Invention.

1. Poor Education Sector

It is not about teaching everything already written in books, what is the practical aspects of it?.. If you teach a student that pen is made of ink... How? I think that Nigeria Education sector needs an upgrade to match the world trend in technologies, cause for now it is just like an ant in an elephant fight.

2. Government Ignorance On Technology

This is even worrisome that at this point of century, Nigeria Govt can not fund any specific School of Technology, why the ignorance that technology is like mathematics? Only solving without real adequate practical work. Do you know how many millions US Government spend to build just one warship?? Meanwhile Nigeria Govt depends on Innoson for little spare parts for our warplanes when we should be building one by now.

3. Lack of Interest

This is the most pathetic aspect of it, a promising young boy will build a magnificent invention in hope to be an Engineer in future, only to find out he is learning trade in Alaba.

4. Lack Of Investment

Everything is not about Government, our elites is the most narrow minded individuals in this country, is not about gifting chump change to our young inventors... Will it take them anywhere? Or can it help him match other young mates around the globe in future? Only you can answer that

5. White Collar Job Mentality

Everybody wants a paying jobs, everyone wants to be a graduate and make his/her CV the closest friend meanwhile in the mist of this graduates they are real scientists and inventors in making but all wasted at that moment.

I will drop my pen here, you can add your points at the comment box.

Thank you

For more visit: http://jonaztales..com.ng/2016/12/reasons-nigerians-lack-creativity.html?m=1

Lalastica help out

Thank you guys for your contributions

nonjebose:
1 and 2 ? The market association and zoning stuff is not necessary. The other points are ok with some modifications. Improved seed varieties with good yield and shorter production time should be aggressively distributed to farmers. Loans to rice farmers, with single digit interest.

Oil producing countries have the same thing... it is just to improve understanding and good regulation of outputs