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I love Pastor Chris Oyakhilome......HE IS OUT OF THIS WORLD.... kai.... My father My Father.... the chariots of fireeeeeee.

Ovo04:
You mean church COUNSELING?

No sir, I mean GODLY COUNSELING FROM MATURE COUPLES OF OVER 10-15 YEARS IN MODEL MARRIAGE.

virtuouswoman77:
though am doing all this thanks anyway

Awesome, if you are truly doing it.... GIVE IT TIME.... things will change gradually.

virtuouswoman77:
pls how do I handle this problem of hubby that does not have self control when it comes to alcohol he drinks to much and sometimes messes the bed up with urine have talked to him still no change

1) find the root cause of the problem.... he may have other deep issues that you have not cared to consider and his only escape is alcohol

2) be very prayerful (so he does not loose his life in such debauchery, and also so he changes his bad association or friends)

3) you both need COUNSELING.... a happy home will not be like this.... obviously he does not COMMUNICATE with you, he only TALKS TO YOU. So you are not his confidant.

4) MAKE THE FIRST MOVE, talk with him and let him open up to you... it won't be easy but it would help

5) HONOR AND RESPECT HIM, no matter what happens, do not loose respect for your man, he is all you've got

6) PROTECT his image the best way you can, and you can also ask his family for help.

7) Read Books, Blogs and attend conferences on FAMILY, HOME, RELATIONSHIPS


Heed these 7 instructions and things will begin to change

Sirfemisky:
I have apps like bitcoin and WhatsApp us number.
I want to know if I can be arrested or shot for that

Learn to HIDE your apps

watch youtube tutorials for that. you can hide most of your apps in a CALCULATOR and no one would see anything even your SMS can be hidden inside the calculator.

mannasseh:
looking for people to chat with and probably make new friends, i could be a little introverted, but with the Right conversation you may see me as a talkative. if you are interested please send a PM. As long you can converse

Wow, I guess I came late, I really would have enjoyed discussing productive ideas with you. This is a nice bold move.

frog12:
CORONA virus has disrupted everything. To go on any TRIP, you have to go to HELL first. Corona has ruined everything because of the INCOMPETENCE of the CHINESE GOVERNMENT and World Health Organisation.

Who do you think should be BLAMED for this madness?

Why are you looking for who to BLAME like you will be given an award for it..... BLAME IS NOT THE SOLUTION... lets solve the issue totally first before we blame... THE WHOLE WORLD HAS BEEN RESET BACK 50 YEARS...

Hope4all967:
my is #370 per $1 so $50 will be equal to #18,500

wow...
pls are you saying, you can BUY a gig for me on FIVERR? and your rate is 370 to a dollar?

Bizzyman:
Keep it coming.

Pls if I want to buy a gig of 50usd.... what is your total price? Pls state it here. I need to know so I can decide if to contact you or not.

Horerku:
I have been thinking of medical assistance too don't just think i am ready to open my yansh for someone to peep �

Pls sir, google who a dermatologist is. Nothing related to yansh

Just your skin... and what you can apply for hair to grow... and if need be INJECTION(this is where yansh must be seen)

Apart from these... have you tried HAIR GROWTH products(tablets,creams,etc)?

Horerku:
Hi all, i have been a guest on NL for a long time but seeing this thread https://www.nairaland.com/6069700/look-too-young-find-it makes me want to come out and share what has been giving me serious headache.

I will be 28 in a month but i have not been able to hit puberty fully. Can count how many strand of hair on my pp, no armpit hair, no facial changes used to be short then i start growing from like 5.7' to 6.5'. No lies it's a very big disgrace when kids that will see my junior brother and bow their heads expect me to call them egbon.


But I have worked on my self esteem, gave myself confidence by reading inspirational books, learnt boxing, build my body, learnt dancing and i can very well say all this have really boost my confidence, i built my confidence by writing job application to jobs i know im over qualified for and intentionally bully the unlucky hr that will interview me �. I am able to read people and give good advices, as a matter of fact, i (despite my baby face) take adult Sunday School at church and I'm able to take my classes like a piece of cake (With God enabling me btw).

Never dated or toast before not cos im scared of being turned down inface i have a lot of babes that really show me emotions but because I'm scared of how the girl will act towards me when she find out my secret and i am gonna keep it that way because i can't really take heartbreak because of something i can't control. I
already have a good paying Job and finances not my problem so this is my only headache but will i still become normal? Have you overcome something like this? Or do you know how i can correct things?

I have been a guest on NL for more than 7 years. Try be a troll first y'all taught me

You are NORMAL... very normal. I must say you are very bold and courageous to even talk about it online. See, everyone has one area of their lives where they experience something that seems uncommon compared to others.... See, you have a very healthy attitude towards this challenge and that is how life should be.

If you meet a dermatologist, you may get help with some parts of this challenges.
God Bless

Bizzyman:
Having received lots of complaints and had I known from lots of upcoming Fiverr's freelancers, I want to help you on your freelancing journey with my 3-year experience as a Fiverr Freelancer.

I know what you don't do and I know everything you need to know about Fiverr Freelancing. I am not teaching any skill but you can pick my brain about Fiverr for a small fee.

I can also help you :
Create a Nigerian Fiverr account at an affordable cost.
Do Fiverr Account Verification
Sell Reviews( Foreign and Local)
Buy Payoneer funds at a good rate.

Your enlightened Fiverrian self is just a click away.

https:///%2B2348067438374

What about adding funds to fiverr..... Some of us do not want to SELL GIGS but we want to BUY... and fiverr makes it so impossible

Taymi:
Good evening distinguished. My brother and I had a discussion today and I am to get back to him. He is a graduate and since job isn’t forth coming , he is thinking of starting a business, what kind of business do you think he can do with #200,000 .
I will be reading, thank you

See, going into business is not a JOKE.... do you really think anyone's advice will help?
Why don't you both go out to your area and find what is LACKING and what is DESPERATELY NEEDED and simply SOLVE IT.

Many times people come here asking this same question forgetting that WE DO NOT LIVE IN THE SAME GEOGRAPHICAL SPACE..... WE ALSO HAVE DIFFERENT PERSONALITIES(yes, your personality type determines which businesses can work for you)

Lastly they forget that WE ALL HAVE DIFFERENT SKILLS

So if anyone is giving you business Ideas, it is simply a waste of TIME. Let's be guided.

Find
A
Need
And
Fill
It
(FANAFI)

That's how to do business properly.

cicodeblazzer:
Gdmonin NL Family. Please ur positive contributions is needed here. What advice do u give to this guy. me: whats the issue? guy: bro my fiancee has changed totally. She is pretty, PhD holder and doctor @ FMC OWERRI. I was carried away by her beauty, qualification and job that i forgot to test her for other basic attributes of an ideal wife material. She isnt from wealthy home but craves dangerously and stubbornly to be given such luxury. She is now so unsubmissive, never caring...its over 4 months she has not called(though she flashed one day) nor visited to check on me knowing i was ill. She is just showing qualities of a psycopath. Never admits she is wrong and never apologises. Disrespectfully and arrongantly flaunts my instructions,decisions and opinions. And would always say its better we call off but if i leave her for sometime, she would begin flashing/calling. Correcting her never worked. I still love her.what do i do. me......) hmmm, pls what do u think he should do. Ds pas me.

Why are you MANAGING a person who does not value you... Move on.
Move on and work on yourself, you are not wealthy enough to her taste.

Kwinesther:
For this sensible comment of yours please chop kiss

Ha, queen mother... I celebrate you ma. I have chop the HOLY kiss o. thanks

Chisomegbe:
am new to this domain, it my brother that introduce me to it. I don't no how it works, so am here for help

Its clear you are a hustler,
Rather than go and sit under proper training, you are here looking for the FASTEST means of getting incomplete knowledge.
If you BROTHER introduced you, is he not alive? go and meet him and let him teach it to you completely, stop coming here looking for FREE HELP.

those who know how to do it will not tell you anything.
Time taken to learn something properly is never wasted time.

Find IYKEPROMOTIONS on nairaland and pay for his classes.

Heartheart:
Hi I just needed to bring this here. I am 22 years of age and I am not happy at all. My boy friend and I are in a long distance relationship. Not long perse. He is in lagos while I'm in abeokuta. I served in lagos so that's how we met and we got to spend quality time together. Now since I've passed out I've been at home. I passed out in June. So it's been June that we saw last and now we're in august.He has been disturbing me to come visit him as it has not been easy staying alone, loneliness and all. I promised to visit him next week which also happened to be my birthday week. I have super strict parents but I still promised I will find my way.

I told them(parents) that I was travelling to visit a friend(girl). I could not tell them it was my boyfriend I was going to see because I knew deep down they wouldn't allow me travel to another city to see a guy. But my parents have blatantly refused that I cannot visit this girl. I had to tell my bf that I was not going to come. He was so sad and angry and he let me know he has wasted a lot of money preparing to surprise me for my birthday. He was so excited to see me and he had made a lot of plans. He told me he was disappointed in me and he doesn't think he can continue a relationship like this. Yes he comes to abeokuta sometimes but he mostly lodges in the hotel. He told me he can't continue lodging in the hotel that if I love him I will make effort. I tried to convince my parents they did not gree. Imagine, I told them I wanted to see a gf that they knew and they refused. What if I had told them he was a guy. Pls guys how do u advise me to save my relationship, I'm in a tight spot right now and really sad.

It sounds like a SEXSATIONSHIP to me.

He is on a hormonal rollercoaster and you are just there to quench his thirst... DO YOU REALLY THINK HE IS NOT ALREADY CHEATING? smh

See, face your life. If he really wants you so bad, let him see your parents and marry sharply. Stop deceiving yourselves.

You have no job, you are only able to support his emotional/sexual needs... ASK YOURSELF... IS THAT LIFE? In every other area you are a liability apart from emotions, sex and maybe cooking food.. SEE EHN, YOU ARE BOTH NOT MATURE FOR A RELATIONSHIP

After NYSC, you are still worried about a guy who has no plans for you, sister deliver yourself very fast. The money he has been spending in hotels, he could have used to set up and investment or business for you. PLS HAVE SENSE NA.

Clean up your life once and for all. If he could come to stay in hotel, he is capable to visit your family and make his intentions knows. Stop managing a TIME WASTER.

Shanklee:
You are late. Thanks for coming

you are early.

Shanklee:
Me wan reason say make we carry bus nio. You know nah make weather no dey disturb person

Boss good morning o, abeg u get sweater... and baba-blue? Because bus no fit protect you from weather o. Besides, Road journey too long, sometimes dangerous sef. Carry water gunn o

Shanklee:
Na California I wan go

Na Lagos Airport you go pass na... abi na keke you wan use go California?

Shanklee:
lemme even if na Lagos. Naija don taya me

Haaa, life can not be that bad. Oya come to lagos.... how many days will you like to stay

Cotonou is NOT far, you can leave by BUS.

You have no destination but you are looking for a geng to join you in entering into trouble, abi?

Lol, abeg progress is a personal journey NOT a collabo.

Starberg:
I just want to thank God that I am not a Muslim in the Northern part, I would have been killed, because I will so much castigate and blaspheme the oppressive part of the religion. With the way Christians condemn some flaws of some prophets in the Bible openly, many Christians and non would have been killed by now. Why can't you leave God to fight his battle, instead of fighting for him. Infact Ogun, Sango, Ayeyelala etc. as crude as they are fight for themselves.

They are simply saying, the God they worship can't fight for himself except humans intervene. If so that's not the living God I know oh.

May God bless our Yoruba Muslim brothers and sisters, you have shown us how Islamic religion should be practiced, but there some part that should be removed in Islamic religion.

A bitter truth

Thank God you are not a Christian either.

lexy2014:
These are ur exact words:

"NOTE OF ADVICE:
Consider Real Estate & Agrotech.... it is very profitable... even for webdesigners, many naija agrotech do not have websites or even a media manager... it is still a new niche in Nigeria.
Also learn how to do ADMOB and make endless income without depending on clients..."

With all ur sense, can u pls show were u mentioned mentorship here?

Its too late for you to learn. You quote the last part of my EXACT WORDS... well you are on your own. I am not the one in need. I only guided the guy to the right way to get help.

The OP has gotten the wisdom needed.

My sense has worked for me. maybe yours is working for you, enjoy it while it last bro... I have no issues with you.
Proving myself to haters like you is a waste of time.

Anyone who finds a mentor and knows that mentorship is a sure way to get practical and provable results. Mentors are not teachers, they are DOERS... and will guide the mentee till he/she earns.

Am tired of talking too much.
Its well. bye

Peteru1st:
this admob is shit. ive invested more than 15k on this cause. nothing

and I've not seen anyone making money from this. except in pictures

Lemme just explain it here.

ALL ADMOB ADVERTIZERS IN NIGERIA AND NAIRALAND ARE 90% SCAM....
COMMON SENSE IS REALLY NOT COMMON
Real Admob can not be done here... not even with VPN...

I DO THE REAL ADMOB.... and it works but guess what... you have to get someone from FIVERR, UPWORK,SEOCLERK to do it for you.... someone from another country...
AFTER THAT, you need to pay google $25 to get your app on playstore
then you market your app.... get at least 100 downloads and you will MAKE MONEY FOREVER WITHOUT BAN.

Lastly a little sense I applied, is to have a group of 100+ people who will click each other's apps.... and PEOPLE GET PAID... its a quiet money... as little as 80k monthly or more... based on how many people are in your own little group. Its something no one will teach you but sense will just fall on you once you understand how google thinks.... YOU ARE NOT SELF CLICKING... you just have 100+ friends who download your clouded app and click on it daily for each other.

So you see, It's very simple... all these people here shouting ADMOB IS SCAM.... never took time to learn how ADSENSE/ADWORDS work, they do not know how to DEVELOP APPS FROM SCRATCH.... but because schemers and scammers who have little knowledge have paraded themselves as ADMOB VENDORS.... they have scammed many people.


Like I always say... THOSE OF US WHO TRULY MAKE MONEY DO NOT HAVE TIME TO DO WHATSAPP CLASSES OR SELL EBOOKS.

I am not here to mentor anyone, I have just explained it clear for anyone who is smart to know that IT IS A LEGIT WAY TO EARN.

God bless our hustle o.
Kittex7
Baleeson
KomonSense

lexy2014:
According to u:

"Consider Real Estate & Agrotech.... it is very profitable... even for webdesigners, many naija agrotech do not have websites or even a media manager... it is still a new niche in Nigeria."

Am sure this is exactly what he was told about d businesses that he went into and got burnt. He was told that they are "very profitable". But here we are. Businesses are often overhyped. It's when u enter u will see that it's not as rosy as u guys paint it

Lol.... DID YOU NOT SEE IN MY REPLY THAT I ALSO MENTIONED THAT HE NEEDS MENTORSHIP?

Why are you just so fixed and pained on only seeing what you want to see. Have some little sense abeg.

He needs to find MENTORS in all those areas I mentioned.

Without MENTORS, a person is at the mercy of TORMENTORS.

Mentorship is the best way to learn anything in LIFE but sadly it is not celebrated in Nigeria.

Anyone who just buys ebooks or videos and jumps into a business will CRASH... mentorship is key.

Faster002:
Your advice please,
Below is some of my challenges :

Tried blogging : not encouraging

Forex trading: uncertainty

Freelancing : Upwork approved me, but for long no project


Web Design : client


My skills : html, CSS, Bootstrap, jquery, js, php, python(intermediate) and digital marketing.

I welcome any advice that will improve my skills or a promising business idea.

Your only PROBLEM in all this is........................... YOU HAD NO MENTOR.

Any mentor would tell you that
BLOGGING takes years before it can give tangible results.
FOREX at its best can only be a small side hustle....NEVER A MAJOR SOURCE and to mitigate the stress of forex you have to do PAMM.
FREELANCING only profits you if you do it as ARBITRAGE... and on at least 6 top platforms...
WEBDESIGN is not profiting because it is now a common skill unless you upgrade to FLIPPING DOMAINS and PARKING your domains then paying influencers to market them for you....



In all these, am only trying to show you that you got burnt because your knowledge about these things were not VAST ENOUGH because you were not trained by someone who was really EARNING from them consistently. So I suggest you get a mentor and watch how they will all turn to profitable streams of income.

NOTE OF ADVICE:
Consider Real Estate & Agrotech.... it is very profitable... even for webdesigners, many naija agrotech do not have websites or even a media manager... it is still a new niche in Nigeria.
Also learn how to do ADMOB and make endless income without depending on clients...

Nwaotu:
I decided to post this here cuz I believe matured minds can be found in this family section. Though it also fit in romance section, but it has to do with family. Romance section, I feel most minds there may not be matured enough cuz most things about relationship issues I post there I do not like the response I get.

Now my issue, I am heavily confused about the lady to marry. There are some ladies in my life, not that am dating them. Just friends with no strings attached. Am confused on who to pick to marry. I have prayed but am just tired. I want to make a decision on one before the year runs out. Today I may decide it is this person, tomorrow I will just change my mind and start liking this person. I am just tired. I don't know what else to do. I don't want to make mistake in marriage. Please advise me.

YOU HAVE MESSED UP YOUR DESTINY AND BECOME VERY UNCLEAN, DO NOT MARRY ELSE IT WILL BE FILLED WITH MISERY UNTIL YOU SORT THINGS OUT SPIRITUALLY, BLOOD IS CRYING HEAVILY ON YOU.

YOU ARE SPIRITUALLY EXPOSED.... dibia or pastor none is on your side... these girls you have slept with... if you will be very HONEST... not all of them are CLEAN SPIRITUALLY and your spirit knows... yet your diiick directs you and leads you into trouble...


You have had over 10 abortions
you have had still birth
you have had multiple partners both physically and spiritually
you are SEXUALLY ADDICTED
you have skill with getting women and you do not know how you learned the skill


SEE, blood of aborted babies is on your head..... you are like a walking-curse.... YOU NEED TO GO FOR SERIOUS DELIVERANCE....

No one should come here and comment rubbish unless they have read your previous posts.... I HAVE BEEN READING YOUR POSTS FOR THE PAST 5 MONTHS.... so I just decided to reply you today.


PLS DO NOT MARRY ELSE YOU WILL BRING DISASTER INTO THIS WORLD AND YOUR WIFE (+concubines) will kill you via stress or diabolically.

You need to consider spiritually more and get very serious, though I KNOW THAT YOU ARE NOT READY TO REPENT.