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TravelRe: Monkeys At The Lekki Conservation Attack Visitors (Video) by trium: 5:48pm On Nov 08, 2024
People go to the zoo and they like the lion because it's scary. And the bear because it's intense, but the monkey makes people laugh.

Car TalkRe: Gym Instructor In Tears As Female Clients Surprise Him With A New Car (Photos) by trium: 5:33pm On Nov 08, 2024
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Jobs/VacanciesRe: B.sc At 19. Presently Completed NYSC At 20. Job Needed. by trium:
santaclaws:
You're extremely young and lucky....

My best advice for you is to learn a skill or keep looking for internship positions. I'd rather you focused on getting a skill in any field of interest.

If you can also go for your master's it would be nice.

All the best kiddo. 😉
No masters until you get experience. Experience is a great teacher, you will undervalue yourself when you get the masters without experiencing how to use this new found knowledge.

You will get the Masters with the thinking of a Bsc holder because you don't know its worth yet. Get that work experience first. You can also work and be pursuing your masters.
Christianity EtcRe: Lady Spotted At Juju Altar Licking Charms (Photos) by trium: 4:47pm On Nov 08, 2024
MIND
YOUR
BUSINESS

Lick that quote and it will work like a charm.
Foreign AffairsRe: Democrats Woman Says She NEEDS MEDICATION To COPE With Trump's Victory(vid) by trium: 4:34pm On Nov 08, 2024
They like to pretend. I have said it that with this Trump's victory, the fear mongering has started on MSM
CrimeRe: Abimbola David Aka Davido Arrested For Sexual Child Abuse In United Kingdom by trium: 4:33pm On Nov 08, 2024
Flangelo12:
Man is guilty but the platform should not have created an opportunity for adults and minors to interact.

In most places, when a CFTV is installed on a business premises, it is boldly written on a sign to dissuade would-be criminals.

He's toast, but the platform surely must have some liability.
Unfortunately, that's the sad reality of the world we live in. There are so many of those apps today. So many of them.

EDIT: I just saw the news now that Australia banned social media apps for under 16s
CrimeRe: Abimbola David Aka Davido Arrested For Sexual Child Abuse In United Kingdom by trium: 4:07pm On Nov 08, 2024
Emmanuel909090:
What is the child doing on a dating app?
Some of this men do this just to target blacks and spoil their image..

Show us the full chat, and you will see the child pushing for this.
How many white men have you seen bursted like this?
Control your useless child.
I understand your sentiments but let's be clear you're not trying to excuse him because he's from Africa.

Do you know DAP? Google it, they took laws into their hands in U.S. when they realised that child predators are out there and the law will make them walk away freely, so mate it is not about white or red, it's humanity first. Predators are predatory.

This thing has affected African men who think a well built teenager is an adult and they fall into the trap. One of our Super Eagles player in the 90s fell into this trap especially when he was famous with money. I can't remember his name now, in his interview, he warned African men going abroad to be careful of these underage girls they may think are adults. What the parent does no concern law, it is the adult the law expects to be responsible and not take advantage of a minor.
CelebritiesRe: No Nigerian Can Afford Range Rover From Acting – Bimbo Manuel by trium: 3:56pm On Nov 08, 2024
I watched him yesterday on Your View and he was frank about this. One thing I'll teach my child is what Peter Obi said his mother taught him and that scene is in Tunde Kelani's movie. The world is like a market place. Funke Akindele acted that scene in the movie

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jrujvN2HeDY?feature=shared



We know as the actors de do money laundering with entertainment. There is money in the industry but they cannot fool us with show off of social media.
Foreign AffairsRe: Seven Things Trump Says He Will Do As President - BBC by trium: 12:56pm On Nov 08, 2024
Eriokanmi:
During my brief stay, we went on sightseeing. He took me to places he didn't even know I've been, many times cheesy cos he hardly goes out. Isę ni kura, no time for him to flex but I could understand. On getting to 3rd avenue, we met a guy who greeted us. He's Ghanaian. My friend introduced me and he said, welcome to America bros, no dulling oo. I only smiled and said, thank you. The following day, my friend told me what the Ghanaian said, that hope he's trying to get me sola sola( a code for social security) so I could start work. He said he was shocked when he told him that I wouid even return to Nigeria that day via NYJFK. His response was, why? Hope he's not being bewitched and what exactly does he want to go back to Nigeria for? By the time my friend Sat him down and explained everything to him, he was just wishing he was the one in my shoes, you see? He never believed any african who enters America is planning to go back soon, though it's truly rare cos of the weight of poverty in africa caused by bad leadership and if you've been following my posts , I'm a strong advocate of good leadership. Tinubu is my tribesman but I don't see him as intelligent and qualified enough to lead us to our fair haven. I'm vindicated already and my attackers have kept quiet.
Thank you for sharing this story. I realize people want to buy the story they wish to live ans start selling stocks from those strories. I tell people there is no perfect place in the world, however, we should make the best advantage of wherever we are. Since I was a child, I read stories around the world of real people, I traveled and I was exposed. People in Nigeria cannot live their own life and be content, they want everyone to partake in their own narratives.

One thing I teach kids is to think for themselves, don't be lured by social media and limited contexts. Live your own life and create the best opportunities there. NEVER point your left fingers to identify your father's house.

Have you read the book here belowhuh I don't want to go political but the only thing that made me support Obi was the chance for someone to change the psyche of Nigerians and how they approach things. I don't expect much from any politician but he, from my observation had a great chance at influencing our mentality of how we see ourselves. Many Africans suffer from inferiority complex, caused by lack of exposure and history about who they are. It affects how they approach issues in life. Some people think once they travel out, they are automatically better and knowledgeable about the world than someone who studied traditions, culture and history. They get lost parroting narratives of a foreigner who told lies about them.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ublXaubx21Y
Foreign AffairsRe: Seven Things Trump Says He Will Do As President - BBC by trium: 12:49pm On Nov 08, 2024
Funflipper:
Which war is America fighting supporting under democrats?
PoliticsRe: Tinubu Is Taking You 34 Years Backwards | Punch Newspapers by trium: 6:25pm On Nov 07, 2024
Salewa97:
Forward ever, backward never
APC as a party took us to a very dark place. I think they are the VDM but people are not observant enough to know who's who.

Foreign AffairsRe: Seven Things Trump Says He Will Do As President - BBC by trium:
They have started the fear mongering. Do you remember when they said he would start a warhuh
North Korea
Russia
Africa

Was there any war under him? Was there any war under Democrats? Your guess is as good as mine.

They lied to us that Russian bots were behind his popularity when they used Facebook in 2008 and we found out what they did with Cambridge Analytica later. They made sure they controlled Twitter until Musk bought it from that Jack guy. Do you know that the embarrassment of Trump's popularity on Tiktok is why they had to push for it to be an American company and they blame China for disinformation when in actual fact, their own people are looking for the truth?

The media is the biggest loser in this campaign. They lost the trust of people, no wonder Biden banned Tiktok because like Nigeria, young people are not sourcing news from traditional media anymore. Stop trying to think for us, let us think for ourselves.

RomanceRe: If Your Woman Is In This Type Of Group, Please Run For Life. by trium: 6:14pm On Nov 07, 2024
Posting personal information is doxing. What were the mods THINKING angry
Foreign AffairsRe: Vivian Jenna Wilson Says She’s Leaving U.S. After Trump Win by trium: 6:11pm On Nov 07, 2024
It has no effect on us. Democrats have started the fear mongering.
CrimeRe: Grown Man Caught Stealing 2 Packs Of Indomie In A Mall (Photos) by trium: 6:07pm On Nov 07, 2024
Advert material for Dufil. At the end, bring a mother or elder to warn him that we don't steal. Just the way we had papilo advert. Hungry man size grin pay me for my ideas


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-kaUIqH8bTU
RomanceRe: Leaked Sextape: Baltasar Engonga Is Every Woman’s Dream – Actress Sarah Martins by trium: 5:45pm On Nov 07, 2024
dmxnairaland:
Lol.... Nairaland men are funny and also quite pathetic. When this Baltasar scandal came out, all the men here were hailing him and calling him a legend.

Now that a woman is hailing him too, see how their slamming her.

Later now, they will start claiming Redpillers and calling everyone else who isn't them simps.

Y'all are just of bunch of bottom feeding beta males. It's why you guys constantly need one alpha or the other to worship.
You are observant
EducationRe: Abia Polytechnic Renamed After Ogbonnaya Onu by trium: 5:36pm On Nov 07, 2024
In the next 10 years, we would have privatised all institutions as people die. we need to do a rethink of this.
Foreign AffairsRe: Kemi Badenoch's Shadow Cabinet: Not A Single Black Made The List (pic) by trium: 5:35pm On Nov 07, 2024
jaxxy:
Did she tell u she cares about Nigeria? Nigeria only gave her nightmares.
I don't care about her as well. Let her manage Britain well, let Nigerians manage Nigeria well.
RomanceRe: Before You Marry A Man 20 Years Older... by trium: 5:32pm On Nov 07, 2024
DigitB:
Every marriage has its challenges. Of course no one should wash their dirty linen in public.

It takes a man more mature than his wife to make a stable marriage.


I don't know why these old hoeish evening newspapers always try to confuse young women on social media with their shitty posts
Misery loves company.

Bad news sells faster.
RomanceRe: Before You Marry A Man 20 Years Older... by trium: 5:29pm On Nov 07, 2024
nwirinedu:
The only reason they marry men 40+ is because of money. At that age the man is stable and established, the one at 20 is still struggling trying to get a footing. Marry a man and grow with him, dont wait for him to cross the finish line, you were not part of his struggles and will be treated as an acquisition rather than a partner.

I don talk my own.
People are different. Do you know that in the past, older women who were doing well married young men and let him have more wiveshuh This is because .marriage was about families and protecting the lineage. A woman who is that ambitious will let the other women compete for his attention while she minds her business and acts like a mom.

Now, there are women who want a father figure, some of them were close to their dads and some of them grew up with daddy issues. There is no one size cap that fits all. We all need to understand people's backgrounds. That's why I advise men to study the woman's family before falling in love
Foreign AffairsRe: Kemi Badenoch's Shadow Cabinet: Not A Single Black Made The List (pic) by trium: 5:22pm On Nov 07, 2024
jaxxy:
Kemi is British.
Yes, British - Nigerian

I don't care if she's Armenian, I don't like the way Nigerians behave beggarly as if we don't have value.
RomanceRe: Before You Marry A Man 20 Years Older... by trium: 2:21pm On Nov 07, 2024
ppogba:
You mean Regina that is using social media postings here and there to conceal her inner pains?

If a girl of 22-23 married to a man of 60+ tells you she is happily married, just take it that she is likely related to Lie Mohammed.
What do you as a young man bring to the table outside sexhuh Can you afford her lifestyle cost?

It is your mind that wants to make sure she is not enjoying her marriage even if she does. Once your mind is corrupted, you can only see through broken glasses.

Let's assume she is unfaithful to her husband. Aren't you as a man bruised on your ego when she has to hide you in the toilet or meet you in the hotelhuh

Don't you worry that she still has sense to protect her assets and you are just a disposable wipehuh

You can't have her with your open chest and you call that one a man. That looks like anumanu
Foreign AffairsRe: Kemi Badenoch's Shadow Cabinet: Not A Single Black Made The List (pic) by trium: 2:15pm On Nov 07, 2024
Know your history mates! Build Africa for Africans and the world will respect you. Stop trying to build others houses. Mind your business. UK their business, Africa OUR BUSINESS.

PoliticsRe: Like Donald Trump, Can Goodluck Also Stage A Comeback by trium: 1:56pm On Nov 07, 2024
tonesky:
No, he can't. Nigeria does not elect leaders, Mahmood and INEC selects.
The Trump team felt cheated last election. Have you seen the map of 2020 and 2024huh

Truth is coming out
RomanceRe: Before You Marry A Man 20 Years Older... by trium:
vincenteger:
Everyone with their choices

If na money be their problems then they should go for it.
You don't have any right to advice anyone
What works for A might not work for B.
Thank you for voicing my opinion. The writer, in a limited POV has not thought about a 40 year old woman attracted to 60 year old or a 50 yo woman vs 70 yo man.

This is why family is important, not online family. Omotola married an older man, Senator married that younger actress and the internet was screaming as if they loved the young girl better than herself or family. Family is the one to protect marriages, not all these online advisors that don't know your family, history and everything. No context

No be Shade Okoya de celebrate 25 years marriage at the age of 47? She got married at the age of 22 and she is saying here that her marriage will not have lasted if she married a younger man. She was also not the first wife but children without family values will come and be advising young men and women to do this, don't do that.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0mkcpOt9x3Q?feature=shared




https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6mxmBIJGUiU?feature=shared



Bianca no marry Ojukwu? You never see life.
RomanceRe: Before You Marry A Man 20 Years Older... by trium: 11:41am On Nov 07, 2024
Everyone can give advice but can't advise themselves to mind their business!

Women love security and that's what old men provide. When they're secured, they now think about adventures which if the old man cannnot give her and if she lacks morals, begins to find young boys to do her job.
RomanceRe: How Do I Get This Girl by trium: 10:01pm On Nov 06, 2024
Girls will accept you if you are confident in yourself. You cannot give her assurance if you don't have insurance.
Foreign AffairsRe: 73% Of Black Men & 88% Black Women Voted Kamala Harris (picture) So Sad by trium:
Even when you listen to Nigerians, they silently support illegal immigration just because it will benefit them. How do you want to be loyal to a country that your first interaction with was based on deceit? You have no honor.

PoliticsRe: Lagbaja: Tinubu Orders Flag To Be Flown At Half-mast by trium: 9:54pm On Nov 06, 2024
Man proposes, God disposes.
RomanceRe: Any Man Who Succeeded In Sleeping With Your Wife Has Conquered You by trium: 9:02pm On Nov 06, 2024
There are a lot of young boys here talking about life. I will use what Peter Obi said recently that if his wife should cheat, it's her name she has spoilt, not his name. The headline will read that his wife, not him. If you are mature enough, you will be able to interpret that message.

Every adult is rresponsible for their life and the kind of name they want to have and protect. Stop wasting your time on immature topics. When you get older, you'll focus on more important things and stop policing adults. It shows how insecure you are. You had a life before you met her, why do you want to be doing Lion gameshuh
PoliticsRe: We Received No Response When We Reached Out To Uk’s Kemi Badenoch – Abike Dabiri by trium: 8:58pm On Nov 06, 2024
Kukutente23:
This woman and her agency is a complete waste of time and money

Is there any other country in the world that has an agency for their people in diaspora?

Besides Badenoch has never claimed to be Nigerian. I doubt she has a Nigerian passport so what's the basis of reaching out to her if not to chase clout and a thin line of bigotry?

Did she also reach out to all other Nigerians born in UK or that privilege is reserved for Badenoch
You are very correct. She does not have the power when countries only recognize Foreign Affairs in bilateral relations. She is just a journalist put in charge of a PR agency. The career diplomats don't waste their time responding to her because they know the implications.

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