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Tamarapetty:
Smh, smb, sma

it's worth it but don't "syb" and "ya" too much so they don't slack up because of those shameless people.


I hope you UNDERSTAND.

This is terrible!
Is he an animal?

blackboythink:
The world has become feminized. Weak and overly sensitive. The girl is pretty short, how else is he supposed to hold her back in like manner. Who else has audited her hand posture? Or can she not be pleasured by his tight body?

Since this sudden surge of feminism, the media keeps looking for bread to toast just to further elevate the female gender and make headlines.

What a shame.

what a shame..
I see matured and powerful women holding young boys on TV (talk shows, interviews) many times even to the point of asking for a hug or even a kiss but we see it as peaceful friendship.

an hand around in public has suddenly become sexual molest ..

my advice to men is be strict and alert when it concerns women and do not let your name down...whether they seem friendly or not whether they are the ones asking for friendship or not just be strict, stern and alert under a smiling face. right from the time of Adam women whether a close relative or not has the tendency of dragging a man down as they have tendency of also pushing a man forward.

On the topic: That man could have done a lot better if he had walked away forever.

Side note:
if you think men are the only demons of physical abuse ...you are a fool.

if you condemn physical abuse and condone verbal abuse you are well worst than being foolish.

if you think it is OK for a man to beat or abuse his partner in any way you're a fool .
if you think it is OK for a woman to beat or abuse her partner in any way you're a fool

lastly if you think it's bad for a man to abuse his partner but normal for a woman to abuse her partner. you will never see heaven, your foolishness is irritating to God and nature .
And worst is that it will never happen, rather it will turn out even worst against your wishes.

believe me.

pocohantas:
I don't know how well some of you here, read and comprehend.
What part of my post insinuated that?

Why do you think Nigerian government should acknowledge prostitution positively as a growing industry ?

Go to Zurich ...over there are nice friendly boxes where this your lovable business can work perfectly with the backing of the government.

for now leave Nigeria out of it...
we have got more important issues to handle.

pocohantas:
The government acknowledged the fact that prostitution is a growing industry. Whereas here in Nigeria, we're calling our own slayqueen and killing them for rituals.

Upon all our sanctimonious attitude and ritual killings, our poverty index is very worrying.

If you want to do prostitution, please by all means do it. look for a safe and favourable environment.


Here is what you should not do.
Don't force prostitution on others.
Don't advise others to do prostitution.

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Who will marry them? Orangutans

No one wants to marry a woman or a man with bad or dangerous habits and character.

if they won't work on those vices but defend it then maybe they were made for orangutans.

strife to be good only then can you attract goods things of nature ....defend the vices and posses what is bad in everything.
the law of nature.

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Diamond360:
what about Men

very bad!

work on yourself forget men...
women and men are humans...any advice given should be useful to you and not for you to find a way to defend.

I learnt a few ways to help my character from the the OP even though it was trying to correct women.

Wumi261:
Wow! First time in over two to almost three decades of my life. My birthday mate, hope you're not as ---- as i am? lol
winks****

we should have similarities but I hope you're just exactly as I am ....
I see you do poultry farming... I will keep your moniker in mind as I intend to go big on it. PM me so I can have your email. thanks .

Try it.

2nd of Feb.

you will be glad.

see as she be like boiled beans ..
what kind of wicked mother/woman is this?

if not for love sake I for swear for her and the child in her womb which will hunt her through most of her life unless she ask for that little girls forgiveness with sincerity and remorse.

Silentscreamer:
Seems like the man got what he bargained for..

You are hurting yourself...you will not get far with this attitude , in fact it is a barrier .

remember this advice when it is time .
Look deep you know what I mean, before it's too late. a word is enough for the wise.

God have mercy ... I pray she gets well soon.

I am happy for all my Nigerian brothers making us proud.

some stvpid idiots are here throwing sentiments around like they got anyone in their entire generation that's as good as these young stars rep-ing the country .

MrBottle:
No. He served humself. He is not the kind of guy that wait around to be served. It made us to realise that you cant just let someone hold you hostage and that you need to do things for people not because they commands it but rather you wanted them to feels and cherish your positive impact when you are not around. He is not the guy you dread when he is around and feel relieved when he is gone. I don't know the kinda family you grew up in but mine is where whoever is more skilled takes up a chores that fits him/her.

so your dad cooks for your mum?
And your mum always ask your dad to make garri each time she wants to cook her own food?
And your mum feels it's nice to be served food by your dad and not the other way round?

even though you made a valid point you missed the worries of the OP.

Jesusina:
Personally, I don't believe this incidence really happen to you as a person.

2* You are not matured yet to marry, who feeds you among your family "who will not take it, bkos they did not like her" Did she forced you to marry her ni! Oro jatijati.

3* I wish your so called wife can read your post here, I will ask her to divorce you and I will adopt her as wife and make her live under same roof with her first fruit. Then you go manage ur life with 3 children*

4* What concerns you with the girl's father, Did she hid her from you from onset.

Some men are still teenagers!!!!!

Op please take this option......

hahahahaha... .

this comment is the biggest joke I have seen this year.....
And he said "some men are teenagers" .
Jesusina... , how old are you?

The safest place for her to be is with her grandmother....

take it or leave it.

If the grandmother is denying her own granddaughter to the extent of issuing a dead line then something has to be wrong somewhere.

But in all and to be truthful, Oga try help the girl it wasn't her fault that her mom decide to take careless steps and also remember that everybody makes mistakes so don't vent on your wife as well. most importantly make strict rules to your home, be fair and be very careful, Because sometimes good may be taken for bad in the end.

Shagzy89:
To everyone advising him to bring the child in,give him money now.the man is trying to tell you that iz not financially stable..shey una wan kill am nii
I'm also experiencing the same shit here

The issue is, so many hypocrites who can't even practice half of what they preach are here abusing him instead of giving him reasonable advice ...

He should help the girl irrespective of whether she is related to him or not but he should be very much aware that it could lead to a terrible dispute, so he has to be very careful with every step he takes.

And for those crucifying the guy for saying "after one" ...it's the plain truth. it is good he accepts it that way. so many of you fvckers won't even think of going close to a baby dady or baby mama, talk more of getting married to one. (oga just be careful so you don't abuse your wife in the process of your being sincere).

Ibime:
I would give you the same advice as everyone else has given, but with a name like Fayose, I don't think you are a reasonable man.

This is stupidity ...

You are in no way better and his decisions should be respected, things of life are not always solved the same way.

At least give your advice with reason as you have proposed.

To the OP, guy try all you can to help your step-daughter but be very careful when doing so...if you ponder on the above statement carefully, you will most probably make the right decisions

AreaFada2:
I think the govt needs to make age of consent very obvious. A normal sexual activity in Brazil where age of consent is 14 can mean jail for pedophilia in USA where age of consent is 16 and 17 in some states or even 18 (in Arizona). Ours should be clear too.

Right now hardly anyone knows for certain. Everyone assumes it's 18 years old. While that is age of majority for marriage, voting, driving and so on, age of sexual consent differ in many countries.

Age difference on its own might create moral qualms but may not be necessarily illegal. In modern times where people no more grow up in communities with similar worldview, such important matter like age of consent cannot be left to individual moral judgement BUT clear legal definition is needed.

Checking online very quickly, age of consent in Nigeria is given as a shocking age of 11 (eleven years) !

Can someone please tell us the legal age by law both in Northern & Southern Nigeria?

Because if true, it might explain why most men get away (or easily granted bail) with alleged child sex cases. The courts cannot do much.

While we might frown upon it and parents/guardians rightly outraged, the perpetrators might not be breaking any law unless kidnap & violence can be proven.

Very worrying that teenage girls are easily into sexual activities with much older men. Where crimes have been committed, it should be punished severely. Right now, it's not the case.

Facing the truth squarely ...thumbs up.

This too could be the reason teenage boys aren't attended to when they find themselves involved in sexual acts with much older women.

That girl won't repent anytime soon, she has passion and a will for sex.

The parents better educate her, because violence will make her stay one month in the next mans/boys house.

Oga below, what you said could be true, what a pity....

revolt:
But the 14 yr old gyal said she enjoyed it. Arrerall up north shes eligible for marriage..... una nva see 14yr old wey be like 22...lol. what i dnt understand is why when women Do the same with 14 yr old boys society condones it. Yet these bloody feminists say men are favoured in africa.

memilanmania:
Funny enough i’m the only one who read all through this thread and i think what timaya said is the plain reality truth.. I only don’t like the fact he’s not ready to settle down tho that’s the new trend this days and he’s a celebrity. ��‍♂️

You will be a great person.
If you're great already, you will be more great.

Bunch of hypocrites all over nairaland.

cnonyechi:
In as much as what u said is true but really women need to pay attention sexually to der husbands. My husband tells me all d time dat a wife dat can't satisfy her husband sexually is preparing for doom and funny enough I believe him. We wives need to up our game if not na vacancy be dat ooo

You're a good human

Hisduchess:
this is more like leaving ur private toilet to go use a public toilet at ajengunle.tufiakwa ife anaghi aso ufodu Ndi mmadu oyi.Chi m ekwe especially for those married men who are given flimsy excuse for their ungodly behavior.

You don't get the story?

The private toilet has become more of a private hell than a place to ease ones(those men) urge.

Numbers and colors are two awesome ways to derive the balance of the forces that holds existence.
Numbers may be generally viewed as difficult,hard,abstract and perhaps ugly while colors are mostly viewed as real, easy and beautiful.
Numbers generally represent science while colours generally represent arts but if one can carefully judge/compare/analyse these two in terms of existence/(life and death) they both will resolve to be the same end but through different direction, this is the reason therefore why life can only exist in a "cycle of life and death"/"life cycle", why light can only be gotten from positive and negative, why reproduction can only be possible through male and female (This way of comparison can be referred to as the supreme analogy) for it leads to the perfect reflection of the image of God and brings eternal life as a characteristic of God.
Every single structure of beauty/reality has a raw calculation of numbers beneath or at it's very base, for without these precise calculations there will be no power to hold up such a structure e.g A beautiful/handsome female/male can't hold up without a calculated skeleton/bones at the base or inside of such a structure, A beautifully built and painted mansion must have a well plan calculated blue print...etc. From this, it can thus be said that if the physical beauty of a structure can be derived from its inner calculations or skeleton then it's inner calculations or skeleton can be derived from the physical beauty of such a structure but it seems more difficult to accomplish and this is where most human intelligence get it wrong when it concerns the existence of any and every structure/reality/life/art/beauty that has ever exist. From here we can say that all opposites are never really opposites as long as their motives are directed towards same goal. For the sake of clarity I will make use of the two most fundamental colors “Black” and “White” these two most fundamental colors combine to form the basics of all reality and they do so sacrificially through different and opposite directions. In further comparison of these colors they can be classified respectively in characteristics to fit negative and positive, science and arts, abstract and real, bad and good, darkness and light…etc. With careful comparison we can prove that these opposite currents/elements/faculties ultimately produces existence/reality because without one in each pair the other would have never existed. ( it is also important to note that the base/foundation of every structure comes before the finishing and without the power of the foundation the finishing can’t hold up or stand).

I will continue in my next post it’s past 4am already, got to rest my head a little.

A taste of the the kind of dish Nigerian ladies love to serve..

She should move on and forget what she spent for love.... otherwise she is childish... (this comment is copied from a female nairalander to a defrauded guy lover)............. it has just been gender-edited ...

SenorFax:
I know Expecially when you are right.

You're right..

SenorFax:
So youve been making researches since??

All because of sexual topic on Nairaland

lol.....

"You're right"

I know you know what the above phrase implies.

SenorFax:
You are right

you're right.

https://www.express.co.uk/life-style/life/730819/sexual-enjoyment-pleasure-men-women-expert-tracey-cox

Read what a woman with brains wrote.

SenorFax:
Everyone loves sex, but men enjoys it mostly. Some women only enjoy sex when it gets them what they want.

Whatever works for you, be it
1. Love sex
2. Angry sex
3. Pity sex
4 Revenge sex
5. Fun sex
6. Business sex
7. Celebration sex
8. You-too-dey-form-hard-to-get sex

But it's funny this kind post is popping up on such a day and time.
OP take your time o

Please read,reason,experience....
Just find knowledge. .You need a lot of it.