₦airaland Forum

Now i am certain that Nigerian men are really enjoying South Africa.The good food,wine, constant electricity,women in different shapes,colours and sizes,black women who sound european but do all african things.WHAT MORE COULD A MAN ASK FOR !but atleast the ladies waiting for them back home will get to see the one that got away on SKYPE!

NEVER!it is your private matter with your fiance,you`ll tell people when you have officially changed to his surname!

Whatever happened to not judging people,but some churches are the first to judge their members and try to run peoples lives according to `WHAT THE CHURCH THINKS IS RIGHT` .The couple should be able to get married at a church of their choice without any pregnancy test what is all this!

you need help tpiah serious help maybe prayer!!!!!!!!!!!!

stop looking at the problems and find solutions!it starts with an individual what have you done in you community to make a change??

@jennykadry,we meet where he works.and the rest as they say is history!!!

tpiah is one of those women who has been left back home and the boyfriend married a south african woman.a woman scorned, for your info i was talking about a friend of mind,READ CAREFULLY.i am content and happy and i guess it goes with the topic Tpiah are you intimidated by me!

two girls two years and one year

The man had no feelings for the visitor.They were helping her settle herself in a foreign country
She did not know anyone in south Africa so atleast having a roof over her head was a start.But i guess she had other motives!!!!!!

No i don`t know how to make those two i only know bene seed soup and ground nut soup.please give me recipes

Thank you very much and i will stroll down to naija anytime if not for my parents in law ,then for the Egusi and bitter leaf soup

yes thats true!i thought so definately she has an agenda or maybe not!maybe she came from nigeria hoping to have a relationship with the man and was dissappointed to find that he was truely married and happy!

i think it differs from man to man!its a mans orientation that will determine what he follows!my husband is Nigerian and he liked me for my intellect and not my beauty or the size of my backside or front,and of course beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

I think the media portrays south African women negatively.we have different tribes and cultures.the reason why most nigerian guys like S.A women is because there is variety here eg. black, caucasian,coloured and indian.and most s.a women are very independent and they do take care of men especially Naija men!

Why are SOME Nigerian women intimidated by a foreign woman but specifically a South African woman who is married to a Nigerian man?Is it envy or ignorance? let me explain the scenario!A friend of mine has been married three years to a Nigerian man,they were happy together until a friend of the guy from nigeria came to visit them(female).the visitor started walking around the house half naked and trying to anger my friend in every way.in the end my friend ended up thinking that the husband was hiding that this lady was actually his wife,when it was not so.At the end of the day this caused harm to their relationship.so i ask was the lady visiting that man envious or was she intimidated by the wife of the man?

my husband is from cross river state ,okpoma,under the yala local govenment and visited lagos in surulere i hope thats how it is spelt!!!! thats where he stayed before he travelled.

i have been to Nigeria and it is a Wonderful country,and i trust am the only woman in my husbands life!so please dont try any sha kara.i love my parents in law and i am content.if you have heard stories about south africa and women here we all have different orientation same as all countries, people are different the same applies to south africa,there is good and bad.Before people speak we are all adults and should do research before criticizing a fellow african sister.i am a child of Africa whether South africa or Nigeria i am still a black woman.

@ oam4jenny that is true i am very happy with my husband,i stay in south africa and it is a huge coutry with diffent provinces i did not say he should come to me,maybe another province to set his mind straight!you cannot be married 21 years and let it go just like that!

i have been yo Nigeria and it is a beatiful country,the people are welcoming and friendly,I REALLY LOVE MY COUNTRY.i believe i can call it my country since i married to a nigerian and have two beautiful children!

we respect the marriage instituition very well and moreover it is an individual thing, that is why he needs a vacation before he does something drastic like divorce!

dear i already have a great nigerian man!thanks but no thanks!i am just recommending he takes a vacation not necessarily south africa.abi na village you wan make him go?abi you like wetin dey happen to the man,and you no need to dey rude to me at all.na wa for you ooo!person like you fit do those kind thing to your man.

ladies it was just a topic no need to get personal,well for your information i am married to a great nigerian man so there is no need for anyone to hook me up coz i am already spoken for! and my `so called friends are all nigerian guys that reside in south africa.i have discovered that most have girlfriends waiting for them in nigeria so i ask again can you wait for your man to come back?

i am a south african lady,and have many nigerian friends ,wat i have noticed is that most of the nigerian women can stay years waiting for their suitors to come back from abroad to marry them!does this still happen or not??

guys it is a totally different story here in south africa 5 in 10 women have children before marriage.so wat do you do in that case??

stay away from boys!

you really need a vacaton hey!come down to south africa!

personally i think a patient person is better as a spouse,because we all make mistakes in our relationships and atleast with a patient person they tend to take their time to understand you!

this your husband needs strong prayer!it is not his fault its the evil spirit!!!!!!!

Why una go forget mary mitchell slessor the only woman that stop the killing of twins in nigeria.

MAYBE HE IS MARRIED IN THE USA.IT ALSO HAPPENS HERE IN SOUTH AFRICA MOST NIGERIANS ARE MARRIED BACK HOME BUT HAVE WIVES IN SOUTH AFRICA TOO!

LOVE WONT PUT FOOD ON THE TABLE

hello!well first of all how sure are you that this guy even thinks about you or let alone has feelings for you!you keep contacting him but you don`t say if he contacts you!my sister let him be move on with your life you deserve better!i am aouth african woman and here in south africa they call it stalking!leave him HE IS NOT WORTH IT!!!!!

why would you want to lighten your skin?i am a south african woman and dark and believe me i am very happy with the colour of my skin,you don`t need skin lightening cream you need to evaluate yourself from the inside.Be proud and love your skin then other people will too!!!!!!But if you insist then you can use Garnier or Celltone but i don`t know if you can get it in Nigeria.