Honestly,we still on topics such as these funny though when naija men come to foreign countries they prefer independent women who have their own car apartment and they work,but for naija you go dey your parents house til you marry .

I feel the minute you are independent and can stand on your own give your parents some privacy nahhhhhh.move out start saving to try contribute for when you and future hubby put money together to buy/invest in properties,instead of always asking for money from your husband's to take care of your entire village.

Deception on the highest.

On Android phones theres those features that enhance a picture,Maybe he uses it

Hello,

I will go straight to the point.

Do a hotel reservation print it out,then when you get here (O.R TAMBO INTERNATIONAL AIRPORT,JOHANNESBURG SOUTH AFRICA) when the immigration officer ask you for hotel reservation present it and if they call the hotel,tell them before they call that you are paying on arrival as they only accept credit card and you don't have a credit card to pay before arrival.

Please when you get the reservation make sure to call the hotel and confirm your reservation and to tell them you will pay on arrival or better still call them to tell them you are coming so they know that they are expecting so even if the immigration calls they can also confirm that they are expecting you.

Call the hotel and familiarize yourself with the customer service people.try to know them by name.because they are the one who will also pick the calls when the immigration calls. if you need any other information let me know

N TO THE O!no maid should even be closeto the pots.personally i wouldnt want a maid at all no matter how big my house is,is she not a woman like myself,how can she do all those house chores and i can`t.i would rather cook,clean ,fetch the kids from school,and iron for my family myself.Its better to be safe than sorry.

the funny thing is the dolls are not even dressed, what is the designer saying about african children,they stay without clothes? only wear under wear all the time.the audacity!!!!!!!!!!

Tribal mark toys for sale, Lets be Africans in nature,place ur order now n leave white toys 4 once. Hurry get urs n make ur children or siblings happy

what nonsense thread is this,if i want to pay my tithe let me be!

I guess i am one of the blessed ones out there because the mother in law i have is no different from the mother who gave birth to me

You should understand your husbands culture and try to be tolerant. Being married to a nigerian man is the best thing that ever happened to me.

Minority of women dont understand the concept of marriage you are marrying him and adopting his family.

Maybe your mother in law wanted you to ask her to teach you some nigerian dishes have you thought about that.She most probably did not want to intrude funny thing is if she stated cooking you would still have an issue and say she took over your house abi.

take advice from one woman to another visist her in nigeria let her teach you ask if you have to and you will fall in love with the woman that brought that man you love into your life.

Well,why would anyone believe Nigerian embassy requested for bribe,that is pure lies.if you are rejected of visa deal with it.i have seen scenario where many many people are denied visa.

Because its a Nigerian visa so South Africans should not be denied?

Have you heard about repatriation fee which is N110,000 that is required to be paid when obtaining visa to south Africa from Nigeria.so now Nigeria also applied the same protocol and all of a sudden its Bribe.

Please go and pay your R6000 so that your visa can be issued.

Thanks

the girl will eventually get married and eventually change the name anyway.so he will stay in denial.

madam do you love your man,please dont make a mountain out of a mole hill,he is with you and loves his children,i dont see why you feel offended when he describes you as the childrens mother are you not their mother its a form of respect!dont let petty issues ruin your relationship.

i have come to realise most nigerians are very patriotic about their country no matter how bad!i really admire that.

great men fall into temptation because their woman lack prayer!simple

if you believe they cheat then every man you are in a relationship with will cheat,its all in your minds ladies.and who posted this anyway why cant women talk about something constructive like how to make africa unite.

Africans always looking at the negative,thats why most african countries have so many natural resources but are still drowning in poverty because of ignorance.Please it was an event the president and the first lady had to dress to INTERNATIONAL STANDARD!

i really do love this thread.i am a South African woman married to a Nigerian man and all these ingredients have really made my husband appreciate my effort.thank you nairaland for putting SPICE in my marriage!!!!!!

this is simple,why did the first marriage not last for this woman.whatever made her other husband to leave her, will be the same with you.so be happy with your family and don't hurt your children.

only one word sums everything up in my relationship!RESPECT

your girl must not want you anymore,bringing her friends over any chance she gets what does she expect.i think she already knows she is just waiting for the ice to crack,and when it cracks,

in south africa

thanks very much guys i really do appreciate your advice,not all nigerian men are bad.i just wish people could stop putting them in a category,see them as men and not `NIGERIAN MEN!

From the abundance of the heart speaketh the mouth!

I strongly believe this is politics on the highest order and all this are plots to give our president Goodluck Jonathan a bad image.It even happen to South African president JACOB ZUMA.

The court date of a man held after deadly bombings in Nigeria has been postponed because of fears about his safety in custody, his lawyer said Monday.

Henry Okah is being held in a Johannesburg, South Africa, prison, but his lawyer, Rudi Krause, wants him separated from the general prison population for his safety, he said.

He is being charged under terrorism legislation, Krause said. Extradition has not been discussed, he added.

The prosecutor and police have applied for the hearing to be postponed to Tuesday morning, the lawyer said.

Okah is suspected of being an influential member of the group that took responsibility for the bombings that killed 12 people and injured 50 in Nigeria on Friday.

The Movement for the Emancipation of the Niger Delta, known as MEND, issued a statement Saturday saying it had given the Nigerian government advance warning.

The Nigerian Intelligence Service said Monday that nine people have been arrested and are being questioned in connection with the blasts Friday in the nation's capital, Abuja. Authorities are still seeking two men, identified as Chima Orlu and Ben Jessy, whom they accuse of being the "masterminds" of the plot.

But sources close to MEND told CNN that the two men are "not known to be MEND operatives or known to be active on the Niger Delta issue."

They also raised concerns about the nine other arrests, calling them an "attempt by the Nigerian government to be seen to act."

Nigerian President Goodluck Jonathan has appointed Andrew Azazi, his former chief of defense staff, to be the country's national security adviser in the wake of the bombings, Jonathan's office told CNN on Monday.

The attack came as the West African country celebrated 50 years of independence.

MEND blamed the government for the deaths.

"The irresponsible attitude of the government security forces is to blame for the loss of lives," the MEND statement said.

"The security forces were also warned one full hour to the first bomb blast ahead of the general alert sent to the media and told to steer the public from all parked cars which was not done," the statement continued.

Jonathan later called the action a terrorist attack that was designed to "disrupt" the anniversary, presidential spokesman Imo Niboro said. But he said it had nothing to do with Niger Delta issues or MEND.

MEND, which represents militants in the oil-rich Niger Delta, is an umbrella organization of several rebel groups. It has been battling the government for years over fairer distribution of the country's oil wealth.

MEND said Okah had been harassed by authorities in South Africa, where he lives, but denied his involvement.

"Okah has never been involved in any MEND operations but has always been blamed for every attack, which is strange to us," MEND's statement said.

:dhappy independence day to all nigerians home and abroad!!!!!!!

thats approximately $13,000.please i need you reasonable answers!

`ANYTHING OR ANYBODY THAT TRIES TO EXPLAIN THE TRUTH AWAY FROM YOU IS THE DEVICE OF THE DEVIL!SO BE CAREFUL`.
Here in South Africa it is very difficult to get ingredients for the soups he would really like,so we make means with the ones we buy from Nigerian shops around here.therefore he enjoys egusi!

He is Middle Belt,not Yoruba nor is he Ebo

The crossriver that my husband is from is not the Calabar side that eat edikaikong and afang soups.they eat eyiha and groundnut soups

My relationship is genuine and not a fiction story you hear from someone who heard from someone else who was there!

But thanks anyway for the review of a Nollywood movie you watched!

Submitting yourselves one to another in the fear of God.

Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body. Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing.

Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it; That he might sanctify and cleanse it with the washing of water by the word. That he might present it to himself a glorious church, not having spot, or wrinkle, or any such thing; but that it should be holy and without blemish. So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies.

He that loveth his wife loveth himself. For no man ever yet hated his own flesh; but nourisheth and cherisheth it, even as the Lord the church: For we are members of his body, of his flesh, and of his bones. For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and shall be joined unto his wife, and they two shall be one flesh. This is a great mystery: but I speak concerning Christ and the church.

Nevertheless let everyone of you in particular so love his wife even as himself; and the wife see that she reverence her husband.

Trust in the Lord with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding. In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths.

I recently inherited 100,000 South African rands what is the best investment you would make with that amount of money in Nigeria?please reasonable answers!

What does being an african mean to you?

You people don`t seem to understand me cleary,i got married in nigeria in Crossriver state ,Okpoma, Yala local government,i know my inlaws,i have a huge stone on my left finger and we have two kids!

Now explain to me again how he can just do that for CONVENIECE sake.

Ignorance is not a good thing especially when some people can not accept that you are totally happy.My husband taught me something and i quote `ANYTHING OR ANYBODY THAT TRIES TO EXPLAIN THE TRUTH AWAY FROM YOU IS THE DEVICE OF THE DEVIL!SO BE CAREFUL`.