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Family › Re: Should I Confront My Brother's Wife? by turasumon(f): 4:24pm On May 05, 2021

This matter is simple oo. What if your brother is paying the rent? I know that they may be having financial issues but it's to early for her to be doing this.
I don't blame her Sha...na ur brother I blame. He just married her and she is not even scared of asking him to stop paying ur rent. see ehh ur brother done make her see u finish.
Ordinary she shouldn't even have the guts to say such. I'm a woman and I feel that the only reason she has the liver to even ask that of your brother is because he has given her the power to do that.
So my advice is that u should ignore her..as long as she doesn't confront you, leave her, let her be disturbing him. However, any day she ask u, u can answer her.

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Family › Re: I Feel Very Guilty Whenever I Have Sex by turasumon(f): 10:13am On May 02, 2021

Mayvin:
I don't think marriage can solve lust.
But thanks for your input nonetheless.

It would make sex legal and stop the guilt you feel. if you continue like this, a time might come where u would no longer feel guilty.
marriage would give u a legal sex partner.
I believe that if you were able to be celibate for a yr like u said, den u are stronger than you know.
Having sexual feelings is natural and for someone with the kind of experience you have, curbing it would not be so easy....which is why marriage is recommended in situations like this.

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Family › Re: I Feel Very Guilty Whenever I Have Sex by turasumon(f): 10:09am On May 02, 2021

I think that you should just get married. look for a suitable partner who is righteous and get married to her. I don't know if you see that your neighbor as someone suitable enough for you but you should do what you have to and do that fast.
when u get a fiance, a sense of duty and responsibility may make u avoid sex with other women till you get married.

Good luck

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Family › Re: In A Marriage, Responsibilities Should Be 50/50 by turasumon(f): 1:12pm On Apr 24, 2021

daylay7:
That's not fair. What if both share the responsibility including the financing of the home?

if he is willing to share her responsibilities, then sharing his shouldn't be an issue.
Every couple should just go for what suits them

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Family › Re: In A Marriage, Responsibilities Should Be 50/50 by turasumon(f): 10:44am On Apr 23, 2021

eyinjuege:
Responsibilities are not only financial.
Both should contribute financially, both should contribute in housekeeping of the home I.e cleaning the home, cooking/feeding members of the family, both should equally look after the children e.g this week you're responsible for bathing, dressing kids, dropping and picking up from school, homework etc while the other partner does same the following week.
There are many more responsibilities in a family that should be shared tbh.

I totally agree with you. Men want women to share in their responsibilities but they don't share the women's responsibilities. if we share the financial responsibilities of the home 50- 50, then we should also share domestic responsibilities. Both of us will be cooking turn by turn, bathing the kids and other domestic responsibilities. You can not expect me to to do part of ur own without you sharing mine.

PS: I believe that women should work and earn money.

but their contributions to the home should be voluntary.....same for the man, he should help with chores and not forced to

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Romance › Re: Giveaway To Ease The Covid-19 Situation. by turasumon(f): 4:06pm On Mar 29, 2020

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Politics › Re: Tinubu Meets Atiku At Ibrahim Badamosi Babangida University (Photo) by turasumon(f): 2:16pm On Dec 15, 2019

OP where did u get dis news from. yes, Tinubu was at ibb university convocation but atiku was not there. try to get ur fact straight

Literature › Re: Dreams Could Come True By Tiffany J by turasumon(f): 8:27am On Dec 30, 2018

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Education › Re: 2015/2016 Utme And Admission Process by turasumon(f): 8:38pm On Dec 23, 2014

Gud evening guys. pls is d jamb form still on sale? and we're can I get it?

Education › Re: How Do I Apply For Direct Entry? by turasumon(op): 9:52am On Dec 13, 2014

pls wen is d jamb DE form going to be on sale

Education › How Do I Apply For Direct Entry? by turasumon(op): 10:29pm On Dec 12, 2014

Hi, am new here. I finished my NCE laat year and I will lyk 2 further tru DE next year but I don't kw hw 2. I don't even kw wen d jamb DE form will b on sale.

Literature › Re: Deceitful Couple by turasumon(f): 6:00pm On Dec 01, 2014

nyc 1 tiff

Literature › Re: Deceitful Couple by turasumon(f): 9:20pm On Nov 26, 2014

abeg make joel and jordan settle so dat dey go fit save mitch ooo

Literature › Re: my heart beats for Vengeance- stories Of a sexually Abused Lady by turasumon(f): 4:18pm On Nov 26, 2014

Ellidude:
Ella. I'm truly sorry for these bitter experiences. I must confess, my heart wept bitterly. Many persons who had gone through similar situations, never survived. Indeed man is wicked but be fair in your judgement. Don't be so angry and let your emotions rule your psychological domain.

Your uncle was a barbarian in nature. I'm not asking you to forgive him. I'm asking you to think about your unborn kids. If a male happens to show up? Please do not take out your anger on him. Instead, teach him to be a source of liberation to others. I know it'll be hard to love even now so that these experiences have changed your thoughts about men.

I'm just happy that these are now stories to tell and to inspire others who are in similar situations.

I'm truly sorry for what transpired sometime ago and i pray that your profound dreams are actually expressing their real selves.

Once again, I'M TRULY SORRY FOR THESE BITTER EXPERIENCES.

I know the right punishment would be metted out to your uncle. Even if you don't. But still, be careful about your actions towards a mindset of Vengeance. Sometimes, people get caught up in the middle. Take on the right course and i assure you, things would soon appear the way you ever wanted.

Remember someone out here truly cares about your personality.

Keep up the good work.

I can't belive dat dis comment was made by a man. most guys wuld blame u even after all you been thru. pls take 2 dis advise and kw dat his punishment awaits him. rememba. "dere is God ooooo"

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Literature › Re: Unwanted- Safarigirl by turasumon(f): 9:42pm On Nov 25, 2014

D wait is killing. me

Family › Re: He Disappear After One year Of Proposing To Me by turasumon(f): 7:04am On Nov 21, 2014

follow ur heart my dear sm opportunities are meant 2 b once in a lyf tym.. gud luck

Literature › Re: Deceitful Couple by turasumon(f): 10:50am On Nov 16, 2014

finanlly, afta being a guest 4 u more dan 2 yrs am naw a member. Tiff dear I loooooooooovvvvvvvveee ur stories. dey re captivating, intriging and most of all educative. jst kip up d good work and I promise u d sky will b ur limit.

Family › Re: Who Should Sit At The Front.....? by turasumon(f): 8:42am On Nov 16, 2014

some women self. is dere gold in d front seat? personally I prefer sitting @ d back but u self no try ooh

Family › Re: I know My Husband Is Cheating On Me by turasumon(f): 8:37am On Nov 16, 2014

my dear wot u don't kw won't hurt u. I kw dat its not easy but jst take it easy so dat u won't loose ur home. all d best

Family › Re: My Father Hates Me! by turasumon(f): 8:31am On Nov 16, 2014

tru all indications u re not having any financial difficulty because of ur mom. u said u ve a step mom and siblings right? den ur dad might jst b doing dis 2 hide his affection 4 u. dis way, ur steps won't c u as a threat. my broda d only advice I can giv is 4 u 2 focus on ur studies. cos dat is d only way u will make it. all d best

Literature › Re: Unwanted- Safarigirl by turasumon(f): 9:07pm On Nov 15, 2014

am realy in lov with dis story. keep up d good work

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