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Askance:
Hello, this seems serious. I am here to help, follow my page (view signature). Nairaland will disallow and maybe ban me should I post some links you may read. However, I'd advise you sit her down and ask her how you could build the family. If she wants to quit, she will speak up.

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Askance:
I think if she doesn want, she'll file a divorce. Read my tips pertaining this issue: http://chatinent.com.ng/index.php?showtopic=44&view=getnewpost

what about if she wants you to be the one to file the divorce so as to clear her conscience

Askance:
That is my point, if there is great communication dexterity, she would. My husband and I have such understanding that I give him my time and him, my time.

what about deep down, she doesn't want again, she doesn't want the marriage considering the benefits of being a single mother in for example Norway

hopefulLandlord:
its a sin for a Christian to have sex at all, Jesus who Christians emulate never had sex even though it was allowed at the time, he stayed pure and holy

Be a true Christian today by saying no to sex, its better to go to heaven with a frustrated and unused vagyna and dick than go to hell with a well used one, heaven is the goal my Christians, be Christlike

savage

The way the Bible talked about divorce is only one reason I believed that people must have tempered with the Bible. For example, there is no room for divorce except adultery. Even when you divorce adulterous partner ,byou can not re marry until your partner is dead!. What about ordatey lamprey who discovered after 20 years that none of the kids are his own, acvording to the Bible, even if theye divorce, both of them can't remember marry till one of them dies. This doesn't look fair

ADEWUMIMichael:
LATENESS TO CHURCH



Ever since I was born, I have not seen many people arrive late to the airport when they are traveling. In fact, when the plane is taking off at 11:00pm, the person will be at the airport by 7:00pm, wow!



That's how much people value travelling overseas!!




Same when they have to go to court they will be at that Court not less than 30 minutes before the appointed time.



But on a Sunday morning when Church has long begun, that's when you see men and women with 'swag' gliding like a wounded tortoise to Church.




They know they are late,



Church starts at 08:00 am ,but people will come at 08:30am or 10: 00 am, why? They think all they need is just to be present and show their faces to their friends.



Just take the test to call them on Monday at 5:30 or 6:00 am , you'll realise they are already on their way to work and some will be there already.




Know this today, anytime you go to Church one minute late, you have NOT attended Church at all.





If Christ is saying 'where
two or three are gathered, I'm in their midst', you think He comes late? The time you give is the time He keeps.






What does it mean to arrive late to Church?

1) Disrespect to Christ

2) Betrayal of Christ

3) Disregard to the Church and the Pastor

4) Interruption of an eternal program








God bless. Shalom

Your conclusion that if you are late to church means you did not attend at all., That is very wrong. What about on your way you to church you met accident victims and decides to help, and that makes you to be late. Or is better you leave them there and be running to church to do what ?

MadCow1:
Mtcheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeew.. This article is a bloody lie and brought to you from the pits of Hell.


First and foremost brethren. . THE CHURCH IS NOT THE HOUSE OF GOD. It's is just a place where Christians gather to praise and worship God. Jesus only mentioned Church once when he spoke to Peter and said "Upon this rock, I will build my Church".. Peter was not a piece of land nor was he a building.

Going to Church isn't a commandment of God or even Jesus, it was an admonition by Apostle Paul (a.k.a the Christian killer name Saul).

Where two or three are Gathered, I am there. Meaning if you can get three people together in your house, God is there with you.

Going to Church late isn't disrespectful to God.. Nobody will make it into heaven just because they went to Church deligently neither will anyone go to Hell for missing Church or coming late.

If a Pastor feels disrespected by late coming, that is his personal problem and a matter of ego and pride (two things which God hates).

Finally the Church Program isn't an eternal program. It is a program of Man. In your local neighbourhood, there are more than 20 churches running 20 different programs at the same darn time. God is not a God of confusion.



Please Christians, you must never lose sight of why you are a Christian which is the sacrifice of Christ on the cross. You must never lose sight of why you go to church which is to fellowship to deter with brethren to give prises to God not to your Pastor. You must never lose sight of who is important in your Life, which is God not your Pastors.

A Church building is not the house of God. It is just a building where Christians congregate. God is everywhere now according to the Bible.

_{Apostle MadCow. .}

okooh!!! You dey provoke ooh

Na so

I just want it to be 1.5 goals

The only issue he has to tackle is his health.

He is in his house go and arrest him

so It is only when something happens to Osibanjo that it makes sense for Nigeria to break : but is okay for elzazaky to loose all his five children, it's okay to kill IPOBs, it is ..

Askance:
Hello Hollicom,

I'm a relationship consultant.


I think great communication matter in every relationship. Talk everything out gently; there is no need going even.

what about if your partner does not want to listen.

Stevebamdex:
This happens when the sex life in your marriage is long dead and buried.
The sexual spark is no more active..!
Women love sex as much as men.I don't see reasons why your woman should deny you sex and if she does, then it means.



1- You are boring at it.possibly you only thrust in and out of her,remove then slept off not minding wether she is satisfied or not..how do you expect her to look forward having it with you again and again??


2-Maybe you don't keep a personal hygiene.some men even find it difficult to shower or brush before action.fowl smell from your mouth or armpit during love making is a big turn off for women.




3-You don't care for her needs neither sensitive to her feelings and this is the height of it.
And If you are not financially responsible at home or not caring for her well enough,why should you have an erection before your wife? Except you want to hear untold stories from your ancestors
These are some of the major reasons why she find it difficult going down with you.


Btw,
Please these are my personal opinion,you don't need to fight or argue with me.
Shalom..!

you are right, can't fault you on this

LordKO:
Such a man should rather asked himself how, when and where he lost his respect before his wife. I mean, only a man who's not in charge - I didn't say in control - of his house/relationship will experience such an insult from his woman. If after the self-questions and he didn't find faults on himself, she deserves whatever light misfortune that may befall on her afterwards.

Time for sex/meal shouldn't be used in trashing out differences or extracting promises - only small-minded people does such. Her action in this picture depicts hypocritical disingenuousness.

Well done, and some people have the effontry to say nairaland is full of kids. I like this your statement ' ... Whatever light misfortune'... This is a careful and intelligent use of appropriate punishment.

kechywillz:
You know how many life saving slip arsenal for tear today??

I am telling you. Accumulator first leg almost gone

Coldfeets:
Abeg who dey on top table?

ARSENALLLLLLLL

As it was on the table on the first day of the season; so shall it be on the last day!

If you believe, can I hear someone say a big AMEN!!!

Come On You GUNNERS!!!!

amen God bless you and your generation

Charles4075:
My brother don't mind them. Useless hypocrites. When you place certain sanctions on them, they cry out and demand their human rights. But when you visit any of the Muslim countries, they tell you to abide by their law or get your head chopped off. I always advice peeps to obey their policies cos if you don't, it's 6ft.

that is it, you captured it all

Ichietome:
Trump is the best thing to have happened to America since Ronald Reagan left office.

I agree with you

These are same people shouting anti Trump. God bless Trump

Bring it on

In truthfully serving each other, we become free

Rest in peace

Your dad is extravagant and you want to leave him for who ? Please stay and manage your father and the school, I am of the believe that we should in heritage our father's wealth and waste, not just the wealth alone.

majekdom2:
are you for real.... all of those were done in deceit. @ bolded, you are thinking with your p*ssy now. A man is out there struggling to provide for his family and you want to blame him for being away. I fear women like you ooo. If he is broke now, another problem.

it is even worse if he is broke, then she and people like her will justify the adultery , they will say she was trying to help her family

In the EU, the issue is simply like this : was she in a recognized relationship with you ? if yes then she gets half of the property, child or no child, cheating or no cheating

You shall live , you shall not die. Please go to hospital and do all the major investigations. After that , if all his well, join the 70days fasting and prayer of Mountain of Fire and Miracle. Today is day 3

GreatSE:
If it was mama Peace, our southern brothers from the land of Sunset would have termed her corrupt and spread it through Lagos -Ibadan media houses.... Aboki worshipers

you said it all

Turboking:
well said,I can't but agree more with the point you raised,we kept on recycling same old"Misleaders" while clamouring for change,its just like pouring old wine in a new bottle,that makes our political situation perilous than what one can imagine.I just hope the NA are serious on the constitution amendment particularly on independent candidate and the age requirment they can do an accelerated hearing and deliberate swiftly on the bill to be endorsed by the presidency enacted into our laws before 2019 elections.i am sure u are #NOTTOOYOUNGTORUN call me and i will gladly support u

I am amazed at the number of intelligent people in that country. You are definitely one of them, sincerely, I am sure you too are #NOTOYOUNGTORUN. But we are all scared to run because of these murderous polithiefcians every were. Brother I greet you, let us do the bits we can for now. It is amazing that between the two of us we have exchanged 4 messages, we have not talked about religion or ethnicity. These are the instruments wielded by the ruling class to cause dichotomy and acrimony amongst we lots. Good afternoon bro.

Turboking:
well,depending on where you are coming from,I am only talking about 16year of getting back to civilian rule..my brother

I know what you mean, there is no problem today that has not existed before the coming of PDP. I wanted change, I wanted APC, but the truth is that look at the past 16 years you talked about, Audu ogbeh, tambuwal, kwankwaso, Amaechi, masari, orji, dogara, emiefele, saraki just to mention few, were all part of the PDP that destroyed these 16years, and they are now the same advocate of change.

madgoat:
Nigerians are so gullible. So the womb was able to fit into a salad cream bottle.

This is the only part that staggers my imagination