Crime › Re: Major Car Thief Caught During Operation Along Airport Road In Benin. Photos by tuscani: 11:08am On Aug 04, 2017 |
CROWNWEALTH019: That miserable vegetable caused it.. Hope you are not reffering to dullard hino |
Family › Re: If You Were To Advise Your Son/daughter On Marriage, What W'd Be Your Greatest? by tuscani: 10:28pm On Aug 03, 2017 |
Love alone is not enough |
Family › Re: Married, Having An Affair, Hubby Also Having An Affair: What To Do? by tuscani: 10:00pm On Aug 03, 2017 |
Olosho |
Family › Re: Marriage Of Zimbabwean Woman Who Had Unprotected Sex With A Bizman Crashes by tuscani: 8:33pm On Aug 03, 2017 |
Such a fool |
Christianity Etc › Re: Apostle Suleman "Revives Dead Baby" In Cameroon (Photos) by tuscani: 8:05pm On Aug 03, 2017 |
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Celebrities › Re: Ronke Oshodi-Oke Cries Over Her Interview With Broadway TV "I Can't Cook" Talk by tuscani: 6:33pm On Aug 03, 2017 |
Such a fool, I watched the first video. I know she was awkward. |
Education › Re: Can You Remember How You Learnt The First 20 Elements? by tuscani: 10:06am On Aug 03, 2017 |
Hello Helen Look Broken Bottle Can Not Over Flow Neon So May All Stupid People Suffer Argon Chlorine Potassium Calcium |
Family › Re: My Divorce Journal by tuscani: 9:26pm On Aug 02, 2017 |
Risingphoenix12: It's 3:52am and I'm up again. Tired. Emotionally drained. Confused. Feeling of helplessness and hopelessness. Lost. Just one question ringing in my head - "How the F did I get here?"
I wish this was a journal filled with positive thoughts and uplifting words (snickers).. Nah.. This is about the story of my life. I find it hard to open up to people so I figured I'd just write to myself and hopefully someday, I'd read this.. and the current heaviness I feel - a distant memory.
Interestingly, my life has been such a roller coaster ride.. (lol)... quite interesting... perfect image of "Started from the bottom now we are here" (lol).. okay maybe not "there" yet but not doing badly. In my mid-thirties, got a great job I enjoy. Earn a decent income. Decent looks. Live in my own house. Married with two kids. Love my kids like crazyyyy! But the challenge is... I don't love my wife. It's a burden I carry. Been carrying it for a while, and now I'm just tired. I don't think I got married thinking I was going to end up in a divorce, but here I am - smack in the process of it and it is wearing me out.
I have often heard people say, "Endure.. Stick with it!.. Marriage is not a bed of roses.. etc.".. Yep! I tried.. I really did.. But mehn.. every single day, I feel a part of me dying.. and my fear is if I continue like this.. I probably won't get to 45. For my sanity, and emotional stability it's best I leave.
It's really not about pointing fingers saying "Oh! She's the bad one... or she did that.. I did this".. we've just gotten to the point where we are both not happy. And there are fundamentals I didn't think about before I got married. If I could go through a time machine and saw my younger self about to propose, I'd punch him in the face (lol).. or maybe I'd hesitate knowing that this union gave me gifts that I'd go through any form of fire and torment to have (i.e. my kids). Indeed I have thought about so many things. Will I end up alone for the rest of my life? Will I regret this? Is there some punishment waiting for me in future? Will this lead me into a deeper understanding of myself? Questions are endless... and I don't have the answers to them. But one thing I know is this... I must set myself free. Bro, I feel you |
Celebrities › Re: Tiwa Savage Declares Herself Queen Of African Music [PICS] by tuscani: 8:55pm On Aug 02, 2017 |
BroZuma: That on a good day could lead to cranial explosion...same applies to you.  >: |
Celebrities › Re: Tiwa Savage Declares Herself Queen Of African Music [PICS] by tuscani: 8:23pm On Aug 02, 2017 |
BroZuma: Believe me...the youngest musician on my playlist is 35. I believe you , your choice of musicians, showed dept and quality. However the quality of your diction and write up further buttress that you are academically sound. |
Health › Re: Six Ways To Make Your Toilet A Safe Haven by tuscani: 3:43pm On Aug 02, 2017 |
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Celebrities › Re: Tiwa Savage Declares Herself Queen Of African Music [PICS] by tuscani: 3:38pm On Aug 02, 2017 |
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Food › Re: Soldiers Kill Monitor Lizard In Borno For Pepper Soup (Photos) by tuscani: 3:16pm On Aug 02, 2017 |
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Family › Re: Hinging Your Essence On Marriage: A Distorted Perception by tuscani: 10:21pm On Aug 01, 2017 |
TheSonOfMark: The author/original writer's verbiage is as simple as interactive articles go; certainly not grandiloquent or flowery. Just 'cause the average young person in contemporary times chooses to communicate with the most banal, simplistic and inarticulate sentences doesn't mean everyone should lower their literary standards. Scurry back and get sucked into your blackhole of ignorance and stop infecting folks in this 'corner' of the cyberspace with your unintelligence! okooh,. Softly softly catchee monkey |
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Politics › Re: Reno Omokri Rubbishes Sowore's Claim On The State Of Corruption In Nigeria by tuscani: 8:40am On Aug 01, 2017 |
daygee12: So na every ten years then the buy for white house in America, use ur brain now and criticize constructively. stupidity lies in the gene. I have done a quick search on you, I can't abuse your family in this forum |
Politics › Re: Boko Haram Attack: Defence HQ Reveals Why Terrorists Succeeded by tuscani: 8:25am On Aug 01, 2017 |
But the weather did not stop boko haram from attacking, chai
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Politics › Re: Reno Omokri Blast Buhari "Each Lie Has An Expiry Date" by tuscani: 8:22am On Aug 01, 2017 |
Crocky23: Check the number of attacks bokoharam have unleashed in the past 1 month. Apart from the lecturers abducted, they have also abducted army, police women and children. The NE is back on lock down again and Shekau is back to his video production days. 118 attacks, more than the total number of attacks in Jonathan's full administration !!! God help us |
Family › Re: Deleted by tuscani: 11:05pm On Jul 31, 2017 |
My dear don't feel too bad and do not fault those people thinking that you are not well. The best thing is to seek help. Because in psychiatry issues, the sufferer hardly knows |
Politics › Re: Buhari: If You Can Say Just Three Words For Buhari, What Would That Be? (pics) by tuscani: 10:39pm On Jul 31, 2017 |
Please resign now |
Politics › Re: Reno Omokri Rubbishes Sowore's Claim On The State Of Corruption In Nigeria by tuscani: 10:30pm On Jul 31, 2017 |
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Politics › Re: Reno Omokri Rubbishes Sowore's Claim On The State Of Corruption In Nigeria by tuscani: 8:59pm On Jul 31, 2017*. Modified: 9:26pm On Jul 31, 2017 |
I ask a simple question, if Buhari is not corrupt, why do they keep buying pots and spoons and computers every year in Aso rock, f? |
Politics › Re: Terrorist Attacks In Borno: Office Of The Acting President Reacts by tuscani: 11:37am On Jul 31, 2017 |
evilyoruba: God will not foil their plan...God will certaily empower them as just you all diabolical people supported them during GEJ time AMEN , very brilliant observation |
Celebrities › Re: "Moet Abebe's Butt Has Stretch Marks & Craw Craw" - OAP Claps Back At Fans by tuscani: 11:34am On Jul 31, 2017 |
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Health › Re: How Do I Get Rid Of Acnes Caused By Sex? Please Help! by tuscani: 10:15pm On Jul 30, 2017 |
Probably allergy from either the synthetic condom is made from or from the oil in the condom. Two things you can do 1. Have sex without condom ( but it appears you are not in a stable relationship) so in this case , try masturbation, and see if the acne is due to the sex hormones following sexual intercourse . 2. Change condom, or use something more Superior or expensive than regular ones. ... And please thank me later  |
Politics › Re: The Narcissism Of Minor Differences by tuscani: 8:34pm On Jul 30, 2017 |
Nice work, but I think you would have filter the irrelevances away to make room for a shorter read |
Phones › Re: Which Application On Your Phone Are You Addicted To? by tuscani: 2:41pm On Jul 30, 2017 |
Nairaland |
Family › Re: A Paternity Question by tuscani: 8:41am On Jul 30, 2017 |
Repeat the DNA again secretly, our Instincts are rarely wrong |
Family › Re: This Lady Needs Your Advise by tuscani: 8:32am On Jul 30, 2017 |
Aunty time to think twice. Even if it is the list that got him angry, must he pass the anger to you ?. Even if he must pass his anger to you, must it be in this manner, ?you have to show this dude that even if you are pregnant, you do have a choice, |
Politics › Re: Obasanjo Wearing Cherubim And Seraphim Church Full Regalia (Photos) by tuscani: 8:07am On Jul 30, 2017 |
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Family › Re: Should I Send My Father This Message Our Family Is tearing apart by tuscani: 11:27pm On Jul 29, 2017*. Modified: 12:44am On Jul 30, 2017 |
Sincerely I just do not what to advice, I really weep for you for finding yourself to deal with this ugly situation. I pray God Almighty gives you the wisdom of o handlle this situation. |
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