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internationalman:
And u re married now?

of course, I am .

internationalman:
it's a mare destiny for some people, while some have dated their destined wife as one of their numerous girlfriends in the past.

I think I ditched my wife as a girlfriend long ago

Please kindly explain further

Drinkwater07:
In a dilemma right now, please those experienced in these kind of issues should help me.

I lost my Job at the Nigerian Breweries Last year, While I was working I made up my mind to marry my girlfriend of about 4 years now, this December. Both of us are 30 already, we are so much in love, but my job lost really hampered our marriage plans, because she is just engaged in the Npower scheme now and my cash that I saved have long almost finished right now. The reason I did not go into business with the little money I have at that time about 400k was that My elder brother in Canada promised to send me to Canada to join there. So far he have helped me secure admission for MSc. and payed my full tuition fee and even credited my account for the maintenance which the visa officers will see in my account. He also has the plans of sponsoring me through PHD also in Canada or the UK if I want. Now as I await my Visa, there is a really big issue I am fighting right now to manage.

My brother warned me to forget about any girl I have here in Nigeria, that most of them are fair weather friends, gold diggers and desperados, and that if I have anybody here in Nigeria waiting for me while I am away, that it will be a huge distraction for me. He told me he is speaking out of experience and won't want anybody to distract me while studying and hustling abroad. My girl is definitely none of what he described, she is a very good person and is never after money, She just love so much. I told him that I don't have anybody, This is to avoid him withdrawing his financial support for me or may be doubting my seriousness to succeed.

I was planning to come back and get married to my baby after my MSc, but I don't know how my brother will see it. He will be so disappointed with me, I hold my brother in so much high regard, and right from when I was a child he usually protects me so well and doesn't want anything to hamper my success, I love my girl so much, she is everything you will want in any woman. If I don't marry her I don't think I will be happy with anyone else. None of them is aware of what is bothering. How will I solve this issue.

Op I speak to you from experience. Most things we will regret later in life are the opurtunities we abandoned

But not in all these countries that this improvement will reflect I the life of the man in the street

For me, as long as other children are Involved, issues will always pop up. O think you should build a school I. Your name. But if you must invest with your husband, both of you must take time to reach a very sound agreement on paper, or else, that property will be source of bloody fight between your children and step children

Things like these are like wounds. Some will heal some will never heal. Even those that heal will definitely leave a scar behind. He may try separation from her for sometime, it may help

Rats are coming for you

dangotesmummy:
What's exactly the problem
The person calling your wife babe and madam interchangeably?
The time the message was sent
Or the fact that he said he misses her?
Which one?

By the way why do you men make marriage look like serving prison time? What the fok is the big deal if he called her babes or he misses her?so what?

So she cannot have Male friends again because she has bagged the Mrs title?

I miss you is it the same as I love you or I want to fok you?anybody can say I miss you without no motives or anything of such.I miss you is I miss you.nawa for you o op


Friend indeed

what are you actually saying ?

Good talk

Seanjay:
i dont know about the wife oooo but the guy in the picture had something else on his mind and he definitely wants to knack that married woman the job is for the husband now if truly he loves his wife he should stop her from chatting with that perv and cut all means of communication between the two cause you know some women has fish brains like they say one thing might lead to another and before you know it the woman is in the guy"s bed room already... he needs to caution the wife seriously before it breaks their home... my humble opinion tho

you are right, but I feel something must have happened between them, for the man to be asking to be asking the woman that kind of question, and for the man to be bold enough to ask her again even when she tried to stop him

Neminc:
Na person wey marry better woman dey talk like that. I personally know some men wey dey find who go help release dem from the hell wey dem call marriage

thank you my brother

It depends on how close, but it is wrong

The issue of divorce and the way it was handled in the baby is the only part of the Bible that makes me feel that these oyinbo people must have tempered with the Bible .

We called our English teacher Radiotherapy because she use to pronounce radiotherapy with phonetics

Chemistry all the way

[quote author=GoodFaith post=59933763]Wife and mom are your pillars
Both have a very different important role in men life
The happiness in your life come with both If you don't have both of they in your corner
You will not be completely happy----"the word here completely be happy"

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pato405:
Sorry bro, you CANNOT mould any. Except you want to take her from the cradle (pre-school or early childhood). Once they are adults, their characters have been formed and you can do NOTHING to change them. Forcing them to change will compel them to fight back at you and that is often the reason for many of these marital wahalas around. It's like forcing a round peg into a square hole or trying to remould cement after it has solidified.

true talk

[quote author=eezeribe post =59882096]Doesn't he know that this song was composed for Buhari...

"Ancient of days,as old as you are,
as old as you are...
You will never change "... (repeat chorus 3 times)[/quote]

pato405:
Did I just read 1 in 200. Bros, you are behind time. You need updated knowledge! The statistics have changed. It's currently 1 in 2000 for our generation!

Nigga, you are wrong too, it is almost impossible to find any, you have to take one and mould her to your taste. These women are very tricky and stubborn these days, expecially when you want to be nice

Efewestern:
my mother inlaw won't dare interfere in my marriage, asin is she high?

Weaklings everywhere.

my brother, it may not be weakling thing, it happens when you want to be a gentleman, six posters above said it all, it is only hot temperature bodied that calm a woman

coolcatty:
Things like this happens to slow calm people.... This kind of problem will see men like us and pass us by.... The wahala will avoid insane gra gra people like us and go to trouble sane calm guys..... It's sad.

For the woman to disobey court summons twice shows the kind of person she is... She like trouble pass food.

The man should just take a walk... Abandon the kids too and go and start afresh... The woman is not worth all the stress.... His kids will look for his in future... His major concern now is to get his sanity back.

My brother, you have said it all, women trouble avoids troublesome men and deals with men that wants to be gentleman. You are very correct. I wish I knew this nairaland before marriage

Franco93:
I want to watch Floyd Mayweather vs Anthony Joshua. The management of US Boxing should organise this match, they're gonna make lots of money.

Oga!!!, May wheather is welter weight category why Anthony Joshua is in Heavy weight category. Kaji kwo ?

Lucky husband you have, some women do not bother to cook for Thier husband not to talk of any f***king in-laws,

Stormyweather:
I did too. I guess it's an Ajor account abi osusu

the thing tire me

AkachukwuD:
Up Chelsea Some one should please surprise me tomorrow

PRECIOUS OKORIE, account number 0092613727 Diamond Bank PLC.

I sent in 50k. But your bank rejected it

We LL played, bring it on. Ticket is becoming green

thesis:
Which Mobdro station is showing this match please

being sport 2.

greatiyk4u:
At least nobody wished him dead............. That is the highest form of hate speech




Freedom in deed!

he was killed and put in a coffin. Remember this pics? Internet never forgets