₦airaland Forum

ibkayee:
The way you guys cherry pick biblical teachings to suit yourselves is hilarious lol. All of a sudden the marriage ‘must be governed by biblical teachings!’, I’m convinced they sell men a version of the bible that excludes the bits about fornication and adultery. Thank God my dating pool can go beyond non progressive Nigerian men lol

both sex cheat, stop making it looks as if fornication is only a man's thing.

UyaiIncomparabl:
And how are you sure that the whole content of the bible was not written by some starved sexists in order to suit a particular gender?

Submission sounds like 'Master and Slave' business.

let even leave the Bible out of this, we're all product of our family settings. Some people's parent never believed in any of the popular religion before they got married, probably did only court wedding or traditional wedding.

So who wrote the law that governs them?
because no matter how you try to twist it, even the society place the woman under the man in marriage hence, the need for her to be submissive.

ibkayee:
You don’t need to agree to ‘submit’ to get married. Not everyone’s marriage/life is governed by the biblical teachings like that.

and the marriage would be govern by what teachings??
Unless you got married to a white and stay clear of African men. Tell me a tribe here in Nigeria that has deem it fit for a husband and wife to be at par when it comes to decisions making, right and responsibilities. To RESPECT your spouse is one thing to be SUBMISSIVE is another thing.

So many things is wrong with this story, her marriage is 22yrs old and she's 39 which means she got married at age 17.
And she had 5 children already, what took her so long
And she kept on keeping the bed warm for him for that long and giving birth in such conditions.

breakerofchains:
I DON'T CARE.

Submission or no submission, no one, especially a man will tell me how to live my life. I can think for myself and make my own decisions.

Dey your dey.

Period.

Then your resolution does not align with getting married. Of course as an adult nobody has the right to tell you how to live your life.
But should in case you decide to get married then you need to give the term 'submission' a thought.

liberalchick:
Well this is your opinion and it is not a fact, no matter how much you dance around it, the definition of submission is not VAGUE and young women are not confused. It is defined clearly in the dictionary and the Bible. At the end of the day, women will decide and do what they think its best for them and their family not because of what some faux intellect said on the internet.

and what's the proper definition the dictionary and the Bible has given to submission?? You have just decided to coined it to suit yourself.
We're in a world we're the women folks keep asking for more and tends to question everything just because they want to keep at par with the male folks.
Go and check the dictionary and be truthful to yourself

Ijaycool:
My dear, we are not sure when next we will see good road oooh

Ijaycool:
My dear, we are not sure when next we will see good road oooh

lexyman:
U can do that btw 12noon and 4pm inward island And 9am to 3pm inward iyana oworo


And Most of this accident happens Withing this time of the day .. just very few at night .

Yes I agree with you, but I noticed accident occur more in Nigeria when the 'roads are too good'. We are not disciplined

Sterope:
No.

Then I see where this is going. We need not say more
Oti ye mi!

Sterope:
Yeah, it should mean respect but for religious peeps it means you do as you are damn well told.

Should in case you decide to get married, from a non religious point of view. Would you allow a man to pay your dowry?

UyaiIncomparabl:
I never mentioned equal rights. Why can they not love and submit to each other? Is it that hard? And that is why I asked for the meaning of submission.

[quote author=UyaiIncomparabl post=79074422]If you ask for the husband and wife to submit to each other then you're making the word 'submission' irrelevant in the first place.
Submission is being obedient, or allowing one to take control over you, which is why we have hierarchy e.g a governor and his deputy.
They both need each other for the proper functioning of the house but one authority must prevail over the other.
Two captain cannot man a ship hence There'll be chaos.
Everything has place the woman under the man. The society, religion, name it all.

In other words you want equal right in marriage, but yet you demand that your husband should be financially buoyant to take care of you, to come and pay your dowry, and take most of the responsibilities at home.
The two major religions made it clear that a man is the head hence, the wife should be submissive to him.

They're all potential killer

Lazy bloggers! Anything just to trend.

He'll be remembered for the good, bad and ugly. The parliament must not dance to the tune of the executive everytime hence, There'll be no check and balance.
Saraki did the little he could, let watch out for the next senate president.

Except you're driving very late in the night, you can't maintain 100km/h on that bridge for long. That bridge is always busy. Nigerians drive recklessly when they see good roads.

Can we talk about morality without diving into religion?
I guess not cos it'll still bores down to religious matters. But take religion away from it a man and woman are the same, the society made it so a long time ago.
Which is the same reason a man can come outside and say I had sex with 3 different girls today and his friends will still hail him as 'boss', 'yours game tight' but let a female come outside to say that and watch comment from her female friends.
Even deep down a prostitute she never loved what she's into and can drop it anyday for a better life, so what are we saying?

@OP should i show you pictures of sango ota, ijoko, lambe, agbara, Ifo, ajuwon, sapade and so on. You go won cry for ogun state. The slang is always ogun state and bad roads, remove ijebu and abeokuta out of ogun state what you'll find remaining is absolute nonsense.
You go about snapping estate road uphandan for us.


#spit

MistadeRegal:
About premarital sex, to others who have already indulged in it, GOD is not a liar and doesn't see things the way men do. GOD will still reveal to them the FACT and TRUTH if they are compatible or not. That is GOD for you.[/b]

So you're saying if someone has two girls at hand, one he has engage premarital sex with and the other he has not, now you're telling me there's probability God will tell him the one you have slept with is not compatible with you, go for the one that is still fresh. God is not partial my brother.

MistadeRegal:
Though I, before the lady ever sees us as mates and already developing feelings for me, I take this step so as not to hurt her afterwards or myself when the love is already too deep.
This is the process I do follow and it has always worked, hereby preventing me from making any kind of mistakes or falling to the wrong hands.

Before you go to sleep at night, follow this process,

1. Sing songs of praise unto GOD.
2. Offer prayers of thanks.
3. Pray for forgiveness of sin.
4. Read Psalm 31:1-3 (thrice)
5. Then go straight to the point, "Heavenly FATHER, you GOD that sees in secret and in the open, you GOD that knows all secrets and all hidden things, you are the LORD. Now O LORD GOD of heaven and earth, there is something that is hidden from me but open to you and because you know all things, that is why I have come to you only to inquire from you. There are these men (mention their names) who wants to marry me. And I don't want to make mistake in choosing the wrong one. LORD I beseech you, tell me the one that is rightfully mine among them. The one that I will have peace of mind and joy and happiness and love and progress throughout my life of staying with him.
5. Thank you for answering me. In JESUS CHRIST Mighty name I pray.
Amen.

Whatever the dream you have, you must be able to understand what it means because you'd surely get your answer.

What if they've already started having pre marital sex which is always in most cases.
You think God is a man? He'd not reveal anything or better still you'd be seeing all of them. Cos you already connect yourself spiritually with them.

Davash222:
Cancer should be treated in hospital.

So, she flew to SA for prayers Is there no God again in Nigeria Is God no longer everywhere Don’t we have ‘sophisticated’men of God again in Nigeria Your mom wanted to fly from Spain to SA just to seek the face of God that is everywhere Is God not in Spain again When did God relocate to only SA and we didn’t know

We are all children of God and we believe in God but that shouldn’t make us look stupid.

Oge okoye is an actress, she went to SA for acting role. End of!!

bros stop spreading nonsense out of your mouth.
Yes there's God in Nigeria but she choose south africa to search for her own God, so please how is it your business??
Who are you to judge her? Did you pay for her flight ticket? How much of your money did she use to book for hotel? Yes sick patients are treated in the hospital but she choose church, pls is it your aunt that's involved? Or did she tell you they've not taken her to hospital before? Pls when are we going to learn how to mind our business?

Just pray you or your family is faced with these kinds of challenges and see how you solve it quick.
Errant nonsense

Big or small, whether tips, gift or whatever name we choose to brand it bribe is bribe. We are all quick to label our politicians as 'corrupt individuals', yet this menace has eaten so deep in all aspects of our life that one begin to wonder if the Nigerian system can make one stay away from it.
The NPF, LASTMA, VIO/FRSC, government officials we encounter everyday made it so difficult to stand the moral grounds. Even student are not left out when dealing with lecturers and school officials.
Hence, I begin to wonder if there are people out there that can raise there hands up that they've never engage in such practices?

Tell her she deserves better cos you don't feel the same about her. If it was the other way round she'd tell you the same and be blunt about it so don't think too much.

peflox:
I am a graduate of estate management, 2:1,a teacher and an experienced poultry;broiler farmer, 11 years into broiler production and still counting... 30k in2 poultry biz,I can put u through, everyday, detailed, even on this thread... I can give u every idea u need to sail through... Pefloxx farmz... We "proteinizze".

pls can we chat on whatapp about this? This is my number

Why is he seated in one corner? The camera should pan on him well I want to see his current condition wella All the dollars just went like that.

Edopesin:
Watch how the wailingtons will come and type nonsense




Sifia pain fall on them

if you mention me again eehn.
Don't let me say thunder will strike you oooO!!!

Ode! Even buhari son did not stay inside gutter to celebrate his father's victory, so where's your stupidity coming from? Las Las you'd get infected and fall sick for nothing

falcon01:
ohh my gawd, look at those breast

people like you are susceptible to being attack by a female robber.

Jeez na wetin your eyes see be that, of all things

falcon01:
ohh my gawd, look at those breast

people like you are susceptible to being attack by a female robber.

Jeez na wetin your eyes see be that, of all things

It's worth celebrating to choose integrity over a thief.
Biko let them rejoice oooO, while the atifku peeps can wail continously, cos that's what they are good at, wailing!!!!!