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@ Babyosisi.

lol. i was not trying to skin you alive. you must be a very strong lady.

I totally disagree with you. You've analysed stuffs from your own point of view. that is what you think but don’t expect everyone to agree with you. the fact that your mum and dad moved in together before getting married does not mean that it will work for others. i am happy for your parents.  
i will not move in with my BF if he ask me to.
1. i am a Christian and it is not right because we are not married yet.
2. i know you said if a guy wants to leave you he will leave you. That is true but living with a dude makes them feel that they are tied down.
3. Seeing each other every day and doing the same thing together at all times makes a guy get tired of the relationship or person.

@babyosisi
i never expected u to be a female. i am

he is going to get tired of u when u lot move in together. moving together might make him not respect u that much anymore. moving together makes it seemm u guys are married. when he gets bored he will be searching for a new thing (a new girl)

two wrongs does not make a right.

lol

@ trix

thanx for telling Babyosisi what he needed to hear.

@ trix

thanx for telling Babyosisi what he needed to hear.

@ omo,

A gold medal has been awarded to u.

what advice wld u give to the dude since u've been there. dont just come on here to brag.

i think this question shld be directed to guys that have GF and wldnt shag them until they get married.

this is my number if u want to hijack or bomb a plane 999


i am the best ever

i will say keep on praying to God.don't jump into anything. i did not understand some stuffs u wrote i think becos it was too long and i did not have the patient to read it carefully. word of advice patient is the best virtue. you can only get married once. if his sis cld behave that way towards u how wld the rest of his family behave?
what you need at this point in time is God's direction and wisdom. Ask God to give you this things. i shld believe that we are serving the same God. the God i know is not failure. He gives unto the needy. you really need directions.

Quote from Tan

So,I began to ask my pastor, who is 26 years old,for advice.He didn't have much to say,he has been over me since I gave my life to Christ and has been like a father to me. I couldn't tell if he was jealous of the fact that I wasn't coming to him for every little thing anymore or was he not saying anything because of the respect for the lady,the guys sister. So anyway,the summer came up and I began to have big,big doubts.I started to avoid both him and his sister.I love his sister so much and I hated to avoid her,but I felt trapped by her presence.We went from praying together everyday to not praying together at all.She told me that the only reason she liked me was because of my Zeal for God and that without that I don't seem to stand out. I felt hurt but I understood where she was coming from.

why wld u think ur pastor was over u? and can u explain what u mean by "he has been over me since I gave my life to Christ and has been like a father to me. I couldn't tell if he was jealous of the fact that I wasn't coming to him for every little thing anymore or was he not saying anything because of the respect for the lady"


Did u mean that the dude lives in the UK but his visa has expired and he is looking for a way ti migrate to the US. the only way he ca do that is to impregnate and get married to u. if ur answer is yes you don't need advice from anyone you need to run away from that Family.

some people say stuffs they will never do.

A player will tell u to shag her. a responsible person in their right mind will tell u to ignore her and tell your GF what her sis said to u.

has anyone thought about things that accompany religion in most country (ies) is Culture or Customs. People have added stuffs to what they believe in. they make it sound or look like what is expected of them from God, Allah or any other gods they serve.

@ babyosi

i keep reading your comments to be honest i am disappointed in you. you think you know the bible more or Koran. you might have read them but i don't think u understand them. i told u earlier on. ask God to give you Understanding. u need it more. when he gives u that understanding come back on her and argue for or against. OK

You can use a sarong to cover the down bit if u r not comfortable.