₦airaland Forum

Deji63:
You are a deadbeat loser. It's pretty obvious. Try hard as you may. That child that you abandoned will never love you. No man has any excuse under the sun to be deadbeat. Bottom line is aiming to reap where you did not sow and it's never going to happen. Shikena.

Men ain't emotional but you expect your kids to be emotional towards your deadbeat ass? Quit dreaming bro. Tend to your hoe of a mother who cheated on your dad.

Bro you still not get the point.. Living with your mum has really made you an emotional beast.. Try and be reasonable for once nah, abi make I come break your coconut head full am with reasons Lol. Just joking.. Cheating is relative.. Probably that might be the reason your dad ditched your mum in the first place. Just ask your mum to come out with the truth to you guys..

Deji63:
Talk to your hoe. mother who cheated on your dad first. She forgot to do the needful in your upbringing. So did your dad. Get lost.

Bro, chillax I know you're from a broken home and you're bond to act aggressively and b!tchy just like single mums do.. But that's not the end of life I just want to help you so you wouldn't make the same mistake your dad made.. My upbringing was sound cus I enjoyed them most when they were back together and that is what you're lacking, you have every right to be angry but you're channelling the anger to the wrong person which is me.. Do that to your mum let her come out with the truth, so you know if you guys will go ask your dad for forgiveness and y'all will come back as a loving family again. There is nothing God cannot do.. Ask your mum to be sincere with you and tell all the truth you need to know, you're a grown up man now dude.. Be wise!

Deji63:
At least your dad wanted you to be something. He didn't dodge you like he saw ak47 bullets Bro say this BS to some igbo tribe guy whose father threw him at a dumpsite, watched someone else nuture him and came begging for false forgiveness after someone else ensured he succeeded . You may not come out alive I don't encourage deadbeat BS. Bye.

Talk to your mum bro.. Have a heart to heart discussion with her, I guess she is hiding alot from you.. Just a heartfelt advise from a concerned brother.. Peace


Modified : Men ain't emotional like women we reason with logic.. No man will just dodge(like you said) his offspring just like that.. Inasmuch women go through the process of carrying a child 9months in her womb and you think the love they feels when the child is birthed is more compared to that of the man.. Then you have to think again..

By the way.. How old are you

Guys one of your prayer point everyday should be that God should save you from marrying a bad wife..

Its better to live with lions in a den than staying with a bad wife..


Dont ask for wealth, peace of mind, cars, beautiful houses, wonderful children. Just pray against bad wife because she is an antonyms to all the good things of life..



Modified.. Now I don't blame people scared to birth a girl child in this modern age era

God help we men

Exactly when you noticed say yeye der smell

KristaPretty:
Abakiliki people! Tueh
Meanwhile first to comment, I have made it in life.

Wetin do them?

That stupid olosho called vanida6 just called me now telling me that she can't reply all those mentions on her cus she will kill us all with her bad English. Mr English died on her bosom..

Thanks

vanida6:
After her mate's like Omotola, chacha eke, Stephanie linus don get like 3 to 4 kids it's just now this tin get time to go married.


Wonder!!

You have mouth to call your fellow woman this thing Not only do you have bad manners but also bad and jagajaga English

I spit on you

Iyajelili:
As if you don't know men are insatiable.

Like they say "the stomach is the way to a man's heart" give your man good food and know if he wouldn't be satisfied.

tunjijones:
Hmmm... Held here tenderly and took her to his house..

I reserve my comment.

Where did he held tenderly the puna or the slippers that was bleeding

Junkie1:
BUT WHEN WE I BE FTC I NEED TO KNOW WHAT IT FEELS LIKE

The feelings you get when you're on 2 pills of ref diets.. Junkie

Iyajelili:
Men supporting men, right?

Nothing pleases you guys.. You know?

Maxcollins042:
Prince Eke, her estranged husband, must have suffered and condoned so much excesses in this woman's hands.

A woman that cares less about how her actions will affect her children and future generations is that one a mother?

No!! Na mother wer mumu!

Iyajelili:
Even if the case is the truth, does that justifies the cheat? Like someone said that African men are free to have many wives, he should have taken a second wife.

Maybe him testing the product before he buys it gone wrong scenario you never can tell his next moves

Oyindidi:
Nigerian men and cheating be like 5&6. Na their birthright

Iyajelili:
They'll still blame the wife, just wait and see

Oyindidi:
Nigerian men and cheating be like 5&6. Na their birthright

The question you guys should have sleepless night asking should be "was the wife presence there when he needed her? "

What do I say now...?

Hmmm.. I think the second destruction of this world would be all related to the issues of women..

I fear women!

I heard they are gays amongst them

Someone should correct me if am wrong

Any teacher in the house should pls explain further

ahnie:
How time flies....happy super doper birthday to baby Z...he's my son's birth date.

My regards to your clanies!

Thanks dear..

ahnie:
Mr tydi how z your wife and son?

They are fine and doing great.
Today is my son 2years birthday..
Pray and wish the best for him.

Junkie1:
WAIT IM MORE CONCERNED ABOUT THE FACT THAT YOU THINK THE ANSWER TO DEPRESSION IS CRYING IN YOUR CLOSET LIKE A BITCH LMAO SMH

Lol.. What's that only what your fried brain could hold onto to throw as a jab.. You're boring bro..

Pls don't quote me back cus reading your incoherent writings already is adding to the stress am passing through for the day..

Junkie1:
TO MARKS THE BEGINNING OF ANOTHER 4 YEARS OF HELL ON EARTH TOMORROW (SIGH) BRACE YOURSELVES FOLKS

Detest from drugs bro

Some guys are just a disgrace.

Someone's future husband!

Yewandequeen:
it's unquantifiable

How do you expect those barren women to feel now.

Guys na them!


Fear them!!



God bless the kid!!!

Guys na them!

Fear them!!











God bless the kid!!!

AngelicBeing:
Well, it is not just in the West, even in Nigeria, some women do keep kids from their estranged men just to spite at the man, that is why as a man you have to be very careful of the girl you roll with, we see them coming online to talk trash about their estranged husband, even here on Nairaland, we have read several cases of women coming to post negative comments about their men, they call them weed smokers, broke, irresponsible, deadbeat dad etc and their fellow women support them on Nairaland

You got yourself a follower.. You really reflect your moniker.

Deji63:
Unconditional love my foot In your wild fantacies maybe.

You do not know the story of my. life so keep your advice to yourself. What fault would my. mum have.had that made my father not pay my fees or feed me but wants to come explaining BS only when school fees and child welfare time was already over?

My father's aim was to reap where he did not sow and I cut him right in his tracks. If my mother had done same as he, there would have been no son to come back to. I may have been long dead

A bastard is a child who does not know his father and even that means absolutely nothing. I knew the man whilst he was alive and CHOSE to close and cut any undeserved ties with him.

Childen are in orphanages, they grow into adults and get married. I am talking kids who were picked from dumpsites and river banks. I don't buy into that bastard BS being used by deadbeat fools like you into reaping where they haven't sown. It's not going to happen.

The moment I noticed you are a Yoruba guy I gave up wanting to waste my comment on you.. No pun intended! I'm a full fledged blooded igbo guy and we hold and see our parents like earthly god no matter how bad they are or seem to be we always hold them of high esteem and they are our pride..

Let me bust your bubbles, my dad never wanted us to go to school, he wanted me especially as the first son to take over his trade but I found my feet took my school and was trained by my aunty.. But that cannot and would not reduce any atom of love I have for him.. I'm striving hard now to make him enjoy the fruit of his labour even though he never gave me 1kobo while I was schooling.. So you see the difference between both tribes.. My parents were separated for good 15 years but now they are back together.. So bro everyone has a story to tell. Bye

bayulll011:
what a shame and this one is a youth,social development scheme read about it and also learn who are those in charge of that scheme.
the youth are worst in this nation,they dont know anything.

Read and learn, for your learning pleasure.. Lazy adult

http://saharareporters.com/2019/05/26/16m-mosquito-nets-aisha-buhari-queries-federal-government-misappropriated-funds

AngelicBeing:
Yes, I saw that in the course of my travels to the western world at different times, it is a serious business for some of these leeches out their especially if the woman wants to mess you up, some of these women have 3 or more baby daddies and they collect isiewu, Nkwobi and Hennessey as money from these men monthly

And to what end If I may ask? If that you happen to be an Igbo girl now I would have quoted an adage to your own understanding for you to see their(these leeches) last landing.