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Re: I Was A Lesbian But Now I'm Straight. Will I Find A Man? by MrCork: 5:21pm On Dec 12, 2019 |
HannahHitler: ..but U suppose to be lesbian..why ain't u friendly? .. U don't want man no more? |
Re: I Was A Lesbian But Now I'm Straight. Will I Find A Man? by Nobody: 5:22pm On Dec 12, 2019 |
Shugargal:everyone knows I'm playing. Everyone except you of course, and the guys sending me PM's..hahahahaha..they are still sending. |
Re: I Was A Lesbian But Now I'm Straight. Will I Find A Man? by MissWrite(f): 5:48pm On Dec 12, 2019 |
uboma: Are people born with "straight tendencies" though? I guess my question to you is this: do you think sexuality is defined by nature or nurture? There has to be some consistency to your thinking. If you think homosexuality can be "picked up" from peers, then we may also have picked up heterosexuality from our parents or other influencers. 1 Like |
Re: I Was A Lesbian But Now I'm Straight. Will I Find A Man? by midnighter(f): 6:18pm On Dec 12, 2019 |
uboma: People are most definitely born with certain tendencies; the brains of gay and straight persons are different Then people can also pick stuff up and be encouraged by environmental factors that you mentioned. But people are also born like that If you can be born straight then you can be born gay since attraction hinges heavily on neural connections |
Re: I Was A Lesbian But Now I'm Straight. Will I Find A Man? by Shugargal(f): 6:37pm On Dec 12, 2019 |
uboma:Sincerely speaking bro, I love and enjoy being a lesbian,its so fun having a baby that loves you without putting sex as a priority.. bro just leave it's so crazy being a lez. see varieties. lol..... please still tell me how possible it is to stop being one cuz have tried but enode work. even my guy can testify to that. |
Re: I Was A Lesbian But Now I'm Straight. Will I Find A Man? by Shugargal(f): 6:44pm On Dec 12, 2019 |
HannahHitler:I see say you na werey.. I know your type. enjoy but stop contradicting this abeg. me too get small time that's why I de answer you sef. you no well I swear.byeeeee |
Re: I Was A Lesbian But Now I'm Straight. Will I Find A Man? by Nobody: 7:08pm On Dec 12, 2019 |
Shugargal:don't byeee me o. I'm not done with you yet. I'm in Abuja too, when can we do the deliverance session? I must warn you, that i will use my hands and tongue. Hehehehehe. What is my type sef? |
Re: I Was A Lesbian But Now I'm Straight. Will I Find A Man? by DenreleDave(m): 7:33pm On Dec 12, 2019 |
HannahHitler: Na so my sister 1 Like |
Re: I Was A Lesbian But Now I'm Straight. Will I Find A Man? by snthesis(m): 7:52pm On Dec 12, 2019 |
MrCork: MrCock real o G 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Was A Lesbian But Now I'm Straight. Will I Find A Man? by MrCork: 8:04pm On Dec 12, 2019 |
HannahHitler: which sef? Anyways.. So how long u been lesbian & did u all ways no or wish u will have a priick one day??(no oofeense) |
Re: I Was A Lesbian But Now I'm Straight. Will I Find A Man? by uboma(m): 8:06pm On Dec 12, 2019 |
Shugargal: Herein lies the problem (most probably). You prefer a relationship that is not 100% about sex but about expressing love feelings/emotions. You had probably encountered guys who were only interested in just sex and nothing more. No wonder you had to seek solace from the same gender. Love is a beautiful feeling especially when you are in sync with the right dude. Your guy should focus more on what makes you happy. Most guys are only interested in sex, sex where the lady isn't made to achieve satisfaction. Most dudes, after ejaculation, do not care about the feelings of their partner. Some even sleep off afterwards, leaving their partners hanging. Being a lady, it takes longer for you to attain sexual satisfaction, unfortunately only a hand of guys are willing to wait that long while touching you in the right places. For once, I wish you will meet a straight dude who is skilled in the art of love making..... 1 Like |
Re: I Was A Lesbian But Now I'm Straight. Will I Find A Man? by uboma(m): 8:12pm On Dec 12, 2019 |
midnighter: I disagree with you. No man/woman was/is born with gay tendencies. They choose to give this excuse so you can feel pity for them. Study the history of someone who's gay and you will find what led to it. Some of them were sexually abused by older persons which will influence their lifestyles. Some others picked the tendencies from their peers. For others, curiousty led them to such tendencies and they got hooked in the process. There are several reasons but no one was/is born with gay tendencies. 1 Like |
Re: I Was A Lesbian But Now I'm Straight. Will I Find A Man? by midnighter(f): 8:34pm On Dec 12, 2019 |
uboma: You're picking up on environmental factors which can still be turned back on you. What about people who have never experienced any of those things yet still have homosexual desires? What about people who experienced all those things and more, yet are still straight? I mentioned the fact that the brain of a gay vs. a straight person is different yet you ignored it. But a scan of a gay man's brain bears some resemblance to that of a woman. That would at least partly explain why he is attracted to men. The truth is that even though environment and lifestyle can play a part in it, there are particular connections made between brain cells which give rise to sexual attraction and some people's are wired differently than normal for their gender which gives rise to these feelings. It is impossible for me to muster up any attraction to a woman, but I can for a man. This is what I imagine it feels like a for a gay person but the other way around. A lesbian would find it difficult to feel any sexual desire towards a guy no matter how hard she tried. Or rather, she would find it difficult to suppress her impulse towards women. Why, if it's not coming from her brain? This must be brain-related to an extent, which means that it started in the womb during development. |
Re: I Was A Lesbian But Now I'm Straight. Will I Find A Man? by blesskewe(f): 9:31pm On Dec 12, 2019 |
Ishilove: The guy is just an attention seeker |
Re: I Was A Lesbian But Now I'm Straight. Will I Find A Man? by Ishilove: 9:33pm On Dec 12, 2019 |
blesskewe:MrCork is actually very harmless. Don't let him get to you 1 Like |
Re: I Was A Lesbian But Now I'm Straight. Will I Find A Man? by blesskewe(f): 9:35pm On Dec 12, 2019 |
Ishilove:I don't reply him anymore |
Re: I Was A Lesbian But Now I'm Straight. Will I Find A Man? by uboma(m): 3:38am On Dec 13, 2019 |
midnighter: Yes, studies/research carried out by neuroscientist, Ivanka Savic have shown that the scans of the gay man's brain share some resemblance with straight women and also that the scans of a lesbian's brain do share some resemblance with that of a straight man. "But as Savic herself acknowledges, the study can’t say whether the brain differences are inherited, or result from abnormally high or low exposure in the womb to sex hormones such as testosterone" (copied from the newscientist - link to the news article below) Read more: https://www.newscientist.com/article/dn14146-gay-brains-structured-like-those-of-the-opposite-sex/#ixzz67wypqmbb Please provide me with links to latest research carried out that proves otherwise (in the event that I may have missed it). So for now, we can accurately say that gay tendencies are not inherited. 1 Like |
Re: I Was A Lesbian But Now I'm Straight. Will I Find A Man? by uboma(m): 3:42am On Dec 13, 2019 |
MissWrite: The point I want to pass across is that gay tendencies are not inherited. I am willing to have a rethink if you can prove that certain persons are born to be gay while the rest are born to be straight. 1 Like |
Re: I Was A Lesbian But Now I'm Straight. Will I Find A Man? by MissWrite(f): 5:26am On Dec 13, 2019 |
uboma: Okay. Let's go by what you say and assume gay people are gay through external influences. What influenced the very first gay person? |
Re: I Was A Lesbian But Now I'm Straight. Will I Find A Man? by Nobody: 6:33am On Dec 13, 2019 |
Grabs popcorn. #this about to be lit AF and I'm here for that. The content I signed up for is finally here. 1 Like |
Re: I Was A Lesbian But Now I'm Straight. Will I Find A Man? by midnighter(f): 8:48am On Dec 13, 2019 |
uboma: Lol. Your original assertion, the findings you've posted here and your concluding statement are all contradictory. You initally posited that "nobody can be BORN with gay tendencies". So whether they are genetic or whether they are inculcated by gestational events is irrelevant. As far is it happened before the person was born , we are saying the same thing. I didnt even say that they were inherited; I said that brain development is affected by events that happen in the womb, which you just supported in that link you posted there. You asserted first that every gay person was totally heterosexual before their sexuality deviated from the norm due to some environmental event, which both of us have now agreed is just not true. From the article you provided: "The differences are likely to have been forged in the womb or in early infancy ..." "Previous studies have also shown differences in brain architecture and activity between gay and straight people, but most relied on people’s responses to sexuality driven cues that could have been learned , such as rating the attractiveness of male or female faces. This is the exact opposite of what you argued initially, since you stated that the person must have been influenced by other gay people or become curious along the line. This study looked at factors that had been fixed at birth , so no amount of experimentation could have affected them. "But as Savic herself acknowledges, the study can't say whether the brain differences are inherited, or result from abnormally high or low exposure to testosterone in the womb." If you had found a source that said "the study cant say whether the brain differences happen before the person is born or take place during teenage years or early adulthood ", that would have supported your original argument. 1 Like |
Re: I Was A Lesbian But Now I'm Straight. Will I Find A Man? by Shugargal(f): 9:11am On Dec 13, 2019 |
uboma:Yeah bro,my kind of love should be affectionate,passionate,expressing love and feelings, someone that will always be there and look up to,someone that will keep your hopes high and make you happy at all time,not all this time sex demanding like the persons life depend on it.normal me,i no too like sex,one of the more reasons I run away from guys because they just like sex the way I like my tea in the morning,smiles..but for me bro,am very good in bed oo, I can wine wella even when am with my guy I do the whole practical but mind you I do them just to make him happy.but once am with my woman am ontop of the world,i can go crazy to take her to heaven.lol.thanks for your input good morning. |
Re: I Was A Lesbian But Now I'm Straight. Will I Find A Man? by Shugargal(f): 9:26am On Dec 13, 2019 |
HannahHitler:Hahaha don't threaten me with tongue and hands, I'm a professional in them. if you don't mind I can even do the other for you. if you talk too much I go collect your gal friend from you. Oboi some people just de assume oo come see pm coming in. |
Re: I Was A Lesbian But Now I'm Straight. Will I Find A Man? by Nobody: 9:46am On Dec 13, 2019 |
Shugargal:hahahaha. I fit bet thousands say you no fit collect my girlfriend but forget that one. Don't mind them, they will say they hate gay people but they will be sending lesbians PM. Na wa o |
Re: I Was A Lesbian But Now I'm Straight. Will I Find A Man? by uboma(m): 10:03am On Dec 13, 2019 |
Shugargal: Good morning. I hope you had a good rest. I guess right afterall. As you try to make him happy on bed, I hope he returns the gesture. I believe that if he takes you to cloud 9 and back to mother earth during your love sessions, you may one day ask your girlfriend to go get a dude. |
Re: I Was A Lesbian But Now I'm Straight. Will I Find A Man? by Shugargal(f): 10:08am On Dec 13, 2019 |
HannahHitler:In fact I so hate it when people pretend, that's why I always change it for those ladies wey sabi pretend, I de give them as e dey hot after that they keep disturbing like mad, na laugh I go just de laugh,i will be like I think you say you be straight. abeg my hand no de oo. |
Re: I Was A Lesbian But Now I'm Straight. Will I Find A Man? by uboma(m): 10:10am On Dec 13, 2019 |
Shugargal: I am amused here. Asides from using the tongue and hands, what other techniques do you employ during the ......? |
Re: I Was A Lesbian But Now I'm Straight. Will I Find A Man? by Shugargal(f): 10:12am On Dec 13, 2019 |
uboma:Lol. He can't take me to any cloud anything because I won't even enjoy it, am the one taking him there. I have not seen anything or any guy taking my woman away. I sabi do that thing pass guys oo. just forget jor. |
Re: I Was A Lesbian But Now I'm Straight. Will I Find A Man? by Nobody: 10:13am On Dec 13, 2019 |
Re: I Was A Lesbian But Now I'm Straight. Will I Find A Man? by uboma(m): 10:17am On Dec 13, 2019 |
Shugargal: Sorry to say but your guy dey dull big time. Hopefully your storyline will change like HannahHitler when you jam the right dude who is skillful in the art of love making. |
Re: I Was A Lesbian But Now I'm Straight. Will I Find A Man? by Nobody: 10:29am On Dec 13, 2019 |
Shugargal:lmao!!! Straight girls na them dey sweet pass, I swear. |
Re: I Was A Lesbian But Now I'm Straight. Will I Find A Man? by Shugargal(f): 10:29am On Dec 13, 2019 |
uboma:You don't blame him because is not his fault, he has tried but it didn't work, no option than to love me like that.he even enjoys seeing me and my woman together,he doesn't wanna hear us having issues. |
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