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ccollins:
I can't get your post. Message me on 09096.0907.32

fvck:
So I came on nairaland to seek for advice, link below....

https://www.nairaland.com/6795325/too-fast-defining-relationship

And I got insulted that I wanted to marry a lady I met within a month, well its months now and guess what?

She's all over me, all loving and always wanting to spend her time with me, calls me every now and then, cos initially since she declined I gave her some yards, I didn't want to be around her so I wouldn't scare the next lady coming on board, seems I got so blessed with more pretty ladies coming around me that she no longer appeals to my eyes like before.

But now she is all over me, pls what do ladies really want?

FanOfMyself:
How exactly do you want me to help you?

Biggty:
Some people sha, I can never lose my cool my I see a star no matter how big the star is

jeff1993:
HBD fine man

Please NL family .... I need someone to mentor me in any digital money making skill.... I am broke this year ... Don't want to be broke next year again

ccollins:
hello dear, are u from anambra ,u looking gorgeous on your pics

ccollins:
hello dear, are u from anambra ,u looking gorgeous on your pics

ccollins:
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ChiefSosa:
The Army may be harsh on her, but their actions are entirely justified. A regular civilian will only look at this from an emotional stand point. The Army doesn't care about your emotions!
She's on an official assignment, and they expect her 101% attention and dedication. If a tragic incident occurs now, will she report back to the Army that she was kissing or getting proposed to, that's why she was distracted from her official duty?? If she had a Rifle during the proposal, is that how she would've abandoned the Rifle and be carried away with kisses??
Even if she wants to play lovey lovey, it shouldn't be when she's on uniform, in public, and when on an official assignment.
Rules are rules!
Modify: hmmmmmmmm you seem to know more about nigeria arm
Awww, there's so many emotional people on this thread lol. All of you will be fine las las. That girl is in the guard room as we speak!
Nobody is saying she shouldn't kiss, romance, have sex or get proposed to, even on uniform, it is simply just wrong to do that while on OFFICIAL duty/assignment. Either she's in Sambisa forest or somewhere safe like Lekki, as long as a soldier is on official duty, he/she must abide by the rules of the Army.
Those male soldiers you see proposing to their partners, those soldiers are not on duty. They wear uniform to propose doesn't mean they're on duty. Soldiers on duty hardly relate with regular civilians, so as to avoid distraction, because anything can happen in a split second, and they'll be blamed for not being alert.
Those american soldiers you see can only propose BEFORE or AFTER they come back from their official assignment, NOT while on duty.

yommen:
Okay. I have read all you said. But I have 1 one question. Would this have happened if it were a fellow military officer that proposed to her

ChiefSosa:
The Army may be harsh on her, but their actions are entirely justified. A regular civilian will only look at this from an emotional stand point. The Army doesn't care about your emotions!
She's on an official assignment, and they expect her 101% attention and dedication. If a tragic incident occurs now, will she report back to the Army that she was kissing or getting proposed to, that's why she was distracted from her official duty?? If she had a Rifle during the proposal, is that how she would've abandoned the Rifle and be carried away with kisses??
Even if she wants to play lovey lovey, it shouldn't be when she's on uniform, in public, and when on an official assignment.
Rules are rules!
Modify:
Awww, there's so many emotional people on this thread lol. All of you will be fine las las. That girl is in the guard room as we speak!
Nobody is saying she shouldn't kiss, romance, have sex or get proposed to, even on uniform, it is simply just wrong to do that while on OFFICIAL duty/assignment. Either she's in Sambisa forest or somewhere safe like Lekki, as long as a soldier is on official duty, he/she must abide by the rules of the Army.
Those male soldiers you see proposing to their partners, those soldiers are not on duty. They wear uniform to propose doesn't mean they're on duty. Soldiers on duty hardly relate with regular civilians, so as to avoid distraction, because anything can happen in a split second, and they'll be blamed for not being alert.
Those american soldiers you see can only propose BEFORE or AFTER they come back from their official assignment, NOT while on duty.

Ikea81:
Chai! How can this fine geh think FFK will free her without a fight. She is too fine for a peaceful resolution. It's either FFK poison both of them or no peace. My advice is for her to go back and manage his dead gbola just for the kids. fFK is obviously obsessed. Even me I am here drilling and no be me get am..chai!

ImoleNaija:
Only God knows where I was when people were picking genius brains. Na to dey commend the genius I know.

Good luck to him!

Uchedizzy:
[/quote]winner for what[quote author=Uchedizzy post=108568164]

obojememe:
lucky for d winner