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WHY DO WOMEN TAKE QUIET MEN FOR GRANTED.. SHOULD HE PRAY OR JUST CHANGE?

I will try to be objective as much as possible. I have heard different men lament especially the quiet ones. So I will just list out what most honest, well meaning men are going through.

1. A wife earns above 200,000 naira while the man earns about 100,000 naira. The wife starts getting pompous. The husband provides for his home and even settles the lady's debt. Yet the woman denies the man sex and only allows him when she is in the mood.

2. The woman demands for details of how the man spends his money but she does not tell the man how she spends hers and when the man asks she gets angry and start unnecessary quarrel.

3. Everybody envies the marriage from outside they see it as perfect because the wife acts her best and shows more love when people are watching.

4. Is it a crime to be quiet? She decides what he wears but the man has no right to decide what she wears.

5. The man's manhood no longer stands when with her, he cannot explain why?

6. She has stopped washing the man's clothes or even cooking because she claims too busy. Even the man now washes her own clothes.

7. This man meets his responsibilities very well.

8. The pride of the wife multiplies when she discovered she is pregnant.

From this it's like most ladies prefers domineering men and the ego of a man is what makes him a man and not the responsibility.

Are all quiet men going through this? A concerned husband is asking. Should he pray or change.

LOVE WITHOUT UNDERSTANDING AND WISDOM IS EQUAL TO AN UNFULFILLED MARRIAGE.

Marriage is not an end, it is only a means to an end; To think that marriage is an end is to end up in deception.

Marriage is not a place of rest, it is a place of responsibility. Marriage is work and it is only the properly prepared that make the most out of it.
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Singleness is the preparatory ground for marriage. To play with your single life is to play with your marriage. Singleness is the training ground for marriage.

Marriage is first designed for companionship. God saw Adam and said it was not good for him to be alone. When this purpose is abused every other thing will be abused.

It is not compulsory you marry a guy because you got pregnant for him before marriage. It was a mistake, you don't correct it by getting married otherwise your marriage may be a mistake.

Beauty can attract and lead to marriage but it is only character that keeps and sustains marriage.

The husband's first Job is not to put food on the table, the man's first job is to love His wife, every other responsibility is next.

The wife's first Job is not to bear children, her first job is to submit to her husband as her head. Every other responsibility follows after this.

It is not love that sustains marriage, many that went through divorce honestly loved their spouses. It is just that
they could no longer live together. So what keeps and sustains marriage is wisdom and understanding.

Women are emotional beings, men are rational beings. Understanding is simply treating each other according to who they are and not who you want them to be.

A woman cries when she is happy, she also cries when she is sad. It is natural for her to easily cry, hence the bible says they should be treated as been weak.

Sex is only 10 percent in marriage, to marry for sex alone is to be fully set for disappointment. Sex is not everything. You must have a vision for your family.

It is important to consciously begin to prepare for marriage. Many prepare for wedding, thinking they are preparing for marriage. Wedding is just a one day ceremony, marriage is for a life time. So it is wisdom to take the latter as more important.

Not every woman is extremely beautiful, but every woman can be attractive if they work on their character.

The bottom line is this; IN MARRIAGE, DO NOT SEEK TO PLEASE YOURSELF, ALWAYS SEEK TO PLEASE YOUR SPOUSE and you will be indirectly pleasing yourself. The best is just about happening to you in Jesus Precious Name. Ephesians 5:22-25, Genesis 2:18.

A LIFE OF THE SPIRIT. HOW A BELIEVER CAN KILL THE FLESH DAILY TO AVOID STILL COMMITTING SIN LIKE AN UNBELIEVER.

WHEN YOUR SPIRIT BECOMES STRONGER THAN YOUR FLESH THEN THE FULLNESS OF GOD WILL BEGIN TO MANIFEST. IT IS CALLED THE HIGHER LIFE. IT IS A RHELM WHERE YOU GET WHATEVER YOU SAY INSTANTLY. TO GET TO THIS POINT YOU HAVE TO KILL THE FLESH DAILY. YOU CANNOT KILL THE FLESH TODAY AND EXPECT IT TO REMAIN DEAD TOMORROW. YOU HAVE TO PUT IT UNDER DAILY.

SOME TIMES YOU HAVE TO SKIP MEALS BY FASTING, YOU WILL HAVE TO REDUCE SLEEP AT NIGHT. STOPPING THE THINGS THE FLESH LIKES THE MOST WILL START THE LIFE OF THE SPIRIT IN A HIGHER FREQUENCY.

THE PLEASURES OF THE FLESH IS NOT AS PLEASURABLE AS THAT OF THE SPIRIT. GODLINESS IS PROFITABLE UNTO ALL THINGS. THE LIFE OF THE SPIRIT IS THE LIFE OF THE WORD, THE LIFE OF THE WORD IS THE LIFE OF FAITH AND THE SMALLEST FAITH CAN MOVE THE BIGGEST MOUNTAIN-SIZED CHALLENGE. PRAYERS AND FASTING AS A LIFE STYLE IS A PLUS, STUDYING, APPLYING AND THINKING THE WORD REGULARLY WILL BOOST YOUR ACCESS TO THIS RHELM. TO BE CARNALLY MINDED IS DEATH, BUT TO BE SPIRITUALLY MINDED IS LIFE AND PEACE.

THAT PRESENT CHALLENGE WILL TEAR OFF ON ITS OWN LIKE A MAN TRYING TO WEAR A TWO MONTH OLD BABY'S DRESS WHEN YOU ARE SPIRITUALLY ROBUST. WELCOME TO THE HIGHER LIFE. 1st Timothy 4:8, Romans 8:6.

Sex is not flesh meeting flesh but it is spirits meeting spirit. You have to be one spirit by marriage to have it. Sleeping around only helps to make you useless eventually. Imagine the body housing more than three spirits. 1st Corinthians 6:19

THE MOST UNSTABLE THING ON EARTH.

The most unstable thing on earth is the opinion of people. They are never stable and they are never final. Someone may not respect you today, but tomorrow you can be highly respected by that person. Never count on the opinions of people, never depend on them, do not draw conclusion based on the opinion of people.

Why are they unstable? Because they can change at any time. Do the right thing. Whether it is appreciated or not. Somebody that calls you an angel today can call you a demon tomorrow, somebody may not like you now, but you could be that persons best tomorrow. So you see, If you are bothered about other peoples opinion you will be burdened for life. Do not be moved when they praise you, do not be moved when they blame you. If you are rightly criticised take correction, if you are wrongly criticised, ignore. The only opinion that can be trusted is the opinion of God and His word. Study it daily. Proverbs 4:20-21. Be blessed in Jesus name.

IT IS ONLY A MATTER OF TIME.

God ask me to tell you that no matter what you are going through,IT IS ONLY A MATTER OF TIME. Don't give up,Don't break down,because it is only just a matter of time. God has answered your prayers, He has seen your tears,He has undo the heavy burdens and broken every yoke,BUT it is still only a matter of time.

Why is it only a matter of time? The reason is for your patience to be complete. God does not want to see anxiety in your heart, Philippians 4 : 6.He wants to see patience instead. James 1:3-4. Well you may be saying,you have been patient all this while. The truth is; that patience you claim you have is mixed with anxiety. True patience puts you at rest,that you will not even be bothered whether God does it or not.

Be patient because God has already answered your prayers,He has opened your breakthrough doors,but He is checking your heart whether you are patient or anxious. So receive grace to be patient in the name of Jesus Christ.

CHRISTMAS IS NOT JUST AN EVENT, IT IS A PERSON. I wish you the best of the best this season and beyond. Merry Christmas.

Christmas is not just an event, Christmas is a person. The reason for the season is Jesus Christ and as a result of this He will visit you remarkably and tremendously this season, you will be more than surprised.

The bible says in ISAIAH CHAPTER 9 vs. 6 to 7

For unto us a child is born and unto us a son is given; and the government shall be upon His shoulder and His name shall be called wonderful, counselor, the mighty God, Everlasting father, the prince of peace. And of the increase of His government and of peace there shall be no end.

This is what you should expect this celebration season, since Christmas is more than an event.

1. …and His name shall be called wonderful; from this season you and everything that concerns you shall be full of wonders. Every challenge bows to a sign. The wonders of Heaven will be –cloud your House. A tearful favor is your portion now.
2. ….and His name shall be called counselor; your steps shall be ordered in the right direction, you shall be properly guided to places of good things. The steps of a man is ordered by the lord. You will never find your self stranded in any area of your life. You will always know what to do.
3. ….His name shall be called Mighty God. This season the Almighty God shall be your defense. He shall protect you and your family, no satanic installation against you will come to pass, you are shielded in the blood of Jesus. What can only be described as mighty is what you shall experience this season. Amen,
4. …He shall be called everlasting father, the prince of peace. Your peace is unending; I command every storm in the name of Jesus to be still. I say PEACE BE STILL. God shall always be for you so nothing can succeed in being against you. You are going higher and higher.

Your peace shall know no end, your joy shall know no end, your favor shall know no end therefore every HARASSMENT ON YOUR DESTINY COMES TO AN END TODAY. COMPLIMENT OF THE SEASON.

KISSES; Are they allowed in a pre-marital relationship, ?

A kiss is an expression of love, a mother kisses her little baby, good friends kiss to say good bye, all these kisses are pure. But when it comes to pre-marital relationships it is dangerous. Why? Because you cannot kiss without hugging, you cannot kiss without caressing and touching.

This harmless kiss is the beginning of premarital sex, as sweet as it may start,it will always end bitterly. Even when you kiss without touching for sometime,it will get to a stage it would no longer be enough,you will want to do more than that.

Prevention is better than cure. Avoid kissing if you must avoid romance, avoid romance is you must avoid sex,avoid sex if you must avoid continuous sex, avoid continuous sex if you must avoid unwanted pregnancies,avoid unwanted pregnancies if you must avoid unprepared marriage, avoid unwanted pregnancies if you must avoid abortion. The bottom line is this; if you don't start with a kiss,you will not end with sex. God's grace is sufficient,just desire to obey,be willing to obey and the grace of God will help you. Wait till you are married. Hebrews 13:4.

Note this applies to ladies also.

Mental cheating and unfaithfulness.

Do you know that 60 percent of men imagine they are sleeping with other girls when sleeping with their wives in other to enjoy it. The wife may not know unless they say the name of the imaginary girl.

It is called mental cheating and unfaithfulness. Your man may not be physically cheating on you but he is doing thesame thing mentally. But I will show you how to know if he is mentally cheating on you.

If he is mentally cheating on you he makes love to you without looking at your face.

He is mentally cheating on you when he likes making love with the light off.

He is cheating on you mentally when he says he won't make love to you unless you dress in a particular way.

He is cheating on you mentally when he looks at other girls even in your presence.

He is cheating on you mentally when he makes love to you and stands up immediately.

Note this applies to ladies too.

YOUR LIFE IS NOT A COMPETITION. BEWARE, ENVY PURSUES GOOD THINGS.

What happened for your neighbour that has not yet happened for you does not mean that he or she is better than you. Rejoice with him or her but do not envy. It is possible for envy to step in without you lettting it. It is part of the human nature, but you can kill it by calling that neighbour and letting him know how happy you are.

Someone has said and I believe; that the only difference between HERE & THERE IS 'T'. That 'T' stands for TIME. IT IS ONLY A MATTER OF TIME. God ask me to tell you that no matter what you are going through,IT IS ONLY A MATTER OF TIME.Don't give up, Don't break down,because it is only just a matter of time.God has answered your prayers,He has seen your tears,He has undo the heavy burdens and broken every yoke. But it is still a matter of time.

Why is it only a matter of time? The reason is for your patience to be complete. God does not want to see anxiety in your heart, Philippians 4 : 6.He wants to see patience instead.James 1:3-4. Well you may be saying,you have been patient all this while. The truth is; that patience you claim you have is mixed with anxiety. True patience puts you at rest,that you will not even be bothered whether God does it or not.

Be patient because God has already answered your prayers,He has opened your breakthrough doors,but He is checking your heart whether you are patient or anxious. So receive grace to be patient.

God does not forgive rapists, He punishes them. No matter how bad you are never attempt to rape someone. It is unpardonable. You must pay for it. When you rape a girl, you leave her emotionally tortured. It is far more than physical abuse. The soul of the girl will fight you even if God keeps quiet.

ANXIETY IS WHEN...

Anxiety is when you plant a seed in the ground and every one hour you dig to see if it has started to germinate. You will end up killing the seed. God works best when you are at rest. Every time you worry, you undo what God has started. Philippians 4:6. God will surely give you your heart desires. He makes all things beautiful in His time. Rejoice because disappointment may endure for the night but a better appointment comes in the morning.

God will not bless you with what you lost or missed. He will only bless you with what is left. He used 5 loaves and two fish to feed above 5000 hungry people and 12 full baskets were remaining. That widow gave her supposedly last meal and her breakthrough came. Stop regretting the job you lost or weeping over the person that didn't marry you, or the interview you missed. Thank God for that closed door, God is opening a bigger door today.

MARINE SPIRITS...WHAT ARE THEY?HOW TO IDENTIFY THEM AND DEFEAT THEM.

When you hear marine, the first thing that comes to your mind is water or river. You are not wrong, marine spirits are water spirits or spirits that comes and dwells in the river. Beloved they are real, they execute their plans by possessing either a man or a woman. The marine kingdom is one of satan's department headed by a queen, popularly known as the queen of the coast. The earth is divided into the air, the land and the sea. When God made man in Genesis, He gave him dominion over the fish of the sea, the birds of the air and over every living thing that moveth upon the earth. Genesis 1:28. God will never ask man to dominate his fellow man, so what God meant was that man will have dominion over the spirits in the sea(marine spirits), spirits in the air(witch craft spirits), and on land.

There are two types of marine spirits; we have the conscious mariners and the unconscious mariners. The conscious marine agents are those that know they are possessed, while the unconscious mariners don't know that they are possessed. Marine spirits possesses females more than males, they do so to oppress men and scatter homes, since the man is the head of the home. Their primary tool is sex. They are extremely fashion-crazy, they dress to attract on purpose, they walk to attract on purpose. This marine spirit pushes single ladies to date married men without any remorse. They take delight in breaking the hearts of their victims so as to render them emotionally unstable, once a person is unstable emotionally he is sure to make wrong decisions about other things. They neutralise the will-power of their victims through sex. They are very unstable in relationships, they cannot keep a relationship for too long, they pretend a lot and changes their voice to fit the mood they are in.

Falling in love with a lady possessed with this spirit is the worse thing that can happen to a man, because the moment he decides to end the relationship, she begins to behave well, the moment the man changes their minds, she starts tormenting the emotion of the man, constantly frustrating the man. Those who are possessed with the marine spirits without knowing can easily be delivered by getting close to the things of God and His word. Lesbianism, homosexuality and pornography are also marine initiations, they are also party freaks. This spirit push young, talented, beautiful girls into "runs". The truth is this with God all things are possible. Deliverance is possible only when the mariner is willing to be delivered. Once that person is willing, that person must go to a bible practicing church for the power of the queen of the coast to be broken. Then the person must be born again and take God's word seriously. Self deliverance is also possible with this knowledge, you can pick up the bible and ask Christ to come into your life. Once He enters, the rest is history. I break every trace and strong hold of marine spirits from your life in the name of Jesus.

It is the fear of the devil that torments an individual not the devil. Isaiah 64:1. FEAR NOT!!!

Say this out loud....LORD JESUS, GIVE ME A TESTIMONY TODAY THAT WILL MAKE ME FORGET THE DELAYS, DISAPPOINTMENTS, PAINS, SHAME AND REGRETS I HAVE EXPERIENCED WITHIN THE PAST TEN YEARS FROM 2006 TILL NOW, GIVE ME JUST ONE TESTIMONY TODAY.

YOUR BOLDNESS IS WHAT THE DEVIL IS AFTER. MOST TIMES HE USES PAST ACTIONS TO BRING GUILT TO MAKE YOU FEARFUL BUT BE BOLD GOD HAS FORGIVEN YOU BUT WILL NEVER FORGIVE THE DEVIL HE IS DOOMED. REFUSE TO BE GUILTY.

Greetings in the precious name of Jesus
Christ, I know you are okay, but if you are not I believe you will be after reading this message.

What fuel is to fire is what fear is to challenges. Fear kills and defeats faster than anything on earth. The moment you begin to fear, you have just embraced the devil and indirectly told God to leave you alone. With Faith God is pleased. Hebrews 11:6. With fear, the devil is pleased.

The opportunity to fear comes to everyone at one time or the other, but you need to consciously exercise your boldness over fear to subdue it. You don't ignore fear, rather you subdue it by taking bold steps and declaring bold words. Today speak against that constant fear that has been tormenting you. If God is for you, nothing can succeed in being against you. Be totally blessed in Jesus name.

Today is your day of OVER FLOW. When God restores, He does not restore exactly what the enemy stole or what you lost by ignorance but He restores much more. Today there shall be an over flow of peace, joy, hope, money, healing, health, blessing and all that you need in Jesus mighty name. Joel 2:25.

Fear disappears when you speak against it. I speak against every fear and appearance of fear in Jesus precious name. Whatever the enemy is planning back fires by the power of the Holy Ghost NOW in the name of Jesus Christ. Every arrow of accident shot into the atmosphere targeting you or any member of your family this season multiplies and return back to the senders in Jesus mighty name. They shall come in one way but flee in seven ways. You are protected. Deuteronomy 28:7.

What God may be doing,when it looks as if He is Slow or Silent.

1.God may be waiting for you to do your part,so that He can do His,Faith is essentially doing what you can do,for God to do what you cannot do.Hebrews 11:6 says,It is impossible to move God without faith.God does not move except He sees faith.

2. When God seems to be slow,He wants you to slow down.God cannot be following you,you are to follow Him.He does not strife with man,He is not the author of confusion.He leads,He does not follow,so if you are too much in a rush,God may appear to be slow,so that you can retrace your steps appropriately.Psalm 23:1-2.

3. When you trust yourself so much and believe in your flesh,God slows down and may seem silent.You must learn how to trust God with all your heart.Not part of it but ALL of it.

4. God may be silent or slow down,when you give Him dead-Line. God does things according to His timing which is always the best.

5. God may seem slow or silent,when He has already finished that good thing that He began.He is waiting for you to see it.He wants you to thank Him so that you can physically see it.

6. When God seems to be slow,it is because He wants you to catch up with Him.He wants you to know more,He wants you to get more knowledge.Daniel 11:32b says,Those that know their God shall be strong and do exploits.He wants you to increase your capacity.

So when God seem slow or silent,check these points above,and if you are properly positioned,keep thanking Him because He has done it already and it will become real as you continue in thanksgiving.Be blessed in Jesus name.

Define a relationship before it defines you as a heart breaker or the heart broken.

It is difficult to know the will of God for a marriage partner when you are already deeply in love. The best and easiest time to inquire from God is before you begin any marital relationship or when the relationship is just starting. Define a relationship before it defines you as a HEART BREAKER OR THE HEART BROKEN. Some people judge the way things turn out at the end to justify the fact that it is not God's will. It may be God's will and you can still miss it if you fail to play your part. The first step to getting MR or MRS RIGHT is by being MR OR MRS RIGHT yourself. Receive grace for direction in Jesus Name.

NOT PAYING YOUR TITHE IS LIKE PUTTING A GUN ON THE FORE HEAD OF GOD AND ROBBING HIM. YOU NEVER GO FREE. BECAUSE EARTHLY DEVOURERS WILL ALWAYS TAKE IT FROM YOU STILL.

Beloved, there is a power to get wealth and it resides only with God. He is the owner of the earth, the silver and the gold. Wealth does not include only money, but health, protection, peace, joy, honour, wisdom and eternal life. What is the power to get wealth. The power to get wealth is tithing. The tithe is compulsory. It is ten percent of your increase. The tithe is compulsory because whether you refuse to pay it to God, you some how pay it indirectly through treatments for sicknesses and diseases, payment for losses and misfortunes. It is either you pay it to God willingly or the devil takes it from you unknowingly. The above scripture says; that you shall remember the LORD. To remember the LORD is to give HIM ten percent of what comes into your life as increase. Giving God 10 percent multiplies the remaining 90 percent that it results in wealth. You also get other fringe benefits like divine health, divine provision, protection, divine ideas and many other things that money cannot buy.

But why is it that many don't pay tithe, even those that pay it don't pay it regularly and correctly, and some pay it but with the wrong attitude. The first thing you must know about tithing that will give you grace to pay it no matter the amount is to understand that it is not your own. If your receive 10,000; do not see the complete 10,000 as your's, 9000 belongs to you while 1000 belongs to God. Do not calculate the tithe as your money, that is where many people miss it. Malachi 3:10, Matthew 23:23.

The more you are committed to tithing, the more God brings opportunities your way.

THE FLESH, THE BASIC PROBLEM OF MANY.THE DEVIL HAS NO ACCESS TO A PERSON EXCEPT THROUGH HIS FLESH.

WHEN YOUR SPIRIT BECOMES STRONGER THAN YOUR FLESH THEN THE FULLNESS OF GOD WILL BEGIN TO MANIFEST. IT IS CALLED THE HIGHER LIFE. IT IS A RHELM WHERE YOU GET WHATEVER YOU SAY INSTANTLY. TO GET TO THIS POINT YOU HAVE TO KILL THE FLESH DAILY. YOU CANNOT KILL THE FLESH TODAY AND EXPECT IT TO REMAIN DEAD TOMORROW. YOU HAVE TO PUT IT UNDER DAILY.

SOME TIMES YOU HAVE TO SKIP MEALS BY FASTING, YOU WILL HAVE TO REDUCE SLEEP AT NIGHT. STOPPING THE THINGS THE FLESH LIKES THE MOST WILL START THE LIFE OF THE SPIRIT IN A HIGHER FREQUENCY.

THE PLEASURES OF THE FLESH IS NOT AS PLEASURABLE AS THAT OF THE SPIRIT. GODLINESS IS PROFITABLE UNTO ALL THINGS. THE LIFE OF THE SPIRIT IS THE LIFE OF THE WORD, THE LIFE OF THE WORD IS THE LIFE OF FAITH AND THE SMALLEST FAITH CAN MOVE THE BIGGEST MOUNTAIN-SIZED CHALLENGE. PRAYERS AND FASTING AS A LIFE STYLE IS A PLUS, STUDYING, APPLYING AND THINKING THE WORD REGULARLY WILL BOOST YOUR ACCESS TO THIS RHELM. TO BE CARNALLY MINDED IS DEATH, BUT TO BE SPIRITUALLY MINDED IS LIFE AND PEACE.

THAT PRESENT CHALLENGE WILL TEAR OFF ON ITS OWN LIKE A MAN TRYING TO WEAR A TWO MONTH OLD BABY'S DRESS WHEN YOU ARE SPIRITUALLY ROBUST. WELCOME TO THE HIGHER LIFE. 1st Timothy 4:8, Romans 8:6.

DON'T CHOOSE A LIFE PARTNER BY ATTRACTION, CHOOSE BY DIRECTION.

Once you have discovered purpose then it is much easier recognising and locating your life partner. Because your life partner has a link with your purpose. To discover her or him, discover yourself first. Marriage is essentially for the fulfilment of purpose. God said this same thing in three books of the bible. He said for THIS 'CAUSE' shall a man leave his parents and cleave to his wife...(Marriage).The 'cause' here is PURPOSE. Genesis 2:24, Mark 10:7, Matthew 19:5.

So dearly beloved let your purpose be your driving force in all that you do. Be blessed in Jesus name.

What you feel is what you experience. What you imagine is what you invite. What you think is who you are. Proverbs 23:7. You need an open door mentality. Stop feeling that everything is against you. Rather feel everything is for you. Romans 8:28.Nothing opens doors like continuous joy. The devil will do anything or everything to cripple your joy but continuous joy is what keeps the devil continuously away.

When Jesus says yes, nobody can say no. Every 'NO' in your life is converted to YES right now in the name of Jesus.

God miraculously turned an AS genotype to AA. You will experience the MIRACULOUS tonight.

Thanksgiving is the greatest tool for harvest in the kingdom of God. Many people pray but do not thank God when they see a little of what God is doing so their expectation is not fulfilled. God loves thanksgiving so much. That is why this month has been declared your month of continuous thanksgiving. I don't know what God have started or what He have not started but what I know as you thank God everyday you will see expectations from January manifesting speedily this month in Jesus precious name. WELCOME TO YOUR MONTH AT LAST.

MEN IN THEIR THREE SEASONS.

1.Men in the morning season; these are men that are just starting life; they just graduated if they went to school or they are the ones that is still trying to find their feet. They are not yet established. They are still looking for jobs or managing something till they get the job of their dreams. They are quick to propose to a lady because a lady means so much to them at this stage. Most of them are still either living with their parents or with a friend; a few of them just rented an apartment scarcely furnished. They are filled with dreams, vision and ambition. They think of the lady in their lives more than themselves or their families. They are loving and caring. They give their time to the lady they are in love with because they have little or no money. As a matter of fact the lady spends more in the relationship. Almost every where they go with their girlfriend they meet with a rival, that is either a richer person asking their lady out or passing advances at her in his presence. They are jealous and protective. They can do anything within their power to keep the girl.

Unfortunately, they are the ones most girls like to marry but since they don’t have the money yet, they are actually seen as people best to hang out with. Most parents wouldn’t advice their daughters to marry them any way.

They are considered men in their morning season because they are very fresh, ambitious, hardworking, simple, humble and God fearing. Every moment you spend with them as a lady is a cool and peaceful moment because they are fun to be with. They will always easily forgive you as a lady if you hurt them.

Marrying them is fun but challenging because you will have to build the family with them, two of you will start from the scratch but he will always respect and value you and your opinion. They are always early to everything because they are still in their morning season. They don’t give you heat like cheating on you or stressing you as a lady. The only thing they appear not to have at this time is money and they will as they keep working hard and seeking God.

2.Men in their afternoon season; these men may give you a lot of heat as it were, they are men that have just found their feet, they are rich, influential and connected. You apologize to them more than they apologize to you for wrong doing. They may show you care in the early stages of their relationship but when married to you, they are not always around. They prefer to spend hours on phone than spend it with you in person. They are extremely busy, traveling here and there. They are so busy that they replace time with money. They don’t see anything as serious until it has gotten out of hand. They make sure you lack nothing but their time. They are not just married to you, they are also married to their jobs and their businesses. They love you so much but don’t have enough time to show it so they use material things to show it. They are prone to flirting and extra marital affairs.

They understand their jobs and businesses more than they understand you , they most times return late, hanging out with friends. You are just too afraid to talk to them because you think you have more to loose.

3.Men in their evening season; these men are not just rich or wealthy but they have also arrived. As the evening season implies, they sleep most of the time. They rest I mean to explain further, they think of their rest more than they think of your rest. When married to these men in their late season, life is always boring because they can hardly please you as the lady in any way. They see you as their daughter more than their wife. These men are not always single, some of them are married with complications, and some of them are divorcee. They honestly don’t consider your opinion. You are more of a companion than a lover.

As controversial as this message may be, the difference is the fear of God. Make sure the man you are getting married to does not only love God but fears God also.

YOU ARE YET TO SEE TOMORROW. BUT DO YOU KNOW THAT YOUR TOMORROW IS GOD'S PAST.

God has seen not just your tomorrow, but He has seen your life till forever. He knows the end before the beginning. The end of that battle is your victory to His glory. The end of that relationship is marriage by God's mercies and favours. The end of that interview and application is gainful employment. The end of today is your long awaited testimonies. The end of that prayer is positive answers. The end of that your expectation is breakthrough unlimited. The end of today is God's yesterday, so be rest assured that it will be to your favour. Isaiah 46:10. I want you to know that God loves you and so do I. REJOICE.

THAT CHALLENGE IS NOT GOING TO END, IT HAS ENDED ALREADY.

Many people postpone their change by what they believe, they believe that the challenges they are passing through will end someday. Challenges won't end when God wants them to end, they will end when you want them to end. God will only give you the desires of your heart, not your mouth. God can see your heart, even if men can hear your words. It is your expectation that is fulfilled, not God's expectation. Proverbs 23:18 says that SURELY THERE IS AN END AND YOUR EXPECTATION SHALL NOT BE CUT OFF.

So it is your expectation that ends your frustrations. What are your expectations. Listen! Jesus has finished all your present or future challenges on the cross. John 19:30. It is your present expectation that leads to its physical termination. What Jesus did was spiritual, for it to be physical in your life, YOUR EXPECTATION IS KEY.

You alone can tell what your expectation is. But if you want that challenge to end NOW then it will. Don't expect it to end today, today is indefinite, NOW IS MORE DEFINITE. A man of God can say today this will happen for you, your responsibility is to decide when it happens 'today'. A day is made up of hours, hours are made up of minutes. My prayer is this; WHATEVER YOU DESIRE, AS FAR AS IT WILL GIVE GOD GLORY IS AVAILABLE FOR YOU NOW. LAY HOLD ON IT WITH FAITH MIXED WITH A DEFINITE EXPECTATION. This is your hour!