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Why SOME Christians still fornicate. YOU CANNOT KILL THE FLESH YOU CAN ONLY DENY IT.

If you are a Christian please read this carefully. These are the reasons why some Christians still fornicate and masturbate EVEN AFTER praying.
When you got born again it is only your spirit that got saved, your body and your mind remained the same.
So you need to Renew your mind by Gods word daily and apply it always to put your body under subjection, otherwise you will see yourself doing what you don’t want to do. Romans 12 vs. 1 and 2.
Your mind changes gradually with constant renewal, don’t let the devil distract you from reading the bible everyday.

You must know that you cannot kill the flesh but you can deny it daily from getting what it likes. Until it submits to the spirit which is the master.
You must keep the right company, evil communication CURRUPTS good manners; it is easier for the world to win you than for you to win them.

Don’t allow your mind to be blank at anytime or idle. Practice constant meditation even the Buddhist and Hindus know the power of meditation.
Mind what you look at even if you see a nude photo please do not look back at it again, that is where you ALWAYS slip, LOOKING A SECOND TIME.
Believe that it is only the Blood of Jesus that can help you. So use it EVERY time.
Temptations are real; it is not bad, but you can build a capacity to neutralize it by living the scriptures.
Don’t regret your mistake for long because you will go back again stand up and move on, you will not fall again.
Don’t try to conquer fornication it is stronger than you, don’t resist it flee from it. You can resist the devil but you must flee fornication, run like Joseph did when tempted by potiphars wife. Do not be like Samson that thought physical might can help him with Delilah.

God does not test u with the devils tool, So God cannot lead you into temptation, it was what you use to like when you were still in the world that the devil uses to entice you. You are tempted when you are drawn to your own lust.

It is easier for your past to hunt you but focus your mind more on your future, from the pages of SCRIPTURES.
Do not celebrate the lust of the flesh, the lust of the eyes and the pride of life.
Do not be self righteous, see your righteousness as that of God and His mercies, do not condemn your neighbor living in sin.

Know that anytime you sin something in you dies so by the reason of the blood I command every dead thing to rise up, I prophesy your permanent deliverance, no more rising and falling, it is now rising and rising the path of the just is like a shiny light that shines more and more. Proverbs 4 vs. 23 Rejoice.

Finally don’t start your day without the word and prayers no matter the haste.

Who stole or took your virginity?

Virginity is meant to be broken only on the covenant of marriage. But only a handful of people wait till marriage. Men and women alike.

The reason why God's perfect intention is for a man and a woman to know themselves sexually for the very first time after marriage is because it is easier for a virgin to abstain from sex that for someone who has experienced it. Sex is sweet but your destiny is sweeter. Joseph kept himself till marriage because he was a virgin and was able to resist temptation. Samson could not because he was not a virgin.

Who took your virginity?

Who took your virginity spiritually is like a husband. There is problem if you ended up not marrying that person. You must consciously denounce the soul tie established due to this disobedience to be free. There is hell fire and there is sex fire. You can escape hell fire by repentance but you need to prayerfully consciously break the tie if you must be free from sex fire.

What is sex fire? Sex fire is the urge to keep fornicating with the person that took your virginity or someone else because virginity is the ultimate resistance to fornication. Even the married sleep out because they did not marry as a virgin.

Salvation gives you the power to break every soul tie. Just open your mouth and denounce the affairs with the blood of Jesus Christ. My prayer is for perfect deliverance from immorality and perfect dominion over sin in Jesus mighty name.

HOW TO KNOW A BAD WIFE:

The primary assignment of a wife is to be a helper to the man. When a husband needs help and the wife refuses to help even when she is in the capacity to help then she is a bad wife.

HOW TO KNOW A BAD HUSBAND:

When a man refuses to meet up his responsibility even when he is able to and waits to be reminded the he is a bad husband. When he does not even try to meet then he is bad. When he meets the needs of outsiders but abandons his home then he is a bad husband.

THE BALANCE

As a man always ask your wife what she needs. It begins from here. Don't assume.

As a wife ask your husband in what area he needs your help. You never know how high his love for you will be boosted by just ASKING.

YOUR MARRIAGE SHALL BE HEAVEN ON EARTH IN JESUS NAME.

KEEPING YOUR MAN.

Honestly what keeps a man married to a woman is not sex, it is not food, it is not beauty BUT RESPECT. No wonder God in His infinite wisdom instructs wives to be submissive to their husbands. Ephesians 5:25. An unreasonable man who lacks self control can get sex anywhere even a better type. He can eat in the best restaurant. But he cannot buy respect that's why he values it.

Respecting your husband is compulsory. Not only when he acts his best but at all times. You never can imagine what a man who you sincerely and truly respect will do for you.

MARINE SPIRITS...WHAT ARE THEY?HOW TO IDENTIFY THEM AND DEFEAT THEM.

When you hear marine, the first thing that comes to your mind is water or river. You are not wrong, marine spirits are water spirits or spirits that comes and dwells in the river. Beloved they are real, they execute their plans by possessing either a man or a woman. The marine kingdom is one of satan's department headed by a queen, popularly known as the queen of the coast. The earth is divided into the air, the land and the sea. When God made man in Genesis, He gave him dominion over the fish of the sea, the birds of the air and over every living thing that moveth upon the earth. Genesis 1:28. God will never ask man to dominate his fellow man, so what God meant was that man will have dominion over the spirits in the sea(marine spirits), spirits in the air(witch craft spirits), and on land.

There are two types of marine spirits; we have the conscious mariners and the unconscious mariners. The conscious marine agents are those that know they are possessed, while the unconscious mariners don't know that they are possessed. Marine spirits possesses females more than males, they do so to oppress men and scatter homes, since the man is the head of the home. Their primary tool is sex. They are extremely fashion-crazy, they dress to attract on purpose, they walk to attract on purpose. This marine spirit pushes single ladies to date married men without any remorse. They take delight in breaking the hearts of their victims so as to render them emotionally unstable, once a person is unstable emotionally he is sure to make wrong decisions about other things. They neutralise the will-power of their victims through sex. They are very unstable in relationships, they cannot keep a relationship for too long, they pretend a lot and changes their voice to fit the mood they are in.

Falling in love with a lady possessed with this spirit is the worse thing that can happen to a man, because the moment he decides to end the relationship, she begins to behave well, the moment the man changes their minds, she starts tormenting the emotion of the man, constantly frustrating the man. Those who are possessed with the marine spirits without knowing can easily be delivered by getting close to the things of God and His word. Lesbianism, homosexuality and pornography are also marine initiations, they are also party freaks. This spirit push young, talented, beautiful girls into "runs". The truth is this with God all things are possible. Deliverance is possible only when the mariner is willing to be delivered. Once that person is willing, that person must go to a bible practicing church for the power of the queen of the coast to be broken. Then the person must be born again and take God's word seriously. Self deliverance is also possible with this knowledge, you can pick up the bible and ask Christ to come into your life. Once He enters, the rest is history. I break every trace and strong hold of marine spirits from your life in the name of Jesus.

OMEGA GOSPEL NETWORK.(CYBER/MOBILE CHURCH)

The next worse thing after Hell Fire is a Bad Marriage.

After salvation, the most important choice you will need to make is who to marry. This choice is so important that if you miss it, you will suffer for long, if you get it right then you will enjoy forever. A bad marriage can affect every other area of your life.
This subject is so important, so many married people are hoping to be single again so as to make the right choice. If you are single please don't just be in a hurry to get married, you have the best opportunity to prepare for it.

It is better to be single believing God to be married, than to be married believing God to be single. Two cannot work or live together except they agree. For two people to come together to live in peace and harmony, they must agree spiritually, mentally and physically. Just like an elephant cannot marry an ant so also a believer cannot marry an unbeliever. If an elephant marry an ant how would they live, if a goat marries a fish when would they meet? You must look for a Godly man or a Godly woman to marry, nothing can beat this.

The devil's primary target is the family. He knows that everyone belongs to a family and if he can make two wrong people meet then he has succeeded affecting the community and nations negatively. Ignore your age and the pressure for a moment, the pressure in a wrong marriage is far worse. God has somebody for you but you must set your priorities right. What do you need in a woman? What do you need in a man?

Marriage is not about what you want, it is about who you need, that will make you better while you make him better. It is about destiny. That is why you must know your purpose before you get married. Genesis 2:18.

You must pray before you choose. God knows the best person for you, it is only wise to seek His will. It is very easy to know God's will when sex is not involved. The moment sex is involved and you want to know His will then He will blank you out. Why? Because you have broken His first Law of NO SEX before marriage. Hebrews 13:4.

If you have had sex in the pass then you need to repent totally and stay away from each other for sometime then you can seek the face of God.

Your marriage will not be hell on earth. Your marriage will be honorable in the name of Jesus Christ.

Don't marry for sex, don't marry because you are of age, don't marry because you are getting old, don't marry because you are lonely, don't marry because you need someone to support you financially, don't marry because you mistakenly got pregnant, don't marry because you don't want to lose the person, don't marry because of family pressures, don't marry because you like the idea of marriage and admire every wedding gown you see, don't marry because all your friends are getting married.

But get married because you want to fulfill destiny. Get married because you want to be a help meet. As a man get married because you want to fulfil your purpose. God will help you in choosing wisely in Jesus Name.

God will not bless you with what you lost or missed. He will only bless you with what is left. He used 5 loaves and two fish to feed above 5000 hungry people and 12 full baskets were remaining. That widow gave her supposedly last meal and her breakthrough came. Stop regretting the job you lost or weeping over the person that didn't marry you, or the interview you missed. Thank God for that closed door, God is opening a bigger door today.

IGNORANCE IS WORSE THAN THE DEVIL.

Your major problem is not actually the devil, it is ignorance of the relevant truth of the solution to that situation. The devil is only taking advantage of your ignorance. The devil is not that powerful,your lack of knowledge on certain issues is what makes it look like the devil is gaining ground on that issue. You cannot kill the devil until the last day,but you can kill ignorance by the power of knowledge. God's people are destroyed for lack of knowledge.Hosea 4:6.

If you don't overcome ignorance through knowledge,the devil will always be your unwanted visitor. It is ignorance that opens the door for the devil to oppress you. Darkness is the same thing as ignorance, while light is knowledge. And the word of God is the catalyst for light.Psalm 119:130. In fact God's word is Light. There is what you need to know to get to the next level in your spiritual life, finances, job, family, marriage, relationships, career, ministry, business. You must hate ignorance the same way you hate the devil. Go for knowledge, read books, observe, make research, ask questions. The bible is the knowledge of the truth, you must take it serious. I see your level changing sporadically in Jesus name.

It is those that desire knowledge that gets it. The more you know, the better you live. For instance to prosper financially, you must give and pay your tithe, to live a healthy life; you must eat balanced diet in quality not just quantity, you must take fruits and vegetables regularly and you must do exercises daily. The devil will only attack your finances as a devourer when you don't pay your tithe.Malachi 3:10. So get knowledge and the devil will no more know your house address. Deliverance is by knowledge.Proverbs 9:11. Everything is by knowledge, and it is a common saying that knowledge is power.Your story must change this time, IN JESUS PRECIOUS NAME.

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What is it that can cause you to lose your peace?

1. Emotional Instability: When you allow your emotion to control you then you are emotionally unstable. When you delete the number of a person from your phone due to a little misunderstanding then you are emotionally unstable. When you put a FULL STOP in your life because of a heart break, then you are emotionally unstable. Not everybody must be your wife or husband, not every relationship must lead to marriage so don't kill yourself if he or she leaves you. Never you allow your external environment affect your internal environment. Don't you know that as a man thinks so he becomes, Guard your heart with all diligence because out of it proceeds the issues of life. Proverbs 23:7, Proverbs 4:23. Control your emotion and you will be keeping your peace.

2. Walking and living by sight not by faith: God made no mistake when He instructed us in His word that the just shall live by faith, and that we should walk by faith and not by sight. 2 cor 5:7, Galatians 3:11. What you see around you can take peace from your heart, so don't live by them, rather live by the word of God.

3. Comparing yourself with others: Never you ever compare yourself with others, Everyone has his or her own time and season of rising. Celebrate others but always know that you have your time. Comparing your self with others can make you miss your time. Life is in phases and men are in sizes. Whatever you cannot buy or get today does not mean you may not be able to buy a hundred tomorrow. So don't measure the progress of your life with that of others. Don't rush into marriage because people are rushing into it. Many married people are wishing they could be single again so as to make a better choice. So rejoice at all times and God will take you higher.

Finally, I decree that whatsoever is tampering and contending with your peace be cursed right now in Jesus precious name.

When a man carries God. What can't kill God cannot kill him

THE WILL THAT HAS POWER.

A will is only powerful after the person who wrote it dies. A will is a mere written document when the person is still alive,but as soon as the person dies,the lawyer has no choice than to execute or effect the will.

The will of God is the word of God. Jesus had to die for the word of God which is the will of God to have power and He resurrected again to enforce the will by Himself.HEBREWS 9:16-17.

Whatever the word of God says is powerful. If it says you are healed then you are,if it says you are blessed then you are. The word of God is the God's will. God wants you to lend unto nations and not to borrow,God wants you to enjoy health and vitality,God wants you to fulfil your destiny,God wants you to get married,God wants you to be successful in all that you do. Jeremiah 29:11,3rd John 2.

If this is the will of God and it is for you,You have a responsibility,you have a part to play. That responsibility is to locate this will by yourself in scriptures and begin to walk with them. Do you know what the will also says; The will of God says that you will live till you are very old and fulfilled, YOU SHALL NOT DIE BUT LIVE TO DECLARE THE WORKS OF THE LORD. YOUR LIFE SHALL BE SWEET FOREVER. After Locating the will of God,you must prayerfully enforce them in faith.

TRIALS COME TO EITHER BREAK,MAKE OR SHAKE YOU.

That trial will either break you, make you or shake you. It all depends on how you react or respond to it. Your response will determine the out come. It can make you weak or make you stronger. Your first reaction to trials will determine the length and the effect of the trial. Jesus said in JOHN 16:33 that in this world you will encounter trials but be of good cheer, because you will always overcome any trial you face if you welcome it with JOY. Rejoice, don't regret. Respond positively with joy, don't react by complaining. Joy will always turn trials to triumph. The only thing you need to do now if you are in the midst of one challenge or the other is to REJOICE. Because when you rejoice you become inspired to see the solution. When you rejoice you attract God to help you. Psalm 16:11. When you rejoice, you receive the required strength to face and overcome that trial. Nehemiah 8:10. JOY IS WHAT WILL TURN THAT TRIAL INTO A TESTIMONY. Joy is also the proof of the presence of faith. As you rejoice where you are now, your testimony will show up in Jesus mighty name.

I wonder how people can believe such cheap blackmail. I pity the lady in question?

HOW TO BE FINDABLE AS A WOMAN, FOR MARRIAGE. IT IS POSSIBLE THE RIGHT MAN IS FINDING BUT YOU CANNOT BE FOUND.

He that finds a wife, finds a good thing and obtains favour from the LORD. Proverbs 18:22. The bible says He that finds a wife, not a girl or a lady but a WIFE. The bible calls a woman a wife even before she marries. This implies that wives are easily found, it is wives that are findable. It is the responsiblity of the woman to train herself to becoming a wife even before she gets married. The outward appearance of a woman is not what makes her a wife, it is the content of her mindset that makes her a wife. Real men identifies a WIFE when they see one. Husbands recognises wives when they see one. Wives are responsible, they are purposeful, they don't move around, they are findable. If a wife is not in a relationship you will know, when she is you will know, because she is committed. She is not confused about who to marry, she knows who to marry.

It is time for women to know how to position themselves so that they can be found, the earlier they do so, the better. A man can find even at 50, but a woman has a particular time when she could easily be found. Many highly placed, affluent unmarried ladies are making themselves unfindable. This has nothing to do with their wealth or position but it has to do with their mindset and their attitude. For instance, where do you find them, they are always in high places, you cannot see them in ordinary places, what if her husband happen to always visit the ordinary places most of the time. They tend to attract men of their status and class who may not be their husbands, they need to slow down, How can a woman that does not leave the house be found? how can a woman that is so busy with her career and does not have time to go to the right places be found? God brought Eve to Adam in the garden, there was a meeting spot. A lady that is always seen with men(ordinary friends) is not making herself findable. A lady that cannot take herself out sometimes is not making herself findable. For a woman to be findable she must always treat and carry herself as a wife. A wife dresses smart, good and not seductive. A wife fears God. A wife starts praying for her husband even when he has not found her. A wife is lovely and a help-meet indeed. When a woman is findable she will easily be found by her husband. Delay in marriage most times is not the devil, but ignorance, the devil only takes advantage of the ignorant. Finally as I begin to round up, A WIFE IS DOWN TO EARTH NO MATTER WHAT SHE HAS OR DOES NOT HAVE. It is my prayer that things becomes easy for anyone reading this message through KNOWLEDGE IN JESUS PRECIOUS NAME.

YOU CANNOT BE GREATER THAN YOUR MINDSET

You cannot be better than the level of your mind.Your mindset determines your ultimate placement in life.Your environment can influence your mind but don't let it,try to influence your environment.People can influence your mindset but don't let them,rather choose your friends.Proverbs 13:20.Long for knowledge thesame way you will long for the air that you breathe if it was not there. Be blessed.

HOW TO KNOW THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN THE HOLY SPIRIT AND DEMONIC SPIRIT GUIDANCE.

1. The Holy Spirit is God almighty with unlimited power and knowledge. While demon spirits are limited created beings, they have none of the attributes of the God-head.

2 The Holy Spirit loves and values our individuality, He does not try to undermine our individual personality in any way. He does not control our will. But demon hates human beings, they undermine the human personality, replacing it with their own.

3. The Holy Spirit wants us to be in control and responsible for our own actions. He works in us to WILL to do God's will(philippians 2:13). While demons wants total control. They will frequently knock the person unconscious and then use them in any way they want.

4. The Holy Spirit is gentle, He is so gentle that if you look inward you will hardly tell what is the Holy Spirit and what is You. But demons are harsh, because of their desire to take over a person, you can sense difference between the demon spirit and the person.

5. The Holy Spirit is Holy and pure, but demons are corrupt, dirty and filthy, although can pretend to be good, but will always lead the person to sin.

6. The Holy Spirit always glorifies Jesus, but demons glorifies the person in whom they dwell, causing the person to draw attention to himself other than Jesus.

7. The Holy Spirit never blanks out our mind, when speaking to us. You are still conscious of your physical environment, but demon spirits blanks out a persons mind, they function better when the person is passive.

8. The Holy Spirit convicts us of our sins, but in love, His conviction is non-destructive, leading us to repentance, forgiveness, redemption and peace. But demons help to justify the person of his sins, bringing destructive guilt with no hope of forgiveness but severe punishment.

9. We can never control the Holy Spirit, He does whatever He wants, whenever He wants. But demon spirits makes the people they dwell think, they can be controlled.

10. The Holy Spirit demands that we walk in faith not by sight or emotions. But demons love to manipulate human emotions, giving them emotional highs or rewards. Demons helps people to see the spirit world, thus decreasing their need for faith.

SEXUAL CREATIVITY BOOSTS THE JOY AND EXPERIENCE IN MARRIAGE. (Strictly for the married)

Sex is just 10 percent in the school of marriage but this 10 percent does a lot in making the remaining 90 percent meaningful. Have you ever wondered why God made sex so sweet and yet so short-timed. The pleasures of sex has an early end. God made it so because He wants it to be regular. Sex is fellowship, it is communion, it builds understanding, it settles quarrels easily.

Couples are not sexually creative no wonder they become so sexually cold and dry and it affects every other area.

God gave you a creative mind. Sex to a man is more of an action but to a lady its an event, an experience, a company, a school.

There is no dry sexual experience what we have is lack of sexual creativity.

Most time you may need to postpone the sex that you have planned just to make the experience sweeter, most times you may need to change the place, change the attire, do something different. You need to plan for sex just as you would plan for other things.

The devil is afraid of you. He does not want you to know this.... Jesus defeated him and disgraced him not secretly but openly. Colossians 2:15. So when praying, pray with this mentality. Pray with this confidence. This is what guarantees answers.

Taking your mind off the challenges is the quickest route to victory. The strength of a problem is in the attention you give it. Jesus was sleeping in a boat in the middle of the storm, unperturbed and undisturbed. No wonder when He spoke to the wind, the wind obeyed Him. Being at rest without worry has already weakened the challenge. Remove your mind from that challenge and it will obey you. Mark 4:37-40

HOW TO WALK IN THE SPIRIT.

Walk in the spirit so that you will not fulfill the lust of the flesh. As potent as salvation is, it does not handle the flesh. It is walking in the spirit that does. No wonder, many believers are still battling with the fleshly desires and lifestyle. It didn't say pray in the spirit...it said Walk In The Spirit. So speaking in tongues or prayer and fasting does not handle the flesh entirely. The master thing to do is to walk in the spirit. Not work in the spirit but WALK. Fleshly sin is not just fornication or immorality. Bitterness, unforgiveness, envy, anxiety, fear. To walk in the spirit is to live a life of love. Love is the cure to unforgiveness, hatred, malice, bitterness, immorality. No wonder the greatest commandment and gift is Love. So when you are not walking in love you are open to sin. GOD IS LOVE, WITHOUT LOVE YOU CANNOT SEE GOD. TRUE HOLINESS IS LOVE. 1ST JOHN 4:8. Tonight receive a fresh baptism of the spirit of love. Galatians 5:16.

OMEGA GOSPEL NETWORK.(CYBER/MOBILE CHURCH)

Every force making you to do the wrong thing even when you know that it is the wrong thing is destroyed now in Jesus name.

STOP CHECKING....

ANXIETY IS WHEN...

Anxiety is when you plant a seed in the ground and every one hour you dig to see if it has started to germinate. You will end up killing the seed. God works best when you are at rest. Every time you worry, you undo what God has started. Philippians 4:6. God will surely give you your heart desires. He makes all things beautiful in His time. Rejoice because disappointment may endure for the night but a better appointment comes in the morning.

SOMETHING IS JUST ABOUT TO HAPPEN, GET EXCITED, MAINTAIN A JOYFUL ATTITUDE.

The level of your joy determines the level of your happiness. What will happen to you within the next one hour depends on how consistently you rejoice over what may be happening to you now. Whether it is good or bad, just rejoice and there will be a change. Joy is the cheapest road to victory. Joy is a display of confidence. Joy is the most accurate expression of faith. So rejoice because in one hour time, what you thought could not change will change automatically. The devil has been manipulation fear into your heart by showing you negative pictures and making you hear negative news. Those news may be a fact but it is not the truth. The truth is that MY GOD SHALL SUPPLY ALL YOUR NEEDS ACCORDING TO HIS RICHES IN GLORY BY CHRIST JESUS. Ignore the challenges, they are only there to steal your joy, BUT once you decide to REJOICE INSTEAD OF WORRY OR COMPLAIN, the challenges will fizzle out because God will always step in to help the joyful. In the presence of the LORD there is fullness of JOY, HALLELUYAH!!!. HEAR THIS; WITH FAITH YOU CAN QUENCH ALL THE FIERY DARTS OF THE DEVIL BUT WITH JOY YOU QUENCH THE DEVIL HIMSELF. The devil cannot survive where there is joy just as a fish cannot survive on land. YOU ARE BLESSED, JESUS SHED HIS BLOOD JUST FOR YOU SO HE CAN GIVE YOU ANYTHING, MOTIVATE HIM TO ACT BY REJOICING ALWAYS. Romans 8:32, Philippians 4:19, Isaiah 12:3.

Marriage Guide.

1.Once you are hooked to the wrong person the battle is over,you may either be managing or patching till you die.If a goat marries a fish,how would they live? or where would they see each other.It is only when the goat comes to the river to drink water that is when they will see briefly as the fish will jump out to greet the goat and swim away.Any marriage where both partners see each other once in a long while is likened to the goat and fish illustration above.Marriage does not make marriage.It is the people in marriage that makes marriage.

2.Compatibility is worked out,of course you may never get a perfect person.But with dedication,knowledge and wisdom compatibility will start building,that is if he or she is the right person.

3.But the major challenge in getting married is choosing the right person.You don't choose a person because he or she is available or eligible.You choose a person because that person is the right person for you.

4.Run away from any man or woman that is easily angered by nature;that is getting angry easily is he or she's lifestyle.It is difficult to change that person.But if someone gets angry by mistake,that person can be corrected but if it is his or her nature,you have to think twice.

5.It is possible to mis-marry.It is possible to be living with the wrong man or woman.John chapter 4:18.It is possible to be dating the wrong person or be in courtship with the wrong person.

6.Once your choice is right then you are on the right track.How can a lion be married to a goat,what now happens when the lion is hungry.Any man that beats his wife is likened to the above illustration.Also any woman that oppresses her husband is also likened to this scenario.

7.There are some people that are highly inflamable,Please do not take a box of matches near them.What this means is that these people's hearts are made of stone,giving them your soft heart in love is a mistake.They will not value it and will take it for granted.When you marry somebody that is highly infammable,do not carry matches into that marriage.Because when fire marries a higher fire,then the result is explosion.

8.Love may be blind to many,but marriage will definitely open their eyes.Love in reality is not blind when you start seeing those unchangeable signs during courtship please keep off.When a man starts cheating on you when dating,it is a sign that he will do much more when he is married to you.He or she may legally begin to cheat on you because he is now married legally to you.

9.Dating is not for outing alone,dating is for knowing,watching and examining. Watch out for negative signs to see if it can be dealt with,if it cannot be dealt with in courtship it may not change in marriage.

10.To get the right person,try to be the right person.Work on yourself,work on your flaws.

11.America and the western world is plagued with divorce today because they marry without paying attention to these facts listed above. They marry without knowing the person they are marrying at least to a large extent.

12.Don't practice divorce before you get married.That is when you are breaking relationship over and over again,your emotion is also affected in the process.Wait for the right person.

13.Don't marry because you cannot enjoy your singlehood.If you are happy being single,then you will be happy being married.

14.Marriage is not an escape from singlehood but marriage is actually a graduation from singlehood.

15.Do not rush into marriage because you are under pressure or if you feeling you are the odd one out.When you are feeling everyone is getting married except you then you are already a wrong person.

In conclusion,consciously pray before making a choice.God will always direct you when you pray a prayer of enquiry before taking even the smallest step. Be blessed in Jesus Name.

WHAT YOU NEED TO DISCOVER THE WILL OF GOD.

1.YOUR HEART MUST BE RIGHT: This is where the problem lies; many people want to know the will of God without the right heart. Proverbs 4 vs. 23 says Guard your heart with all diligence for out of it are the issues of life. Your heart must be right, it must be meek, obedient and word conscious. Abraham in the bible was Gods friend, He was Gods confidant, the reason was because his heart was right. Look at Moses, David they were all people with the right heart. A heart that will enjoy Gods secrets must be a heart free from pride, a heart ready to obey. A heart free from envy, a heart that rejoices always, a heart of worship to God, a heart that thanks God always for everything. Is your heart right? Do you always seek your interest or do you seek Gods interest? Pray this prayer as you read along tell God to give you a new heart. In 1st Samuel chapter 10 vs. 9, God gave Saul another heart and all His prophecies over Him came to pass that same day. I see God doing a quick work in your life in the name of Jesus. You will begin to hear His voice through your heart from now on.

2.YOU MUST STUDY THE BIBLE DAILY: The word of God is the will of God; it is the perfect master plan of God for you. You need Gods will everyday, but unfortunately many people do not take out time to study the bible every day. It takes daily study to find out Gods will, just study. I will say it yet another time, just study the word of God. Now the reason people don’t study the bible is because they don’t have a plan for it. You have a plan to go to work; you have a plan to eat, a plan to carry out your pursuit but how come you don’t have a plan to study the word where you will discover the plan and purpose for the day. God is not a haphazard God. You need to be consistent with this daily study to find out the will of God concerning that issue in your heart. The devil knows what you have to gain by consistent study or lose by neglecting the word due to distractions. Please put him to shame by studying vehemently. Plan it out set out a time and the number of scriptures to go through everyday. You have no plan for it, no wonder you have no time for it. You can begin with two chapters every morning, before you know it you will start hearing God clearly as you hear your friend. He will speak to your heart because your heart is now stuffed up with His word.

If you follow this little step, you will easily discover Gods will, you won’t need to struggle because it is not hard to know Gods will just follow this instruction. Jesus is real; the Holy Ghost is ready to guide you. As you do this I see God guiding you through out your life time.

You will know who to marry, you will know what to invest your money and your time on, you will never make mistake. The beginning of mistakes in life is the failure to diligently study Gods word. Your past mistakes shall be converted to miracles; you will begin to live your life as if problems do not exist.

Men; The easiest way to control a woman is to listen to her. Women; the easiest way to control a man is to respect him. The word control may sound extreme but it actually means getting him or her to do what you want without shouting, quarreling or arguing.

Wisdom is better than weapons of war. Ecclesiates 9:18. A woman only nags when her man does not listen to her willingly. A man only dominate when his woman does not respect him willingly.

Nothing will destroy your laughter like worries.

Beloved we live in a world that is worry driven, people worry about jobs, businesses, money, children, spouses, marriages, missing things, progress. This world has the potential of making you to worry even in the happiest situation. Worries don't end, you cannot afford to lose your joy because of it.

The bible says in Philippians 4:6; that you should be anxious or worry over nothing... God is very much aware that that in this world worries will come that was why He said we should worry over nothing. John 16:33.

Naturally and spiritually; things become better when you are not anxious. If you are thinking so much on a thing that you need it may not come, but the moment you remove your mind from it, it shows up most of the time when you least expected it to. This is the law of faith at work. Isaiah 28:16. Those issues that are bothering you may keep bothering you if you keep thinking about them. Think of the word of God instead. All you need is rest of mind and peace of heart for that expectation to manifest. The devil is not responsible for the delay most of the time, worries and anxiety causes delays most of the time. Anxiety is most times confused for expectation. God is committed to bringing your expectations to pass and not your anxieties. Anxieties or worries will delay the manifestation of your expectations, it is on when you stop allowing your heart to be troubled over that issue that it will come to pass. Make up your mind not to be moved whether it happens or not, and you will see it happen. Tonight your expectations shall not be cut off as you let worries go and let faith come. Give thanks to God because this message will produce positive results in your life. Be blessed in Jesus name.

DISAPPOINTMENT HAVE BEEN POSTPONED INDEFINITELY.

The story is there because the glory is close. The problem however is not in the story but in the fact that the story is prolonged. But hear God's word concerning every persisting story,'NOT ONE OF MY WORD SHALL BE PROLONGED ANY MORE BUT THEY SHALL BE COMING TO PASS;ONE AFTER THE OTHER.EZEKIEL CHAPTER 12 VS. 28.That delay is coming to an end.Hope deferred makes the heart sick. YOUR HOPE WILL NO MORE BE DEFERRED. You won't be put to shame, God is at work. Be blessed in Jesus precious name.

BEWARE! BECAUSE BITTERNESS IS THE WAY TO THE BOTTOM.

Bitterness, as justifiable as it may appear will never take you to the top, it will either take you to the bottom or keep you on one spot. Many people are where they are today because some time ago, someone some where offended them that they have forgiven but when they remember the issue bitterness fills their hearts.

Until bitterness goes, life cannot become better,Joseph would not have become a prime minister in a strange land if he had bitterness towards his brothers, Job would not have received his restoration if he had been bitter towards God. Many people are bitter towards God because what He promised had not yet come to pass. Listen to this; BITTERNESS DISQUALIFIES YOU AND DOES YOU MORE HARM THAN GOOD. DO YOU KNOW THAT BITTERNESS ALSO GIVES YOUR OFFENDERS EDGE OVER YOU. Because the devil wants you to continue in bitterness, he will make your offenders to keep making progress in what they do so as to get you more bitter and keep you on one spot. I believe the stagnation of 38 years of the impotent man by the pool of bethesda was because of bitterness and not just because he had no faith. John 5:1-8. I know this because when Jesus asked him if he wanted to be healed he said there was no man to put him in, because nobody helped him, he became bitter and so was stagnated. Forgive your offenders because that is only when God can intervene. Forgive them because by doing so, you are indirectly heaping hot coals on their heads. I release the grace of God upon you that will end all forms of bitterness in Jesus Precious name.

HOW TO STOP SEX AND ENJOY YOUR RELATIONSHIP TILL MARRIAGE (RELOADED)

Sex is sweet, it is enjoyable, everybody likes it, but the value of sex is only truly experienced in marriage.
No matter what you seem to enjoy pre-maritally, it kills love instead of nurturing it. Fornication is sweet but your destiny is sweeter. Marriage is honorable when the bed is not defied, you may be having fun but in essence you are only preparing for the fun-HELL.
It can be stopped; you don’t have to break that relationship because breaking the relationship does not really solve the problem. You might still continue this in the next relationship you may enter.
Sex outside marriage or before marriage open invisible doors for the devil to come into your life to strike later in life.
Once started it is difficult to stop, but it can be stopped.

It is wrong to practice it outside marriage; it is not valued at all. It does not make your guy love you even better neither does it make your girl love you more. Rather it kills love if you don’t try to stop it.

Once started it is difficult to stop, but your desire to stop it has half solved the problem.

Breaking the relationship does not stop it you might even loose because that man or girl could be divinely meant for you. Not seeing the guy or keeping away does not either, the question is; when you now see each other what happens? Not sleeping in his house does not stop it, you can visit him in the afternoon and still have sex.

Let me show you how you can truly stop sex and revive and enjoy your relationship more till you are married when you can now tie her if you want and make genuine guiltless love countless times and become more intimate with the God and His blessings.

The first step to stop sex in your relationship is: believe it is wrong outside marriage. Don't feel it is impossible to do without. It is possible to stop.

Prayers and fasting does not stop it; what stops it is renewing your mind with the word of God daily. You can fast and the next thing you are on it.

Refuse to be guilty if you have done it don’t hate yourself God loves you he wants to help you because you cannot help yourself, can't you see all your strategies have failed.
The moment you feel like doing it, don’t consider, don’t think just flee from it. Don’t explain, Escape.
You must flee because sex is stronger than you; the only thing it respects is FLEEING. Joseph fled to escape potiphars wife. Great men and women have fallen to it and are still falling; you can’t afford to fall again.
It is not normal it is abnormal; don’t pay attention to it in their thoughts. The moment you think of it CAST DOWN THE IMAGINATION IN THE NAME OF JESUS. David was a man after Gods own heart, He heard Gods voice but still fell to it, because He entertained it in his thoughts. You are what you think.
I am not saying it will not come, it will, may be even today but CAST DOWN THE THOUGHTS IN THE NAME OF JESUS IN FAITH.

Change the way you see sex in your mind and renew it by reading the bible daily and you will see that your girlfriend and yourself would begin to make progress. It takes the two of you and God (his word) to make it. You will make it in Jesus Name.

Is love SEX?

What is the difference between sex and love making?

1. You make love to your wife. While you have sex with a girl friend or a prostitute, hence the term PRE-MARITAL SEX.

2. Sex is self centered, wanting to satisfy self. But love making is mutual and the satisfaction of your spouse is primary.

3. Sex is just the use of the sex organs but love making is the use of the whole body.

4. Sex does not depict love but love making is love.

5. Sex is for pleasure, love making is for expression.

6. Sex is short, love making is long.

7. Sex is without romance, love making is romance packed.

8. Sex is taking, love making is sharing.

9. The pain of a person during sex gives the other person pleasure but in love making it is not so.

10. Sex may be bad but love making is true.

11. Eyes are closed during love making. Eyes are opened during sex. Love making blends couples because they are doing the right thing.

Many have been deceived that a guy loves them because he had sex with them. A guy can only love you and make true love to you after marrying you.

So even in this valentine season show love, don't allow a person who is not your husband have sleep with you.

SEX DOES NOT MEAN LOVE!!!