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Faith comes by hearing, fear also comes by hearing the wrong things. Please know that the devil can manipulate just anybody or situation just to make you hear the wrong thing. But replace every wrong thing with this good news. Nothing just happens, God does not sleep or slumbers, That thing will work together for your own good. Romans 10:17.

Let it go. Guilt robs you of valuing the blessings of the moment. This is your moment. Remove that guilt. Even the devil making you feel guilty does not feel guilty of his own sin. Rejoice God is ready to bless you much more.

Refuse to be intimidated, it steals joy.

NOTHING SPONSORS INFERIORITY LIKE INSECURITY AND INTIMIDATION. SAUL ENVIED DAVID WHEN THE WOMEN SANG THAT HE HAD KILLED 10000 WHILE SAUL HAD KILLED 1000. IT WAS AN EXAGGERATED STATEMENT BUT SPONSORED ENVY IN THE HEART OF SAUL.

Do not judge your life by your circumstance. Your circumstance is only a phase it is not a finality. Do not mistake your situation or condition for your portion. God made you so you cannot be inferior. Your testimony us guaranteed today.

You may be starting late but you are just about to be the latest. Tell the person by your side that you are not inferior.

You cannot think inferiority and be superior. Proverbs 23:7. Humility is not inferiority. Do not allow your condition define your future. God is the Alpha and the Omega.

Nothing sponsors inferiority like insecurity. Nothing sponsors inferiority like intimidation. Mind what you hear. Many news are exaggerated by the devil to make you feel inferior. There is no small testimony.

The Battles of life is domiciled in the mind.

There is a battle going on,it has been on since the creation of man.To attempt to think that life is not clothed with battles is to be losing without knowing.Look closely at this analysis;Today you are waxing strong spiritually,the next minute you are committing sin you never intended to commit,today you are happy,tomorrow you are sad,today you have money,tomorrow you are having a need that you cannot meet,today your relationship is blossoming with love,tomorrow you are sad because you cannot feel that love anymore.I can go on and on,but because of time i have to go to the next phase.You may be wondering when the battles will end,the truth is that they are not going to end,but you can only overcome them when they come.The bible did not say,if you face challenges,it says WHEN you walk through the fire...Isaiah 43:2.It is a 'when' not an 'if'.It was Jesus that said that in this world you shall have tribulation but you must be of good cheer,because He has overcome for you already.John 16:33.But mark His words,He said you must be joyful,otherwise overcoming will seem impossible.You cannot be joyful in the midst of challenges unless you have God's fresh word active in your heart daily.

The battles you are facing are not physical in nature.The location is not your house,your office,your city or any physical place.The venue is the mind.Once you know the venue you are beginning to overcome.Each day comes with new challenges or battles.But since your mind is the battle ground,you must know how to approach your victory.You begin to overcome,when you begin to renew your mind daily by studying God's word.Romans 12:2.Studying God's word daily does not just inform you it empowers your mind spiritually to win the day's battle even before it comes.

You will keep losing in the battles of life until you give daily attention to the word of God.Your mind void of God's word daily cannot win,it will be unstable,you need to pre-load it with God's word daily to build its capacity to overcome. You will overcome today in the name of Jesus Christ.

This month; UNFULFILLED PROMISES ARE COMING TO PASS.

I welcome you to this great month where forgotten expectations are becoming a reality. This month; unfulfilled promises are coming to pass. Watch out! because that unfulfilled promise shall be fulfilled this month. God promised Abraham a son in the person of Isaac. And it looked like God had forgotten him, Abraham had even forgotten because he now had Ishmael. But Ishmael was not the promise, God still fulfilled that promise. Hear this; whether you have forgotten that promise, this month is your month of remembrance. God will remember you and fulfill that promise. But you must take a step, you must make a move provoking God to fulfill that promise or those promises. God is not a man that He should lie, He does not give excuses, Has He said and will He not do? Numbers 23:19.

The step you must take is to fulfill that promise you made either to God or to someone. If it is in your power please fulfill it because the way God will be fulfilling His promises over your life will make you a surprise to yourself. Rejoice because your story just changed for the best.

YOUR BEAUTY WILL SHOW FROM TODAY AND YOUR FAVOURS WILL FLOW.

Until your beauty shows favour cannot come. Receive the oil for beauty for ashes in Jesus name. What is beauty? Beauty is colour, beauty is attraction. You need beauty to be attracted spiritually to your helpers. I am not talking of physical beauty, I mean when God makes your life beautiful like SINACH sings then your favour will manifest.

As you step out today, people who never liked you before will like you. Do not be surprised, God's beauty has covered you. This beauty is also called God's glory. This beauty covers shame. Every shame in your life is converted to glory in Jesus name. The attraction you need to attract helps on time receive it Jesus name.

This beauty will bring your all round restoration. Joel 2:25. Whatever God has said concerning you is coming to pass today, no matter how long it had tarried. This beauty will give you attention. From now on when you talk PEOPLE will listen. Isaiah 55:5. Be blessed in Jesus name.

ON JOY;

JOY IS A DISPLAY OF CONFIDENCE IN GOD,THAT IS WHY GOD WILL ALWAYS MAKE THE JOYFUL TO BE MORE JOYFUL.THINGS MAY HAPPEN TO STEAL YOUR JOY BUT YOU MUST MAINTAIN YOUR JOY.JOY IS A CHOICE.HAPPINESS IS DETERMINED BY 10 PERCENT OF WHAT HAPPENS TO YOU AND 90 PERCENT OF HOW YOU REACT OR RESPOND TO IT. HOW ARE YOUR REACTING AND RESPONDING TO ISSUES?

ON FAITH;

THERE IS NO PROBLEM ANYWHERE OTHER THAN A FAITH PROBLEM.ONCE YOUR FAITH GETS BIGGER THAN THAT PROBLEM THEN YOUR MIRACLE IS BORN.SO IT IS YOUR RESPONSIBILITY TO GROW YOUR FAITH IN THE WORD OF GOD AND CONSTANTLY PRAYING IN THE HOLY GHOST.AS YOUR FAITH INCREASES,THE PROBLEM WILL JUST DISAPPEAR BECAUSE IT IS TO YOU ACCORDING TO YOUR FAITH.REJOICE. HEBREWS 11:6.

It is working together for your good. Rejoice.

IF A VIRGIN CAN CONCEIVE AND GIVE BIRTH TO JESUS CHRIST. Then your miracle can still happen today. God blesses spiritually because He is a Spirit but it is your faith that makes it physical.

Just believe that it can be done and it will be done. Do not wait to see it first. Believe in your heart that it can be done. Mary believed, and SHE being a virgin GOT PREGNANT without any sexual intercourse. LUKE 1:45. Once you believe you will receive. I mean once you truly believe, believe without doubts, believe even when you don't understand how it will happen. Just believe, is it too difficult to believe? Believing God will be easier if you stop letting what you see determine how you feel. It may not look like it but faith can make it to become it. Faith is what converts spiritual blessing to physical blessings. God blesses spiritually because He is a Spirit but it is your faith that makes it physical. That is why it will always be to you according to your faith. Receive grace to walk and live by faith.

NOTHING HINDERS LIKE BITTERNESS. PEOPLE, SITUATIONS AND THINGS WILL MAKE YOU BITTER BUT REFUSE IT.

Bitterness, as justifiable as it may appear will never take you to the top, it will either take you to the bottom or keep you on one spot. Many people are where they are today because some time ago, someone some where offended them that they have forgiven but when they remember the issue bitterness fills their hearts.

Until bitterness goes, life cannot become better,Joseph would not have become a prime minister in a strange land if he had bitterness towards his brothers, Job would not have received his restoration if he had been bitter towards God. Many people are bitter towards God because what He promised had not yet come to pass. Listen to this; BITTERNESS DISQUALIFIES YOU AND DOES YOU MORE HARM THAN GOOD. DO YOU KNOW THAT BITTERNESS ALSO GIVES YOUR OFFENDERS EDGE OVER YOU. Because the devil wants you to continue in bitterness, he will make your offenders to keep making progress in what they do so as to get you more bitter and keep you on one spot. I believe the stagnation of 38 years of the impotent man by the pool of bethesda was because of bitterness and not just because he had no faith. John 5:1-8. I know this because when Jesus asked him if he wanted to be healed he said there was no man to put him in, because nobody helped him, he became bitter and so was stagnated. Forgive your offenders because that is only when God can intervene. Forgive them because by doing so, you are indirectly heaping hot coals on their heads. I release the grace of God upon you that will end all forms of bitterness in Jesus Precious name.

When a man dies, his will becomes valid. Jesus died to make God's word valid. And not only this, He resurrected to make sure that will of God comes to pass in your life. He died to exchange His life for your life in salvation. If you are not saved do so now by saying; Jesus come into my life and forgive me my sins. If you are saved see your life as that of Christ so that the victory Christ accomplished for you will become physical. Isaiah 53:3-5. YOU CAN ONLY BE COMPLETE IN CHRIST. NO MATTER WHAT YOU HAVE.

HAPPY RESURRECTION DAY. ARE YOU NOT TIRED OF REGRETS AND PITY. JESUS CHRIST AROSE TO END PITY AND REGRETS.

If you pity yourself God wont pity you. Nothing moves God away from you like pity. Pity keeps u in the pit, but confidence in God brings you out. If Joseph was pitying himself he would have still remained in Prison even if God destined him to be great. Many people have great destinies but their Great pity on themselves when things appear bad moves the hand of God further away.

Joseph was a happy slave, a happy prisoner so He left the pit of life to become the prime minister in a strange land.PIT simply means Prime Minister-In-Training (PIT).

Hannah's testimony came when she stopped pitying herself, she left Gods temple at Shiloh with Joy, her countenance changed, she was no more sad.

Listen to this, Refuse to be pitied, you are envied by angels you cannot be pitied by men. Be blessed in Jesus Name. You are leaving every pit of Life to your High places in Jesus name.Psalm 8:4.

It is time to speak to the storm, not about the storm.

Was there any storm that lasted more than a moment in the life of Jesus Christ? No storm will last more than a moment in your life in Jesus name. Storms are not forever, they are meant to be over sooner than you imagine. Jesus was in a boat and there was a storm, He woke up from His sleep and spoke to the storm and there was a great calm. He had the understanding that when you speak to a storm it must obey.

Many people speak and are still speaking about the storm. You are to speak to it not about it. The more you speak about that storm the more it rages, but when you speak to it, it must obey you. Everybody in the world have challenges, what you do to your's is what determines when it will end.

Jesus said to the storm, PEACE BE STILL. The disciples with him were trying to proffer physical solution to a problem with a spiritual root, they were trying to make the boat light, they were bailing water out of the boat, but Jesus was sleeping, He was at rest, He was not in worry. Why? Because He understood that whatever you speak to (not about) will obey. So my beloved speak to that challenge, speak to that storm, tell it that you are representing Jesus Christ who is in your boat of destiny. Declare with a loud voice; OVER THIS OR THAT CHALLENGE, PEACE BE STILL IN JESUS NAME. Mark 4:36-40.

FEAR BREEDS NEGATIVE THINGS JUST AS FAITH BRINGS POSITIVE THINGS.REJECT EVERY FORM OF FEAR.

Negative things tends to happen faster than positive things because positive things needs faith to work,while negative things works with fear.No wonder God encourages us not to fear in about 365 times in scriptures. Now people fear more than they have faith,and this fear fuels negative things.You were designed by God to work by faith and not by sight.So any time fear enters your heart from today,Cast it out by the word of the LORD in 2nd Timothy 1:7.REJECT ANY FORM OF FEAR.

Experience is not what happen to you, but what you do with what happen to you.

So many people spend their lives gathering experiences without using them, they are bold to talk about their experience in so and so but fail to utilize it for their own benefit. Experience whether it is negative or positive is vain, except vital lessons are drawn from them and put to work. Matthew 7:24. It is only those that learn from their mistakes that see the miracle that lies in it.(Paraphrased by me)Experience is a boost to life's C.V if you can put them to work in the positive.Be blessed in Jesus precious name.

You will have one major reason to laugh today.

Beware of these two things that kills Joy;

1. Regretting the past.
2. Comparing yourself with others.

For your joy to be restored;

You need to thank God for where you are.

Why that person that promised you have not yet fulfilled it.

1. You trusted the man instead of trusting your God. Jeremiah 5:17-18. Yes that person promised you, but never see that good as coming from the man but from God.

2. You placed your personal need in front of kingdom need. Before meeting your need please meet kingdom need. Invest in ministries and churches. If God can trust you to put His kingdom first then He can give you any amount of money. Matthew 6:33.

3. You have not giving God enough thanks in anticipation of your expectation.

4. You told the wrong set of people of your expectations. Anyone with envy in His or Her heart attract a negative energy that hinders good. So if you don't have a right person around you keep quiet till that blessing comes.

5. You do not have a written down, thought out plan on what to do with the blessing. God does not grant vague expectation. The expectation that cannot be cut off is the one that is documented and properly planned for. Proverbs 23:18.

When you get to the point in life when everything is discouraging you and you have to encourage yourself in the LORD, then know that you are inches away from your greatest miracle. God shows up when you are just about to give up. Psalm chapter 2.

Hope! Hope! Hope! Is what I hear in my spirit. Hope again, Your story is just about to change. Relax! It is working for your good. If it were not for your good, God will not allow it happen. Thank God because your time has finally come. No problem comes without the solution being made available by God in His word.

THERE ARE SOME STORMS YOU MUST GO THROUGH.

Nobody likes to go through storms, people prefer going over storms instead. But your strength is only tested in storms. When everything seems to be going right your love for God is guaranteed. But will that love still stand during a storm? God is not the author of storms. He allows it to build us and makes us a better person. However no storm is supposed to last more than a moment. 1st Peter 5:10. ONCE YOUR LOVE STILL STANDS DURING A STORM, Then your love for God is genuine.

What you need to go through that storm is the joy of the Lord. It is that joy that strengthens you to face the storm. After that storm is your rising. That storm is the stepping stone to your expected breakthrough. Nehemiah 8:10. You cannot pray some storms to end, you can only be strengthened to go through it. And with the joy of the Lord in your heart you will not even feel the pains of the storms. Rather you are assured that AFTER THE STORM things will be better and brighter. I release the JOY OF THE LORD INTO YOUR HEART right now in Jesus name. That joy kept JOSEPH through his storms and he emerged a prime minister in a strange land. Beloved that storm will not kill you, it will make you. Rejoice through it all. Please share this message through any medium, I perceive it will be a blessing to someone. As you do so God will remember you specially in Jesus name.

THE WILL THAT HAS POWER.

A will is only powerful after the person who wrote it dies. A will is a mere written document when the person is still alive,but as soon as the person dies,the lawyer has no choice than to execute or effect the will.

The will of God is the word of God. Jesus had to die for the word of God which is the will of God to have power and He resurrected again to enforce the will by Himself.HEBREWS 9:16-17.

Whatever the word of God says is powerful. If it says you are healed then you are,if it says you are blessed then you are. The word of God is the God's will. God wants you to lend unto nations and not to borrow,God wants you to enjoy health and vitality,God wants you to fulfil your destiny,God wants you to get married,God wants you to be successful in all that you do. Jeremiah 29:11,3rd John 2.

If this is the will of God and it is for you,You have a responsibility,you have a part to play. That responsibility is to locate this will by yourself in scriptures and begin to walk with them. Do you know what the will also says; The will of God says that you will live till you are very old and fulfilled, YOU SHALL NOT DIE BUT LIVE TO DECLARE THE WORKS OF THE LORD. YOUR LIFE SHALL BE SWEET FOREVER. After Locating the will of God,you must prayerfully enforce them in faith.

13 Silly things most ladies do in a relationship that delays marriage.

1. Spending the night in a guys house who has not yet paid your dowry.

2. Spending the weekend with a man that has not yet married you.

3. Loving a man before loving God.

4. Loving a man more than God.

5. Sending your Unclad picture to a man.

6. Depending totally on a man who has not yet married you.

7. Allowing a man to kiss you but stopping him from touching you. Sooner or later he will start touching you.

8. Making him responsible for all your needs.

9. Wanting to know if he is good in bed.

10. Praying for a life partner without first praying to know more of God's word.

11. Talking about marriage all the time.

12. Introducing the guy to your family without first studying the guy.

13. Being the first to start calling pet names, like baby, honey...

WHAT JESUS DID.

Jesus did not just die to save you from your sins, He died to make you rich. He did not just die to make you rich, He died to heal sicknesses and diseases. He did not just die, He also resurrected. He resurrected to make real in the lives of His people what He died for. Romans 8:11 says; If the same Spirit that raised Jesus from the dead dwells in you, that same Spirit shall quicken, revive, revitalise, restore your mortal bodies.

It was the Holy Spirit that raised Jesus from the dead, and as a believer that Holy Spirit is dwelling in you. Now tell me, what can that Holy Spirit not do? The Holy Spirit is in you, but until you are conscious of who you carry, you will mis-carry. The solution provider is inside you, you will no more be conquered by problems. Problems don't go where there are no solution. That problem located the its solution in you and decided to come to you. But here you are crying when the solution is inside you. Weep not, there is a way out to every challenge. How you act when you see a problem will either make the Holy Spirit to arise or relax.

Be Holy Ghost conscious, you are not alone. God will never leave you alone, He never left you alone, its just that you are more conscious of the problem, than you are of the presence of the Holy Ghost. Change your perception, become conscious of the Holy Spirit and you will experience the quickening power of the Holy Ghost that will engender quick solution. Your solution is here. Be blessed in Jesus name.

Why SOME Christians still fornicate. YOU CANNOT KILL THE FLESH YOU CAN ONLY DENY IT.

If you are a Christian please read this carefully. These are the reasons why some Christians still fornicate and masturbate EVEN AFTER praying.
When you got born again it is only your spirit that got saved, your body and your mind remained the same.
So you need to Renew your mind by Gods word daily and apply it always to put your body under subjection, otherwise you will see yourself doing what you don’t want to do. Romans 12 vs. 1 and 2.
Your mind changes gradually with constant renewal, don’t let the devil distract you from reading the bible everyday.

You must know that you cannot kill the flesh but you can deny it daily from getting what it likes. Until it submits to the spirit which is the master.
You must keep the right company, evil communication CURRUPTS good manners; it is easier for the world to win you than for you to win them.

Don’t allow your mind to be blank at anytime or idle. Practice constant meditation even the Buddhist and Hindus know the power of meditation.
Mind what you look at even if you see a nude photo please do not look back at it again, that is where you ALWAYS slip, LOOKING A SECOND TIME.
Believe that it is only the Blood of Jesus that can help you. So use it EVERY time.
Temptations are real; it is not bad, but you can build a capacity to neutralize it by living the scriptures.
Don’t regret your mistake for long because you will go back again stand up and move on, you will not fall again.
Don’t try to conquer fornication it is stronger than you, don’t resist it flee from it. You can resist the devil but you must flee fornication, run like Joseph did when tempted by potiphars wife. Do not be like Samson that thought physical might can help him with Delilah.

God does not test u with the devils tool, So God cannot lead you into temptation, it was what you use to like when you were still in the world that the devil uses to entice you. You are tempted when you are drawn to your own lust.

It is easier for your past to hunt you but focus your mind more on your future, from the pages of SCRIPTURES.
Do not celebrate the lust of the flesh, the lust of the eyes and the pride of life.
Do not be self righteous, see your righteousness as that of God and His mercies, do not condemn your neighbor living in sin.

Know that anytime you sin something in you dies so by the reason of the blood I command every dead thing to rise up, I prophesy your permanent deliverance, no more rising and falling, it is now rising and rising the path of the just is like a shiny light that shines more and more. Proverbs 4 vs. 23 Rejoice.

Finally don’t start your day without the word and prayers no matter the haste.

Who stole or took your virginity?

Virginity is meant to be broken only on the covenant of marriage. But only a handful of people wait till marriage. Men and women alike.

The reason why God's perfect intention is for a man and a woman to know themselves sexually for the very first time after marriage is because it is easier for a virgin to abstain from sex that for someone who has experienced it. Sex is sweet but your destiny is sweeter. Joseph kept himself till marriage because he was a virgin and was able to resist temptation. Samson could not because he was not a virgin.

Who took your virginity?

Who took your virginity spiritually is like a husband. There is problem if you ended up not marrying that person. You must consciously denounce the soul tie established due to this disobedience to be free. There is hell fire and there is sex fire. You can escape hell fire by repentance but you need to prayerfully consciously break the tie if you must be free from sex fire.

What is sex fire? Sex fire is the urge to keep fornicating with the person that took your virginity or someone else because virginity is the ultimate resistance to fornication. Even the married sleep out because they did not marry as a virgin.

Salvation gives you the power to break every soul tie. Just open your mouth and denounce the affairs with the blood of Jesus Christ. My prayer is for perfect deliverance from immorality and perfect dominion over sin in Jesus mighty name.

HOW TO KNOW A BAD WIFE:

The primary assignment of a wife is to be a helper to the man. When a husband needs help and the wife refuses to help even when she is in the capacity to help then she is a bad wife.

HOW TO KNOW A BAD HUSBAND:

When a man refuses to meet up his responsibility even when he is able to and waits to be reminded the he is a bad husband. When he does not even try to meet then he is bad. When he meets the needs of outsiders but abandons his home then he is a bad husband.

THE BALANCE

As a man always ask your wife what she needs. It begins from here. Don't assume.

As a wife ask your husband in what area he needs your help. You never know how high his love for you will be boosted by just ASKING.

YOUR MARRIAGE SHALL BE HEAVEN ON EARTH IN JESUS NAME.

KEEPING YOUR MAN.

Honestly what keeps a man married to a woman is not sex, it is not food, it is not beauty BUT RESPECT. No wonder God in His infinite wisdom instructs wives to be submissive to their husbands. Ephesians 5:25. An unreasonable man who lacks self control can get sex anywhere even a better type. He can eat in the best restaurant. But he cannot buy respect that's why he values it.

Respecting your husband is compulsory. Not only when he acts his best but at all times. You never can imagine what a man who you sincerely and truly respect will do for you.

MARINE SPIRITS...WHAT ARE THEY?HOW TO IDENTIFY THEM AND DEFEAT THEM.

When you hear marine, the first thing that comes to your mind is water or river. You are not wrong, marine spirits are water spirits or spirits that comes and dwells in the river. Beloved they are real, they execute their plans by possessing either a man or a woman. The marine kingdom is one of satan's department headed by a queen, popularly known as the queen of the coast. The earth is divided into the air, the land and the sea. When God made man in Genesis, He gave him dominion over the fish of the sea, the birds of the air and over every living thing that moveth upon the earth. Genesis 1:28. God will never ask man to dominate his fellow man, so what God meant was that man will have dominion over the spirits in the sea(marine spirits), spirits in the air(witch craft spirits), and on land.

There are two types of marine spirits; we have the conscious mariners and the unconscious mariners. The conscious marine agents are those that know they are possessed, while the unconscious mariners don't know that they are possessed. Marine spirits possesses females more than males, they do so to oppress men and scatter homes, since the man is the head of the home. Their primary tool is sex. They are extremely fashion-crazy, they dress to attract on purpose, they walk to attract on purpose. This marine spirit pushes single ladies to date married men without any remorse. They take delight in breaking the hearts of their victims so as to render them emotionally unstable, once a person is unstable emotionally he is sure to make wrong decisions about other things. They neutralise the will-power of their victims through sex. They are very unstable in relationships, they cannot keep a relationship for too long, they pretend a lot and changes their voice to fit the mood they are in.

Falling in love with a lady possessed with this spirit is the worse thing that can happen to a man, because the moment he decides to end the relationship, she begins to behave well, the moment the man changes their minds, she starts tormenting the emotion of the man, constantly frustrating the man. Those who are possessed with the marine spirits without knowing can easily be delivered by getting close to the things of God and His word. Lesbianism, homosexuality and pornography are also marine initiations, they are also party freaks. This spirit push young, talented, beautiful girls into "runs". The truth is this with God all things are possible. Deliverance is possible only when the mariner is willing to be delivered. Once that person is willing, that person must go to a bible practicing church for the power of the queen of the coast to be broken. Then the person must be born again and take God's word seriously. Self deliverance is also possible with this knowledge, you can pick up the bible and ask Christ to come into your life. Once He enters, the rest is history. I break every trace and strong hold of marine spirits from your life in the name of Jesus.

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The next worse thing after Hell Fire is a Bad Marriage.

After salvation, the most important choice you will need to make is who to marry. This choice is so important that if you miss it, you will suffer for long, if you get it right then you will enjoy forever. A bad marriage can affect every other area of your life.
This subject is so important, so many married people are hoping to be single again so as to make the right choice. If you are single please don't just be in a hurry to get married, you have the best opportunity to prepare for it.

It is better to be single believing God to be married, than to be married believing God to be single. Two cannot work or live together except they agree. For two people to come together to live in peace and harmony, they must agree spiritually, mentally and physically. Just like an elephant cannot marry an ant so also a believer cannot marry an unbeliever. If an elephant marry an ant how would they live, if a goat marries a fish when would they meet? You must look for a Godly man or a Godly woman to marry, nothing can beat this.

The devil's primary target is the family. He knows that everyone belongs to a family and if he can make two wrong people meet then he has succeeded affecting the community and nations negatively. Ignore your age and the pressure for a moment, the pressure in a wrong marriage is far worse. God has somebody for you but you must set your priorities right. What do you need in a woman? What do you need in a man?

Marriage is not about what you want, it is about who you need, that will make you better while you make him better. It is about destiny. That is why you must know your purpose before you get married. Genesis 2:18.

You must pray before you choose. God knows the best person for you, it is only wise to seek His will. It is very easy to know God's will when sex is not involved. The moment sex is involved and you want to know His will then He will blank you out. Why? Because you have broken His first Law of NO SEX before marriage. Hebrews 13:4.

If you have had sex in the pass then you need to repent totally and stay away from each other for sometime then you can seek the face of God.

Your marriage will not be hell on earth. Your marriage will be honorable in the name of Jesus Christ.

Don't marry for sex, don't marry because you are of age, don't marry because you are getting old, don't marry because you are lonely, don't marry because you need someone to support you financially, don't marry because you mistakenly got pregnant, don't marry because you don't want to lose the person, don't marry because of family pressures, don't marry because you like the idea of marriage and admire every wedding gown you see, don't marry because all your friends are getting married.

But get married because you want to fulfill destiny. Get married because you want to be a help meet. As a man get married because you want to fulfil your purpose. God will help you in choosing wisely in Jesus Name.

God will not bless you with what you lost or missed. He will only bless you with what is left. He used 5 loaves and two fish to feed above 5000 hungry people and 12 full baskets were remaining. That widow gave her supposedly last meal and her breakthrough came. Stop regretting the job you lost or weeping over the person that didn't marry you, or the interview you missed. Thank God for that closed door, God is opening a bigger door today.