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Christianity EtcSome Women Are Not Findable by uchkochi(op): 5:11pm On Sep 14, 2012
HE THAT FINDS A WIFE, FINDS A GOOD THING AND OBTAINS FAVOUR FROM THE LORD. IT IS THE RESPONSIBILITY OF THE MAN TO FIND AND IT IS THE RESPONSIBILITY OF THE WOMAN TO BE FOUND.The woman have to be findable. This message is intended in teaching a woman how to be findable so that she can be found.

He that finds a wife, finds a good thing and obtains favour from the LORD. Proverbs 18:22. The bible says He that finds a wife, not a girl or a lady but a WIFE. The bible calls a woman a wife even before she marries. This implies that wives are easily found, it is wives that are findable. It is the responsiblity of the woman to train herself to becoming a wife even before she gets married. The outward appearance of a woman is not what makes her a wife, it is the content of her mindset that makes her
a wife. Real men identifies a WIFE when they see one. Husbands recognises wives when they see one. Wives are responsible, they are purposeful, they don't move around, they are findable. If a wife is not in a relationship you will know, when she is you will know, because she is committed. She is not confused about who to marry, she knows who to marry.

It is time for women to know how to position themselves so that they can be found, the earlier they do so, the better. A man can find even at 50, but a woman has a particular time when she could easily be found. Many highly placed, affluent unmarried ladies are making themselves unfindable. This has nothing to do with their wealth or position but it has to do with their mindset and their attitude. For instance, where do you find them, they are always in high places, you cannot see them in ordinary places, what if her husband happen to always visit the ordinary places most of the time. They tend to attract men of their status and class who may not be their husbands, they need to slow down, How can a woman that does not leave the house be found? how can a woman that is so busy with her career and does not have time to go to the right places be found? God brought Eve to Adam in the garden, there was a meeting spot. A lady that is always seen with men(ordinary friends) is not making herself findable. A lady that cannot take herself out sometimes is not making herself findable. For a woman to be findable she must always treat and carry herself as a wife. A wife dresses smart, good and not seductive. A wife fears God. A wife starts praying for her husband even when he has not found her. A wife is lovely and a help-meet indeed. When a woman is findable she will easily be found by her husband. Delay in marriage most times is not the devil, but ignorance, the devil only takes advantage of the ignorant. Finally as I begin to round up, A WIFE IS DOWN TO EARTH NO MATTER WHAT SHE HAS OR DOES NOT HAVE. It is my prayer that things becomes easy for anyone reading this message through KNOWLEDGE IN JESUS PRECIOUS NAME. BB PIN IS 21322745.
Christianity EtcThis Prayer Shall Be Answered Instantly. by uchkochi(op): 8:58am On Sep 12, 2012
THIS PRAYER SHALL BE ANSWERED INSTANTLY.

Just to boost your faith before you pray, I like you to know that I prayed this prayer extensively in the early hours of today. And God spoke to me that everyone that shall pray and believe it shall have instant answer. Mark 11:24. Its time to pray;

Father I give you thanks for giving me another day, LORD Jesus I celebrate your faithfulness and commitment to see that today ends better than yesterday. Holy Spirit, I acknowledge your helps and the help you shall be sending my way today. Help me Lord to recognise my opportunities today in the name of Jesus Christ. From today I will begin to eat the fruits of my labour, I will begin to make progress in per hour basis. Give me the wisdom to proffer solution to that problem that has become a concern. LORD Jesus decorate me with your glory that when sinners see me they will see you and repent. Make my hands your hands here on earth, make my feet your feet here on earth, make my voice your voice here on earth. Let today be filled with TESTIMONIES of all kinds. Thank you Jesus because my going out is blessed, my expectations shall come to pass, depression and regret is far from me and my family. I shall live a purpose driven life today. Favour me with whatever you want to favour me with, help me through whomever you choose to help through today. Above all let your will of prosperity, healing, protection, favour, blessing, wisdom and increase be done in my life today. I forgive all my offenders, I pray for the eyes of my enemies to be opened to see you and repent, I pray for my weaknesses to be converted to strength. I pray for my country, my state and my leaders, I pray for the schools, hospitals, banks and market places, Let your word spread and let your glory be seen today in Jesus name. Thank you Lord for instant answers, thank you Lord for the angels that have been released to work for me today, give them speed in Jesus mighty name I have prayed. BB PIN IS 21322745
Christianity EtcUnderstanding And Interpreting Dreams. by uchkochi(op): 12:28pm On Sep 07, 2012
UNDERSTANDING AND INTERPRETING DREAMS.

Dreams can easily be understood, once you can understand the make up of dreams. Just as you can read a book and understand it, you can also read your dreams. To understand your dream you must be able to get the full detail, after which you should write it down and read it like a book, prayerfully. The best time to understand or get the interpretation of that dream is the moment you wake up. People miss it by going back to sleep immediately. Write it down, then read it. This seriousness will make God put the exact meaning in your heart.

The dreams you dream and forget are very,very important. To remember them, you must pray and think, as you get the pictures, begin to write them down in bits. The dream that comes more than once are most important. Do not play or ignore your dreams. The bible says in Psalm 19:1; that day unto day utters speech and night unto night shows knowledge.


When you feel uncontrollably sleepy in the day time and you tend to relax for 10mins at work, If you dream or experience a trance please do something about what you see. That short sleep was not ordinary, God wanted you to know something.

The bottom line is this; any dream that is against God's will must be cancelled using the blood and the name of Jesus Christ. Any dream that is in line with God's will must be believed, and worked out in faith, for it to manifest.

Examples of bad dreams; When you dream and you see yourself being pursued, but running on one spot, please you must pray against stagnation. When you dream and you see yourself naked or half naked, for example; no shirt on. Please pray against shame, embarrassment or implication using God's word. When you dream and you see yourself in your former school or former house or former place of work. Please pray against retrogression or delay. When you dream and you see your dead loved one appearing to you, please know that either someone close to you is about to die OR the devil through a familiar spirit is about to get informations from you. Once a person dies, the next thing is Judgement, so the person you see is not really your dead friend or relation, that person's image is only being used by a familiar spirit. Bad dreams are powerless once it does not scare you. Speak God's word against it in faith and it will be converted to a good dream. Be fruitful through out today in Jesus name. BB PIN IS 21322745.
PoliticsA Letter To Mr President by uchkochi(op): 1:44pm On Aug 08, 2012
A LETTER TO MR PRESIDENT

I greet you specially on such a great day like this, DR Good-Luck Ebele Jonathan, I congratulate you for all you have done so far. But they will all become vain soon, if this Boko Haram Issue is not addressed. Can't you see, some people are trying to make the nation ungovernable. The Boko Haram Sect are not faceless, they have faces, from their acts you could deduce that they are Muslims, the people responsible for this mayhem are your Islamic opposers. Pick them up, try them. By so doing you would have given God an opportunity to intervene. No matter how we pray, you as the number 1 citizen have to take certain steps for God to act. No matter how hard they try, if you will begin to act by observing their actions they will fail whole-fully. Please you are not the President of P.D.P, you are the president of Nigeria. As a result of this, the insecurity problem should be the only thing taking 80 percent of your time now. It can be handled. We are praying for you. All your opposers will soon run into hiding, because the wisdom of God will lead you to make the right decisions and take the right steps. Father I lift up Nigeria into your able hands, I crush everyone responsible for the present security challenge in Nigeria. Oh God of vengeance SHOW YOUR SELF. SHOW YOUR RED EYE, SLAY EVERYONE SPONSORING THE BOKO HARAM SECT IN JESUS NAME. PSALM 94:1. OMEGA CYBER MINISTRY. +2348052773865. BB PIN IS 21322745.
Christianity EtcWhen There Is Lust In The Midst Of Love. by uchkochi(op): 1:40pm On Jul 31, 2012
WHEN THERE IS LUST IN THE MIDST OF LOVE.

Love for a girl or a guy can lead to lust if not properly managed.A man can sincerely love you from the depth his heart and still sleep with you when he is not yet married to you.To think that if he sleeps with you it means he is lusting after you and that if he does not then he truly loves you is not completely correct.He loves you but it is just that he cannot manage the love properly so it grows into lust. Listen to this;to have a sex free relationship has to do with the two parties involved,that is the guy and the girl.The girl may initiate a sex-free relationship like they always do but without the guy complementing it,it will be in vain because it won't be long premarital sex will begin.That guy's love for you will soon become lust if you begin to lure him to sleep with you and vice versa. Please manage the love by abstaining from sex till you are married.Ecclesiastes 4:9 says that two are better than one.It is time to join that "sweet heart" of yours to fight against premarital sex.Receive grace in Jesus precious name. BB-PIN is 21322745
Christianity EtcIf A Virgin Can Conceive And Give Birth To Jesus Christ. by uchkochi(op): 4:28pm On Jul 30, 2012
IF A VIRGIN CAN CONCEIVE AND GIVE BIRTH TO JESUS CHRIST. Then your miracle can still happen today. God blesses spiritually because He is a Spirit but it is your faith that makes it physical.

Just believe that it can be done and it will be done. Do not wait to see it first. Believe in your heart that it can be done. Mary believed, and SHE being a virgin GOT PREGNANT without any sexual intercourse. LUKE 1:45. Once you believe you will receive. I mean once you truly believe, believe without doubts, believe even when you don't understand how it will happen. Just believe, is it too difficult to believe? Believing God will be easier if you stop letting what you see determine how you feel. It may not look like it but faith can make it to become it. Faith is what converts spiritual blessing to physical blessings. God blesses spiritually because He is a Spirit but it is your faith that makes it physical. That is why it will always be to you according to your faith. Receive grace to walk and live by faith. BB PIN IS 21322745.
Christianity EtcWhy Good People Still Experience Certain Delays. by uchkochi(op): 5:16am On Jul 27, 2012
WHY GOOD PEOPLE STILL EXPERIENCE CERTAIN DELAYS.

Delays can make you lose hope.Proverbs 13 vs.12 says,HOPE DEFERRED MAKES THE HEART SICK...And when you lose hope you lose faith.Without faith you cannot please God.So delays are dangerous and must be dealt with.

One thing that causes continuous delay is your intention or your motive.Are your motives pure? are your intentions right? Do you need money to oppress people or show off or do you need money to be a blessing.Until you decide to be a blessing you may not be truly blessed.1st Samuel chapter 2 vs. 3 says God is a God of knowledge and weighs our actions
(paraphrased by me).

You may be good but your intentions may not be Godly. You may be good but pride may be your intention unknowingly and because of pride you may be experiencing delay in one or two areas of your life.

Some people's motive for getting married is to please their parents or to make some of their friends jealous.This is a wrong motive,your motive for getting married as a lady is to be a help meet to a man in all areas.With this in your heart God will be glad enough to connect you to your marital breakthrough.

What is your motive for going to church? are you going to church to serve and worship God because you love God or you are going to church because of what you can get from Him.Until your motives are right,your breakthrough may not come.Now imagine for a moment,if 200 million dollars is in your hands right now what will you do with it? or what will be the first thought that will come to your mind.Check your motives regularly,always ask God to purify your heart.I believe as you make your motives right every form of delay will just disappear before you know it in Jesus Name. OMEGA CYBER MINISTRY. BB PIN IS 21322745.
Christianity EtcSigns To Know When A Guy May Be Cheating On You, Or May No More Be Interested. by uchkochi(op): 4:30pm On Jul 23, 2012
SIGNS TO KNOW WHEN A GUY MAY BE CHEATING ON YOU, OR MAY NO MORE BE INTERESTED.

Please, before you read, note that this message is not a conclusion, it is only a sign. It is not for you to start being unnecessarily suspicious but it is only a guide for discovering the solution. These are signs to know when a guy is cheating on you, or may no more be interested.

1. When he stops calling for no reason, and when asked why, he always says that he is busy.

2. When he becomes over-caring in your presence, but hardly remembers you in your absence.

3. When he begins to set traps for you to fall in, so that he would use it as an excuse to blame you.

5. When you have to remind him all the time to notice what you are wearing or the hairstyle you just made.

6. When he claims that lack of call credit is the reason why he has not been calling. The truth is that he may be calling someone else.

7. When you no longer see him, even when you stay close.

8. When his love for you seems to increase after you just had sex with him (Pre-marital sex is wrong on its own).

9. When he starts getting angry at every little mistake you make.

10.When he no longer tells you the important details or recent development of his endeavours.

These are some of the signs, the solution is not to put up a fight or get angry or jealous. All you need to do as a lady is to intentionally reduce your own commitment and watch if he will sit up or ask why? If he sits up then you should forgive him, but if he asks why then you must tell him what you noticed. Make him feel you can do with or without him. Commitment in a relationship is not 50-50, it is 100-100. Wisdom is profitable to direct. Ecclesiastes 10:10. Be blessed in Jesus name. BB pin is 21322745
Christianity EtcSomething Great Is About To Happen To You by uchkochi(op): 5:14pm On Jul 17, 2012
SOMETHING GREAT IS ABOUT TO HAPPEN TO YOU

Have you given up? Then hope again. Have you lost your dreams? Then dream again because something great is about to happen to you again. Something that will turn your entire life around is about happening in your life. Something is not just going to happen to you it is about to happen for you.

Your change is coming suddenly, your heart desire is about to be fulfilled, the fulfillment of Gods word over your life shall no more be prolonged Ezekiel 12 vs.28. It is coming to pass. Have you been laughed at? Have men or women lose their trust in you? Is there a question bugging you that demands immediate answer? Hear me very clearly child of God, SOMETHING IS ABOUT TO HAPPEN. IT WOULD SURPRISE YOU. Something that you will keep talking about the remaining days of your life on earth. God is about doing yet another thing for you this week.

When the lord turned again the captivity of zion we were like them that dreamed then was our heart filled with laughter and our tongues with singing.PSALMS 126

BEFORE THIS WEEK IS OVER GOD WOULD HAVE TURNED AROUND YOUR CIRCUMSTANCE A THOUSAND TIMES OVER.
You better believe it because God abides faithful and cannot deny Himself.BB PIN IS 21322745.
Christianity EtcYour Moment Of Change Is Now. by uchkochi(op): 6:43pm On Jul 16, 2012
Your moment of change is now.

It took God six days to create this world and all that is in it. He wont need more than a day to change your situation. I gladly announce to you from Heaven that your change has come. I come to you today with a prophetic declaration backed by the unction of the Most High God. That problem is not permitted to last more than 6 days in your life. God rested on the seventh day; you are just about to enter your rest permanently. Something is about to happen, get ready because divine surprises awaits you the next 7 days, the devil has no power at all, all he has is deception, subtlety. He has succeeded in deceiving many that God is slow. But this is a lie, God is faster than you can imagine, men might have told you that God might not be able to do this one because it is taking long, its a lie. My bible tells me in the book of Romans chapter 3 vs.4; let God be true and every man a liar. Three things that God will do is that, He will prove men wrong, He will prove the devil wrong, then He will prove you wrong incase you have lost hope. He said in Malachi 3:10b that we should PROVE "HIM". Within the next 6 days your restoration shall be total, your victory shall be complete, your testimonies would have been perfected.

God's word may not come to pass unless you key into it. To Key Into God's Prophetic Word; YOU MUST BELIEVE IT, YOU MUST RECEIVE IT, YOU MUST PERSONALISE IT, YOU MUST DECLARE IT, YOU MUST DEMONSTRATE IT, YOU MUST THANK GOD FOR IT AND THEN YOU WILL BECOME IT. The next six days are highly sensitive, the former and the latter blessing is just about to overwhelm you, the latter and the former blessing is pouring on you in ONE WEEK. JOEL 2:23.BB PIN IS 21322745.
Christianity EtcThis Challenge Too Will Pass. by uchkochi(op): 9:31am On Jul 10, 2012
THIS CHALLENGE TOO WILL PASS.

Is there any challenge that ended at one time in your life? Even though it looked like it was not going to end, it still ended. This should make you understand that the present challenge you are going through will also end. Proverbs 23:18. There is no challenge without an end. When is it going to end? You may be asking, because I believe that if you know the time then you will relax and just wait for that time. God may not tell you when its going to end but He always tells how it is going to end. It is going to end in your favour. The reason why God may not display the date for the end of that challenge is because He wants you to walk by faith. If He tells you the day, then you may stop operating in faith.

It can end today, tomorrow, month end or in the next one hour it all depends on your faith. Once you no longer have doubt and fear in your heart, then know that the challenge is about disappearing. So what you should be concerned about now is to eliminate fear and doubt from your heart. The moment they go, the mountain of challenge melts. Mark 11:23-24. This truth should give you hope and a sense of responsibility that your testimony can be today, Just deal with the doubt and the fear in your heart. Believe GOD AND SPEAK GOD'S WORD REGULARLY TO THE CHALLENGE, this is the fastest way to eliminate doubt and fear. I have delivered God's word into your heart, it will birth your long awaited testimony today in the name of Jesus Christ. BB PIN IS 21322745
Christianity EtcThis Is The Insight The Devil Has Kept You From Having, Get It Now And Live Free by uchkochi(op): 10:45am On Jul 07, 2012
THIS IS THE INSIGHT THE DEVIL HAS KEPT YOU FROM HAVING, GET IT NOW AND LIVE FREE FOREVER IN JESUS NAME.

Jesus died on the cross and resurrected on the third day to give you salvation. So when you receive Jesus into your life you become free from all struggles and troubles. Everything that is needed for your victory has been fully paid for by the precious blood of Jesus Christ. So you have already been declared the winner in all the challenges and battles of life. But there is a fight called the FIGHT OF FAITH. Which fight is this? the bible says the just shall live by faith. Habakkuk 2:4, Galatians 3:11. The fight of faith is the FIGHT TO ACCEPT THE FINISHED WORKS OF CHRIST. That is you must believe that Jesus has already declared you the victor. But the devil does not want you to believe this, he would rather prefer you try to make yourself free. But the truth is this; you only physically enter into what Christ did by faith. After your salvation, you need to constantly get revelation of what Christ did and believe it. He said with His mouth that it is finished. John 19:30. So stop trying to be free and start living in the liberty Christ gave you by faith. So the fight of faith is the fight of revelation. It is a fight to walk in the victory Christ gave you. This victory includes; victory over sin, victory of shame, victory over stagnation and delays, victory over sicknesses and diseases, victory over weaknesses, victory over self, victory over ungodly habits, victory over darkness and victory over fear. Your victory has been concluded, you just need to believe it and live and walk in this revelation. You need to constantly study the word to see what is actually yours, because if you don't see it, you cannot possess it. Your time has come,I can see the devil weeping already because he can no longer deceive you. REJOICE IN JESUS NAME. BB PIN IS 21322745
Christianity EtcBeware! Because Bitterness Is The Way To The Bottom. by uchkochi(op): 10:52am On Jul 05, 2012
BEWARE! BECAUSE BITTERNESS IS THE WAY TO THE BOTTOM.

Bitterness, as justifiable as it may appear will never take you to the top, it will either take you to the bottom or keep you on one spot. Many people are where they are today because some time ago, someone some where offended them that they have forgiven but when they remember the issue bitterness fills their hearts.

Until bitterness goes, life cannot become better,Joseph would not have become a prime minister in a strange land if he had bitterness towards his brothers, Job would not have received his restoration if he had been bitter towards God. Many people are bitter towards God because what He promised had not yet come to pass. Listen to this; BITTERNESS DISQUALIFIES YOU AND DOES YOU MORE HARM THAN GOOD. DO YOU KNOW THAT BITTERNESS ALSO GIVES YOUR OFFENDERS EDGE OVER YOU. Because the devil wants you to continue in bitterness, he will make your offenders to keep making progress in what they do so as to get you more bitter and keep you on one spot. I believe the stagnation of 38 years of the impotent man by the pool of bethesda was because of bitterness and not just because he had no faith. John 5:1-8. I know this because when Jesus asked him if he wanted to be healed he said there was no man to put him in, because nobody helped him, he became bitter and so was stagnated. Forgive your offenders because that is only when God can intervene. Forgive them because by doing so, you are indirectly heaping hot coals on their heads. I release the grace of God upon you that will end all forms of bitterness in Jesus Precious name. BB PIN IS 21322745.
Christianity EtcShould Ladies Wear Trousers Or Put On Ear Rings Or Wear Make Up Or Wear Weavon by uchkochi(op): 7:55pm On Jul 04, 2012
SHOULD LADIES WEAR TROUSERS OR PUT ON EAR RINGS OR WEAR MAKE UP OR PUT ON BRAZILIAN WEAVON...Its an open forum, what is your take on this? Your contribution will go a long way...

God is responsible for your beauty, but you are responsible for your attraction. Beauty fades but attraction is continuous. Now attraction is in two ways, we have positive and negative attraction. Dressing, make ups and jewelries enhances attraction either positively or negatively. The problem is that people go to the extremes on both ends. The bible said you should be moderate in all things, that is you should be balanced. Galatians 5:23. Philippians 4:5.

Some people don't dress well at all, they don't make up at all, they don't wear jewelries at all because they see it as bad. God is the owner of the silver and gold. Haggi 2:8. He built the heavens with gold, it will not be out of place to wear gold. Putting on weavon is not bad, it only enhances attraction but it should be moderate. Another set of people over do it as if their lives depend on it. But it is better to be in the middle. Some will even ask where it is written in the bible that they should put on jewelries. Is it written in the bible that you should fly an aeroplane, was aeroplane mentioned in the bible? Don't you know that judging someone by his/her appearance is another kind of sin. Some people that don't make up have started believing that their righteousness is secured. And they even feel that those wearing make up are going to hell, this is an error. they may not be wearing physical make ups, but they are already wearing negative make ups in their heart.

God is more interested in the heart than clothes. A good heart will dress moderately. Dress good because you were wonderfully made. So what is your take on this? BB PIN IS 21322745.
Christianity EtcWelcome To Your Month Of Changes. by uchkochi(op): 8:57am On Jul 02, 2012
WELCOME TO YOUR MONTH OF CHANGES.

If you have ever desired a change and have not yet seen one, I like you to understand that it is not because God takes pleasure in wasting time or because the devil is too strong or wicked. It is because you have not changed. 3rd John 2, Jeremiah 29:11

Things don't change on their own, you change for them to change. That is you change your attitude first for something to change,you change your mind set, for things to change, you change your habits for things to change, you manage your time well for things to change. So you see, the change you desire can only happen quickly when you change quickly.

People hardly desire a change for themselves the way they desire a change for things. But until you change things may not change. So in this new month watch out for certain changes in your life that will culminate in changes around you. Your approach to financial matters have to change, you must avoid wastes and always plan before you spend, you must also keep detailed account of your money. God is an accountant, He knows the number of strand in everyone's hair, your approach to spiritual, emotional and career/business matters have to change. Be diligent and punctual in all that you do. If you will change your attitude, even the devil will become helpless in the activities of your life. Proverbs 22:29. Relate with people well, avoid malice and backbiting, avoid envy and hatred. Always wish people well that is the only way you can be better. That change you have long desired is happening this month. BB PIN 21322745
Christianity EtcNothing Is As Important As Peace. by uchkochi(op): 2:17pm On Jun 28, 2012
NOTHING IS AS IMPORTANT AS PEACE. GOD'S WORD ONLY COME TO PASS ON THE PLATFORM OF PEACE

I greet you dearly beloved in the precious name of Jesus Christ, I count it a great privilege to reveal another truth to you that will make your life better. This time we shall be looking at the subject of peace. Peace is the most important thing you need if you must live a fulfilled life. The devil is the author of troubles while God is the author of peace, the bible calls Him the prince of peace. Your health is guaranteed when you have peace, faith only works when you have peace, peace is synonymous to rest of the mind and the heart. The devil will be limited in attacking you when your mind is at peace. Peace is not the absence of troubles, I believe you know by now that we are living in a troubled world but peace is the calmness of your inner environment which is a proof that you trust and believe that God is watching over you. The word of God will only come to pass in your life on the platform of peace. Philippians 4:6 says that we should be anxious for nothing, that is we should worry over nothing. Prayers made in worries are not answered. Your heart must be at peace first before you pray. That is why you must begin every prayer with thanksgiving first, because in thanksgiving, you will certainly discover why you should be at peace. From today the peace of God that passes all understanding will be with you forever in Jesus Precious name. Amen. BB PIN IS 21322745
Christianity EtcThe Three Kinds Of Men You Should Consider Before You Marry by uchkochi(op): 4:11pm On Jun 27, 2012
THE THREE KINDS OF MEN YOU SHOULD CONSIDER BEFORE YOU MARRY

I want to begin by saying that this message is not a warning, it’s not a suggestion or admonition it’s a revelation. Marriage is supposed to be built on the foundation of Love and Understanding. And you know that God is Love. 1st John 4 vs. 8.
This is message is essentially a revelation.
Proverbs 25 vs. 2
It is the glory of God to conceal a thing: but the honor of kings is to search out a matter.
Like Solomon will say I got this message by inspiration, wisdom and understanding. There are three kinds of men you should consider before getting married. I am not choosing for you or suggesting to you, I am just letting you know some few things.
These three kinds of men are simply the three seasons of men. That is, men in their morning, afternoon and evening seasons.

MEN IN THEIR THREE SEASONS.

1.Men in the morning season; these are men that are just starting life; they just graduated if they went to school or they are the ones that is still trying to find their feet. They are not yet established. They are still looking for jobs or managing something till they get the job of their dreams. They are quick to propose to a lady because a lady means so much to them at this stage. Most of them are still either living with their parents or with a friend; a few of them just rented an apartment scarcely furnished. They are filled with dreams, vision and ambition. They think of the lady in their lives more than themselves or their families. They are loving and caring. They give their time to the lady they are in love with because they have little or no money. As a matter of fact the lady spends more in the relationship. Almost every where they go with their girlfriend they meet with a rival, that is either a richer person asking their lady out or passing advances at her in his presence. They are jealous and protective. They can do anything within their power to keep the girl.

Unfortunately, they are the ones most girls like to marry but since they don’t have the money yet, they are actually seen as people best to hang out with. Most parents wouldn’t advice their daughters to marry them any way.

They are considered men in their morning season because they are very fresh, ambitious, hardworking, simple, humble and God fearing. Every moment you spend with them as a lady is a cool and peaceful moment because they are fun to be with. They will always easily forgive you as a lady if you hurt them.

Marrying them is fun but challenging because you will have to build the family with them, two of you will start from the scratch but he will always respect and value you and your opinion. They are always early to everything because they are still in their morning season. They don’t give you heat like cheating on you or stressing you as a lady. The only thing they appear not to have at this time is money and they will as they keep working hard and seeking God.

2.Men in their afternoon season; these men may give you a lot of heat as it were, they are men that have just found their feet, they are rich, influential and connected. You apologize to them more than they apologize to you for wrong doing. They may show you care in the early stages of their relationship but when married to you, they are not always around. They prefer to spend hours on phone than spend it with you in person. They are extremely busy, traveling here and there. They are so busy that they replace time with money. They don’t see anything as serious until it has gotten out of hand. They make sure you lack nothing but their time. They are not just married to you, they are also married to their jobs and their businesses. They love you so much but don’t have enough time to show it so they use material things to show it. They are prone to flirting and extra marital affairs.

They understand their jobs and businesses more than they understand you , they most times return late, hanging out with friends. You are just too afraid to talk to them because you think you have more to loose.

3.Men in their evening season; these men are not just rich or wealthy but they have also arrived. As the evening season implies, they sleep most of the time. They rest I mean to explain further, they think of their rest more than they think of your rest. When married to these men in their late season, life is always boring because they can hardly please you as the lady in any way. They see you as their daughter more than their wife. These men are not always single, some of them are married with complications, and some of them are divorcee. They honestly don’t consider your opinion. You are more of a companion than a lover.


As controversial as this message may be, the difference is the fear of God. Make sure the man you are getting married to does not only love God but fears God also. BB PIN IS 21322745.
Christianity EtcDealing With The Barrier Stopping You From Possessing Your Possessions. by uchkochi(op): 9:46am On Jun 26, 2012
DEALING WITH THE BARRIER STOPPING YOU FROM POSSESSING YOUR POSSESSIONS.

The greatest discovery is not the discovery of what God has given you but the discovery of what is trying to stop you from possessing what God has already given you. The devil is powerless but has some powerful devices that he uses as deceptions.You need to know this barrier and deal with it,then you will begin to possess your possessions.

This major barrier is the barrier of unbelief and doubts; Unbelief is lack of faith.Honestly if you should look around you,you may be discouraged and may lose your faith,because what may be happening to you may not be what you are expecting.To deal with unbelief and doubt you must not walk by sight but by faith.Let God's word have the final say in all things.Consider the word of God before considering the happenings around you.Mark 11:23, says that once you believe without doubting in your heart then you will possess your possessions.(paraphrased by me).Many people believe but when they look around them they begin to doubt.Any time you doubt you prolong your miracle.Doubts or unbelief is the strongest barrier hindering you.Jesus said that if you can believe, all things are possible. So once you begin to doubt you begin to experience impossibilities.

What is it that you must believe? You must believe that the earth is the LORD's and the fullness thereof, the world and all that dwell therein.Psalm 24:1. If God is the owner of the heaven and the earth,what challenge do you now think is bigger than Him? Nothing is bigger that Him,the entire world is in His hand.

What else must you believe? You must believe that God can help you even when it is almost the deadline,that means He can help you when all hope is lost already.If He can raise Lazarus from the dead after four days,your case no matter how bad it may seem is too small for God.John 11:40-46

What else must you believe? You must believe that tears does not move God,it only makes the devil glad.The only thing that moves God is your faith.Hebrews 11:6.

What other thing must you believe? You must believe that doubt is a weapon of the enemy and that it is not the facing of reality.Whenever it starts coming to your mind,use God's word violently against it.

Finally you must believe that to proof that you have confidence in God and that you believe Him, you must be joyful and patient no matter what.You must not complain but you must keep declaring what you believe.I hereby by the mighty hand of God destroy every prevailing doubt in your mind right now,I cast down ever atom of unbelief in your heart in the mighty name of Jesus Christ.Be blessed and begin to rejoice. BB PIN IS 21322745.
Christianity EtcLADIES, The Reason God Gave You Beauty And A Good Body Is To Win Souls. by uchkochi(op): 11:42am On Jun 25, 2012
LADIES, The reason God gave you beauty and a good body is to win souls.

Everything God does is for a reason, He made you attractive so you could attract men to Him. Your beauty is supposed to be an asset to the kingdom of God, not a plus to the kingdom of the devil. You were fearfully and wonderfully made for this purpose. Pretty ladies are Evangelists in disguise. They either promote hell or heaven. The choice is yours. Psalm 139:14.

Anything God gives you is for soul winning, whether it is intelligence, beauty, talents, gifts, potentials, money, favour,power. He gave you so you would promote His kingdom with it. When the purpose of a thing is not known, the abuse is inevitable. The purpose for beauty is for soul winning. If only you can tell every man that approaches you about Jesus Christ, then the kingdom of God will make massive progress through you and you will be blessed. The devil who knows that your beauty can promote God's kingdom on Earth hijacks that beauty to promote his own kingdom negatively. But there is a turn around, THE KINGDOM OF GOD IS MARCHING ON, THE GATES CANNOT PREVAIL AGAINST IT.

Popular stars who have millions and millions of fans around the world should use their personality to win souls for Jesus Christ. God will ask them what they did with the fame on the Last Day. Where ever you are, as a manager or an employee, a doctor, teacher, lecturer, business man, politician; You can use this privilege to win souls. Winning of souls is not just for Pastors or preachers, it is for everybody. It is just that some are called to do it full time, others are to do it as the opportunity arises. You can win souls physically, if you cannot do this, you can pray for those doing it or you can finance it. BUT SOUL WINNING IS A MUST. This is the MOST IMPORTANT THING TO GOD. BB PIN IS 21322745.

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