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Mattswaggz:
My statements there were under probability.

Stop changing the narrative.....the point isn't who suffers from abuse but if the word "abuse" is usable in this case or not which you claimed "it's not".

You are the one who has been shifting goal post. Your reasoning is motivated, not logical.

You will go to any length to defend your viewpoint, however wrong they might be.
You believe what you want, then use unsubstantial evidence to support it, even when there's an abundance of information disproving your point.

It makes this exchange pointless. You have insulted my intelligence enough.

Mattswaggz:
Quite hilarious to realize that the very case I used as an example is something similar yet you still couldn't assimilate......when some abuse drugs....is it the drugs the suffers the consequences or the person?. .

Secondly....."I" wasn't implying what you're talking about in ur second paragraph....maybe you're quoting the wrong person.

God give me strength.

Who said anything about who suffers consequence of abuse? Sometimes it's the abuser, sometimes it's the abused. Not related to anything in what you quoted.

By the way, you literally implied what I was talking about in my second paragraph.

Mattswaggz:
Most people abuse masturbation a lot and you might fallen under such category...that could be why.

Mattswaggz:
That's why you're meant to clarify it.....you made mention of "choice of words" and I presented another scenario to indicate that there is nothing wrong with the choice of words.......if you believe you're right or have been misunderstood then it's left for you to explain and clarify your position.

What is right or wrong can be subjective. In my world, nothing like masturbation abuse.
1. When you check the definition of all kinds of abuse, it is the abuse of something, not the abuse of an action.
2. The “thing” involved in masturbation is oneself and one cannot abuse oneself.

If what you are trying to describe is masturbation addiction - masturbating compulsively and uncontrollably, I don’t have that problem and you don’t need to be addicted to masturbation to get cum stuck in your d!ck which is what you were implying in you first post.

Mattswaggz:
See who I day follow argue abeg. ......so drug abuse is a wrong usage of words as well or what are you trying to say here?. .

Using things beyond their natural capacity, doing things more than needed, doing things till the point where they pose some sort of harm to u one way or another et al can be regarded as abuse.

I repeat again.....you can't blame masturbation for the handwork of indiscipline but hypocritical persons like yourself can keep on with the self deceit.

I don’t think you get my argument.
I can no longer make sense of your posts.

Mattswaggz:
There is everything like masturbation abuse...... because they can get it at will without spending time, money, resource et al they tend to do it much more than needed even when their bodies begin to show signs of overdoing it they still can't stop or restrict it because it's easy to achieve at will unlike normal sex. .

You can give it your own definition but it's not a thing.
By your logic there is also everything like singing abuse because you can sing at will without spending and it can strain your voice.
Abuse can be added to any action word but it doesn't make it a thing. You only abuse something or someone that is not you.

Mattswaggz:
Most people abuse masturbation a lot and you might fallen under such category...that could be why.

That is not why. Nothing like masturbation abuse.

maasoap:
You see, I knew all along that something was wrong with you, this just proved it. This is not a mentality of a normal human being

What is wrong with you?
A normal human is a person that thinks like you. Noted.

cucumbar:
go for a check up , because what you described isn’t normal .

Check up after how many years?

maasoap:
Laughing. If you have lost a loved one to hepatitis B induced liver cirrhosis, your simplistic opinion would change. Or, if you have families who dependent on antiretroviral drug for the rest of their lives, your unpopular conviction would change.


We're not doing comparison here as different individuals are faced with different challenges. Cancer is bad but untreated syphilis is equally bad

Most people get Hepatitis B from birth or childhood.
It is not even uncommon for partners of people with these diseases to stay uninfected. People with high viral load are usually visibly sick.

I’m not encouraging carelessness but as an hedonist, see no point trying to stay alive if I’m not enjoying it. We will all die eventually.

zedman1:
From your description, it could be a kidney stone. Even very little stone they say, can be painful too.

Saw it with my 2 eyes when it came out. it was 100% cum.

maasoap:
I don't think HIV or hepatitis B is overrated. And not many guys and ladies take STIs seriously at the initial stage until it's late

Both are overrated regarding their epidemic impact.
STDs are child’s play compared most diseases but anything related to sex gets more attention.

Mattswaggz:
Yet masturbators are still attacked like they've committed a grievous offense..... isn't their method a sort of solution to some extent?. .

Even masturbation is not safe.

Once got thick semen stuck at the base of my urethra. I was unaware for 2 days until I started having difficulty urinating.
Instead of masturbating again, I started forcing it out gradually with several urinations not knowing I was irritating my urethra.

The burning pain started the following day. If I was sexually active, I would have concluded I had an infection - the only difference was there was no discharge.

The irritation disappeared after a week without treatment.

Moral of the story is - No enjoyment without risk. Life is short and something must kill a man. STDs are overrated and usually treatable.

aigohior:
You sound angry, nothing I say will convince you.
It is not just about not having sex, there are hormones pills that can reduce sexual drive.

It is the feeling of the after. The joy of completing the marathon. It sort of like a sport, when it is completed you feel happy, your cum flows like a river, you regain your nutrient and sensitivity.

You are over thinking it. DON'T

Whatever.

My point is you cannot defend what you are doing with logic (and you don't have to because I believe people should have the right to be unresonable as long as their actions/inactions affect only them).

The best you can do is call me angry and make up some "spiritual" benefits.

aigohior:
Humans are not just physical being we are also spiritual being and everything we do is a ritual so that we can achieve something. Humans have not evolve to be able to will certain things into existence.
E.G you have to eat to drive away hunger, that is a ritual you are doing, you can't will hunger away.
And something require you to stress yourself, that is why you read for an exam, that is why you walk or drive to recreation.

NNN may be pointless it all depends on what you want to achieve. You use that torture "like you said" to achieve other goals.

By spiritual, you mean something that is not real? Spiritual my ass.

Can you list all the "spiritual" benefits you intend to achieve from this challenge, let's see how real it is.

Nutting like any other muscular activity requires energy. Your body will tell you when you need to rest.
Infact people on antidepressant or muscle relaxing medications loose their appetite for sex. When I was on benzodiazepine medication some years back, the thought of sex gives me headache.

The only effect I can see from this challenge is that you can't take their mind off sex.

First time hearing about this challenge. LOL.

I haven't nutted in 3 weeks now but that is just a coincidence. I have been a little bit occupied recently.
I don't subscribe to that NoFap crap. All the benefits are in your head.

Forcing your self not to nut when your body wants to is just torture.
Naturally, the mind get more curious about thoughts you are trying to avoid.
I dare you stop your mind from thinking about anything. See, it doesn't work.

SmartPolician:
Only God knows what would have become of Africa if we had to face all these environmental challenges

We will be motivated to develop faster.

Girlfriend or hookup?
I’m more interested in what caused the fight.

I want to stare into OP's eyeball and deliver a hard military grade slap.

OK. We'll be more careful and discreet.

Except you are a Sunday school student or a new convert, there is nothing new to learn.
Just more brainwashing by rephrasing the same old message.

@OP Did you learn anything you didn't know before?

1 less year left for you.

You can’t approach her because it doesn’t make sense to ask someone to be loved.

You can only ask her for sex which is what your really need.

If you want to show someone love, visit an orphanage.

She can claim your life.

Creamypie:
Girls between 18 and 22/23 are the sweetest on Earth. Inside them dey draw like new and fresh okro, and are very hot inside their kpuntus like food wey dem just remove from fire. Test one if u never try am, and your life will never be the same.I no blame these girls sha

What about 17 years old girls?

I think she is a demon of light.

I will never patronize your services and I will discourage any man from patronizing your services.

Money Laundering.

If investigated properly, they are probably connected to a terrorist organization but they always make sure there is no direct link to the key players.

What is she defending?
Did he commit a crime?

Na for dangerous place we dey find strong men.

If they catch him, they aint gonna kill him, right?

@OP
Who do you think you are?
Your post is a disrespect to my intelligence.

I’m not sure if I get your point.

Are you accusing Disney of not portraying wicked fathers? Because you’ll be wrong.

Seems you wake up everyday scavenging for anti-men content online to spam Nairaland. I’m not sure to what end but I can tell it’s not working.

There are better ways to cure boredom.