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FamilyRe: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by Udokamadi(f): 5:16pm On Jan 18, 2021
Kingosytex:
I think you meant cheats.

We share same belief, I detest cheats with passion, I have absolutely no second chance to give them.
Cheats is correct in British English, cheaters is correct in American and Australian English, my guy English is English, if it weren't correct, a phone's dictionary wouldn't bring it up the minute you type Chea...
CrimeRe: David Ntekim-Rex: Robbery Victim Dies After Police, Hospital Refused To Save Him by Udokamadi(f): 5:09pm On Jan 18, 2021
Tony142:
it is against the law, if a doctor treat a gunshot victims without police approving it, that doctor will be arrested, anyway, the guy was an innocent he was just not lucky
So now, what you're trying to tell me, is the law is so made, that the same trigger-happy policemen, even more trigger-happy and frustrated than robbers, decide who lives or dies from a gunshot or not?
Hmmmmm!!
This country is built on BULLSHIT, and anybody who expects more than BULLSHIT from this fuvkhole of a county should get themselves mentally checked.
I hate this place.
CrimeRe: David Ntekim-Rex: Robbery Victim Dies After Police, Hospital Refused To Save Him by Udokamadi(f): 5:04pm On Jan 18, 2021
This is why sometimes, the medical staff in Nigeria disgust me. They always cry about how the country is bad and all, does that give them the right to be bad also? Even in the midst of hell itself, one should try to be at most, even if not a good medical personnel, a good HUMAN BEING, a GOOD PERSON. This staff that refused to attend to this boy now, if you see them in their places of worship, you won't dare to near them. They seem so holy, they make everyone around them feel dirty, and sinful.
Has the NMA forgotten the Hippocrates oath they take, to treat anyone regardless of anything. Even if they thought he was a criminal the least they can do is tie his legs and hands after treatment, and call the police. They always want to emulate the whites, forgetting that abroad, even terrorists are treated so they can face the full extent of the law. They'll be online to cry out with black Americans on BLM, yet they forget that African lives matter to. I am utterly heartbroken by this issue...RIP.
RomanceRe: Help, I Am In Love With A Single Mother Of Two. by Udokamadi(f): 5:29pm On Jan 08, 2021
humilitypays:
Udoka if u are not a single mom, my dear sister pls oh, close your vagina oh, don't let these boiz with sharp mouth like parrot to use mouth fvck you raw and give u belle oh shocked



Na because of after 1 make Genevieve and Linda Ikeji never marry oh.


Check it, as bad as Anita Joseph was, she still got married to a young man, all because she didn't have any child...in Nigeria, having a child as a lady reduces your market value by 98.5%, sadly cry



Even white guys run from women with kids, its not an easy task for guys to do.


Any young man below 40yrs that marries a single mother deserves an award honestly and the lady ought to submit totally to him with gratitude because it's not a small feat oh
Oh, yes truly it does reduce their 'market value' to 98.5%, you say,
And a similar single father's 'market value must be100.0%, right?
And for this entirely unreasonable comment disguised as "advise", your value, market and lifewise, must be 05._%.

I didn't want to score your total value myself, you know, it's against human rights.

So why don't you be a 'good boy' and fill in the blanks yourself?
Oh and about that award, I'm sure you must be the M.C of the show. Keep it up.
Good boy, goooood boy, goodie, goodie ,oof, oof, good boy.
FamilyRe: Father-Of-Five Absconds After His Wife Gave Birth To Quadruplets In Benin by Udokamadi(f): 5:18pm On Jan 08, 2021
RisenPhoenix1:
Which is why the burden of proof is on the person making the claim. You claim it, you prove it.
That is the reason why the world is a bit.. complicated. It's a case of my word against yours.
If I see something, and I tell you that I do, but you can't, that doesn't make me a liar. It just means we see s**t differently.
If I feel something, and I tell the world I do, but I'm the only one who feels it, that doesn't make me a liar, because not everyone in the world have my eyes, and they're not in my head.
That's how the idea of religion was sold to the people.
Have you seen God? And yet you believe in him/her.
Have you seen the devil? Same.
Have you seen a ghost? Maybe.
Have you seen a flying unicorn? Really?
To this questions I could reply yes, or no. And still be right to a portion of people and be wrong to a portion of people.
That's why witness statements are most times admissible in court.
The world is a strange place. And so if a person tells you they've seen unicorns and flying pigs, and they don't have tangible proof that they have, and yet you don't have tangible proof that they haven't, it a 50-50 thing, because you can't prove them wrong, or right.
You either believe, or you don't.
RomanceRe: Help, I Am In Love With A Single Mother Of Two. by Udokamadi(f): 4:59pm On Jan 08, 2021
FalseProphet1:
Ok, thanks for your contribution. You seem like a good person sorry for my outburst towards you. Stay safe.
You seem like a good person too, stay safe.
RomanceRe: Help, I Am In Love With A Single Mother Of Two. by Udokamadi(f): 4:58pm On Jan 08, 2021
FalseProphet1:
Ok, thanks for your contribution. You seem like a good person sorry for my outburst towards you. Stay safe.
You seem like a good person too, stay safe
FamilyRe: Father-Of-Five Absconds After His Wife Gave Birth To Quadruplets In Benin by Udokamadi(f): 4:56pm On Jan 08, 2021
RisenPhoenix1:
Proving things don't exist is not done. Can you prove that unicorns don't exist? Or pink elephants? Or flying pigs?

@bolded. That statement disproves the whole concept of karma, doesn't it? If karma means bad people get punished, then it is disproved when good people also get punished. You can't eat your cake and have it.
I can't prove that unicorn don't exist, or pink elephants, or flying pigs. I can't prove all this is true, but can you prove they're not?
Where is your evidence, have you seen every single place, every single animal, every single thing on earth?
Have you felt every single thing? Can you answer every question about life? What we do not know about it? What some see and some don't?
Do you know why mysticism was "invented", because humans couldn't answer everything. Do you know why God exists, because humans can't prove everything?
I told you earlier, if you can prove everything, anything. I'm all ears. Or eyes and fingers, as it may be.
RomanceRe: Help, I Am In Love With A Single Mother Of Two. by Udokamadi(f): 4:46pm On Jan 08, 2021
FalseProphet1:
What's your problem, are you a single mother? If she's good why didn't the father of the kids marry her. Do you know the stress of marrying a single mom,. If the man comes back to claim his kids do you know the emotional pain he will go through.
Don't ever open your legs to fools and expect another person to bear your cross with you. That's not the way life was configured to be.
That's why it's a choice, he doesn't have a gun to his head. That's why I asked him in my first comment if he's willing to take on those children. I've seen men who have overlooked that fact and married single mothers, and I've seen children who are forever with their mother's husbands, regardless of biological fathers. People tend to stand by the person who stood by them, and even if they forsake the person, that fact eats into them forever.
If you can't raise other people's children that means you just Cai, it doesn't make you a bad person or anything, but keep it in mind, you aren't better than any man who married a single mom, nor are you wiser.
But if you approach a single mom or any woman, or any man, not because you like them or anything, but because you want to chop and go(your earlier advice), money or body, then I want you to know, by counts of morality you're a bad person. That is also not the way life was configured to be.
RomanceRe: Help, I Am In Love With A Single Mother Of Two. by Udokamadi(f): 4:30pm On Jan 08, 2021
FalseProphet1:
She's not wife material period.

When you have good character men will give anything to be with you. When men start avoid committing to you then u should know that you have a problem.
Do you know what's disgusting about this comment, it makes it sound as though women are the only ones who should cultivate good characters for marriage. If a man also has good character, women will give anything to be with them. If a person has good character, another person will give anything to be with them.
I trust you're one of those men, who'll see nothing wrong if the gender's in this post were reversed. Clearly the man is not avoiding commitment to her, he desires it, that's why he's asking for another's opinion. Don't try to force your s**t beliefs that a single mother is not a good woman down the poor man's throat, eat the s**t yourself.
P.S, your name suits your thinking and personality like a second skin.
FamilyRe: Father-Of-Five Absconds After His Wife Gave Birth To Quadruplets In Benin by Udokamadi(f): 4:15pm On Jan 08, 2021
RisenPhoenix1:
That's all a heap of bovine ordure (Bull Shit in polite language). We never had a 'last' life. When mystic scammers couldn't prove their 'karma' BS in this life, they invented a previous life to justify it. Why would we be punished for something we have no memory of and no awareness that we've done? That is silly beyond discussion. Sorry.
No need to apologise, everyone has their beliefs. Honestly I don't believe in heavy or hell, but I do believe in an afterlife, and I'm an avid truster of mysticism, due to having experienced it myself from a young age. There are things beyond what you know or can see happening around you. If you can prove to me that an afterlife, or previous life doesn't exist, I might change my mind. But I am a Thomas, I trust only in seeing.
If you have died before and have knowledge of what lies beyond, I'll be very, very attentive in listening, (I like to learn).
And have you heard the phrase "sometimes, inexplicably, bad things happen to good people". It's out of our hands if a bad thing happens to a good, responsible man being cuckolded. Or a bad one. It's just life.
PoliticsRe: Why Buhari, Osinbajo Don’t Need To Televise COVID-19 Vaccination – Shehu Sani by Udokamadi(f): 4:07pm On Jan 08, 2021
I do not care if he is vaccinated on TV or not, even though I am pro-vaccination,, I don't believe in a vaccination for a virus that evidently can't survive in African climates.
I do not trust the fact that they are telling the truth, even if they get injected, how are we sure they are truly getting injected with the vaccine, and not water for diluting injection powder?
All this our ly, ly, leaders.
FamilyRe: Father-Of-Five Absconds After His Wife Gave Birth To Quadruplets In Benin by Udokamadi(f): 4:01pm On Jan 08, 2021
RisenPhoenix1:
No. Do you mean to say that every man whose wife falsely attributes children to him must have also had children by another man's wife outside?

Add to that the fact that it is not the philandering men who usually get cuckolded by their wives. It's almost always the good, responsible,
men.
How did you come about this fact. Perhaps, are you a good, good man who was cuckolded, or is being cuckolded?
How are you aware that anybody is a good person, by what you see on their social media profile, or by what you see when they give you an innocent smile. Don't judge a book by its cover, some men have double lives, and this double lives never come to light. Most people you consider good are just good at covering up the evil side of them. People act good not because we want to, but either because we want the world to think we are, or we want to feel good about ourselves. Besides, all humans are innately evil, we just pick a side not to stand on, but to stand against.
If you don't like this explanation then just take the one of mysticism, "whatever bad things happen to you in this life, is payment for something wrong you did in the last."
HealthRe: We Will Impose Fresh Nationwide Lockdown If COVID-19 Cases Continue To Rise- PTF by Udokamadi(f): 3:47pm On Jan 08, 2021
SilverNorGold:
My brother, if una come outside come protest because of this noble act, then anything una see, make una take.. Any form of protest will be considered a declaration of war against the State and the good people of Nigeria.

Nigeria must better!
Ugh, who is this sickening A.FEE.CS patriot? sad
RomanceRe: Help, I Am In Love With A Single Mother Of Two. by Udokamadi(f): 3:40pm On Jan 08, 2021
FalseProphet1:
She has two children n the owner of the children did not marry her instead left her to fend for them by herself, that means she is not wife material, leave her alone, have fun with her but don't go beyond fun and start talkin about marriage because u will regret it
What do you mean she's not wife material. Mtcheeew.
My bro, the advice I'll give to you is one man's meat is another's poison. She might have not been meant for him, but she may be for you.
The best thing to ask yourself is. How does she make you feel? Are you relaxed around her? Do you mind the fact that she already has kids? If all these questions give a firm answer, deduce a meaning, and decide to stay with her, or not. It's all your choice, because you may choose to marry a single girl and never feel the kind of peace you felt with her.
FamilyRe: Father-Of-Five Absconds After His Wife Gave Birth To Quadruplets In Benin by Udokamadi(f): 3:32pm On Jan 08, 2021
Pochettino:
Asin having energy for immoral things. The same energy they can't channel into turning their fortunes around. Very annoying.

Give a poor man an opportunity to make money with you & watch how he will try to knock you out completely and have the profits all to himself. Very greedy lot.

Rich Nigerians are not as wicked as poor Nigerians.
And I'm assuming you're also a poor Nigerian. I understand. It's easy for people to self-hate sometimes.
FamilyRe: Father-Of-Five Absconds After His Wife Gave Birth To Quadruplets In Benin by Udokamadi(f): 3:31pm On Jan 08, 2021
RisenPhoenix1:
The men philandering is what caused their wives to have babies from other men? This logic is so on its head *facepalm*
No, but life is governed by karma and the golden rule. And many of this men essentially get back what they put into the universe. Besides, if a philandering man comes to find out he's not the father of his child, he may also not be aware that in his process of philandering , he might have gotten another man's wife pregnant without his knowledge, and the woman pins it on HER husband, then the process of karma is completed against him.

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