₦airaland Forum

asanausana91:
being in the university doesn't mean that you are mad. Most of those students will not dress like that when they are at home with their parents. So why will they be dressing stupidly in the name of civilization? You are going to lectures and you are dressing like someone that is in the beach. Who does that?

jaxxy:
obviously ure not locked up in the school u can go out and do as u please bt I think there should be decorum to some extent when ure in school.. It can't be a free pass to be indisciplined or overly carefree.

u are majorly there to learn b4 anything else. That's how u pass through school or it passes through u.

The problem is people who are caged at home see school as an avenue for expressing themselves or falling for peer pressure bt that's not the major thing to learn in school it's about maturing in ur mentality and shaping it intellectually and socially.

Well i was one of those who was caged as the only son, I lost my way but got back on track. The same way NOT everybody will go to HEAVEN.
How about when they travel abroad? Think about that. The Americans should STOP wearing them I leave you with a Nigerian quote. " WHO WAN LOSE GO LOSE"

jaxxy:
I wasn't going to support this initially bt I think I do cos these students are getting distracted by these minor things and forgetting the major things which is learning.

Place of learning should have sane dress codes even tho u are adults bt u must have sense abeg.

A university is a serious place of learning not a party ground. so while students have the freedom they must get out of hand. so for that reason I will support this move on all universities especially during lectures or when on campus.

MadamExcellency:
Nigeria is not a civilised country hence the police will arrest and jail you for self-defence. You are not entitled to self-defence, only criminals are entitled to guns, daggers, etc etc.

Don't try it if you have no prominent surname.

But if I may ask, why do you guys work (post) at night when people are sleeping?

Weirdcamila:
Can’t find him in the pictures

REALLY

Mstravelindiva:
Hello Nairalanders, it’s your girl Mstravelindiva (again)

Just a few pics from my recent trip to Malta! Malta is a beautiful (yet small) country in the middle of the Mediterranean (south of Sicily, north east of Tunisia), and I can see why Game of Thrones was filmed here! It’s simply beautiful!

It was my first time visiting so I didn’t know what to expect neither did I have any high expectations (which usually end up being the best vacations). Needless to say, Malta did not disappoint and I was blown away with the beauty of Malta, especially Gozo. Malta is an extremely friendly country and what I love most is how welcoming they are to foreigners (not just tourist but refugees and immigrants).

Here are the deets of my week stay there, I hope you enjoy the picture journey:

Split up my stay up between Westin Dragonara and the Hilton Malta. Both were considered 5* and will definitely not disappoint you. They are located in St. Julian’s. St Julian’s is where all the night life is and the best restaurants (imo) were in Valletta.

This was an incredible trip and now one of my top destinations!

Flights to Malta within Europe are incredibly cheap (saw as low as 30 Euros), and accommodations to fit all budgets are available.

Cities Visited:
Sliema
The Three Cities (Vittoriosa, Senglea and Cospicua)
Valletta
Mdina (Silent City)
Gozo Island (booked a private chartered tour through Yippee)
Marsaxlokk (fishing village)
Blue Lagoon (crystal lagoon and the blue grotto)

UNESCO Sites Visited:
Hypogeum
Ghar Dalam Caves
National Archaeology Museum

Wineries:
Wine tasting at Marsovin (Paola) and Ta Mena (Gozo)

Safe travels my friends and be well!

Registeredguest:
I'm a lady in my mid- twenties, I got married aged 22, (always wanted to marry early) on the second year of our marriage we were blessed with a baby, parked to our house and things were rosy. I have always been a workaholic due to that I have never lack as a young lady in terms of finance.

I have always helped him in his house projects, might not be much 100k, 50k, 20k when need be. I never siphoned my money to myself, as a young lady I envisioned my pretty little family on my head, (3 children, handsome husband and pretty wife with a fine car living happily)

Now to the main problem,I think it all started when he told me he has seen a genuine plot of land that we should buy it together, I told him no, I want the land all by myself I have money to pay for it, (just want to have something tangible for myself alone) he said no problem.He sent me an account number of the seller I sent 600k to the seller.we did the necessary documents and everyone was happy.

After some weeks, I decided to dig around his phone then I discovered that the account I sent the 600k to, refunded 200k back to my husband, woke him up instantly I demanded for an explanation.he story no make sense. I was heartbroken, for months I was hurt...the two families got involved and settled the issue.money I no see...

Ever since this issue happened,the home has not been peaceful, fighting everyday. I find it so difficult to forgive him. I insult him, he insults me, he broke my phone, I break his door...I was demanded for an apology he says
"I'm his wife, no be today man dey collect him wife money, he say woman go build house for him husband no ear no go hear" those things hurt me more... everyday was fight, I parked out,I went to my sister's place,he didn't call, he didn't reach out.

3 weeks after I parked I discovered I was pregnant,and informed him immediately through text.i stayed at my sister's place for 2 months no word from him... I decide to rent my own place,I rented a place and went to his house to park my remaining stuff,I meet him home,as soon as he sees I came with a truck to park my things he knelt down and started begging me...I was like,na today I commot for your house why now? He say he think say I dey play, he no think say I serious like this,for good two months you didn't say anything why now...with enough dragging I parked my things to my new rented apartment... since the day I park till now this man has not allowed me rest,his family members has been calling me to come back home, his dad came from the village to plead on his behalf.


My dad is insisting I should not go back...I'm now 6 months pregnant ,I need a father in my children's life.im finding it difficult to forgive him,I'm struggling within myself to forgive and trust this man again.

How can I let go of the past and move back with him...I decided to pay him a visit on Friday,he was happy I came,he did everything possible to show me he has changed but that feeling of betrayal and hurt is there.i left there this morning with querrell,I know I started the querrell,but I can't just seem to forgive him.please I need your help and advice on this pressing issue of mine.

No insult please, I have cried enough.

blancsn1:
Will this wail of sorrow by foolish Igbo stop Tinubu's victory. You no get sense.

Must everything you write be TRIBALISTIC We are talking about Nigeria and ur local brain is taking abiut tribe. Silence is the best answer to this rubbish you wrote.

trendymarseey:
Goodmorning

tbliss22:
You should have waited till the end of his tenure na

hisexcellency34:
Olosho curse dey work?

Bahrainguy:
With all the information I dropped here how can you sickly asking me if I’m agent? What can make me agent upon all these better grow up

DenreleDave:
But ur region probably has none... You leave the matter for your region to focus on another region.. No wonder the east is deserted

bro4u:
People proudly displaying stupidity all because of likes

Cantonese:
What's new about it? Is it the business of Obi to provide security in the SE? Will APC, PDP or any other political party choose to campaign in the SE on Mondays knowing the risks involved?

Youths who blame Obi, show how bereft of proper reasoning some youths are.

Juliearth:
Wehdone Sir.