₦airaland Forum

Ihedinobi: I was chatting with a loved one once and her responses suggested that she was not very ok. That she wasn't mad at me was quite apparent but it was stifling our relationship right then. I started drawing it out of her and tried to get her to unload on me however she could. She didn't want to because she didn't want to hurt me, said she. I deliberately went to work to incense her until she, shall we say, exploded at me. Then she started to calm down and we could chat freely again.

Have you seen those movies where a woman who's been hurt maybe by a loss of some kind just starts attacking, maybe, her husband or a boyfriend, punching him and all and he lets her until she's spent and he pulls her close andlets her cry it out. Ok, that part of the story is not an invention of the theatre.

God is our Father. He knows that it is not really Him that we are angry at. He offers to absorb all the pain we can throw out because if He doesn't we will damage the world around us. Remember what James said? Why do we war and fight amongst ourselves, he asked. Is it not because we desire and have not? What are we told to come to the Throne of Grace with if not desires, needs? Call our Father a divine shock absorber and you won't be far from the mark.

Djtm: lie!

HumbledbYGrace: 1000.00 dollars miss

Theben: I stay in lagos, and listen to good music. But never heard the song.

speedyboi: ....No, I'm not! Why are you asking?


Sey wetin? No one listen to that music here o! I wonder how it got to Trace' Africa 10.

Maybe other countries do.

Afam4eva: I always endeavor to separate the wheat(fact) from the chaff(fiction) by doing a little research on an information that i heard in a movie.But at times, i just quote it verbatim to sound intelligent especially since majority of Nigerians are not widely read and wouldn't counter my assertion

vivacious vivi: U tried...u even bathe yours!

HumbledbYGrace: gbam.

Dutch/Afrikaans ruined the land, its so sad to hear your grandma speaking Dutch like she was born there, only to find out it was forced down to her throat.

I prefer Pidgin to Afrikaans, no hard feelings though.

HumbledbYGrace: biko, wetin be TL again

Theben: About artistes like 2face, dbanj, psquare and tiwa? If my memory is still on point, Dbanj performed in closing ceremony of the AFCON in SA. So I was expecting you see his name on your list .

BTW, I don't seem to have heard a song by this chinenye in bold. Can any Nigerian help out with her genre of music?

zetzar: I agree with the nigerians, this thread is inappropriate. The only reason south Africans should be here is to respond to all the SA threads that will pop up on Google searches. Why do you need a Nigerian forum to talk about South Africa? Isn't that what SA forums are for?