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I'll thank God I've read the Left Behind series.

IFELEKE: FRIENDS...

Thought Friends was completed

joshua idibia: Tnk God LOST was completed.

And the end left me more confused than ever

Kslib: Damn!! So i missed the first day?

Erm,what time does AIT show it? 10:pm shey?
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All izz well

Think it's 10:30 too. But they were behind AIT last night.


All izz well

Anuoluwap: don't judge her so soon. Let's see if she's really weak & unmatched in the tasks ahead. She may not be the first to leave

I said 'may'

ariseandshine: First time u really said something sensible. I thought your brain was all washed up

I suppose that's code for "You win, I have nothing else to hit at you". You're welcome

I miss Dark Angel and Terminator: Sarah Connor Chronicles

ariseandshine: U GO FINE LIKE THIS.

Old age is a blessing. That grey crown commands respect
Beauty ain't everything mehn...what matters is having a life well lived and a legacy everyone will remember.

[quote author=Okija_juju]Bros..



I salute you!!

The gods shall stick to your prescription.. 3 shots, 3 times daily.. [/quote]Lol

ariseandshine: With expiring date

a hundred and twenty works just fine for me

prof800: exception?
meaning you are not also irrationally wicked?

He's rationally wicked

ariseandshine: No worry na.

Keep flexing @ 30

Na today?

Thirty n Sexy

Truckpusher: Vex ke! I should be telling you guys to take it easy on guys ,after all who will even take any Nigerian home base girl serious when almost 95% of them are runs girls or involved into some kind of light prostitution, only to be running after guys desperately when they realize that their value as a woman has diminished beyond repair.

So , when some eediotic guys notice that your self esteem has been sacrificed on the alter of materialism ,they'll simply make you a perpetual slave mentally; fully aware that you can't shut them out completely ,hence the desperation because i'm fully aware that a woman with a high degree of self worth and respect for her womanhood always get their respect wherever they find themselves not only in marriages and relationship.



Women should stop chasing the money,blind greed,short-lived enjoyment which i call foolery and should chase the books,skills ,get a job or just start something and always be contented with whatever you have ,then i can assure you that every man will tread softly not to stir the hornets nest.

THE RESPECT FOR ANY MINORITY COMES FROM HOW THEY THEMSELVES TREAT THEMSELVES AND YOUR EN SLAVER WILL NEVER SET YOU FREE UNTIL YOU DEMAND FOR FREEDOM WITH AN EVIDENCE OF STRENGTH

Word

lekpalicious: So age 30 is a spinster, na wa o. The truth is a lot of women nowadays are not dying to get married or rushing. It is not a competition. Everyone has their time. If those women are not complaining then why should you? Busybody

hin fit dey find wife na

StateOfMind: Lol..that season 9 was the first time contestants played mugby I think. My sis was so pissed last year she left the room.. She couldn't stand them playing that dirty.

Who else initially thought the losing team's house would the mud place? . I was pitying them already.

I thought they'd stay there for a while too
In fact when Chidi told all of them "This is your new home" you coulf see the shock on their faces . They actually thought they'd set camp there lol.
But Martha...hmn Martha may leave very soon.

prof800:

You don't know Heroes?

ariseandshine: @Bolded
This is the only thing I have learnt from you Freedom Seeking Spinsters today.

Oh good. Let me teach you the American pronounciation too:
mi-saw-ji-nist

British
mai-so-gi-nist

Can't use the normal consonant and vowel sounds

Heroes, what happened to it?

Next2Bezee: Merlin

Merlin has been concluded

Joshthefirst: Where is hbg and uj_sizzle?

you too?
Well....hello

eddiebruk: So in essence the women should fix themselves first before considering settling down with a man, because 70% of relationship issues are actually started by a woman, a man barely has the time to be doing all these policing and all that, plus a man cannot marry a woman whom he finds fault in while they were dating, only a woman can do that with hopes of him changing, and when he doesnt seems to be she makes it look like an issue and there you have a cause for some serious situation

I'm starting to think you a misogynist

eddiebruk: All i actually need from my lady is that feeling that she is there, sometimes i find her too inquisitive, but then she always knows when and how to present the issues, and that is all i need, not some Nagging women who brings up issues anytime and anywhere they like

You want a wise woman. That's normal. But i think you're all over the place. You are yet to state where you disagree with the OP or if you even understood her post. You have just spent the past few minutes discussing everything she hasn't talked about.

eddiebruk: A woman don't just get married to a man he sees some few days ago, they first start from dating, and while dating, the woman is supposed to have learned and understand what her man is capable of doing, and how she should go about it, if after dating a man for 2-3years before marriage and a woman is still having issues dealing with how to tackle problems with her husband, then she has missed it somewhere failing to realize that they shouldn't have been married in the first place.

Some men are good at pretending, and there's the love bug. She may stay with him because she thinks he can be 'fixed' but some people no matter how much we love them can't be fixed. She'd be doing herself a favour by walking away. That brings us back to the Societal factor--Pressure. A desperate woman will still marry him anyway cos she's probably thought to herself "If i don't marry him, who knows when next a man will take interest in me". That's why we need women to have more confidence and pride in themselves...and yes 'fix' themselves too.

eddiebruk: First of all when it comes to Discussions that will better a Union, the woman is supposed to be in charge, i.e if the topic is about how their relationship is going to move forward the wife is supposed to be in charge, because as a man these things actually dont come into our head that much because we already have pretty much too many things to handle, so a wife in this sense becomes both a mother, a sister and a friend, she should be able to raise topics when she sees things not going fine in her relationship.

I hope you also have plans for keeping your relationship alive too. Marriage is a two-way thing and not just a woman's responsibility.
As much as you want her to spice it up, she also wants you to surprise her...be spontaneous. Don't do that and someday she'll start to feel she's probably trying too hard to keep you interested, and may come to resent you for that.
No amount of work should keep you too busy for your marriage.

eddiebruk: First of all when it comes to Discussions that will better a Union, the woman is supposed to be in charge, i.e if the topic is about how their relationship is going to move forward the wife is supposed to be in charge, because as a man these things actually dont come into our head that much because we already have pretty much too many things to handle, so a wife in this sense becomes both a mother, a sister and a friend, she should be able to raise topics when she sees things not going fine in her relationship, let me tell you this, Men get scared when the woman they love call them on the phone as says "I need to talk to you" this phrase alone sends cold down the spine of the husband, because first he would be forced to think that his wife is in danger and feels insecure, and for this reasons he gives more attention, if you are a woman that knows how to get your man always interested in your conversation rather than constant Nagging, then you are on top notch of your game as a wife

I agree with you here, but you seem to havw totally eliminated the factor that some men just can't keep their legs home.

Anyway the OP is simply saying that women shouldn't get too desperate to settle for just anyone. Women need to work on their self esteem and take pride in themselves.
Even still i recognise the fact that some peoplr aren't married because they have attitude problems that can't be overlooked by any man. These ones need to work on that too.

So basically,attitude building and self confidence should pull a woman through, and not what pressure society/cultural mounts on her.
Everyone deserves the best for themselves.

eddiebruk: The fact that you cannot keep a man doesn't mean that all men are bad, what have you been doing since your youth, Or you thought PhD go land you automatic husband...? Pride and over sabi is the main reason so many of you are still hunting for Mr right, dey there dey deceive yourself, na for night we go know how it feels to be cuddled in the warm arms of a loving husband.

You misunderstand the topic. Well either that or you believe the woman is the cause of domestic violence.

eddiebruk: if you know how to handle your man and always keep him occupied, how is he gonna get the chance to go out to look for other women..? It's not just about saying i am married, it is actually about keeping a man

This is funny. Why should a man need to be reminded that he took a vow of loyalty when he got married?
You're trying to tell me he's free to roam after every hot thing in skirts the moment he decides his wife isn't good enough for him?
Where does communication in a relationship come in then? If you think she's losing what attracted you to her, then discuss it! Don't make that an excuse to cheat please.
It's bad enough some men are incapable of loyalty, and much worse when he blames his wife for it.

eddiebruk: Thats not true Aunty, the reason why the men go for younger women is because the wives feels like since they are married now she can now do away with those things that caught the eyes of the husband, like baring it all at home, if you bare it all for your husband for 2years he will get tired of seeing those things, so try as much as possible to get him guessing always, be on top notch of your game as a wife like you guys are just some young bf/gf, sexually educate your mind more to be able to arouse his intellect as well as his louins every evening when he gets home, keep him running home to have a taste of your dish during his break period, keep sending him SMS while he is at work, tell him you want him to take you out this weekend, make him buy you gifts. abeg 9ja women always thinks that once they are married their world has now come to an end for the struggle of having a man, failing to understand that keeping him is the most important thing

And some men just can't keep their eyes at home.

lol @ monitoring spirit n slave abolition act

Nice write up OP

lol stray lizard

sexkillz: [color=#000030]I don't know. [/color]

We go know soon na. Make i pre order the thing.

sexkillz: [color=#000030]For who? [/color]

How many semi albino we get?