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RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by uncjay(m): 6:50pm On Aug 12, 2020
GLYCOLYSISS:
-- Women weaponise sex,for it is their trump card,and often,their only card.

-- A man with options [ many women at his disposal ] takes these power away and shift the game to his own end point.
Very true a statement. Guys need to miseducated themselves from women's manipulation.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by uncjay(m): 6:37pm On Aug 12, 2020
GLYCOLYSISS:
--Women don't care about your struggles,only your successes.

---. Women want the final product,but successful men value a woman who was there from the journey. Women detest risk,so they have the propensity to hold back ambitious men with their petulant insecurities. Should he become too powerful,she fears she will lose her Monopoly over him.
She sabotages him to secure him,for the crab bucket mentality is intrinsic to women.
I have some reservation here.

I'm enjoying every bit of this thread however, I have issues with a particular line. Where you said "successful men" value women that are there from the very start struggling with him. Not all truely does so. Some often forget the sacrifices of a woman and choose to hurt her instead.

How do you explain that?.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by uncjay(m): 5:39pm On Aug 12, 2020
cerpvad:
Op does not own the the work. He only did copy and paste so there is no way he can reduce the English
No he doesn't need to reduce the English, all that is needed is for him to provide a concise and simplified note for those hard but to crack languages.
RomanceRe: We Ain't Dating Yet - Should I Get Her A Phone? by uncjay(m): 11:27pm On Aug 06, 2020
Melodriod:
Okay, maybe I'll ask her out first and see the outcome before any further decisions...

Thank you.
you jumped quick to reply this one because it somehow sounded in what your mind already desires to do.

like someone right said, premium tears loading. don't be a simp, be guarded.

Ask yourself, if the situation is other way round, will she be thinking of getting you a smartphone? And again, you wanted to get a gift for her because emotion is attached, take the emotion away, you probably won't feel the urge to get her a phone. That what's will likely cause gnashing of teeth when she finally dump your sorry ass.

use your head.
PoliticsRe: DHQ: Nothing New About US Intel On Al-qaeda Infiltrating North-west by uncjay(m): 8:19pm On Aug 06, 2020
Amotolongbo:
https://www.thecable.ng/dhq-nothing-new-about-us-intel-on-al-qaeda-infiltrating-north-west/amp
Not to worry until they start attacking the south. this government is a joke.
RomanceRe: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by uncjay(m): 4:03am On Aug 02, 2020
Favour2323:
Nairalanders, I'm about to do something my conscience doesn't agree with but it feels like the right decision to make. I have a boyfriend. We've been dating for the past 6 months. I love him. We were good friends before we started dating. I'm someone who doesn't trust easily and I like to assess a guy for a while before dating him. I assessed his intentions and I realised he didn't just want to have sex with me and leave. He loved me just as I loved him.

Three months ago I met this guy. At first I just saw him as a friend, but as I got to know him I started noticing the good qualities he possessed. He's very attractive, very intelligent and wellspoken. My conversations with him were so immersive. The little time I spent with him always left a profound impression on me. Soon I noticed I had started developing feelings for him. I was still in love with my boyfriend nevertheless.

One day the new guy asked me if I had a boyfriend. I told him I did. The next day he called me and said that he didn't want to interfere with my relationship. He said he had feelings for me and he couldn't remain friends with me when he knows I have a boyfriend. I told him that I had feelings for him as well and that we could still remain friends but he refused and suggested that we stopped talking. He hasn't called or texted me since that day.

This situation has left me in an emotional turmoil. This new guy represents everything I want in a guy and as much as I don't want to admit it, he possesses better qualities than my boyfriend. I can't imagine a life where I can't talk to him anymore. I really like him. His decision has left me in a dicey position. It's unfair to leave my boyfriend who has always been nice to me for someone else, but the new guy doesn't want to have anything to do with me again as long as I'm in a relationship.

Please I need advice. I don't want to make the wrong decision.
I don't need to say anything again on this your thread. great minds have done that. you already have enough to learn from and make the best decision for you.

I wish you well.
RomanceRe: African Game: The Next Step After Taking The Redpill by uncjay(m): 7:36pm On Aug 01, 2020
anslem04:
All things be clarified i think the thread is still in line, moving frm redpill to game is like undergraduate to post graduate studies grin grin
One assertion i have come to reckon with is "LIfe is a Game" whether we take the pad/controller or not, the match is on. martinez i don't know you in person, buh a bit concern .... get a woman bro afterall you're immune. there mama ! grin
hahahahahahahahahah


Since I started reading this thread, I had to stop here and comment. I've been refusing the urge to comment until this comment got me cracking my ribs out.

wtf; undergraduate to post graduate...lmaoo nice thread @Blackneo I'm enjoying every contribution.
PoliticsRe: Umahi Reacts To Killing Of 4 Policemen In Ebonyi by uncjay(m): 3:02pm On Jul 30, 2020
Simplyleo:
God bless Gov Umahi.

Pls help the police in getting the ipob animals responsible for this crime to avoid reaction from the police thereby saving innocent igbos from embarrassment.

I call on the good igbos to assist in getting the illiterate ipob animals. undecided

Ipob is a collection of illiterates and criminals.
You see why this country will never make any headway. because people like you find their place among human settlement.

haba bros use your head in a reasonable way.
HealthRe: Nurses Withdraw Services At Plateau Isolation Centre Over Hazard Allowance by uncjay(m): 9:33pm On May 25, 2020
omonnakoda:
Appendicitis since last week?
yes sir. we've been on it since it was discovered.
FamilyRe: Has Jumia Entered The Laundry & Dry Cleaning Market? by uncjay(m): 2:18am On Apr 13, 2020
computergeek:
Hello. Sorry I took so long. I just keep getting too many mentions. Well, firstly, I was reading pdfs and e-books from my phone. My aunt then gave me her laptop to use for a while, and when she collected it back, that gingered me to hustle for my own.


2. I'm not sure what you're asking but discipline is my answer. I maintained my jobs and did very well, and I always lived within my means. I was even paying for some of my family members welfare, so I couldn't afford to fail.

3. You have to read wide and watch as much motivational videos as you can. I've never been with that problem so I can't really tell, but reading always helps widen your horizons.



Also, this below may help.
Thank you ma.
FamilyRe: Has Jumia Entered The Laundry & Dry Cleaning Market? by uncjay(m): 12:44pm On Apr 08, 2020
computergeek:
Hey. Thanks so much for the kind words. Your mention got me elated. I'll do well to get back to you soon. Thanks once again and stay safe!
Good Afternoon ma,

Just to remind you about my questions, please don't forget.

thank you.
FamilyRe: Has Jumia Entered The Laundry & Dry Cleaning Market? by uncjay(m): 3:25pm On Apr 06, 2020
Computergeek



I must confess you are one of a kind, no, I'm not trying to cajole you, you're an inspiration and I'm grateful I meet you on this faceless forum. I'm not a regular on dairy section, I don't even do dairy. But someone I followed share Meynation's (what a beautiful soul she is) comment one time, going through it I was stunt by her words and eventually her person, little did I know I was yet to meet amazing women like her here. I was glue to her dairy (so painful she had to delete it) and her comment about you made me search you out. Was I blessed I did? Hell Yes! I was, I am. I am an avid reader of your dairy, in short, I'm a fan.You are truly amazing. I admired and truly envy you. We all don't have equal graces but with the little we have, we can change the world for better.



It pained me during the t and d challenge you entertained I wasn't opportune to be online till it pass. However going through the answers you provided for others I'm truly overwhelmed. Someone said you are good with words, that's an understatement, you're words goddess, and as the person rightly said, your work should be published. You are good.



Well here I am seeking for your good favour to answer my three and perhaps subsequent questions. Please in order for you to understand the angle from which I ask these questions, I will like to share few personal things. I will be 30 by September the year, and I've been struggling till now. I'm fascinated by the world of programming (that's why I use 'envy' up there), I've been on it for like six years now and sadly I'm on the zero phase of it, in fact, bar-zero phase of it. I'm not a very sharp guy and I'm not really sensitive to things until it brought to my notice, I wasn't privileged to be properly adviced, not that I did bad things, no, I am just a crawler( very painful weakness). All I wanted to do was to finish school and go into it, I was dumb. After school other challenges start setting in, and I'm tight fisted. I took up teaching to help myself but it killing me, I'm stressed and depressed, I have no time for other things, the school (being a private school) drains me completely. Most times I return home have pounding headaches and pains. And the pay is nothing to right home about as I cannot sustain myself.



I'm so sorry I bore you with my nonsense, please bear with me. I'm the type that can't multitask (but I'm willing to do it anyway), I'm often prone to crashing, I don't know what is wrong with me. I know I'm not lazy, I can't just get hold on that pillar of breakthrough. 2018, I went to NIIT office here in Lagos in their FESTAC branch to enrol, but the financial involvement for just the basics alone (I mean, according to the lady, little intro to graphic designs, HTML, CSS) running into about 300k put me off. As I type now I only have #200 in my account (pls I'm not saying this to gain your pity, what I want is your honest opinions, and tips that can help me). Programming requires dedication and resilience, I'm ready to give all, but I need a sustainable source of income, even if it just one, which I don't have. I'm thinking of quitting the teaching job I have, I don't have passion for it, I'm just left with it to make a living. Now I'm tired. Sorry my words are too much. Please again bear with me.



Now my questions:



1. You told someone that when you started learning programming you had no laptop, how were able to manage through? What did you use, a phone? (Because I've always thought web development requires laptop as many features maybe absent on phone)



2. For an individual who support herself up with the financial burdens, at the beginning, how were you able to sustain it?



3. You talk about marketing oneself while replying another questioner. For someone like me, who obviously have no clue about marketing, also, I'm introverted to the core, like, I don't talk to people.(I've been in my street for 11 years now, I have no single friend there, that's how bad I get), how can I build such skills?



Anticipating your reply.
Thank you very much...



PS: please I will really appreciate it if you don't reply here or quote this post to your dairy, so as not to attract attention. Just a mention will do. I'm sorry I may be demanding too much, I just don't like the attention. Or if you want, you can simply send me the reply via an emai- unclejays00@gmail.com. Thank you
RomanceRe: Look At This Chicken Pepper Soup I'm Cooking — Picture by uncjay(m): 1:45pm On Apr 01, 2020
Riele:
Oh No cry
Poor Hen.
Hey
just wanna know what happen to your dairy of a teen?
TravelRe: Coronavirus: Apply For Work Visas - USA Begs Medical Professionals Everywhere by uncjay(m): 2:02pm On Mar 27, 2020
airminem:
Are u a med. Pro? U dey cwezey
Why do you ask?
TravelRe: Coronavirus: Apply For Work Visas - USA Begs Medical Professionals Everywhere by uncjay(m): 1:38pm On Mar 27, 2020
How are the mighty begging....lolz

You can be humbled by anything. life lesson.
HealthRe: Coronavirus Can Be Sexually Transmitted - Osagie Ehanire, Health Minister by uncjay(m): 11:05pm On Mar 26, 2020
Gbam!!!!

For those thinking this stay at home will be for escapades, you have to start thinking over again. prevention is better than cure.

social distancing....
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Liverpool Vs Atletico Madrid : UCL (2 - 3) On 11th March 2020 by uncjay(m): 11:46pm On Mar 11, 2020
KayceeBanks:
Liverpool knows that their formation is Crossing and they carried Salah from Egypt.

Don’t they read their bibles? Egyptians didn't cross the red sea
Hahahahahahahah Lmao.... my God, guy you funny die. but that's true ooo Egyptians didn't cross the red sea. lolz
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Liverpool Vs Atletico Madrid : UCL (2 - 3) On 11th March 2020 by uncjay(m): 11:43pm On Mar 11, 2020
Lilbest3:
what do you call a group of supporters whose club haven't won a single league title for 30 years yet console themselves the best and greatest club in the world?
Clowns who spam Twitter with pictures of Origi because they knocked a club out
That's what being a fan entails, not that they don't know the truth, but are passionate about the team they support. what would you have have them do? As much as such displays remain rubbish to me, I'd rather laugh it off and pass.
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Liverpool Vs Atletico Madrid : UCL (2 - 3) On 11th March 2020 by uncjay(m): 11:36pm On Mar 11, 2020
Now this is becoming shameful. Haba Liverpool, what happen na?
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Liverpool Vs Atletico Madrid : UCL (2 - 3) On 11th March 2020 by uncjay(m): 11:35pm On Mar 11, 2020
Lilbest3:
Liverpool fans are actually clowns
I don't know what make you this hateful, but you shouldn't give in to it. haba. I'm not a Liverpool fan, I'm a Chelsea fan, but the last thing I do is call people names, why na? for what exactly? it pointless bro, it pointless.
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Liverpool Vs Atletico Madrid : UCL (2 - 3) On 11th March 2020 by uncjay(m): 11:31pm On Mar 11, 2020
NextD18:
Narrowly?

Bruv, they were 2 goals down!

2 fvckin goals in a ground Barcelona conceded 4.
They took every chance at their disposal and Liverpool pay for being tactically foolish. they excel where barca failed no doubt. if they have achieved that during the 90mins I wouldn't say narrowly, but sure it was a narrow escape. them played a formidable team...

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