ikp120:
Na wa o. But some guys are really foolish.

You married a lady hence she began to share everything you own with you. Then you still mumu go buy car carry give her... Bros why not add the car to the fleet of cars in the house if you must buy a car? It is just like buying a piece of land for your wife . Olodo look for something that she could exclusively personalize and buy for her.
The paper says it is hers, but she knows very well that it is not "my own", but "our own", except she wan crash the marriage ni.

Na this kinda small small foolishness dey scatter marriages o... The guy one day (after offending the wife) go just need to use the car when the wife is not making use of it, probably because other cars in the house ain't in good shape, the wife go just flare up, "That car is my own ***shaking waist like aturu Oghara*** "... My guy go be like, "But we are married and should share everything"... Olodo shut up! No be gift you buy for her ni?

A gift is a personal belonging, even in marriage; so the lady has every right on earth to deny you the privilege to use the car... Na so the tension go take start o. He should have looked for something more personal with little or no likelihood of being shared by the both of them, like expensive jewelry, watch, etc, and buy for her.

Marriage no dey like dating where everybody dey their own; in marriage, una dey together and dey share everything together o

Her name might be on the particulars, but it is still not exclusively for her except she wanna strain the marriage.

#MyOpinion

GreenMavro:


This Oba and Buhari i no no who travel pass sha

crownedprinz:
who visit epp.........bunch of thieves

BrightAhiah:
Bad news everywhere since


Buhari era

ajibolabd:
Divorce him, ASAP!

unclezuma:


Every man to his hustle...brother Frank please mind ya business.

In fact if every Nigerian musician begin sing gospel, competition go choke you oooh...

olusola200:
How can we identify them

eezeribe:
I use this opportunity to thank all Nairaland mods and supermods.yesterday I unknowingly violated a Nairaland rule, and so I was banned.I quickly contacted a super mod via the contact button, I apologized and explained my case, WITHIN FIVE MINUTES, I WAS UNBANNED.just like the Nigeria police,Nairaland mod is your friend

bebe2:


20yrs ke?
How are u doing ur maths?

My first is 13yrs.

It's not hard na, before I sleep I check, when I go pee I check, it takes less than 1min.

Our house is not massive so it doesn't disrupt my sleep. It's habit, may as they get older things will change.

humilitypays:
‎The greatest fear of 99.9% of men in the world: poverty and death!
‎
The greatest fear of 90% of women: not getting married/getting old without a husband/kids, loneliness and sickness.
‎
The greatest fear of all humans: poverty, terminal illnesss/untimely death,  ‎loneliness!
‎

bebe2:
Losing a child.

Each time I read of someone's child dying, I just freeze.

My kids are between 6 and 13 and I still check their breathing at night when they are sleeping.

Haven't slept 5hrs straight since I started having kids.

dayowunmi:
BESTMAN not BESTWOMAN. The world is turning upside down nowadays. So a guy can do BestLady too? Even the whites bringing up this feminism thingy i don't think they use guys as best ladies... At least haven't come across one yet

AfonjaStinks:


There are 2 people i will buy a brand new used brain for this Christmas

1. Buhari

2. Freeze

Ezedon:
Its buharis fault

topson1992:
Please How can I get to the test centre from Ibadan. Where is lasu anthony campus?

prince9851:
d girl even looks like a witch...i dont even understand d story

talktonase:
Buhahahhaahaha if nah me be the FRS officers I will let him go with a warning then I will laugh myself out as I blame the economy.

youngest85:
so they'r related?

zeusdgrt:
E mate don score 7,una dey congratulate am for just 2goals wen e don score since e join leicester city?WHAT A CWAP LOAD OF WURBBISH!

BrutalJab:
[b] I don't know why yorubas will never learn, it beats me how they go about beating their chests shouting 'Sophistication' while everything is pointing to the contrary.



Benjamin Adekunle took his hatred for Igbos to another level during the civil war when he went about shooting women and children at the outskirts of Biafra while the hausa/fulani were watching. After using him, they disgraced him out of the army without any benefits such that he was looking for small contracts to feed himself before he died. At some point, his son was begging for donations to be made to take him to just Ghana for treatment. We are not even talking of taking him to the USA, Germany or UK oo, just to ordinary Ghana that we can trek into he could not afford it.



Obafemi Awolowo was also used by the hausa/fulani to wage the war against Igbos were he suggested that Biafran children by starved which lead to the death of so many. Awolowo was hoping that the hausa/fulani would compensate him by supporting him to become president but it only turned out he had been used and dumped. The northerners threw all their support behind their son Shagari and Awolowo was never president.


As though this was not enough, Babangida was about to arrest Awolowo(which would have been the second time the northerners would be arresting him if it had happened) and to avoid this disgrace, Awolowo had to commit suicide by drinking poison(I think Ratak).



Abiola the yoruba aare onakankanfo thought that he had the north all behind him only for them to cancel his electoral victory and throw him in prison. The hausa/fulani still went ahead to serve him a very special tea which he drank and died. They went a step further by dispatching his wife Kudirat to join him in eternity.



This brings us down to Bola Ahmed Tinubu aka BAT- jagajaga borgu. Like FFK said, Buhari is the spirit clearly behind Tinubu's woes. The hausa/fulani are out to destroy Tinubu and reduce him to one of those agberos running around Lagos shouting 'owomida' at the top of their voices. Again, another yoruba leader has been used and is being dumped.


I keep wondering why yorubas continue to mistake treachery for sophistication and cowardice for wisdom.
selah [/b]

soberdrunk:
Before you all start all the unnecessary bashing of Nigeria, "diplomats" are 'untouchable' in every country and some of them tend to abuse this power so its not particular to only Nigeria so you all should look for another way to vent...........

Keneking:
But where is lalasticlala now?

Na somebody mama be this oh....

This government sef

richidinho:
Make i hear say na APC win this election later

I go b**n inec

Philinho:
destroy all of them.....if you capture them,Buhari will free them

AwesomeHIM:
Do you really think that your girl has never lied to you? You could be wrong. Even the most sincere girlfriend hides many of her feelings and thoughts from her life partner. There are so many things that they think and dream about but never say.

Women have their deepest secrets that they won’t share with you –never ever. Their wild fantasies, hidden fears, past lovers, unshared longings, insecurities; these are some of the forbidden secrets of females that they won’t tell you.

Even if you men try hard, you can never dig down what lies in the deepest corner of her heart. You can never figure out what is going on inside her mind. So, you’re better off not trying. It’s not that I am accusing women of betrayal and infidelity. They can be truly and sincerely in love with you, but at the same time, they won’t give you access to their secret chamber.

Here are six secrets that your girlfriend won’t let you know ever.

1. They Like To Be Chased

Yes, it is a fact. Women like to be chased. They want their ‘man’ to chase her, willing to do everything to get her. Girls just love this feeling that they are that much important for a man.

It’s not that, girls just want to be chased and not caught, but they don’t want that feeling to go away, even after they are caught by their ‘right man’.

Women want men to woo them. They don’t want to get trapped by some insincere person. So, before quitting this chase game and before submitting themselves, they really want to make sure that the person has what it takes to be their ‘right guy’.

2. They Love It When You Are Jealous

Your girlfriend will never give you an idea of how much she loves the look on your face when you are jealous. They are not looking for a crazy maniac jealous man, but someone who is possessive about them.

If you find your girl flirting lightly with a dashing guy in a party or at the bar, she just wants to hear ‘you are mine’ from you. Yes, these women do have this twisted idea of winning their guy by flirting with others.

Once you tell them about your feeling of jealousy they will come running to you happy and satisfied. They have achieved what they wanted from their flirting game.

3. They Send Out Mixed Signals

It is one of the most complexed traits of women. They are communicators, but you have to be very vigilant to read between the lines when communicating with your girlfriend.

If they say they are ‘OK’, it is mostly the other way around. Women do send out mixed signals and they want their man to figure it out on his own. It can be their psychology, hormones or nature; but women are like this.

If you sense a problem, ask her and if her answer is a brief sentence like ‘I am fine’, or ‘I’m just okay’, then gear yourself up because there is something wrong, for sure. And the main issue is she will not let you know what the actual problem is. She wants you to figure it out and then deal with it.

Mostly, women want their significant other to put in the effort to get her to talk about her issues. Dig deep, get connected with her at a deeper level, only then you will be really communicating with her.

Women are made this way and they can’t help it. So, you need to work on this to make your relationship strong and successful.

4. Her Bestie Knows Everything

That is another forbidden secret. Girls share each and every detail of their relationship with their best friends. Their besties know everything, literally everything.

Many men will get offended with this idea, but that’s how it is. Women need to confide into their besties. It is their nature. Your girlfriend’s bestie will know all her secrets, her past relationships, how she is getting along with you, means each and everything. And of course, she is not going to let you have an idea what details she has shared with her bestie. Even if your girlfriend is about to breakup with you, her bestie would know much much before you.

If you are planning to talk to her bestie about your girlfriend’s past or about her relationship with you, hold it right there. She is your girlfriend’s bestie, not yours.

5. They Feel Insecure

Insecurity is a built-in feeling that every girl has. Girls always feel insecure that their man might fall for another girl. They might never let you know how they feel when you are in close interaction with other girls, but they do feel insecure.

And don’t ever try to play the ‘jealous game’ with your girlfriend. She will be more insecure in her relationship with you. Don’t pay more attention to any other girl/woman than you do to your girlfriend. Never ever give too many compliments or positive remarks about another girl in front of your girl. She is definitely not going to like it.

6. They Compare It All With The Ex

Consciously or unconsciously, women are always comparing their present love with their ex. They take ages to get over their ex boyfriends. But definitely, she is not going to let you have an idea about this, ever.
Women do realise that past relationships need to be forgotten in order to move on with life. They usually forgive their exes but can’t help forgetting the details about him and their relationship with him. They are constantly comparing their present relationship and their life partner with their ex, and most of the time it is you who wins, but they can’t just help comparing the two of you.

Ladies add on if there are more!

weblord1900:
IN asa voice... if you ask me eee ,, na who I go ask..

MrMcJay:


They are covered, but your foolishness is open for all to see.